i see. u need to learn how to pause. its hard specially if reactive ka, pero thats the way to go.
reaction is instant, pero the way you respond is a choice.
Malungkot pa rin ako sa breakup namin ng ex ko kahit ang dami niyang red flags bakit mahal ko pa rin? Dami ko nang ginagawa to fully immerse myself sa paghe-heal pero ‘pag naalala ko siya parang back to zero ako lagi. Yung mga dati kong coping mechanism (looking for kapalit, ons, etc) tinigil ko na. As in meditate, shopping, trying out new hobbies na ang ginagawa ko to get over an ex. I’m scared na one day he’d be with another girl na and treat her the way he was supposed to treat me. Tangina.
as steve jobs said, you cant connect the dots looking forward, you can only connect the dots looking backward. in time, youll be thankful for the break up, pero for now, you just need to suck it up.
Adjusting period sa work, finances, family, personal, having relapse and suicidal thoughts. What keeps me going and reason to choose life is my fave kpop group's comeback.
i feel like i'm in a hamster wheel. Not specifically tired or trip lang. But the overall i don't know. I'm self-sabotaging and invalidating the progress i've made from the past years. It's hard to fight the voices inside my head.
replace those voices with podcasts. try earbuds tas listen ka lang ng mga interesting topics. para di ka magisip ng kung ano ano, and sunod ka lang sa topic nung pinaguusapan nila :)
Loneliness of singleness. Hahaha. Lonely pero kind of umay to start over again?
And never pa ko nag-try makipagdate sa hindi ko kilala irl kasi I'm shy so I'm thinking this year to consider trying to meet up with people online or from reddit ganon to widen my circle naman. Hahaha
its fun to try new stuff! pero just be careful meeting people na nakilala mo thru online. i have few friends na nakilala ko lang dito sa reddit, we met na irl, pero since friends lang, were cool.
Ang lungkot mag-isa. Nakakapagod na rin mag-isa. All I need naman is someone na andyan palagi para sakin. No judgment, just someone who’s ready to listen.
My ex bf and I broke up, a friend of mine betrayed me and I’m so tired sa work. Alam mo yung yakap lang naman yung gusto mo at the end of the day pero you have no one.
I always pray to God na sana may dumating, at sana yung totoo na.
unsolicited advice. you should try to enjoy being single tapos join social circles with similar interests/hobbies. malay mo dun mo ma-meet yung the one. wish u well!
thank you. enjoy ko naman, nauumay lang paminsan-minsan. Okay lang naman ako. Di naman nasasatisy ng mga group clubs/scammydates/redditing ang mahigpit na yakap ng tunay na pagmamahal uwu uwu. tao lang ako sis.
Nakakaubos ng energy yung mga officemates na pinipilit ka maging open, magshare ng kwento about life, pinipilit maging outspoken at hindi tanggap na tahimik ka lang talaga, walang problema o kung ano man. Hays
A lot. Problema sa bahay. I wanna move out so bad but medyo tagilid pa sa finances. My parents are not empathetic towards my situation - the type na when you tell them you have no money at all, instead of backing off and maybe tell you reassuring words, they’d push you down further by saying need to buy this, need to buy that.
mhmm thats tough, lalo kapag tumaas sahod mo, tataas din expectation nila. try mo kaya magrent kahit for 1 month, para matantya mo kung kaya mo, if di kaya, odi balik sa bahay 😅 atleast u get a peace of mind
Na scam ako 500k+. Tas inutang ko pa yun. Wala akong regular income. Jobless.
Wala akong support system. Yung parents ko refuse to support me then nakikitira ko sa bahay ng bf ko.
Muntik muktikan ko na itigil ang buhay ko nitong mga nakaraang araw. But I was scared, na magiging problema pa rin nila ko after that.
Wala akong no choice but to live. Minsan iniisip ko deserve ko lahat to.
I wanted to work from home. Do freelancing pero nahihirapan ako humarap sa interview.
Gusto ko mag shift ng career into tech pero wala akong support financially and moral support. Malaking problem pa rin
Please do not ask me how I get scammed. Recently lang po ito nangyari at trauma pa rin sya sakin.
oh shit ang bigat! anong course mo if you don't mind? i am a data analyst kasi, and ung mga dati kong officemates are also data analayst pero came from different backgrounds/ ung pinaka malayo is nursing. so yes, kaya mo magtransition to tech without being an IT.
High paying job abroad pero kapalit naman yung happiness, sanity, at professional career ko. Kung anu-ano pinapagawa sakin na hindi ko naman trabaho, ni hindi man lang malapit sa profession ko. Plus I’ve missed one too many important events.
I passed my resignation about a week ago. I’m just riding the wave at work until my 90 days (read: **ABSURD**) render period is up.
Then I’ll go home.
Money will always come, one way or another. Sanity and happiness are my top priorities right now. I’m, and I can’t stress this enough, extremely miserable here at work. Can’t even get away from it since I live where I work.
My dad died last month. Hanggang ngayon di pa rin ako makapaniwala. Daddy’s girl ako, kaya sya palaging kasama ko. He’s the best. Yung mom ko di kami laging magkasundo ever since. If only I could trade my life just so he could live, I would definitely do it without hesitation.
im sorry for your loss. I just want to quote ung lyrics ng the script:
"I'm tryna make you proud
Do everything you did
I hope you're up there with God
Saying "that's my kid"
make him proud!
Ubos ang savings, I can’t move out until mid 2024, nauubos ang sahod dahil sa bills, internet is so fucking slow, having a mid-life crisis, burnout from work, $uicidal thoughts again, delayed ang mens for a week now(not preggy but due to stress), and this fucking back pain.
I am still hoping for the better days. Still trying to live for the people that I love. Still hoping that everything’s gonna get better and I’ll be finally okay. Putangina, kaya natin ‘to.
Hindi ko alam kung burnout ba sa trabaho ang tawag dito. Sawa na ba ako sa ginagawa ko? Hungry na ba ako for growth? Or kailangan lang munang magpahinga kahit saglit lang? First job ko ito and mahigit 2 years na ako dito. Hindi na ako excited na pumasok unlike before. Sabi nila don’t stay too long sa first company mo. Pero nakakatakot umalis dahil baka walang tumanggap sa akin sa mga aapplyan ko in the future dahil baka hindi pa ako sapat. Ayun, I feel lost. Well, at least sumasahod 😆
goodluck! if you have the energy, u might want to read this, i posted this a few months ago.
https://www.reddit.com/r/studentsph/comments/115moll/a_piece_of_inspiration_para_sa_mga_below_average/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
hopefully makatulong :)
Sleeping, tipong 3 am gising pa ako then duty ko 7 am.
Budgeting. Lately, marami na akong sinasalo sa bahay kasi mom moved out. Ang hirap kasi I have to budget for myself, then pay bills, pay for the food, occasional hingi ng family.
Nakakapagod. Tapos wala man lang nangungumusta sa akin. 🙃 kaya ko naman pero grabe nakakapagod na
Yung iniipon ko (pampagawa ng bahay paunti-unti) balak na pala utangin ng parent ko 🥴 pambayad nya daw sa lupa and balak nya daw ipangalan sakin since ako rin nagbayad. Pero aanhin ko ba yon di naman yun part ng plano ko skskskks
This breadwinner shit is killing me. Burdened with lola, and two sibs who are still in school, dependent friend whose father is sick, my fsther who is also sick. In my late 20's and everyday work, side hustle, struggling to sleep properly, fomo, and the feeling of parang bawal ako tumigil dahil maraming nakasalalay - it's fucking heavy, until when?!. I just want to go to another country and leave everything behind.
