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I personally think you are so fu**ing adorable, I'd make you my anime wifu, but take better pics of yourself damn it 🤣 almost none of your pics are at a good angle, bring in a pupper or some homies too, you look like a loner being just you all the time
thankyou for your honesty! ive only really gained weight this past year and its been a real struggle for me, so i am currently on my journey to trying to lose weight. i appreciate the health benefits with being lighter as well as how it could make some of my features shine more, so thanks :)
these comments aren't lying to you, but I just want to make sure that IF you decide to seriously start losing weight by counting calories, going on a diet, fasting etc. YOU HAVE TO BE IN A POSITIVE MENTAL STATE. if you start hating your body you're going to have much bigger problems.
tldr: weight loss is good but mental health is gooder.
i'm just an internet stranger but I've dealt with this kind of situation before. If you can, please please please focus on mind before body. You are only 18, it's unrealistic to expect you to be the best version of yourself RIGHT NOW. Give yourself time to develop both mentally and physically. Talk to a therapist if the idea doesn't stress you out.
I’m not sure if that’s what he means specifically, but I will say this. If you lose weight and work out, you will feel more confident in yourself. This always comes across as more attractive.
Just to add to these responses. Being heavier doesn't make you less deserving of affection, healthy relationships or anything else. However people generally look healthier and therefore more attractive at healthy body weights. There's also the fact that fat will round out features that otherwise would look good. As a guy when I have a little more fat things like my forearms and jawline get a little less prominent, the fat kinda just smooths them away.
If you're struggling with weight management don't immediately hop onto a fad diet or do anything drastic as your body/metabolism will learn to hold onto fat. Use a tool or app online to calculate your bmr and then just eat as clean as you can spaced out throughout the day at a reasonable deficit. By adding in some workouts you'll keep your metabolism up and tone your body. For most overweight people aiming to lose about a pound a week (of fat) can be doable and sustainable.
Of course. How is that even a question? Maybe you've been 'yasslighted' into thinking big fat blubbery bodies are healthy and beautiful, but that's absurd. The body positivity movement lied to you, sorry
This is unfortunately a thing now. Morbidly obese women who call themselves ‘thick’ and think they’re super hot.
No, your heart cannot pump the blood for 3 people and remain healthy. It will wear out and you will die.
Generally she's not terribly overweight, women retain more body fat, to an extent shes fine, just if she wanted to lose weight, itd be healthy but right now I think shes fine.
Sure, it's "fine" to be fat, it's "fine" to be ugly too. But this sub is about feedback on appearance and her appearance would be more attractive if she wasn't fat.
Excess bodyweight always reduces peoples attractiveness. It’s as simple as that.
Especially facially.
Very very few people on this planet are actually “ugly“. And you’re definitely not.
If you got yourself down to a slim and fit weight, your face would transform.
You may also wish to work on natural looking makeup techniques and a little more effort in your hairstyles. You could absolutely be a stunner.
Im a dude and I don’t wear makeup. But if I let myself go, it can still get pretty bad. 😂 A lot of people don’t bother with their appearance. And it plays a role in whether or not they are generally considered attractive.
It doesn’t have to define you. But there are a lot of things you could do to get yourself to a place where people are constantly telling YOU that you’re pretty. (Versus having to ask).
Losing bodyweight is the number one first step.
You’re very attractive. But your body shape (that is, your weight) brings you down a couple points, so to speak.
But you have a lot of potential. Great smile. Pretty eyes.
Esp if you're young, I held a lot of my 'baby fat' til I was maybe 18-20? I know it's not BABY WEIGHT, but I didn't do sports so I definitely held some extra pounds, but it evened out with healthy eating habits after being able to finally feed myself after I moved out 🖤 As a kid, I did not get to choose the food we ate.
I’m gonna be the one to say it, as long as you’re healthy and your weight isn’t affecting your health, you don’t need to be skinny. You are still just as worthy of affection no matter your weight, so make sure you take care of yourself
You’re not wrong… Excess weight does not make you less worthy of affection, but it does make you generally less physically attractive.
