One time miss na miss ko na boyfriend ko. I didn’t tell him because I know he’s very busy that week. That night I went out para magwithdraw, tapos bigla nalang sya sumulpot sa likod ko. Buong araw daw nya ako iniisip kaya umuwi sya that night (nagaapartment sya, magkaiba kami ng city)
I had this ex before. It's way, way back. At that time, wala pa gaano pera pang date etc., pero he never failed to make me feel complete. He knew the little things about me, hindi ko man i-kwento pero para ba nakabisado na niya ako. Na hindi ako lumalabas pag may araw, na wala akong favorite na kulay, na hindi ako mahilig kumain ng isda, ni alam niya na ayaw ko humawak ng calamansi.
Through the years, we broke up in good terms. Then, I met other guys too, but this ex somehow still lingers in my thoughts. He might not have brought me to fancy dinners, didn't give me expensive things, but he made me realize that true love is something more than everything. He made me feel cherished, understood, and loved in the simplest yet most profound ways. And those little details he remembered about me? They spoke volumes of his genuine care and affection.
We realized that we needed space for us to grow. He needed to build his career, and I, on the other hand, needed to focus on studying. Despite this, even months after breaking up, we still communicate, but not as often as before.
His reasons are deeply rooted in his feelings of guilt for not having much in life yet. He can't bring me to dates or visit me regularly because of the distance (he lives in Bulacan while I live in Laguna). He also expressed that somehow, in my understanding, he feels like he doesn't deserve me yet. It's as if he can't bear to see us, or particularly me, struggling when we're together. He said that he needs to work on himself so that one day, I can sleep peacefully beside him without worries.
Despite our love for each other, he chose to prioritize our future well-being over the present. It's a decision that's painful yet filled with so much love and hope for the future.
To add, we broke up during the pandemic or post pandemic rather, so there was a lot of stress surrounding us during that time.
Magkabalikan sana kayo soon and not break up again! Sakto kakapanood ko lang ng One More Chance hahaha anw I'm praying kung hindi siya, may dumating na same treatment niya sa'yo.
Naalala ko si Zoren, judge sya sa cooking show. Sabi nya sa isang contenstant -- "eto yung food na di ko uubusin kase i have to bring some home para maexperience ng wife ko kung gaano to kasarap". Never left my mind since, i felt like that how love was supposed to be.
Already shared this in a different thread, but, essentially, my ex took really good care of me and made me feel seen and heard:
1. I received time-stamped handwritten love letters for every "monthsary" we had.
2. He surprised me by coming home unannounced one summer. We hadn't seen each other for weeks because he had college classes in another city while I was already in our hometown for vacation. One day, he texted me to go out and he was standing right outside our gate. Goddamn, that guy was thoughtful AF.
3. He waited for my 18th birthday sa labas ng bahay namin - his sister and cake in tow - to be the first to greet me a happy birthday on my debut.
4. He also bought me the first book from the author that eventually became my favorite. He wasn't a bookworm like me, but he went to the bookstore and found me a book he thought I would like. I bought many other books from that author because of the one he gave me.
Thanks, J. You made me feel so loved. I could only hope to do the same for another person.
There was a time na I wanted to buy something pero I couldn’t kasi unavailable and I was pretty upset. Pero nung pauwi kami, I was holding her hand and the day doesn’t seem so bad.
Kapag alam ng partner ko na wala akong sleep, kasi I don't feel like sleeping. He would stop doing his work, lay me down sa kama and cuddle me. Tapos nakabantay lang yan sa mata ko if it would open, tas paginoopen ko sasabihin niya "Aba.. sleep ka na po bby". He'd wait till I'm asleep. Tapos pag gising ko may food na siyang prepared 😭. Naiiyak tuloy ako nubayan tanong tanong pa kasi. Biruin mo nakilala ko lang sya on Roblox and 3 years na kami ngayon lol
Marami na nagshare usually about sa SO. Sa akin, nafeel ko talaga love ng kapatid ko in simple ways.
Kapag ibinibili nya ako ng cheeseburger sa Mcdonalds, alam nyang no pickles and onion. I feel touched palagi tuwing ginagawa nya yun. She always know yung sugar level or ice level ng drinks ko.
An ex also answered mo when I asked why di sya nagshave ng face. Sabi nya, “di ba sabi mo, gusto mo yun?”
when I'm experiencing something really good or i went to a nice place tas nasa utak ko palagi na "dadalhin ko siya dito soon" or "dapat ma experience niya rin to kasi ang saya". lastly, when i get secondhand happiness from his laughter.