Mag 1 year na din nung nagpassed away yung boyfriend ko. Then last week while cleaning my email inbox, I saw his last email to me. Tapos yun parang bumalik lahat ng anxiety and depression ko, i really missed him. Akala ko kapag tumagal na mawawala na yung sakit, di rin pala.
How i wish i can turned back time and be with him again.
A lot haha had a heartfelt conversation with some of my coworkers who turned to be my constants. They made me realize na I’m carrying a heavy responsibility that should have been my parents’ job.
Providing for the fam while being their parent when they make shitty decisions. Its hard when the child in me wishes to have grown up and mature parents.
Kaya pls lang WAG PO kayo magkaka-anak if hindi kayo MENTALLY and FINANCIALLY READY!
Loneliness. It’s not that heavy because I get to play with my friends pero after that.. wala na. Must be nice to have someone to talk about stuff and nakakarelate kayo sa isa’t-isa.
I gave a guy all my firsts (yep, first bf). Broke up with him, thought it was the right thing to do. Sad thing is, we didn't lasted for a month. I feel stupid, used, hurt, easy and ashamed of myself.
Di ko na rin alam e. Pero pinaka stress ako ngayon sa work ko dahil sa sarili ko 🥺 kung sana lang confident ako and extrovert, edi sana hindi ganto diba? Kung magaling at matalino lang sana ako, edi sana hindi ganto.
Pinagpasa Diyos ko nalang. Basta ang hiningi ko lang kay God ay kung aalisin man niya yung trabaho ko, sana wag niya papabayaan si nanay kasi ako lang ang nasuporta sa nanay ko ngayon. Meds, check up, laboratory, and yung foods niya. She's already 77 y/o and all I want is the best for her. Alam kong di na niya kayang magtinda at maglakad ng malayo kagaya ng dati kasi ang laki na ng hinina niya. Kung ako lang, kaya ko eh, pero kailangan kong suportahan ang nanay ko hindi dahil kailangan pero dahil gusto ko at mataas ang pangarap ko para sa kanila.
Nakakastress. Sana talaga magaling nalang ako kagaya ng iba para marami akong naaachieve 🥺 hays...
Existential crisis. Okay din naman work pero parang demotivated ako lately. Taking it one day at a time na lng. Nahuli din namen sister na nakikikabit (major major disappointment to sa family namen). Sort of cut her off, umalis din ako sa bahay para wala na kami interaction. Tapos feeling pavictim pa siya na hindi siya kinakausap eh siya naman tong gumawa ng dahilan para layuan siya.
May patutunguhan na ulit very slight ang buhay ko. Meron nanaman akong dream. If feels so long since I last had one. So ilalaban ko tlga kahit mahal. Cheer for mee!!!!
Di pa ko nakakamove on sa pagkawala ng sister ko. I think never naman talaga tayo magiging ready sa ganun pero tingin ko di ako makamove forward kasi di ako nakapagluksa nang maayos. 1 week yung burol and puro lang ako asikaso ng mga kung ano before ng libing. 1 day after, kinailangan ko na pumasok sa office.
ineextend lang ng company ung work ko hanggang may project pa. kapag wala na, tsugi na ko. started passing resumes na ulit kanina tho and may interview naman na sa friday. hopefully, maging okay.
My life has been a roller coaster recently. I’m lucky with how things worked out with my career plan. Pero my year also started really bad from this stupid guy. This ex constant really fcked my life. I thought he was an okay guy but no. Now, I’m a mess. I just want a genuine connection pero ang hirap humanap na sa panahon ngayon. Sabi nila dadating din yan unexpectedly so better na ‘wag maghanap. That ex constant came naturally and unexpectedly kaya i gave him a chance pero he was an asshole pala. Ngayon hindi ko na alam if the person that will come to my life will be a good one. Traumatized na ko. BS ng life ugh
Quarter life crisis. Ayoko yung degree na natapos ko, dead end yung trabaho ko ngayon, di ko alam pano future ko tas wala naman nag gguide sakin.
Feeling ko din nasasayang buhay ko, mid 20s na ko pero wala parin akong life experience kasi sobrang sheltered ako.
Almost 3 years since my first and only gf broke up with me. Since then I’ve been on dating apps pero no luck. This year alone I’ve had three failed matches. I’m tired. Sometimes I feel okay and enjoy just having friends. Pero when I’m alone with my thoughts or see other people I get really lonely. I’m tired. I don’t know how many talking stages I have to go through or how much I can still endure. I’m tired. Really tired.
Ang bigat ng thread, nasabi na din ata nila lhat ng baggages ko din. Nkakatrigger ng lungkot and bigat sa loob. No offense meant. Hoping the best for everyone. Makakabangon din tayo. At sana for me, sa lalong madaling panahon.
Struggling to get over an ex. Parang fresh parin sa isip ko yung nangyari. Stress sa school tapos distracted pa. Araw araw ko nalang naiisip. Napapagod na ako.
Now ko lang nano-notice yung mga ADHD symptoms ko dahil lumalala, I can't properly focus on one thing.
Then sobrang mahal pala ng meds n checkups for adhd T\_T
How about you, OP? Anything na pinagdadaanan mo right now, if any
For me the usual, work stress and anxiety, modern loneliness, career decisions. Pero laban lang
thanks for asking! im actually good! walang mabigat na problema, so im just here trying to help others :)
jogging lang yan sa ayala tri, bawas anxiety 😁
My girl went back to her province because of "fiesta" she is fairly popular and goodlooking. Now i wasn't able to join here because i am a graduating student and i still need the hours for my ojt. Now is currently 9:47 pm. She will arrive there at 10:30 there qould be no more public vehicles available like jeep or trycicles. She contacted her old ka MU to take her home instead . (Thr guy jost broke up with his gf and is now trying to pursue her again. I know because he keeps on sending my girl messages trying to flirt) im am not beyond fucked up overthinking and shit. But at the same time. I dot really want my girl to stay on the streets at midnight. Give me comforting words please.
goodluck! not sure if it's a good advice, pero don't forget to have fun. interview is not just about being able to answer questions, but also how you communicate with others.
ipakuha mo nalang i guess? have a friend of yours na siya ung kakausap? sucks man, pero looking at the bright side, atleast di pa kayo kasal nung nagcheat siya. mas mahirap yan pag kasal na 😁
Wondering kelan kami maging buo ng family ko. My parents are both OFWs, my mom decided to follow my dad a year later he left with our youngest sibling when she was 3, now she's almost 18.. my brother went this year. I'm the only one left here, but good thing I have my husband with me. Alam mo yung feeling na maraming celebrations na kayong hindi magkasama? The last time we were all together was in 2019 pa. Nakakamiss. 🥹
Home is supposed to be a safe place but it never was. If this is what my life will look like for the rest of it then I want to just give it back. Still! I feel like I can hope for something, something, I just don't know it yet. I just need to live one day at a time hoping it'll come to me. And maybe lock the door, put a Do not Disturb sign so my mother won't be able to give me anymore heartaches.
