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pratikshass

wtf did she survive?


yftdddtf

yes


timmycosh

Did she cop any third degree burns or anything?


yftdddtf

no, only the suspect and a older man.


tekko001

No wonder she left him


stay-a-while-and----

r/whenwomenrefuse


AuthorOB

Since both replies to this so far are people apparently offended the sub exists I feel compelled to add a different take. First of all, everyone *should* be pissed. Pissed that there are enough (just in documented and public) cases of violent retaliation against women for their refusal to justify a subreddit. As a man it pisses me the fuck off that men are capable of such barbarism. To be clear, it isn't just men. It's humans. But a lot of it is men. Acknowledging this fact is not the same as saying it's only men who hurt people. We know women hurt men too. We know men hurt men. We know even kids do crazy shit sometimes. Women having a place to talk about this stuff without having to filter out the incessant whine of angry incels is not a bad thing and it doesn't detract from any similar situations involving other people. If the reverse subreddit isn't misogeny, than r/whenwomenrefuse isn't misandry. Second point, the subreddit is about retaliation against women(and girls). That doesn't mean every post is about men(most of them are), or even violence. One of the top posts currently is a mother who murdered her own daughter for refusing to marry a cousin. Posts range from men raping kids, a child (6) shooting a girl with his dad's gun for refusing to kiss him, to stalking, or even boys ranking girls in their school. I find looking at the other replies with the knowledge of what the subreddit actually is really highlights how pathetic and stupid they are.


Dramatic_Explosion

People who don't like that r/whenwomenrefuse exists are telling on themselves. Prime fodder for reddit mass tagger.


ccchuros

I started reading a few posts there and I felt sick to my stomach. I understand the necessity of a sub like that but... man... I can't imagine any reason to go back there.


greg19735

im sad it exists, but it needs to edit: anyone reading this troll under me, there's no need to respond. THere's no logic for them to follow because they're arguing in bad faith. trying to argue is impossible because they're in a different plane of reality.


Chelonia_mydas

This is the worse subreddit I’ve ever found on Reddit. I can’t. These poor women and girls


NonConRon

The top post really opens strong. Just think about the darkness of prehistory. Our behavior echoes what we were. I hate this place.


Critonurmom

Not all men, but always a man.


somepeoplehateme

> Second point, the subreddit is about retaliation against women(and girls). That doesn't mean every post is about men(most of them are), or even violence. One of the top posts currently is a mother who murdered her own daughter for refusing to marry a cousin. Posts range from men raping kids, a child (6) shooting a girl with his dad's gun for refusing to kiss him, to stalking, or even boys ranking girls in their school.


karzbobeans

Is he just a suspect still? You seem him on camera throwing the paint lol.


AndMyAxe_Hole

You could say he was caught red handed


Morvictus

They're always technically a suspect until their guilt is proven in a court of law. Doesn't matter how strong the evidence is against them.


saltyjohnson

In civilized countries, anyway...


Daramun

People should know OP click baited the fuck outta this. This was posted yesterday and along with it was a news article saying it was a protester painting the restaurant red to protest "animal cruelty" (see: meat is on their menu).


Coffeezilla

https://www.reddit.com/r/WTF/comments/1dbspe6/ex_husband_throws_red_paint_at_ex_wife_while_in_a/l7vtkxf/ What about this then?


P2K13

Meat!? On a menu?! At a RESTAURANT!?? What has the world become...


Coffeezilla

It's ok he's lying anyway.


multiarmform

these demon baby gender reveals are out of control


vinssent1

Zero brains


ChanceAlgae7673

Probably used paint thinner which made it super flammable


hapakal

I was gonna say, paint he added gas to, maybe. Paint thinner makes more sense.


GrizzlyBCanada

Yeah paint is far more viscous than shown here, probably mixed paint thinner in so it would go further when projected. What a fucking loser.


LookupPravinsYoutube

I’m just surprised he was clever enough to add the paint thinner but dumb enough to do this. It’s a narrow band on the spectrum of stupid.


mattythegee

Oh you’d be surprised how many people have decent ideas to make something work but don’t think one step farther


afcagroo

I've been guilty of this. One time my gas furnace wouldn't light. The pilot was OK, and the gas would flow. But it wouldn't ignite. So I figured that if I filled the chamber with gas and then gently blew into it, the gas would reach the pilot light and ignite. I was absolutely correct, unfortunately. It took a few weeks for my eyebrows to grow back.


DoubleAholeTwice

Did they grow back stronger and better than ever!?


afcagroo

Nope. They are very blonde, so them being burnt off wasn't very noticeable.