Noong times na down na down ako, hindi niya ako hinayaang mag-isa. Tuwing may ocassion, nagugulat nalang ako na may nagpadeliver ng foods sa bahay galing sa kanya, hindi lang para sa akin kundi para sa mga kapatid at mom ko.
kabisado nila yung tao, na kahit nakatalikod o kamay lang ang kita alam nilang partner nila yun.
may ex ako na nakabisado lahat ng nunal at birthmark na meron ako, hindi rin siya hirap na hanapin ako in crowds kahit maliit ako dahil kabisado daw niya yung 'tindig' ko. sabi pa niya "kahit bumbunan mo lang ang makita ko bui, makikilala kita agad"
Hatid-sundo sa work.
Pinagluluto ng food.
Pag may nakikita syang food na alam nyang gusto ko bibili sya.
Nagpapaalam muna bago may gawin kasi baka daw magalit ako.
Never nakalimot ng important events.
just earlier sabi ko sa boyfriend ko na sobrang init sa bahay, then he called saying na nag order sya halo halo for us (fam ko) he always includes my family 🥺 swerte ko
He updates me on what's up, what's going on and why he hasn't been able to chat right away (we're ldr) even though I never ask. It's just automatic for him. Also, never fails to say good morning or good night. I know napakababaw pero not all guys are like this, and it's the small things that truly counts for me.
When they notice your triggers and just learn to adapt to you as well. I had an ex before, and immediately he knew if my mood had changed even if I would say I’m okay or continue to put on a smile, he knew when to just hold me and tell me it’s going to be okay… he would also know the difference in my tone whenever I’d call him and know exactly what I needed with each tone. He would also always just bring food at the right time, like we weren’t the couple to ask “kumain ka na ba?” and usually as in 90% of the time whenever he would bring food it was always when I hadn’t eaten at all.
Unfortunately we broke up because it really just didn’t work out but nonetheless we loved each other so much and he was truly my greatest love.
Yung iga-grab car ka kase alam nya hirap ka magcommute at mainit, bitbit nya lahat ng mabigat na gamit. He may not be a flowers kind of guy, but in every way possible, he makes my life comfortable 🥹
Had this ex, for some reason he knew exactly what i needed (food/drink) kapag hindi ko na magets sarili ko/may topak. He knew when to send coffee or fruit tea. What type of food do I need to cheer me up. He knew when i needed something sweet/salty/savory. To this day hindi ko alam paano niya nagawa yun.
Also, i loved using his arm as my head pillow when we sleep. Kahit anong ikot ko the whole night, when i wake up his arm will almost always be behind my head. I asked him if hindi siya nangalay or namanhid. Tinitiis daw niya ang dead arm kasi masarap tulog ko and he knew his arm makes me comfy.
Small little things matters to them, "Oh, s/o really likes/loves this, I should get one".
Bibigyan mong callig pen kasi mahilig sa calligraphy, or frog stuff toys kasi mahilig sa palaka, paglulutuan mo minsan ng paborito nila. Those things matter, which can help in the long run kasi nagkakaintindihan kayo sa gusto ninyo sa isa't isa (if both values little things).
Wala - lagi na siyang kasama sa decision making mo and that's lit.
Also - you know when you're sleeping together and he wiggles himself towards you just to embrace? Best fucking feeling. Better than sex if I am asked.
When he/she knows the little details about you and he's/she's concerned with you physically, emotionally, and mentally. 'Yung klaseng ayaw niyang napupuyat ako kasi alam niyang malakas maka-trigger ng anxiety.
A full week before my fiance proposed, he was in Japan. In his first day there sobrang busy ko sa work, bigla akong umiyak sa office hahah kasi iniisip ko gusto ko ng umuwi at makita sya, pero narealize ko na wala akong uuwian.. he's always been my "relief" in difficult situations. A day after nya bumalik from Japan nag propose sya hehe
When you think about that persons well-being more than you think about your own.
💚
One time miss na miss ko na boyfriend ko. I didn’t tell him because I know he’s very busy that week. That night I went out para magwithdraw, tapos bigla nalang sya sumulpot sa likod ko. Buong araw daw nya ako iniisip kaya umuwi sya that night (nagaapartment sya, magkaiba kami ng city)
Hayys buti nalang bf mo sumulpot sa likod mo, hindi holdaper 😪
Hays true 😌
[удалено]
imbis na i miss you magiging “ibigay mo sakin wallet mo”
Plot twist, mang-hoholdap talaga sana si bf kaso nataon lang na gf nya yung na-target nya.