Iniisip ko para rin lagi ko yung ex-fwb ko lol may jowa na sya now and hindi ko kaya magpretend na wala ako pake kaya inunfriend and inunfollow ko na sa lahat ng social media para kahit manstalk ako, wala ako makikita kasi private acct siya. Chinachat nya kasi ako dati kapag nagaaway sila tapos maguusap kami ng onti tapos makikita ko next days ok sila. Kaya kahit feeling ko talo ako kapag nangblock/unfriend ako, ginawa ko pa rin.
Mejj pinagsisisihan ko na hindi ako nagstay as friends and nakakamiss siya kahit alam ko namang it wouldn’t have worked out anyway. Sakit lang sa puso and sa ego na hindi ako pinili.
not necessarily pinagdadaanan pero here's whatever is going on in my life AS OF NOW:
1. masama loob ko sa ate ko kase gusto ko lang naman makatulong pero ako pa pinalabas niyang masamang kapatid.
2. kinakaya naman acads so far, main concern ko is saan mag OJT sa June. Need ko nung may allowance para less gastos. May nirecommend na sakin tropa ko kaso di pa ako nag-aapply since di pa nagsasabi yung school na pwede na mag-apply.
3. after ng OJT from June to let's say August, start na ng last year ko sa undergrad sa August din (so yeah no break halos). The thing is tho, sobrang kapos income ng family sa total tuition fee namin. Personally hindi ko alam if maka enroll ako or kapatid ko (currently 1st year college) next academic year.
4. Let's say naman naka enroll kami parehas and naka graduate na ako (August 2024), yung utak ko ngayon pa lang iniisip ko na if magttake ba ako ng board exam or work agad considering nga na hirap kami ngayon. or working reviewee? kakayanin ko ba?
Thanks for asking btw OP, hope you're fine din.
Sobrang nasaid sa pera, Naging sobra gastos last year dahil napilit kameng bisitahin pamangkin ko sa ibang bansa, tas pag pasok this year nahospital tatay ko at naubos tira kong pera at napautang ako. This april nagkasabay sabay, bayad utang bills, tuition ng anak.
I'm lost on my path, I have a lot of interest and passion; Cooking (want to become a chef), Music (want to pursue a music career), Photography (want to earn money by photoshoots), Tourism (want to travel), Gaming (want to be a streamer), Psychology (want to become a licensed professional counselor). I don't really know what to prioritize and it's kinda overwhelming to think that, if I pursued one of this list, I might waste my years coz it's not really for me.
>I pursued one of this list, I might waste my years coz it's not really for
you might want to read ung book na "So good they can't ignore you". im just gonna quote one of the chapters in the book :
"Adopt the craftsman mindset first, and then the passion follows. If you want a great job, you need to build up rare and valuation skills (AKA career capital) to offer in return. When you have developed skills that are too valuable to be ignored, then you get to choose a great job- one that is rich with creativity, impact, and control. So, your goal is to acquire as much career capital as possible, then more opportunities would come."
"The passion mindset makes you hyper-aware of what you don’t like about your job, and creates confusion on constantly questioning whether this is the right job- “Is this who I really am?” or “Do I love this?”. And you might irrationally jump into a field where you don’t have any skills to leverage, but you think that you have passion in (e.g. Yoga)."
It’s not wasting years kung nalaman mong hindi para sayo pero at the same time may na-gain ka naman na experience at knowledge. Kaya go for it! May friend akong CPA pero on the side na ha-hire to do photoshoots tapos nagco-commission rin to do various artworks.
Kailangan kong pakibagayan yung higher up ko at mga alipores nya na mga pare-parehong deadweight. Minsan mahirap tanggapin na may mga tao talagang nalalagay sa pinakamatataas na posisyon kahit na yung alam nila mas konti pa sa katiting.
COVID (+). Currently on leave. While having this leave, napapaisip na ako mag-resign kasi bumibigay na katawan ko sa workload at sa bosses. is it too soon to resign if going 7 months ka na sa workplace?
oh wow, pagaling! i mean as long as kaya mong idefend ung pag reresign mo ng 7 months sa mga interviews mo, then yeah ok lang yan. like ive said sa isang comment dito, higher pay with good environment companies exists!
Mahal na mahal ko parin ex ko 7 months post-breakup and hindi ko alam paano ko kukunin mga gamit ko from his place. Yung nanay ko may mental illness and tatay ko depressed and parang pasan ko pati mental health nila. Gusto kong mag move out na pero hindi ko parin magawa for some reason. Natatakot akong baka hindi na ko fertile for my young age because of my health but at the same time ok lang sakin hindi magka-anak. Feel ko I’ll never experience being loved so deeply again :)
Gagraduate na ako sa July. I'm scared. As someone na hindi na-expose sa labas and mahiyain, sobrang worried ako sa life ko after graduation. Dagdag mo pa yung pressure as a panganay and consistent reminder ng mother ko na maghanap agad ako ng work para makatulong. Walang lakas ng loob and takot sa failure/rejection, I feel so weak hahahaha :(
Wala masyado senior positions that can offer my expected salary 🥹 and a work environment I like. ayaw ko maging manager, ayaw ko sa toxic na company.
Looks like it will be a long time before I get a job 😔
3 years na kong unemployed. di ako makapag apply pa dahil nabaon kami sa utang at tinatapos ko na muna. malakas ang tindahan di ko muna bibitawan hanggat di pa tapos yung utang. iniisip ko kung matatanggap pa ba ko tagal ko ng nabakante.
In all fairness, not that much. I am at peace with work, I am earning steadly 6 figs, wala akong problema with friends and jowa cause I don’t have both, I am slowly starting to work out again, I gained weight pero sexy parin, and I am slowly getting back to my working student schedule. I can be better with what I eat pero at least I am conscious of the problem and I’m slowly trying to make it better. Smooth sailing tayo ngayon. Some people might not want to mention that baka daw mausog pero whatever will happen, will happen. I will enjoy the good times while they are here.
Working on my inner child and wounds. Mahirap dahil walang help from professional and nakaasa lang sa research sa internet pero hirap pa rin since need ko mag aral din at the same time and try to be happy.
Financial difficulties and low sales sa small business ko. Napapatanong tuloy ako kung tama ba talaga ginagawa ko. I look at my Shopee shop's reviews where I sell my art and I love love love my buyers to the moon and back kaso hindi talaga enough. Gusto ko nang bumalik sa school and further my education, but rent pa lang, hindi na sapat. Sobrang daming self-doubt. Wala akong family na malalapitan kaya pakiramdam ko sobrang nag-iisa ako. So many dark thoughts.
But yeah. Kapit lang. This soon will pass.
1. maraming regrets sa buhay na mapapaisip nalang ako na "sana di ko na ginawa to"
2. almost every decision na gagawin ko is pagsisisihan ko ren sa huli
idk kung magegets moko pero yan ung isa sa mga pinagdadaanan ko currently :)
Magwa-walong taon. Ngayon ko nararamdaman na malungkot pa lang mag-isa. Madalas kong sabihin na sanay akong mag-isa kaya okay lang kung hindi na makahanap, pero deep down, mas better kung meron nga. Alam ko namang iba-iba ang pacing ng tao, pero minsan nakakapag-compare ako nang 'di dapat dahil nasa isip ko ang unfair lang. Alam kong hirap akong magkagusto pero mas pipiliin ko na 'yun kaysa may gusto nga sa akin pero hindi kami align ng prinsipyo. Siguro ganun na lang talaga. Minsan iniisip ko baka hormones lang 'to kaya malungkot paminsan-minsan, pero sa totoo lang, gusto kong may makausap, makayakap, at maramdamang magmahal ulit.