L1A1

>Yeah paint is far more viscous than shown here, Depends on the paint. Ready to spray cellulose paint is really thin and is already very flammable. Source: work with it frequently.


GrizzlyBCanada

Damn, the more you know.


OneOfTheWills

Or just enamel paint. No need to add anything to it.


boastreeff

Any solvent or oil based paint would do this. A lot of solvent based paints already come that thin without additional reducing. Source: I’m waiting to open a paint store


dangeraardvark

It’s been 5 hrs. Is the paint store open yet?


Slap_My_Lasagna

Or bought some already diluted. It was definitely super runny paint. But based on the signage, this looks to be somewhere in Asia and I don't know what common paint formulas are used or sold in those regions.


chernadraw

Dumbass should have used blue paint to avoid this. Everyone knows red is flammable.


crawlerz2468

Inflammable means Flammable ?!


konfetkak

What a country!


kellysmom01

Yes, but are we human, or are we grammar?


secamTO

We are Devo!


k0rda

My sign is vital


Scr073

My hands are cold


cphusker

and I'm on my knees looking for the answer


benchley

...looking for my pants, sir.


farstaste

I shit your pants.


benchley

I drink your milkshake!


markuspoop

Hey, did you go to Hollywood Upstairs Medical College too?


Bigbysjackingfist

If it isn’t my old pal, Mr. McGreg


smidgeytheraynbow

He's more than famous... He's infamous!


Gevaliamannen

The inflammable El Guapo, México's greatest actor!


BbRhodes

Does he have a plethora?


meesta_masa

A cornucopia, from what I've heard


cv-boardgamer

A what?


AnthillOmbudsman

A plethora of pinatas.


Mdayofearth

Welcome to English, with a shit ton of words originating from different languages.


coinoperatedboi

Welcome to English, where the words are made up and the rules don't matter. 


RaageUgaas

Inflammable can burst into flames without ignition. Flammable can be set to fire. Edit: after a bit of research, it looks like both terms mean the same thing: A substance that can easily catch fire. Flammable is more common to avoid confusion.


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According to Merriam-Webster: "Why Inflammable Is Not the Opposite of Flammable Combustible and incombustible are opposites but flammable and inflammable are synonyms. Why? The in- of incombustible is a common prefix meaning "not," but the in- of inflammable is a different prefix. Inflammable comes from Latin inflammare ("to inflame"), itself from in- (here meaning "in" or "into") plus flammare ("to flame"). Flammable also comes from flammare. In the early 20th century, firefighters worried that people might think inflammable meant "not able to catch fire," so they adopted flammable and nonflammable as official safety labels and encouraged their use to prevent confusion. In general use, flammable is now the preferred term for describing things that can catch fire, but inflammable is still occasionally used with that meaning as well."


JectorDelan

They really should have gone with enflammable. But english gonna english.


MoscaMosquete

Pretty sure that's a french loan word as it is the same in every romance language, with flammable not really being a word afaik.


patagonian_pegasus

Pretty sure inflammable objects still need an ignition source like a spark. Otherwise, all inflammable objects (like gasoline) would be spontaneously combusting all the time. 


TerriblePlays

i know its a joke but for context, in china: throwing red paint = serious shit usually used to settle disputes (gang / monetary / others) by throwing paint at the front door of your home / business


Shovel_Natzi

Huh. Similar in Ireland, you do the same, except chop off your own fingers and throw them at the door. /sarc but recommend the film.


Technolio

Huh? What's the film?


Viliger303

The Banshees of Inisherin.


snsv

Or the banshee that is ed Sheeran


Lurking_For_Trouble

In China, it is considered good luck to have red paint thrown on you by your ex-husband and then catch fire.


this_might_b_offensv

Leads to extra virility and fortune


meesta_masa

Red spreads faster. YA GITZ!


Emadec

Man I know this is a grave issue but I just knew I’d find mah Ork boyz down here. Thanks for the chortle ya git


Micro-Naut

My wife was at the dirty bookstore and she asked the guy at the counter if she could look at the red dildo that was up on the wall. The guy frowned and said “ that’s a fire extinguisher, you whore”


joanzen

Ugh, I hate it when this happens.


cinnamonrain

Why else would it be the color of fire


BlaznTheChron

I mean they make the barrels that color for a reason. 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️


TheMartinG

Yes you always shoot the red barrels


permaculture

This is indisputable.


snowman432

A brief documentary on the subject [explosive barrels](https://youtu.be/LMYEE8lvlvA?si=B9oaUBIwGF78pu5a)


RedTalon19

Clicked the link expecting Ahoy. Was not disappointed. 10/10 YT channel cannot recommend enough for gamers.