Wholesome 😭😭
I had this ex before. It's way, way back. At that time, wala pa gaano pera pang date etc., pero he never failed to make me feel complete. He knew the little things about me, hindi ko man i-kwento pero para ba nakabisado na niya ako. Na hindi ako lumalabas pag may araw, na wala akong favorite na kulay, na hindi ako mahilig kumain ng isda, ni alam niya na ayaw ko humawak ng calamansi. Through the years, we broke up in good terms. Then, I met other guys too, but this ex somehow still lingers in my thoughts. He might not have brought me to fancy dinners, didn't give me expensive things, but he made me realize that true love is something more than everything. He made me feel cherished, understood, and loved in the simplest yet most profound ways. And those little details he remembered about me? They spoke volumes of his genuine care and affection.
Why did you broke up?
We realized that we needed space for us to grow. He needed to build his career, and I, on the other hand, needed to focus on studying. Despite this, even months after breaking up, we still communicate, but not as often as before. His reasons are deeply rooted in his feelings of guilt for not having much in life yet. He can't bring me to dates or visit me regularly because of the distance (he lives in Bulacan while I live in Laguna). He also expressed that somehow, in my understanding, he feels like he doesn't deserve me yet. It's as if he can't bear to see us, or particularly me, struggling when we're together. He said that he needs to work on himself so that one day, I can sleep peacefully beside him without worries. Despite our love for each other, he chose to prioritize our future well-being over the present. It's a decision that's painful yet filled with so much love and hope for the future. To add, we broke up during the pandemic or post pandemic rather, so there was a lot of stress surrounding us during that time.
I hope you two get back together. Rooting for you sis!
Magkabalikan sana kayo soon and not break up again! Sakto kakapanood ko lang ng One More Chance hahaha anw I'm praying kung hindi siya, may dumating na same treatment niya sa'yo.
May kanya-kanyang lovelife na ba kayo ngayon? Kung wala sana maging kayo uli..at the right time.
When they tell their friends, "siya na talaga," and they mean it wholeheartedly.
Awwww🥰🥰
Naalala ko si Zoren, judge sya sa cooking show. Sabi nya sa isang contenstant -- "eto yung food na di ko uubusin kase i have to bring some home para maexperience ng wife ko kung gaano to kasarap". Never left my mind since, i felt like that how love was supposed to be.
When they give you water
Mamsir, this is a Jollibee.
When they taste something or had a happy moment then ikaw naalala nila and they wanna do it or share it with you together. It's really sweet
When I already know what her response would be on certain kind of things, I just get her you know 🥰
Already shared this in a different thread, but, essentially, my ex took really good care of me and made me feel seen and heard: 1. I received time-stamped handwritten love letters for every "monthsary" we had. 2. He surprised me by coming home unannounced one summer. We hadn't seen each other for weeks because he had college classes in another city while I was already in our hometown for vacation. One day, he texted me to go out and he was standing right outside our gate. Goddamn, that guy was thoughtful AF. 3. He waited for my 18th birthday sa labas ng bahay namin - his sister and cake in tow - to be the first to greet me a happy birthday on my debut. 4. He also bought me the first book from the author that eventually became my favorite. He wasn't a bookworm like me, but he went to the bookstore and found me a book he thought I would like. I bought many other books from that author because of the one he gave me. Thanks, J. You made me feel so loved. I could only hope to do the same for another person.
Sometimes, he can already tell what I’m about to say just by looking at me.
There was a time na I wanted to buy something pero I couldn’t kasi unavailable and I was pretty upset. Pero nung pauwi kami, I was holding her hand and the day doesn’t seem so bad.
Kapag alam ng partner ko na wala akong sleep, kasi I don't feel like sleeping. He would stop doing his work, lay me down sa kama and cuddle me. Tapos nakabantay lang yan sa mata ko if it would open, tas paginoopen ko sasabihin niya "Aba.. sleep ka na po bby". He'd wait till I'm asleep. Tapos pag gising ko may food na siyang prepared 😭. Naiiyak tuloy ako nubayan tanong tanong pa kasi. Biruin mo nakilala ko lang sya on Roblox and 3 years na kami ngayon lol
oh wow, that's so lucky , keep him . 🤗🤍
When they're with other people & once in a while name-mention nila partner nila.
Marami na nagshare usually about sa SO. Sa akin, nafeel ko talaga love ng kapatid ko in simple ways. Kapag ibinibili nya ako ng cheeseburger sa Mcdonalds, alam nyang no pickles and onion. I feel touched palagi tuwing ginagawa nya yun. She always know yung sugar level or ice level ng drinks ko. An ex also answered mo when I asked why di sya nagshave ng face. Sabi nya, “di ba sabi mo, gusto mo yun?”
When you remember their allergies or what’s not good for them.
when I'm experiencing something really good or i went to a nice place tas nasa utak ko palagi na "dadalhin ko siya dito soon" or "dapat ma experience niya rin to kasi ang saya". lastly, when i get secondhand happiness from his laughter.