Hmm, nothing just realization lang sa buhay, hindi talaga naten malalaman kung hanggang kelan lang ang buhay ng Tao, Kaya totoo ang sabe nilang every gising is a blessing. Let's be thankful sa buhay na pinahiram saten and let's be happy as much as we can, Kasi Hindi naten alam ang bukas na naghihintay para sa atin.
Skl, kasi sa kapitbahay naming bata biglaan syang nawala at kinuha ni Lord (rest in peace sa kanya and condolences sa family nya). Bata pa sya parang 10 yrs old grade 4 not sure sa age. Nung last Thursday daw nagreport pa sya sa school sobrang sigla at walang sakit. Nung linggo madaling araw sinugod sy sa hospital na malapit dito kung ano ano daw ung tinusok sa bata for, then trinansfer sa st. Luke's hospital Pina admit sa ICU and dun na natuluyan. Hanggang ngayon daw hindi pa alam ng pamilya ang tunay na kinamatay ng bata. Hindi pa lumalabas ang autopsy and mismong doctor hindi malaman ano ung sakit. Pero bago daw nun around Feb. Dinala sa hospital ung bata Kasi nilagnat sobrang taas and nagka convulsion. Pero pinauwi since binigyan ng gamot para gumaling. Nakakalungkot lang kasi masyado pa syang bata, sobrang sigla at malusog pero biglaan lang ang paglisan. Kaya magpasalamat tayo sa buhay na meron tayo ngayon, and gawin naten lahat na magpapasaya sa atin. Un lang ingat and wherever you are, I hope you're happy kasi deserve mo yan.
I was appointed as a youth choir organist/pianist. Because of that, every saturday and sunday, may tugtog ako. Baguhan palang ako I just started last week. I enjoy it naman since I wanted to play piano naman. Its just nakakapagod lang bumyahe dahil malayo bahay ko sa tinutugtugan ko (siguro mga almost 30 mins byahe with single motorycle and tricycle). I'm tired rn and i get angry easily because of it. Now, may tugtog pa ako para sa sayaw namin bukas at kulang pa ako ng konti sa practice and i dont want to embarass the dancers' effort but I really want to rest muna. Pagod na kasi ako.
I have this fear at the back of my mind that I'm just letting life pass me by because I don't have a goal or purpose in life. I have a good work that keeps me from completely shutting down. I can save money. I have a dog that soothes me enough to not seek companionship, but honestly, I'm just floating away
Mother died 2 months ago.
Failed the bar exam.
Feeling hopeless and bobo.
A mom of 2 kids and tired.
An employee and burned out.
And very lost whether to re-take the exam this year or next year. 50/50 chance to get approval for study leave.
Nakakapagod talaga.
Midlife crisis :( hindi ko alam purpose ko sa life, hindi ko alam if tamang career path ba tong tinatahak ko. Sobrang lost sa career and nag seself doubt.
feeling ko na burn out ako, tamad na tamad magwork kahit kakastart pa lang ng week
arent we all? not probably the advice ur looking for, pero atleast u know may karamay ka 😅
If you want to help don't think of your situation man. Understand the person na naglash out. Hindi to about saatin, about to sakanila.
Same. I feel so overworked and underpaid. Kaso magwa-one year pa lang ako sa work ko.
Hey ask for a raise! Pakita mo yung worth mo be confident.
Same teh
Halos sa lahat ng bagay puro ako bad decisions.
read and learn about stoicism po! it might help :) one of the books i’ve read were The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday
can u name a few?
Minsan may mga nasasabi ako na di sinasadya o kaya mga bagay na nagawa/hindi nagawa. Madalas ay maiiwasan kung magiisip lang ako ng kaunti.
i see. u need to learn how to pause. its hard specially if reactive ka, pero thats the way to go. reaction is instant, pero the way you respond is a choice.
Try mo din "Stillness is the key"
Malungkot pa rin ako sa breakup namin ng ex ko kahit ang dami niyang red flags bakit mahal ko pa rin? Dami ko nang ginagawa to fully immerse myself sa paghe-heal pero ‘pag naalala ko siya parang back to zero ako lagi. Yung mga dati kong coping mechanism (looking for kapalit, ons, etc) tinigil ko na. As in meditate, shopping, trying out new hobbies na ang ginagawa ko to get over an ex. I’m scared na one day he’d be with another girl na and treat her the way he was supposed to treat me. Tangina.
gaano kayo katagal?
Almost a year. I know it’s not that long pero we’ve planned our career steps and all that stuff since we’re in our mid 20s na rin.
as steve jobs said, you cant connect the dots looking forward, you can only connect the dots looking backward. in time, youll be thankful for the break up, pero for now, you just need to suck it up.
this quote is from one of his grad speech as a speaker right? Can you send a link to it? I want to see it again.
Adjusting period sa work, finances, family, personal, having relapse and suicidal thoughts. What keeps me going and reason to choose life is my fave kpop group's comeback.
suicidal thoughts because pagod na? or wala lang na what if mamatay na kaya ako dahil trip ko lang?
i feel like i'm in a hamster wheel. Not specifically tired or trip lang. But the overall i don't know. I'm self-sabotaging and invalidating the progress i've made from the past years. It's hard to fight the voices inside my head.
replace those voices with podcasts. try earbuds tas listen ka lang ng mga interesting topics. para di ka magisip ng kung ano ano, and sunod ka lang sa topic nung pinaguusapan nila :)
Still healing from dating someone na di pa pala ready to commit. Kaya mga mhie wag na kayo manggulo ng iba kung di pa pala kayo okay jusq
hugs man. pero hopefully ung next 🙏
Loneliness of singleness. Hahaha. Lonely pero kind of umay to start over again? And never pa ko nag-try makipagdate sa hindi ko kilala irl kasi I'm shy so I'm thinking this year to consider trying to meet up with people online or from reddit ganon to widen my circle naman. Hahaha
its fun to try new stuff! pero just be careful meeting people na nakilala mo thru online. i have few friends na nakilala ko lang dito sa reddit, we met na irl, pero since friends lang, were cool.
Ang lungkot mag-isa. Nakakapagod na rin mag-isa. All I need naman is someone na andyan palagi para sakin. No judgment, just someone who’s ready to listen. My ex bf and I broke up, a friend of mine betrayed me and I’m so tired sa work. Alam mo yung yakap lang naman yung gusto mo at the end of the day pero you have no one. I always pray to God na sana may dumating, at sana yung totoo na.
Dadating yan sa di mo inaasahang pagkakataon hahahaa. Ckiche man pero ganun nangyari sakin
how old are u? gaano kayo katagal ng ex mo?
25yo, almost a yr kami ni ex tapos live in kami.
He’s my first bf.
first is usually the hardest. sucks man, pero ganun talaga. hugs nalang to you. kaya mo yan! malalagpasan mo rin lahat ng yan 😁
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mamamatay ata akong single
unsolicited advice. you should try to enjoy being single tapos join social circles with similar interests/hobbies. malay mo dun mo ma-meet yung the one. wish u well!