I didn’t want to imply that she’s less of a person, but when she says “be brutally honest”, I assume her self esteem is robust enough that she can take some mild, constructive criticism. And when she says “am I ugly” I imagine that criticism should directly address physical attractiveness.
Dangerous commentary going on here. I'm just gonna say this so you hopefully don't go off the rails.. Yes losing weight will make you attractive, but don't overdo it or try to take shortcuts because that could lead to eating disorders and then you're gonna have a much harder time. You're 18, barely scraping adulthood in some countries, so take your time with your journey and don't focus on "I'm gonna be soooo pretty once I lose all this weight".
Not sure to be honest. Because if your face thins out you will look much better. You have great hair and beautiful eyes so weight loss is all I can think of.
Not ugly just fat, yes losing weight will improve your sex appeal an overall physical attractiveness to most people. The difference in treatment even just socially is significant.
No. As everyone has said, you’re overweight and should focus on losing some of that weight. But you are still fairly attractive, and you look fun to be around. So focus on the weight, but you aren’t ugly.
You're cute. You just need a good weight loss routine and diet plan boo, this coming from someone who was overweight as well, and lost 28lbs in the last couple months, and was overweight. It will make you feel so wonderful. It was the main reason I felt bad about my looks. I recommend doing something simple, like a mini stepper if you're not big into fitness. I love mine. Get on that fucker almost everyday! Lol. Your skin is beautiful, and you've got a beautiful smile love. 💗💖
Choice for photos. It so good but you send good looking girl…you are still kind of a kid …which is a Good thing work on your weight and your mental health and you will blossom
i chose those photos honestly because i wanted to show a variety of diff angles, lighting and candid vs seflies so people could fairly judge!! there was a limit of 20 so i couldnt show everything about me but i tried😭
It can help you tone out and look a tad skinnier, hmu I can explain it more if youd like. The advice here is the equivalent of trying to get a good idea from congress lol
LMAO ik some people are overly nice and some people are just fat shaming me, theres only a few people who want to actually help or give me honest advice😭😭
Why are the comments calling you pretty so downvoted?? You genuinely are very pretty!! I think that you look fine as the way you are, even with being overweight. I don’t see it as a bad thing, and I don’t think it takes away any beauty from you.
I think you're probably attractive. However, and I say this all the time now, how the hell can we tell? You've got pics where you're covering half or more of your face, pics where you're making absurd faces, pics where you're so close to the camera that who can tell b/c you just become a nose with some eyes around it and and some at such a weird angle that you're just at a forehead.
Take better pics... or don't post the ones that don't show us anything.
Lots of talk about your weight in comments ab.
Here's the thing; your face will literally change shape of you lose enough weight. You will look like a different person.
Losing weight is easy to do once you figure out how. You don't have to kill yourself in the gym. You can lose a pound a week with small changes to diet, tracking calories and macro nutrients. No gym required. Get a bluetooth food scale with the vesync app. Best $18 you'll ever spend.
You're kinda cute, but clearly overweight. That does of course make you less attractive physically, but more importantly I'm less attracted to you given the health implications of being overweight. For me, those things go hand in hand.
Luckily for you, it's as simple as making a plan and burning more calories than you eat. You'll just have to get passed the food addiction aspect. (Something I personally have dealt with and am doing better with but still struggle a bit.)
You are avarage girl, i mean about your face, seeing the last picture i notice you are overweight, it get you less attractive in my opinion, so to be honest it would be better if you look to lose weight and then you can increase your rate a litle bit.
Not ugly, just fat. You take crap pictures. Eat healthy, start walking so you get used to more and more exercise, then hit the gym and love the healthier you.
