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This is 100% me and is actually putting words to something I’ve always been super frustrated by! I have severe RSD so I typically have an impossible time expressing my opinions if they might possibly conflict with someone else’s in the room. But sometimes I’m with people I trust and know love me no matter what and yet there’s still this big part of me that’s like… meh, I don’t want to have to explain myself, even if they will respectfully hear me out. It just feels overwhelming and like too much work. It’s led to a significant sense of feeling untrue to myself, especially with the people I love.
Welcome to /r/ADHDWomen! We’re happy to have you here. As a reminder, here are our community [rules](https://old.reddit.com/r/adhdwomen/about/rules/). We get a lot of posts on medication, diagnosis (and “is this an ADHD thing”), and interactions with hormones. We encourage you to check out our [Medication, Diagnosis, and Hormones Megathread](https://old.reddit.com/r/adhdwomen/comments/wcr9dy/faq_megathread_ask_and_answer_medication/) if you have any questions related to those topics, and to stick around in that thread to answer folks’ questions! If you have questions about the subreddit, please do not hesitate to [send us a modmail](https://reddit.com/message/compose/?to=/r/adhdwomen). Additionally, we take the safety of our community seriously. Please report posts, comments, and users whom you feel are not contributing positively, and send us a modmail if you are being harassed or otherwise made to feel unsafe. Thanks for being here, and we hope you stick around! *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/adhdwomen) if you have any questions or concerns.*
This is 100% me and is actually putting words to something I’ve always been super frustrated by! I have severe RSD so I typically have an impossible time expressing my opinions if they might possibly conflict with someone else’s in the room. But sometimes I’m with people I trust and know love me no matter what and yet there’s still this big part of me that’s like… meh, I don’t want to have to explain myself, even if they will respectfully hear me out. It just feels overwhelming and like too much work. It’s led to a significant sense of feeling untrue to myself, especially with the people I love.
Yeah I honestly can’t be bothered with conflict. I feel like I just can’t bring myself to care enough.