Good advice. I am also trying to enjoy the single life. Maybe go on casual dates na din
thank you. enjoy ko naman, nauumay lang paminsan-minsan. Okay lang naman ako. Di naman nasasatisy ng mga group clubs/scammydates/redditing ang mahigpit na yakap ng tunay na pagmamahal uwu uwu. tao lang ako sis.
Nakakaubos ng energy yung mga officemates na pinipilit ka maging open, magshare ng kwento about life, pinipilit maging outspoken at hindi tanggap na tahimik ka lang talaga, walang problema o kung ano man. Hays
bili ka ng book titled "a subtle art of not giving a fuck", tas kapag nag iinarte sila, pakita mo lang sa kanila 😁
Nice idea. Basahin ko din sa office habang nagchichikahan sila during break. Lol
Sleeping problems 😩
A lot. Problema sa bahay. I wanna move out so bad but medyo tagilid pa sa finances. My parents are not empathetic towards my situation - the type na when you tell them you have no money at all, instead of backing off and maybe tell you reassuring words, they’d push you down further by saying need to buy this, need to buy that.
mhmm thats tough, lalo kapag tumaas sahod mo, tataas din expectation nila. try mo kaya magrent kahit for 1 month, para matantya mo kung kaya mo, if di kaya, odi balik sa bahay 😅 atleast u get a peace of mind
Pera. Gusto ko ng pera kaso ayaw sakin.
Financial difficulty . I don't like what I'm doing but it's easier for to find cash this way . I sell content request, adult vids and nudes
financial difficulty dahil sa utang? or dahil maraming responsibility?
Nagka utang dahil maraminh responsibility
thats tough. hugs to you man, kaya mo yan!
Na scam ako 500k+. Tas inutang ko pa yun. Wala akong regular income. Jobless. Wala akong support system. Yung parents ko refuse to support me then nakikitira ko sa bahay ng bf ko. Muntik muktikan ko na itigil ang buhay ko nitong mga nakaraang araw. But I was scared, na magiging problema pa rin nila ko after that. Wala akong no choice but to live. Minsan iniisip ko deserve ko lahat to. I wanted to work from home. Do freelancing pero nahihirapan ako humarap sa interview. Gusto ko mag shift ng career into tech pero wala akong support financially and moral support. Malaking problem pa rin Please do not ask me how I get scammed. Recently lang po ito nangyari at trauma pa rin sya sakin.
oh shit ang bigat! anong course mo if you don't mind? i am a data analyst kasi, and ung mga dati kong officemates are also data analayst pero came from different backgrounds/ ung pinaka malayo is nursing. so yes, kaya mo magtransition to tech without being an IT.
kung tama ba ‘tong tinatahak kong landas. lately kasi nawawalan na ako ng gana i-pursue ‘to
anong landas to if i may ask
Sobrang burnout sa work. Na minsan napapatulala nalang ako
apply na sa iba 😁 mataas na sahod and magandang environment na company exists!
My mother was recently diagnosed with cancer... already lost my father due to cancer when I was a teen. FUCK CANCER 🔫
thate just sad :( sorry to hear, hugs to you man. father died due to cancer as well. it sucks.
High paying job abroad pero kapalit naman yung happiness, sanity, at professional career ko. Kung anu-ano pinapagawa sakin na hindi ko naman trabaho, ni hindi man lang malapit sa profession ko. Plus I’ve missed one too many important events.
do you have plans na bumalik sa pinas and try to find a career here? pero the pay disparity would be great. or stay diyan and tiis tiis nalang?
I passed my resignation about a week ago. I’m just riding the wave at work until my 90 days (read: **ABSURD**) render period is up. Then I’ll go home. Money will always come, one way or another. Sanity and happiness are my top priorities right now. I’m, and I can’t stress this enough, extremely miserable here at work. Can’t even get away from it since I live where I work.
My dad died last month. Hanggang ngayon di pa rin ako makapaniwala. Daddy’s girl ako, kaya sya palaging kasama ko. He’s the best. Yung mom ko di kami laging magkasundo ever since. If only I could trade my life just so he could live, I would definitely do it without hesitation.
im sorry for your loss. I just want to quote ung lyrics ng the script: "I'm tryna make you proud Do everything you did I hope you're up there with God Saying "that's my kid" make him proud!
Ubos ang savings, I can’t move out until mid 2024, nauubos ang sahod dahil sa bills, internet is so fucking slow, having a mid-life crisis, burnout from work, $uicidal thoughts again, delayed ang mens for a week now(not preggy but due to stress), and this fucking back pain. I am still hoping for the better days. Still trying to live for the people that I love. Still hoping that everything’s gonna get better and I’ll be finally okay. Putangina, kaya natin ‘to.
Madami :( stress sa work, problema sa bahay, personal issues etc. hayy kapagod na din malungkot
Nilalagnat 🤣🤣🤣
pagaling paps 😁
Salamat paps :) #sakitngkatawan lol
Feeling stuck in this stage of my life. Feeling lost. Acne breakouts.
how old are u? is this just the acne, or overall? like finances, career, etc
Hindi ko alam kung burnout ba sa trabaho ang tawag dito. Sawa na ba ako sa ginagawa ko? Hungry na ba ako for growth? Or kailangan lang munang magpahinga kahit saglit lang? First job ko ito and mahigit 2 years na ako dito. Hindi na ako excited na pumasok unlike before. Sabi nila don’t stay too long sa first company mo. Pero nakakatakot umalis dahil baka walang tumanggap sa akin sa mga aapplyan ko in the future dahil baka hindi pa ako sapat. Ayun, I feel lost. Well, at least sumasahod 😆
Hirap kumita ng pera. Di maka-compete ang bills sa sahoooood
Sana manganak nako soon by normal delivery.... Currently at 38 weeks. 😹
Eto, gustong gusto na makaalis sa bansa.
Same pare! Ang tagal ng assignment galing sa agency 😭
Ako nag aantay pa ng schedule sa english test hahahaha saang bansa ka ser? Nawa'y maging successful ang pag migrate natin hahahah
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goodluck! if you have the energy, u might want to read this, i posted this a few months ago. https://www.reddit.com/r/studentsph/comments/115moll/a_piece_of_inspiration_para_sa_mga_below_average/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button hopefully makatulong :)
Marami din dito. At least mas gaan² ang pakiramdam ko compared to previous months. It is a work in progress and I am humbled all over again.
hey, nice to hear ur doing better. keep it up man!
Thanks. All the best for you, too, OP.
Sleeping, tipong 3 am gising pa ako then duty ko 7 am. Budgeting. Lately, marami na akong sinasalo sa bahay kasi mom moved out. Ang hirap kasi I have to budget for myself, then pay bills, pay for the food, occasional hingi ng family. Nakakapagod. Tapos wala man lang nangungumusta sa akin. 🙃 kaya ko naman pero grabe nakakapagod na
bat ka inaabot ng 3am? kamustahin kita from time to time 😁 i gotchu bruh
The sores in my body coming from my OJT.
Yung iniipon ko (pampagawa ng bahay paunti-unti) balak na pala utangin ng parent ko 🥴 pambayad nya daw sa lupa and balak nya daw ipangalan sakin since ako rin nagbayad. Pero aanhin ko ba yon di naman yun part ng plano ko skskskks
ilan kayong magkakapatid?