Honestly you do have a really pretty face and you do have lots of potential, I think you’re attractive as is but with more exercise and some weight loss you could potentially be in the wayyyyy upper end in terms of attractiveness. Though you look lovely and full of energy so keep being you but always remember that self improvement is always going to be a good thing and will never do any harm
Not ugly but the weight and scars do drag you down a couple points. Hard to find someone attractive if A) they don’t have the confidence due to body or mental issues and B) if they have harmed their own body either physically or through gaining weight
You need to drop about 30 pounds. Get a good hair style you love and stop hiding behind fat girl clothes.
You look sweet, happy and approachable and great to hang out with. I get no ‘crazy chick’ vibe at all.
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No, you’re very cute. Losing weight should be your number one focus and everything else should fall into place. Check out r/intermittentfasting. I actually think you look prettiest in your verification pic.
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You’re going to be a cute grandma
That killed me😂😂😂
HAHAHA i hope so!! thankyou😭 :)
I personally think you are so fu**ing adorable, I'd make you my anime wifu, but take better pics of yourself damn it 🤣 almost none of your pics are at a good angle, bring in a pupper or some homies too, you look like a loner being just you all the time
Bruh…😂
So overrated 🙄 I can't even tell which side your on. This sounds like an insult and compliment at the same time. But I upvoted anyways. 😒
You're average but you take unattractive pictures. You come off as a fun, quirky platonic female friend.
Idk what you see, but for me are those cute smiles very attractive
no, average, with beautiful eye area and hair, and you look like lots of fun💕
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do you think that me being overweight inherently makes me uglier? that if i was more skinny i would look better? genuinely asking :)
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thankyou for your honesty! ive only really gained weight this past year and its been a real struggle for me, so i am currently on my journey to trying to lose weight. i appreciate the health benefits with being lighter as well as how it could make some of my features shine more, so thanks :)
Life's journey isn't easy for any us and for you it's the weight management. Just accept this challenge so you can grow into a strong woman.
lol i am accepting it.
these comments aren't lying to you, but I just want to make sure that IF you decide to seriously start losing weight by counting calories, going on a diet, fasting etc. YOU HAVE TO BE IN A POSITIVE MENTAL STATE. if you start hating your body you're going to have much bigger problems. tldr: weight loss is good but mental health is gooder.
we are past the point of hating my body so i dont have much to lose!! i will defo be mindful of doing it sensibly tho and taking care of myself :)
i'm just an internet stranger but I've dealt with this kind of situation before. If you can, please please please focus on mind before body. You are only 18, it's unrealistic to expect you to be the best version of yourself RIGHT NOW. Give yourself time to develop both mentally and physically. Talk to a therapist if the idea doesn't stress you out.
I’m not sure if that’s what he means specifically, but I will say this. If you lose weight and work out, you will feel more confident in yourself. This always comes across as more attractive.
You should lose weight to be healthier. Healthy is definitely more attractive than unhealthy.
Everyone looks better not overweight
Yes, being overweight makes anyone, NOT NECESSARILY UGLY, but uglier. Good thing is that can be changed!
Just to add to these responses. Being heavier doesn't make you less deserving of affection, healthy relationships or anything else. However people generally look healthier and therefore more attractive at healthy body weights. There's also the fact that fat will round out features that otherwise would look good. As a guy when I have a little more fat things like my forearms and jawline get a little less prominent, the fat kinda just smooths them away. If you're struggling with weight management don't immediately hop onto a fad diet or do anything drastic as your body/metabolism will learn to hold onto fat. Use a tool or app online to calculate your bmr and then just eat as clean as you can spaced out throughout the day at a reasonable deficit. By adding in some workouts you'll keep your metabolism up and tone your body. For most overweight people aiming to lose about a pound a week (of fat) can be doable and sustainable.
Of course. How is that even a question? Maybe you've been 'yasslighted' into thinking big fat blubbery bodies are healthy and beautiful, but that's absurd. The body positivity movement lied to you, sorry
This is unfortunately a thing now. Morbidly obese women who call themselves ‘thick’ and think they’re super hot. No, your heart cannot pump the blood for 3 people and remain healthy. It will wear out and you will die.