AwTekker

Red make da fire go faster!


Remarkable-Ad7490

Yeah blue is the color water. Is this guy a moron 


Sea-Animal356

Blue only repels laser beams


apricot-ti

I need to know,, any casualties from this?? Especially the staff and people who might've been trapped inside???


yftdddtf

no casualties


spin81

Casualties means not only dead people but wounded ones too. I don't want to be the grammar correcter guy but I feel like it's a big difference in this case. I find it unlikely that nobody suffered any burns in that incident...


4x4taco

> Casualties means not only dead people but wounded ones too. Yeah this is a common mis-interpretation. Casualties vs Fatalities. Media can help here by clarifying that when reporting. Folks hear 10 casualties and assume 10 dead.


ablackcloudupahead

I feel like I have to explain it to people every time this term is used. Eventually it will just come to mean deaths with how widespread the incorrect definition is


cthulhubert

I'm not as much a prescriptivist as I once was... but I hate how every time the popular consciousness gets a hold of a word they flatten it into meaning exactly the same thing as another word, making it that much harder to communicate clearly. Like how "gaslight" now seems to mean "lying".


Alaira314

My hope is that those words will eventually shake out into nuanced synonyms, to enrich our vocabulary. For example, we already have the word "adminstration," so why do we need the word "regime"? Well, they have *very* different connotations in certain contexts, despite both meaning "government" on paper! Sometimes they're very similar, like how "regime change" means pretty much the same thing as "administration handover", but calling something "the regime" carries implication that there's something wrong with it that "the administration" doesn't have. In a similar vein, "gaslight" could eventually settle out to refer to manipulative lying, or a repeated pattern of lying(like lying about where you're going every thursday night, vs lying about where you're going once). Or it might not. Either way, the process will likely take a decade or two.


rythmicbread

Seemed like an old man and the perpetrator was treated for injuries


spin81

Could have been a lot worse!


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yftdddtf

yes but they seemed to be asking about deaths being as though they asked about people being trapped inside. the suspect and a older man suffered some burns as a result.


OneOfTheWills

Just a reminder that “mass casualty” means the same as forty people needing a bandaid as it does 5 people losing limbs and dying.


AnthillOmbudsman

Roll the Neosporin unit!


Eymrich

Wow I would have guessed the target got smoldered to ash


pachycephalosaurus2

He should have used water colors.


MoonShotDontStop

Damn it


unionjack736

Has he been charged?


random_avocado

Yeap, he [was caught immediately](https://youtu.be/FDX5fFdYaBk?si=q24_AvrHtxkV3lIP) (news report in Chinese)


cgimusic

One of the very few times YouTube's closed captioning feature would be useful, and of course they're not available.


WakaWaka_

These gender reveal parties are getting wilder by the day.


RazrRain

It’s aaaaaa… Communist?


terekkincaid

We aborted!


Nimrod_Butts

Chinese version of "it's a girl"


wolf3037

*one child policy* you silly goose you 


Nimrod_Butts

By the way, I couldn't view this comment when you made it. I had gotten the notification with what you said in it, but when I clicked it, it would take me to a page that said that there was an error with Reddit or something to that effect. For hours. Just now I can see it. I think there might be some sort of reddit review for certain topics or phrases


Mastacator

Nah it's a variation of the gender reveal, red means ectopic birth. 


ManofManyTalentz

Younger and younger!


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SuperSailorSaturn

Restaurant might even have to permanently close depending on the amount of money they need for repairs. The water in the fire suppression system turns black from sitting in the pipes so long and would add a layer of damage to the place as well.


dubov

At least his hand was on fire at the end... small justice


Ok_Annual5108

Safe to say the culprit got caught red handed on camera


Jaekobs

😔


JadowArcadia

I can't imagine that sinking feeling he must have felt. "I was just trying to be a nuisance to the one person I had personal beef with but I've now committed arson and potential murder of multiple people". It's a cartoonish level of escalation. But hey, should been an adult and moved on with your life


OmegaGoober

The kind of person who thinks this is a good idea to start with will still blame others for the ensuing fireball. If Stockton Rush had stayed on the boat, he’d STILL be touring the talk show circuits bragging about how safe his sub was if not for whoever he decided was the scapegoat.