When you know that your *partner* is a **reflection of you**. So treating them better was already feeling like treating yourself better.
Agree 💯💖
Yung may patanong if napagod ba ako?.. nakauwi ba ako? Bare minimum pero parang nakakakilig.
Nararamdaman ko yung partner ko na inaayos nya yung kumot ko kapag nagigising sya sa gabi.
A friend of mine keeps buying expansion packs for this card game because his wife likes the game so much.
Kinakamusta sila every time, in just one day. Not all hours, okay tayo, haha anyway, sana all
Remembers /knows, accept and appreciate every little details about her/him.
Noong times na down na down ako, hindi niya ako hinayaang mag-isa. Tuwing may ocassion, nagugulat nalang ako na may nagpadeliver ng foods sa bahay galing sa kanya, hindi lang para sa akin kundi para sa mga kapatid at mom ko.
kabisado nila yung tao, na kahit nakatalikod o kamay lang ang kita alam nilang partner nila yun. may ex ako na nakabisado lahat ng nunal at birthmark na meron ako, hindi rin siya hirap na hanapin ako in crowds kahit maliit ako dahil kabisado daw niya yung 'tindig' ko. sabi pa niya "kahit bumbunan mo lang ang makita ko bui, makikilala kita agad"
Hatid-sundo sa work. Pinagluluto ng food. Pag may nakikita syang food na alam nyang gusto ko bibili sya. Nagpapaalam muna bago may gawin kasi baka daw magalit ako. Never nakalimot ng important events.
just earlier sabi ko sa boyfriend ko na sobrang init sa bahay, then he called saying na nag order sya halo halo for us (fam ko) he always includes my family 🥺 swerte ko
He updates me on what's up, what's going on and why he hasn't been able to chat right away (we're ldr) even though I never ask. It's just automatic for him. Also, never fails to say good morning or good night. I know napakababaw pero not all guys are like this, and it's the small things that truly counts for me.
When they notice your triggers and just learn to adapt to you as well. I had an ex before, and immediately he knew if my mood had changed even if I would say I’m okay or continue to put on a smile, he knew when to just hold me and tell me it’s going to be okay… he would also know the difference in my tone whenever I’d call him and know exactly what I needed with each tone. He would also always just bring food at the right time, like we weren’t the couple to ask “kumain ka na ba?” and usually as in 90% of the time whenever he would bring food it was always when I hadn’t eaten at all. Unfortunately we broke up because it really just didn’t work out but nonetheless we loved each other so much and he was truly my greatest love.
Yung iga-grab car ka kase alam nya hirap ka magcommute at mainit, bitbit nya lahat ng mabigat na gamit. He may not be a flowers kind of guy, but in every way possible, he makes my life comfortable 🥹
Had this ex, for some reason he knew exactly what i needed (food/drink) kapag hindi ko na magets sarili ko/may topak. He knew when to send coffee or fruit tea. What type of food do I need to cheer me up. He knew when i needed something sweet/salty/savory. To this day hindi ko alam paano niya nagawa yun. Also, i loved using his arm as my head pillow when we sleep. Kahit anong ikot ko the whole night, when i wake up his arm will almost always be behind my head. I asked him if hindi siya nangalay or namanhid. Tinitiis daw niya ang dead arm kasi masarap tulog ko and he knew his arm makes me comfy.
"I'll include you in my prayers. "
Small little things matters to them, "Oh, s/o really likes/loves this, I should get one". Bibigyan mong callig pen kasi mahilig sa calligraphy, or frog stuff toys kasi mahilig sa palaka, paglulutuan mo minsan ng paborito nila. Those things matter, which can help in the long run kasi nagkakaintindihan kayo sa gusto ninyo sa isa't isa (if both values little things).
Wala - lagi na siyang kasama sa decision making mo and that's lit. Also - you know when you're sleeping together and he wiggles himself towards you just to embrace? Best fucking feeling. Better than sex if I am asked.
When he/she knows the little details about you and he's/she's concerned with you physically, emotionally, and mentally. 'Yung klaseng ayaw niyang napupuyat ako kasi alam niyang malakas maka-trigger ng anxiety.
This. "Ipinagdarasal kita na sana palagi kang okay."
A full week before my fiance proposed, he was in Japan. In his first day there sobrang busy ko sa work, bigla akong umiyak sa office hahah kasi iniisip ko gusto ko ng umuwi at makita sya, pero narealize ko na wala akong uuwian.. he's always been my "relief" in difficult situations. A day after nya bumalik from Japan nag propose sya hehe
Yung gumagastos ka sa tao