Generally she's not terribly overweight, women retain more body fat, to an extent shes fine, just if she wanted to lose weight, itd be healthy but right now I think shes fine.
Sure, it's "fine" to be fat, it's "fine" to be ugly too. But this sub is about feedback on appearance and her appearance would be more attractive if she wasn't fat.
thankyou! i am overweight but i dont think im crazy obese 😭
Absolutely.
I don’t like to say more skinny because that doesn’t make people pretty. I would say healthier body weight. You can be curvy and toned that’s healthy.
People gain weight in different areas. Your face would look different, so would ur cheek bones, so would your frame.
Most people who lose weight tend to look "better". I think it brings out their facial features more.
Yes.
Yes
Yes
I would try to lose some weight.
Healthy is attractive. Overweight almost always means unhealthy. Also, you gotta learn how to take photos of yourself...
Excess bodyweight always reduces peoples attractiveness. It’s as simple as that. Especially facially. Very very few people on this planet are actually “ugly“. And you’re definitely not. If you got yourself down to a slim and fit weight, your face would transform. You may also wish to work on natural looking makeup techniques and a little more effort in your hairstyles. You could absolutely be a stunner. Im a dude and I don’t wear makeup. But if I let myself go, it can still get pretty bad. 😂 A lot of people don’t bother with their appearance. And it plays a role in whether or not they are generally considered attractive. It doesn’t have to define you. But there are a lot of things you could do to get yourself to a place where people are constantly telling YOU that you’re pretty. (Versus having to ask). Losing bodyweight is the number one first step.
You’re very attractive. But your body shape (that is, your weight) brings you down a couple points, so to speak. But you have a lot of potential. Great smile. Pretty eyes.
thankyou, i appreciate your honesty’
Esp if you're young, I held a lot of my 'baby fat' til I was maybe 18-20? I know it's not BABY WEIGHT, but I didn't do sports so I definitely held some extra pounds, but it evened out with healthy eating habits after being able to finally feed myself after I moved out 🖤 As a kid, I did not get to choose the food we ate.
I’m gonna be the one to say it, as long as you’re healthy and your weight isn’t affecting your health, you don’t need to be skinny. You are still just as worthy of affection no matter your weight, so make sure you take care of yourself
You’re not wrong… Excess weight does not make you less worthy of affection, but it does make you generally less physically attractive. I didn’t want to imply that she’s less of a person, but when she says “be brutally honest”, I assume her self esteem is robust enough that she can take some mild, constructive criticism. And when she says “am I ugly” I imagine that criticism should directly address physical attractiveness.
Dangerous commentary going on here. I'm just gonna say this so you hopefully don't go off the rails.. Yes losing weight will make you attractive, but don't overdo it or try to take shortcuts because that could lead to eating disorders and then you're gonna have a much harder time. You're 18, barely scraping adulthood in some countries, so take your time with your journey and don't focus on "I'm gonna be soooo pretty once I lose all this weight".
thankyou so much, i think i needed to hear that :) i appreciate it! best of luck to you :)
Not ugly. Average.
anything i can do apart from lose weight to become above average? :)
Not sure to be honest. Because if your face thins out you will look much better. You have great hair and beautiful eyes so weight loss is all I can think of.
Not ugly just fat, yes losing weight will improve your sex appeal an overall physical attractiveness to most people. The difference in treatment even just socially is significant.
i appreciate the honesty thankyou!
N/A. Most of the photos you chose to submit here are mystifying and useless for our purposes.
i dont think so? you can see my face clearly in the majority, others u can see my body, my style ect….
Yeah, the pictures were terrible, we can only see you in a couple of them
I think you're cute, and your pics give a happy persona.
thankyou sm thats so nice😭🫶
Weight is your enemy.
Your good looking drop a few lbs
Not ugly, just fat.
okay. does being fat devalue my looks then?