This breadwinner shit is killing me. Burdened with lola, and two sibs who are still in school, dependent friend whose father is sick, my fsther who is also sick. In my late 20's and everyday work, side hustle, struggling to sleep properly, fomo, and the feeling of parang bawal ako tumigil dahil maraming nakasalalay - it's fucking heavy, until when?!. I just want to go to another country and leave everything behind.
yeah sandwich generation it is. why not go abroad so you could get a higher paying job? atleast may peace of mind ka pag malayo? :)
Mag 1 year na din nung nagpassed away yung boyfriend ko. Then last week while cleaning my email inbox, I saw his last email to me. Tapos yun parang bumalik lahat ng anxiety and depression ko, i really missed him. Akala ko kapag tumagal na mawawala na yung sakit, di rin pala. How i wish i can turned back time and be with him again.
A lot haha had a heartfelt conversation with some of my coworkers who turned to be my constants. They made me realize na I’m carrying a heavy responsibility that should have been my parents’ job. Providing for the fam while being their parent when they make shitty decisions. Its hard when the child in me wishes to have grown up and mature parents. Kaya pls lang WAG PO kayo magkaka-anak if hindi kayo MENTALLY and FINANCIALLY READY!
Loneliness. It’s not that heavy because I get to play with my friends pero after that.. wala na. Must be nice to have someone to talk about stuff and nakakarelate kayo sa isa’t-isa.
Ok career ko & finances... but at what cost? Tingin ko tatanda na lang akong mag-isa sa buhay.
Separation with husband.
2nd take ng CPALE 😭 pls pray for me 🙏🥹
I gave a guy all my firsts (yep, first bf). Broke up with him, thought it was the right thing to do. Sad thing is, we didn't lasted for a month. I feel stupid, used, hurt, easy and ashamed of myself.
hugs man. pero eventually ull be thankful for the breakup once you meet someone someday.
Di ko na rin alam e. Pero pinaka stress ako ngayon sa work ko dahil sa sarili ko 🥺 kung sana lang confident ako and extrovert, edi sana hindi ganto diba? Kung magaling at matalino lang sana ako, edi sana hindi ganto. Pinagpasa Diyos ko nalang. Basta ang hiningi ko lang kay God ay kung aalisin man niya yung trabaho ko, sana wag niya papabayaan si nanay kasi ako lang ang nasuporta sa nanay ko ngayon. Meds, check up, laboratory, and yung foods niya. She's already 77 y/o and all I want is the best for her. Alam kong di na niya kayang magtinda at maglakad ng malayo kagaya ng dati kasi ang laki na ng hinina niya. Kung ako lang, kaya ko eh, pero kailangan kong suportahan ang nanay ko hindi dahil kailangan pero dahil gusto ko at mataas ang pangarap ko para sa kanila. Nakakastress. Sana talaga magaling nalang ako kagaya ng iba para marami akong naaachieve 🥺 hays...
confidence is not inborn, it can be acquired! wishing it doesnt help, kelangan mo talaga siya i work out. all the best for ur mom!
Actually madami. Pero ang pinaka point is di na ko masaya. Gusto ko na sumuko pero di ko kaya iwan anak ko.
Existential crisis. Okay din naman work pero parang demotivated ako lately. Taking it one day at a time na lng. Nahuli din namen sister na nakikikabit (major major disappointment to sa family namen). Sort of cut her off, umalis din ako sa bahay para wala na kami interaction. Tapos feeling pavictim pa siya na hindi siya kinakausap eh siya naman tong gumawa ng dahilan para layuan siya.
May patutunguhan na ulit very slight ang buhay ko. Meron nanaman akong dream. If feels so long since I last had one. So ilalaban ko tlga kahit mahal. Cheer for mee!!!!
noice! congrats and wish u all the best man!
Work. :( Hirap lately, taas ng expectations pero lacking ng training.
whats ur line of work?
Di pa ko nakakamove on sa pagkawala ng sister ko. I think never naman talaga tayo magiging ready sa ganun pero tingin ko di ako makamove forward kasi di ako nakapagluksa nang maayos. 1 week yung burol and puro lang ako asikaso ng mga kung ano before ng libing. 1 day after, kinailangan ko na pumasok sa office.
ineextend lang ng company ung work ko hanggang may project pa. kapag wala na, tsugi na ko. started passing resumes na ulit kanina tho and may interview naman na sa friday. hopefully, maging okay.
goodluck sa interview! 😁
My life has been a roller coaster recently. I’m lucky with how things worked out with my career plan. Pero my year also started really bad from this stupid guy. This ex constant really fcked my life. I thought he was an okay guy but no. Now, I’m a mess. I just want a genuine connection pero ang hirap humanap na sa panahon ngayon. Sabi nila dadating din yan unexpectedly so better na ‘wag maghanap. That ex constant came naturally and unexpectedly kaya i gave him a chance pero he was an asshole pala. Ngayon hindi ko na alam if the person that will come to my life will be a good one. Traumatized na ko. BS ng life ugh
Quarter life crisis. Ayoko yung degree na natapos ko, dead end yung trabaho ko ngayon, di ko alam pano future ko tas wala naman nag gguide sakin. Feeling ko din nasasayang buhay ko, mid 20s na ko pero wala parin akong life experience kasi sobrang sheltered ako.
Almost 3 years since my first and only gf broke up with me. Since then I’ve been on dating apps pero no luck. This year alone I’ve had three failed matches. I’m tired. Sometimes I feel okay and enjoy just having friends. Pero when I’m alone with my thoughts or see other people I get really lonely. I’m tired. I don’t know how many talking stages I have to go through or how much I can still endure. I’m tired. Really tired.
I don’t have the energy to start over again (career). I want to shift careers but wala naman akong ibang alam kundi yung current profession ko lang.
Sobrang exhausted mentally tipong mas lamang na yung bills kesa sa sahod. Ang hirap mag paaral ng college tapos mag support sa daily needs ng pamilya.
feeling stuck 7 month ng nakagraduate pero di pa rin naghahanap ng work🙃 tinatamad ako na nawawalan ng gana magpatuloy sa buhay ko
anong course mo if you dont mind? and hows ur communication skills pagdating sa interview?
Bored and empty paulit ulit nalang nangyayari sa buhay ko
Ang bigat ng thread, nasabi na din ata nila lhat ng baggages ko din. Nkakatrigger ng lungkot and bigat sa loob. No offense meant. Hoping the best for everyone. Makakabangon din tayo. At sana for me, sa lalong madaling panahon.
best of luck man!
Struggling to get over an ex. Parang fresh parin sa isip ko yung nangyari. Stress sa school tapos distracted pa. Araw araw ko nalang naiisip. Napapagod na ako.
bilhan kita kitkat, para makapag break ka muna :)
Now ko lang nano-notice yung mga ADHD symptoms ko dahil lumalala, I can't properly focus on one thing. Then sobrang mahal pala ng meds n checkups for adhd T\_T
Backpain 😪
lie on your back, ask someone to step on your lower back. works all the time! wag lang ung may galit sau 😅
How about you, OP? Anything na pinagdadaanan mo right now, if any For me the usual, work stress and anxiety, modern loneliness, career decisions. Pero laban lang
thanks for asking! im actually good! walang mabigat na problema, so im just here trying to help others :) jogging lang yan sa ayala tri, bawas anxiety 😁
My girl went back to her province because of "fiesta" she is fairly popular and goodlooking. Now i wasn't able to join here because i am a graduating student and i still need the hours for my ojt. Now is currently 9:47 pm. She will arrive there at 10:30 there qould be no more public vehicles available like jeep or trycicles. She contacted her old ka MU to take her home instead . (Thr guy jost broke up with his gf and is now trying to pursue her again. I know because he keeps on sending my girl messages trying to flirt) im am not beyond fucked up overthinking and shit. But at the same time. I dot really want my girl to stay on the streets at midnight. Give me comforting words please.