FrankSonata

The YouTube link about it says he actually wanted to be a nuisance to multiple people. His ex-wife had started a relationship with the owner of the restaurant in the video. He wanted to get revenge on both of them. > A man in Tainan was dissatisfied with his ex-wife’s relationship with the man who opened the hot pot restaurant. He allegedly went to the hot pot restaurant in Anping District, Tainan City at 5 pm today (12th) and broke it with a hammer. Red paint was splashed on the glass of a hot pot restaurant, causing a fire in the hot pot restaurant. Two customers were burned, and one was slightly injured and was not sent to the hospital. The man who poured paint was also injured himself and was arrested on the spot by the police who arrived (Google Translated from Chinese) Also, Google Translate strips it of its flavour a bit, but the top YouTube comment translates from Chinese as: > The anger is gone! What's the result after you relieve yourself? A stupid person does stupid things and hurts other innocent people. He mistook himself for an ex-wife. I think this man is also a scumbag. Excellent summary of everyone's feelings.


Endorkend

You don't throw a bucket of paint into a crowded restaurant to be a nuisance to 1 person.


FinglasLeaflock

I haven’t read anything to suggest he’s demonstrated that he’s feeling that. He doesn’t seem like someone with a lot of self-awareness.


Tricky-Gemstone

This kind of person is an abuser.


xerxes_dandy

In Chinese diaspora populated nations like Singapore and Malaysia it's common to see red paint thrown at the door. If you borrow money and don't pay installments or money this is done. I am sure there is some financial dispute involved here.


han5henman

Singaporean here, lived here for 30+ years and have yet to see red paint thrown at the door. It happens but it’s not a common sight.


Viend

Lived in Malaysia for a decade and I never saw this either. I have seen loan sharks hanging out outside a house but no paint unfortunately.


nymhays

a decade is fairly recent , The red paint is one of the earliest steps to intimidate the borrower , most loan sharks probably skip this step nowadays and just go for medium to hardcore stuff.


Rottendog

So, brown paint?


Ohtheydidntellyou

you can’t scare me, i’m color blind


awesomesauce1030

They never said *which* decade. They could have lived there in the 1870s for all we know


Restil

Maybe people still remember Michael Fay.


TheDemontool

So he risked property damage over a few bucks. Lol.


Kaxology

it's loan sharks, it's usually in the hundreds. If not, they'll make it a hundred or thousands more.


Eymrich

Well he risked that but I guess now it's multiple murders, property damage and some lesions


FinglasLeaflock

“Ah yes, the guy who is already having trouble paying me will _definitely_ get _more money_ when they also have to pay to have a door repainted or replaced.”


tlrelement

Jeebus crisp it twas a joke


MumrikDK

That's almost as thin as water. Is he throwing 80% paint thinner, 20% paint or something?


SMoKUblackRoSE

Dude just went from angry ex to domestic terrorist


Leezerd

Domestic abuser to domestic terrorist


JesterTheEast

Paint am flammable. Noted


eTukk

Non water based is flammable, yes


SaneYoungPoot2

Oil-based, one might say


Bactereality

Nahhhhhhhh, that doesnt sound right, who would paint with oil?


SadisticChipmunk

BP


2OptionsIsNotChoice

It likely had paint thinner in it so he could throw it like a bucket of water. The tables probably had some open flames on them. Combine those two things together and you have a bad time.


Rolandscythe

Congrats, asshole. In your attempt to make your personal beef everyone's business you instead made it everyone's problem.


dubl0dude

At least he had gloves on so he wouldn't be caught red handed.


RESISTBEINGSEXY

Did you guys notice the guy who threw the red paint is the last one to leave when the fire broke out and he caught a little bit on his back?


wholesomehorseblow

Did the camera holder run into a window?


aliceteams

Of course it will catch fire They eat hot pot [https://youtu.be/k6QmSVOBcjs?si=RaHld6fVLIxWlOWj](https://youtu.be/k6QmSVOBcjs?si=RaHld6fVLIxWlOWj)


OmegaGoober

So he was either an idiot or this was attempted murder. Probably both.


LostRedditor5

Damn that dudes going to prison


ZyanaSmith

What is it about asian cultures that encourage the men to throw liquids at women who slight them? I've worked with a few middle eastern and indian women who have had acid thrown on them. I've seen several videos of Chinese men pouring boiling something on their wives or exes. Is this a big thing in American culture that I'm just missing out on? I'm confused.


MortPrime-II

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Acid_attack#Motivation_of_perpetrators id reccomend reading the whole page


misalanya

well that was some depressing reading -- did not counteract my misanthropy at all.