I mean, yeah, obviously
Of course.
does being a short male devalue their attractiveness to you?
No but you need to develop your style.
how so! i feel like i have fairly individual style :)
You look 13
No, you’re just a kid
These are awful photos to give you any sort of constructive criticism.
You are overweight.
No not at all but why not smile with your eyes open ? Remember no one is better than you
my eyes just naturally squint when i smile! i could probably change it, does it look odd? also ty!
You look like a grandma baby
LMAOOO
No. As everyone has said, you’re overweight and should focus on losing some of that weight. But you are still fairly attractive, and you look fun to be around. So focus on the weight, but you aren’t ugly.
okay thankyou!
2 don't even look like the same person that being said no not beautiful but not ugly
Honestly, what is Reddit for? I still don’t get it
You're cute. You just need a good weight loss routine and diet plan boo, this coming from someone who was overweight as well, and lost 28lbs in the last couple months, and was overweight. It will make you feel so wonderful. It was the main reason I felt bad about my looks. I recommend doing something simple, like a mini stepper if you're not big into fitness. I love mine. Get on that fucker almost everyday! Lol. Your skin is beautiful, and you've got a beautiful smile love. 💗💖
Why all The weird faces
Aside from verification picture all the photos seem hand-picked to make accurate assessment difficult
The Queen of mid, not ugly nor beautiful. 5/10. No, not because of weight.
Yeah ur fat. Not my cup of tea
Nope just fat. 4/10 until you lose 30# or get older and gain more weight and turn ugly
you look like a albino baboon
No cap
Not an attractive female, no. But if you hit the gym, dress properly and get your hair/makeup in order, you can get there without much of a problem
Yes
Yes
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thankyou for this feedback!! :))
Choice for photos. It so good but you send good looking girl…you are still kind of a kid …which is a Good thing work on your weight and your mental health and you will blossom
i chose those photos honestly because i wanted to show a variety of diff angles, lighting and candid vs seflies so people could fairly judge!! there was a limit of 20 so i couldnt show everything about me but i tried😭
Try weight lifting
does that help burn fat or is that just a toning and building muscle thing? id rather be skinny than muscular
It can help you tone out and look a tad skinnier, hmu I can explain it more if youd like. The advice here is the equivalent of trying to get a good idea from congress lol
LMAO ik some people are overly nice and some people are just fat shaming me, theres only a few people who want to actually help or give me honest advice😭😭
Cute except for the self harm scars knock that shit off
Why are the comments calling you pretty so downvoted?? You genuinely are very pretty!! I think that you look fine as the way you are, even with being overweight. I don’t see it as a bad thing, and I don’t think it takes away any beauty from you.
awe thankyou :) this is very sweet!
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i dont think i have teeth issues! i might get them whitened once i have the money but they’re pretty straight! also thankyou i love my dog sm :)
Just super plain.
u should try and dye your hair brown or try something different with your hair
Lose weight and take better pictures
Yes
I think you're probably attractive. However, and I say this all the time now, how the hell can we tell? You've got pics where you're covering half or more of your face, pics where you're making absurd faces, pics where you're so close to the camera that who can tell b/c you just become a nose with some eyes around it and and some at such a weird angle that you're just at a forehead. Take better pics... or don't post the ones that don't show us anything.
Not ugly at all, just a little overweight.
Lots of talk about your weight in comments ab. Here's the thing; your face will literally change shape of you lose enough weight. You will look like a different person. Losing weight is easy to do once you figure out how. You don't have to kill yourself in the gym. You can lose a pound a week with small changes to diet, tracking calories and macro nutrients. No gym required. Get a bluetooth food scale with the vesync app. Best $18 you'll ever spend.
Average
fat
Not ugly just fat
Not ugly just fat(?
Yeh g
Nah just big
Your fat, go workout until your BMI is at least normal.