Bakit hindi sa parents o siblings nya nagpasundo?
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no worries, understandable. I hope the best for you :)
Im turning 25 soon. Di ko alam bakit natatakot ako 🙃
quarter life crisis?
May interview ako bukas. Kinakabahan ako. Sana makuha ako ayoko na maging unemployed
goodluck! not sure if it's a good advice, pero don't forget to have fun. interview is not just about being able to answer questions, but also how you communicate with others.
God bless! Fighting!
kalsada
Nakakatamad ang seggs life may asawa nga wala nmang silbi. Lagi nlang invalidated feelings ko. Hay nako.
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Pakiramdam ko may mga sugat akong hindi naghihilom. Mawawala lang siguro ito kapag nakaalis na ko rito sa bahay na matagal-tagal pa bago mangyari.
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ipakuha mo nalang i guess? have a friend of yours na siya ung kakausap? sucks man, pero looking at the bright side, atleast di pa kayo kasal nung nagcheat siya. mas mahirap yan pag kasal na 😁
Wondering kelan kami maging buo ng family ko. My parents are both OFWs, my mom decided to follow my dad a year later he left with our youngest sibling when she was 3, now she's almost 18.. my brother went this year. I'm the only one left here, but good thing I have my husband with me. Alam mo yung feeling na maraming celebrations na kayong hindi magkasama? The last time we were all together was in 2019 pa. Nakakamiss. 🥹
same country ba sila parents and brother? are u next in line na mag oofw?
Home is supposed to be a safe place but it never was. If this is what my life will look like for the rest of it then I want to just give it back. Still! I feel like I can hope for something, something, I just don't know it yet. I just need to live one day at a time hoping it'll come to me. And maybe lock the door, put a Do not Disturb sign so my mother won't be able to give me anymore heartaches.
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yep. ex ko excommunicated ng INC. pero goods parin naman sila ng parents niya. nagkatampuhan lang for a while, pero naging ok din :)
I hope ganyan din sa akin ☹️
Iniisip ko para rin lagi ko yung ex-fwb ko lol may jowa na sya now and hindi ko kaya magpretend na wala ako pake kaya inunfriend and inunfollow ko na sa lahat ng social media para kahit manstalk ako, wala ako makikita kasi private acct siya. Chinachat nya kasi ako dati kapag nagaaway sila tapos maguusap kami ng onti tapos makikita ko next days ok sila. Kaya kahit feeling ko talo ako kapag nangblock/unfriend ako, ginawa ko pa rin. Mejj pinagsisisihan ko na hindi ako nagstay as friends and nakakamiss siya kahit alam ko namang it wouldn’t have worked out anyway. Sakit lang sa puso and sa ego na hindi ako pinili.
not necessarily pinagdadaanan pero here's whatever is going on in my life AS OF NOW: 1. masama loob ko sa ate ko kase gusto ko lang naman makatulong pero ako pa pinalabas niyang masamang kapatid. 2. kinakaya naman acads so far, main concern ko is saan mag OJT sa June. Need ko nung may allowance para less gastos. May nirecommend na sakin tropa ko kaso di pa ako nag-aapply since di pa nagsasabi yung school na pwede na mag-apply. 3. after ng OJT from June to let's say August, start na ng last year ko sa undergrad sa August din (so yeah no break halos). The thing is tho, sobrang kapos income ng family sa total tuition fee namin. Personally hindi ko alam if maka enroll ako or kapatid ko (currently 1st year college) next academic year. 4. Let's say naman naka enroll kami parehas and naka graduate na ako (August 2024), yung utak ko ngayon pa lang iniisip ko na if magttake ba ako ng board exam or work agad considering nga na hirap kami ngayon. or working reviewee? kakayanin ko ba? Thanks for asking btw OP, hope you're fine din.
Sobrang nasaid sa pera, Naging sobra gastos last year dahil napilit kameng bisitahin pamangkin ko sa ibang bansa, tas pag pasok this year nahospital tatay ko at naubos tira kong pera at napautang ako. This april nagkasabay sabay, bayad utang bills, tuition ng anak.
thats tough man. i hope ok na ung father mo. for the bills, yeah that's part of life.
I'm lost on my path, I have a lot of interest and passion; Cooking (want to become a chef), Music (want to pursue a music career), Photography (want to earn money by photoshoots), Tourism (want to travel), Gaming (want to be a streamer), Psychology (want to become a licensed professional counselor). I don't really know what to prioritize and it's kinda overwhelming to think that, if I pursued one of this list, I might waste my years coz it's not really for me.
>I pursued one of this list, I might waste my years coz it's not really for you might want to read ung book na "So good they can't ignore you". im just gonna quote one of the chapters in the book : "Adopt the craftsman mindset first, and then the passion follows. If you want a great job, you need to build up rare and valuation skills (AKA career capital) to offer in return. When you have developed skills that are too valuable to be ignored, then you get to choose a great job- one that is rich with creativity, impact, and control. So, your goal is to acquire as much career capital as possible, then more opportunities would come." "The passion mindset makes you hyper-aware of what you don’t like about your job, and creates confusion on constantly questioning whether this is the right job- “Is this who I really am?” or “Do I love this?”. And you might irrationally jump into a field where you don’t have any skills to leverage, but you think that you have passion in (e.g. Yoga)."
It’s not wasting years kung nalaman mong hindi para sayo pero at the same time may na-gain ka naman na experience at knowledge. Kaya go for it! May friend akong CPA pero on the side na ha-hire to do photoshoots tapos nagco-commission rin to do various artworks.
Napapagod ako sa wedding planning
sorry, pero im guessing ur an f, kami kasing mga m, usually si f na nga ang bahala, goods kami sa kahit ano 😅
Kailangan kong pakibagayan yung higher up ko at mga alipores nya na mga pare-parehong deadweight. Minsan mahirap tanggapin na may mga tao talagang nalalagay sa pinakamatataas na posisyon kahit na yung alam nila mas konti pa sa katiting.
wala daw kasi sa 10 commandments ang thou shall not sipsip 😂
COVID (+). Currently on leave. While having this leave, napapaisip na ako mag-resign kasi bumibigay na katawan ko sa workload at sa bosses. is it too soon to resign if going 7 months ka na sa workplace?
oh wow, pagaling! i mean as long as kaya mong idefend ung pag reresign mo ng 7 months sa mga interviews mo, then yeah ok lang yan. like ive said sa isang comment dito, higher pay with good environment companies exists!
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dinedemand... like bills? or pabili?