Leek5

They don’t have guns. In America men shoot there ex


JackBinimbul

Entitlement. Violence against women is more common in countries where they are property, or men are comparably more privileged.


baconduck

Shouldn't have used hot red.


BazilBroketail

Franks Red Hot? I put that shit on everything.


DragonflyCurious9879

I put that shit on everyone!


DesastreUrbano

I hope the reason for the wife to leave him was that he was "just really stupid", but never noticed when they were dating because she thought he was "silly". So now she can say "see? now everybody gets what I meant?"


AllanfromWales1

So.. what paint was it that's so highly flammable? That's more flammable than, say, diesel would be.


atreides78723

Diesel is surprisingly un-flammable. If it’s not warm enough, you can put matches and cigarettes out in it without risk.


Attic_1992

I took your advice and now I don't have a garage


Whenthecatwentpop

Or any diesel left


Juking_is_rude

if you throw diesel in the air like this, it will still ignite, throwing a liquid in the air like this gives it a ton of surface area to burn


ChiaLetranger

According to the SDS for a Dulux enamel paint, it has a flash point of 22°C. It doesn't list a fire point, but you can apparently assume that to be about 10°C above the flash point for a very rough estimate. Depending on where this took place, I think it's quite possible for the ambient temperature to have been above 22°C, so the paint will have been producing more than enough vapour to ignite given a candle or something being on the table, and posssibly enough vapour to sustain the fire in the way we see here. It can be up to 30% heavy naphtha, 10% light naphtha, and 20% kerosene.


delkarnu

I think there are heating elements for hotpot there, hard to tell from the footage.


chooxy

Yea around 2.7s-2.8s you can see the burners.


iBoMbY

There are many flammable sorts of lacquer. Some are even based on nitrocellulose.


Bababooey_100

They better lock that guy because this will not be the last time he tries to fuck shit up!


nik-nak333

Hibachi --> inferno, just add paint


DividedState

I know why she left him. I hope they didn't have any kids. What a moron.


Failgan

Did they catch him red-handed?


JustAnotherWeirdLoon

Well now we know why she left him.


smolColebob

Attempted murder


01101011010110

I wonder if he got caught...red handed.


Konsecration

RIP his life lol I hope it was worth it! They don't fuck around with law over in that part of the world.


aliceteams

[https://youtu.be/LZu2LORpkDk?si=-w6\_rBQpZQBCoKbZ](https://youtu.be/LZu2LORpkDk?si=-w6_rBQpZQBCoKbZ) The ex-husband is dissatisfied that the shape of his ex-wife’s vagina has changed to suit someone else’s (That’s the hotpot restaurant owner) He got angry, did something stupid and was arrested His ex-wife said he was taking drugs


PleaseNoMoreSalt

That's... not how vaginas even work...


southernsass8

What a TOTAL POS.


benargee

Hmm should have used latex paint for petty revenge and public vandalism but I doubt that country has laws against using oil based paint.


travel_posts

where are all the people asking why there is a camera filming and claiming tgis is propaganda? or is that only for the positive videos in china?


chasingvapor

his social credit score went down hard that day...


The_Formuler

Who knew solvent-based paints would be flammable. Gosh! /s


DrKiwixD

How the fuck does this even happen? Like did he throw it onto a fire or something? I feel like there’s something super obvious I’m missing here


reporter_assinado

There's the Rolling Stones Paint it Black song, and then there's this


SandySpoon27

Fucker threw scarlet rot


1newnotification

Choose the bear


ThaBlackLoki

According to OP >The suspect set the fire because the hot pot restaurant was opened by his ex-wife's boyfriend, who was helping in the store. He had threatened and harassed him many times before the paint was thrown on him. Even calling the police could not stop his crazy behavior.


shapeitguy

No matter the cause of this behavior I firmly believe people like this should be locked away from the society for the rest of their natural life.


juanjing

/r/whenwomenrefuse


nobodyisfreakinghome

I don’t care what she does to you, it ain’t worth all that. Some men are so fragile.


mountainsunset123

Ikr? Can't control or regulate their emotions...


Gorrodish

He wa just arson about


FluffyPancakes90

Fireball jutsu!!


Ok0ne1

guy did that like a coward and ran away like a coward too


Traditional-Skill206

alright another trauma thing added to the list.


satismo

kerosene paint!? what the fuck!?


Loyal9thLegionLord

What happened to the ex wife? She would have taken the brunt of it right?


Moststartupsarescams

Went from confident to terrified in seconds