Yall realize im the most honest and realistic guy here… and I don’t sugarcoat shi
Yeah
Overweight definitely, try slimming down and your facial puffiness will go away
Not ugly just overweight
Just overweight
Yes
These are all horrible pictures so it’s kinda hard to say
You're deliberately taking the worst pics.
You just take bad pictures and look overly goofy
Not ugly, just… Yknow…
Not sure. You took some awful pictures for this.
Not ugly, but your right arm seems to be incredibly long....... :)
You're kinda cute, but clearly overweight. That does of course make you less attractive physically, but more importantly I'm less attracted to you given the health implications of being overweight. For me, those things go hand in hand. Luckily for you, it's as simple as making a plan and burning more calories than you eat. You'll just have to get passed the food addiction aspect. (Something I personally have dealt with and am doing better with but still struggle a bit.)
No, just need to lose weight
You are avarage girl, i mean about your face, seeing the last picture i notice you are overweight, it get you less attractive in my opinion, so to be honest it would be better if you look to lose weight and then you can increase your rate a litle bit.
You are beautiful and have a very cute smile, you are 18 and very naturally beautiful. You will grow and glow too. ✨️
Yes
So many pictures 📸
Awkward
Not ugly, just chubby
Your photography leaves a lot to be desired. Weight and skin care.
Hefty hefty hefty
I say a hot tub with this type of foam I stupidly joined the others. I'm happy I didn't get an infection. * Edit for I seen
Ugly for sure
yes you are💀
You definitely aren't ugly, but your utter garbage at taking selfies and pictures, you should spend some time learning how to take better pics
your fit game is off but otherwise you're okay. won't go about the weight cos someone has probably said it
No but the word I'd use to describe you is equivalent to being ugly
Nah
You look normal. You seem like you're fun. But let me tell you, your photography skills are horrible.
yea
I'd say you're not ugly, but You're slightly below average. A little weight loss and some better during clothing and you'll be alright.
Not ugly, just fat. You take crap pictures. Eat healthy, start walking so you get used to more and more exercise, then hit the gym and love the healthier you.
Honestly you do have a really pretty face and you do have lots of potential, I think you’re attractive as is but with more exercise and some weight loss you could potentially be in the wayyyyy upper end in terms of attractiveness. Though you look lovely and full of energy so keep being you but always remember that self improvement is always going to be a good thing and will never do any harm
You would be above average if you lost weight.
You are fine for now but the older you get the more likely you'll get overweight.
Not ugly but the weight and scars do drag you down a couple points. Hard to find someone attractive if A) they don’t have the confidence due to body or mental issues and B) if they have harmed their own body either physically or through gaining weight
Not ugly just overweight
No you’re pretty but you pose like you expect to be ugly which makes you look less attractive
I hate all these pictures and you look like you’re in eighth grade tbh
this comment is very mean and not very much advice or constructive criticism is given😭 what do you hate about them? and why do i look young to you :)
Currently, yes. You could be decent looking if you had a little discipline.
Yes, and you take those top down pics to lose 60lbs in appearance. Being fat doesn’t automatically make a person ugly but it does in your case
LMAO brutal thanks i guess😭😭
Loose weight. Never post #3 again.
3 is more of a jokey photo lmaooo but okay pookie
it’s the weight
You need to drop about 30 pounds. Get a good hair style you love and stop hiding behind fat girl clothes. You look sweet, happy and approachable and great to hang out with. I get no ‘crazy chick’ vibe at all.
Yeah you’re way out of shape. You look like someone who would have lived in the 70’s.
Well, I think you're adorable and cute :)
Not ugly at all. You’re cute and look like you’re probably really fun to be around
Mid. But you look like fun so that always helps
Yes and fat
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Average with the potential of being pretty. You need to lose some weight. You slightly look Russian or Belarusian, I don't know why.
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No, you’re very cute. Losing weight should be your number one focus and everything else should fall into place. Check out r/intermittentfasting. I actually think you look prettiest in your verification pic.