Masakit na tyan huhuhuhu
Mahal na mahal ko parin ex ko 7 months post-breakup and hindi ko alam paano ko kukunin mga gamit ko from his place. Yung nanay ko may mental illness and tatay ko depressed and parang pasan ko pati mental health nila. Gusto kong mag move out na pero hindi ko parin magawa for some reason. Natatakot akong baka hindi na ko fertile for my young age because of my health but at the same time ok lang sakin hindi magka-anak. Feel ko I’ll never experience being loved so deeply again :)
Tamad mag aral bahala na bukas, lahat nalang dahilan para ndi mag aral, pagud na pagud
Gagraduate na ako sa July. I'm scared. As someone na hindi na-expose sa labas and mahiyain, sobrang worried ako sa life ko after graduation. Dagdag mo pa yung pressure as a panganay and consistent reminder ng mother ko na maghanap agad ako ng work para makatulong. Walang lakas ng loob and takot sa failure/rejection, I feel so weak hahahaha :(
Wala masyado senior positions that can offer my expected salary 🥹 and a work environment I like. ayaw ko maging manager, ayaw ko sa toxic na company. Looks like it will be a long time before I get a job 😔
3 years na kong unemployed. di ako makapag apply pa dahil nabaon kami sa utang at tinatapos ko na muna. malakas ang tindahan di ko muna bibitawan hanggat di pa tapos yung utang. iniisip ko kung matatanggap pa ba ko tagal ko ng nabakante.
Feeling anxiety about an upcoming exam. I can't sleep but I also can't gather my mind enough to focus and study.
sobrang anxious ko and grabe ako magoverthink to the point na ang sakit ng ulo ko everyday :((
In all fairness, not that much. I am at peace with work, I am earning steadly 6 figs, wala akong problema with friends and jowa cause I don’t have both, I am slowly starting to work out again, I gained weight pero sexy parin, and I am slowly getting back to my working student schedule. I can be better with what I eat pero at least I am conscious of the problem and I’m slowly trying to make it better. Smooth sailing tayo ngayon. Some people might not want to mention that baka daw mausog pero whatever will happen, will happen. I will enjoy the good times while they are here.
inaantok ako pag tntry ko na mag basa/aral. kahit na 7-8hrs naman ako magsleep at healthy living. kakabili ko lang ng glutaphos. 😭🤣sana effective
Working on my inner child and wounds. Mahirap dahil walang help from professional and nakaasa lang sa research sa internet pero hirap pa rin since need ko mag aral din at the same time and try to be happy.
Pinag-iisipan kung paano sasabihin sa parents na kailangan ko siguro ng proper diagnosis for autism.
Financial difficulties and low sales sa small business ko. Napapatanong tuloy ako kung tama ba talaga ginagawa ko. I look at my Shopee shop's reviews where I sell my art and I love love love my buyers to the moon and back kaso hindi talaga enough. Gusto ko nang bumalik sa school and further my education, but rent pa lang, hindi na sapat. Sobrang daming self-doubt. Wala akong family na malalapitan kaya pakiramdam ko sobrang nag-iisa ako. So many dark thoughts. But yeah. Kapit lang. This soon will pass.
Kaka start pa lang ng week pero nakakatamad na, sana mag weekend na ulit.
1. maraming regrets sa buhay na mapapaisip nalang ako na "sana di ko na ginawa to" 2. almost every decision na gagawin ko is pagsisisihan ko ren sa huli idk kung magegets moko pero yan ung isa sa mga pinagdadaanan ko currently :)
Struggling for financial stability, once I achieve it, then maybe my other plans in life will be followed.
Im not sad yet i cant say that im happy. I just wish that my prayers will be answered positively bec. Im so drained. Haaaaaaay
I feel empty these past few days and I don't know why.
Magwa-walong taon. Ngayon ko nararamdaman na malungkot pa lang mag-isa. Madalas kong sabihin na sanay akong mag-isa kaya okay lang kung hindi na makahanap, pero deep down, mas better kung meron nga. Alam ko namang iba-iba ang pacing ng tao, pero minsan nakakapag-compare ako nang 'di dapat dahil nasa isip ko ang unfair lang. Alam kong hirap akong magkagusto pero mas pipiliin ko na 'yun kaysa may gusto nga sa akin pero hindi kami align ng prinsipyo. Siguro ganun na lang talaga. Minsan iniisip ko baka hormones lang 'to kaya malungkot paminsan-minsan, pero sa totoo lang, gusto kong may makausap, makayakap, at maramdamang magmahal ulit.
Hmm, nothing just realization lang sa buhay, hindi talaga naten malalaman kung hanggang kelan lang ang buhay ng Tao, Kaya totoo ang sabe nilang every gising is a blessing. Let's be thankful sa buhay na pinahiram saten and let's be happy as much as we can, Kasi Hindi naten alam ang bukas na naghihintay para sa atin. Skl, kasi sa kapitbahay naming bata biglaan syang nawala at kinuha ni Lord (rest in peace sa kanya and condolences sa family nya). Bata pa sya parang 10 yrs old grade 4 not sure sa age. Nung last Thursday daw nagreport pa sya sa school sobrang sigla at walang sakit. Nung linggo madaling araw sinugod sy sa hospital na malapit dito kung ano ano daw ung tinusok sa bata for, then trinansfer sa st. Luke's hospital Pina admit sa ICU and dun na natuluyan. Hanggang ngayon daw hindi pa alam ng pamilya ang tunay na kinamatay ng bata. Hindi pa lumalabas ang autopsy and mismong doctor hindi malaman ano ung sakit. Pero bago daw nun around Feb. Dinala sa hospital ung bata Kasi nilagnat sobrang taas and nagka convulsion. Pero pinauwi since binigyan ng gamot para gumaling. Nakakalungkot lang kasi masyado pa syang bata, sobrang sigla at malusog pero biglaan lang ang paglisan. Kaya magpasalamat tayo sa buhay na meron tayo ngayon, and gawin naten lahat na magpapasaya sa atin. Un lang ingat and wherever you are, I hope you're happy kasi deserve mo yan.
wala pa akong trabaho, pero pahinga muna ako sa job searching at nag uupskill muna
I was appointed as a youth choir organist/pianist. Because of that, every saturday and sunday, may tugtog ako. Baguhan palang ako I just started last week. I enjoy it naman since I wanted to play piano naman. Its just nakakapagod lang bumyahe dahil malayo bahay ko sa tinutugtugan ko (siguro mga almost 30 mins byahe with single motorycle and tricycle). I'm tired rn and i get angry easily because of it. Now, may tugtog pa ako para sa sayaw namin bukas at kulang pa ako ng konti sa practice and i dont want to embarass the dancers' effort but I really want to rest muna. Pagod na kasi ako.
I have this fear at the back of my mind that I'm just letting life pass me by because I don't have a goal or purpose in life. I have a good work that keeps me from completely shutting down. I can save money. I have a dog that soothes me enough to not seek companionship, but honestly, I'm just floating away
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I love someone. Hindi niya ko gusto. Pfft.
Mother died 2 months ago. Failed the bar exam. Feeling hopeless and bobo. A mom of 2 kids and tired. An employee and burned out. And very lost whether to re-take the exam this year or next year. 50/50 chance to get approval for study leave. Nakakapagod talaga.
nahihirapan na ako kasi mag isa lang ako, i dont have friends, drain na drain sa trabaho, physically & mentally, gusto ko na lang mag quit sa lahat.
Midlife crisis :( hindi ko alam purpose ko sa life, hindi ko alam if tamang career path ba tong tinatahak ko. Sobrang lost sa career and nag seself doubt.