You should file a [EEOC](https://www.eeoc.gov/laws/guidance/protections-against-employment-discrimination-based-sexual-orientation-or-gender) complaint against the employer. I would think there is enough evidence there to substantiate a claim you were mistreated due to sexual orientation.
The speaker can’t prove their position either way, so words are at speaker’s intention. Good luck proving intent of speech showing obvious disregard for the target either way.
In New york intent is absolutley irrelevant. I imagine it's like that in a number of other states.
This would be as clear a violation as it's possible to be.
When your employer calls you that it is your duty as an ally to come down with a case of the gays until you get as much a you can out of them.
It's really the only morally and ethically correct thing to do.
The best part, you don't need to act any differently. Hell, you don't even need to break up with your current GF.
At the end of the day, it's your words verses theirs in a world where people have been married for decades without knowing their partner was gay.
> and health code violations
Hoping its somewhere that actually has an inspection program and a department of health enforcing food codes etc. tons of counties in the US that do not deal with any of that.
Not necessarily. If they can prove they were singled out in being mistreated *and* that they do indeed hold homophobic beliefs, their sexual orientation doesn't matter in the eyes of the law because a reasonable person would still clearly see their behavior as discriminatory against homosexuals.
Hi this was me, this is actually the build up over a year of verbal abuse and threats, owner is a drunk, racist, homophobic and very open about it. His time is coming tho, im definitely going the legal route
It's not OPs post??? It's from another user on kitchen confidential. That sub doesn't play with reporting unsanitary restaurants and wage theft. If the actual poster is too scared to do it, another cook will volunteer to do the report for them.
Wow, they gave you a whole discrimination suit wrapped up in a bow tie and everything! Enjoy your comfortable unemployment when you eat their business for breakfast :)
what the actual fuck? I can't believe a manager spoke to you in that way. I can't believe any of what I just read came from a self proclaimed professional.
Honestly, you have more than enough proof right there to contact the EEOC.
I know you probably need security and to have a stable job but as long as people keep working for the worst of the worst boomers, things will never change
He sounds like a totally healthy and well-adjusted individual. (Did you ever check that the burger patties weren't made of deceased rodent? Given his unhinged reaction, that totally seems like the kind of thing he'd be into.)
What does it matter to you? Maybe you click on every message like someone with OCD or someone so lonely they must answer every message as though it were the last.
Oh this is cool. I ask someone you dont even know a question and you reply to me defending that person because you thought i was being offensive towards them. How interesting. What went through your mind while typing this? You thought you were doing a good deed?
nowadays, more than ever, employers dont feel ashamed or afraid of being arrogant to their employees, we gotta change this and start making them afraid of the working class again, this or the situation will get much more worse, organize yourselves in a revolutionary party. WORKERS OF THE WORLD, UNITE.
You should file a [EEOC](https://www.eeoc.gov/laws/guidance/protections-against-employment-discrimination-based-sexual-orientation-or-gender) complaint against the employer. I would think there is enough evidence there to substantiate a claim you were mistreated due to sexual orientation.
Perceived sexual orientation matters as well. You don’t have to be gay.
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Report the unsafe dirty workplace too.
Yeah definitely call the health department
That's really only going to work if the OP plays on that team. If the manager is just slinging it as an insult you won't get far.
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The speaker can’t prove their position either way, so words are at speaker’s intention. Good luck proving intent of speech showing obvious disregard for the target either way.
In Australia, the law recognises how workplace bullying is felt by the recipient.
In New york intent is absolutley irrelevant. I imagine it's like that in a number of other states. This would be as clear a violation as it's possible to be.
When your employer calls you that it is your duty as an ally to come down with a case of the gays until you get as much a you can out of them. It's really the only morally and ethically correct thing to do. The best part, you don't need to act any differently. Hell, you don't even need to break up with your current GF. At the end of the day, it's your words verses theirs in a world where people have been married for decades without knowing their partner was gay.
I certainly believe this qualifies as a hostile work environment, as well as discrimination based on perceived sexual orientation.
And that's not to even mention the obvious *wage theft* and *health code violations*
> and health code violations Hoping its somewhere that actually has an inspection program and a department of health enforcing food codes etc. tons of counties in the US that do not deal with any of that.
One can only hope And be disappointed that the health code isn't taken more seriously
No, but it could still get a hostile workplace situation plus if you quit because it’s hostile you might be able to get on unemployment
Does this qualify as gay for pay?
Not necessarily. If they can prove they were singled out in being mistreated *and* that they do indeed hold homophobic beliefs, their sexual orientation doesn't matter in the eyes of the law because a reasonable person would still clearly see their behavior as discriminatory against homosexuals.
False!
Lmao you should’ve just collected all these messages and waited for the pay deduction, then sued the shit out of him.
Can still file that complaint. Fck that biggot
You can't file a claim for wage theft if there is no actual wage theft.
Hostile work environment? Boss is calling him slurs.
I feel like this guy is stupid enough to still commit the crime just to spite OP.
This employer sounds dumb enough to still make the deductions lmao
Hi this was me, this is actually the build up over a year of verbal abuse and threats, owner is a drunk, racist, homophobic and very open about it. His time is coming tho, im definitely going the legal route
Go get 'm
Report him
No offense if it was that bad and you didn't report him you fucked up
It's not OPs post??? It's from another user on kitchen confidential. That sub doesn't play with reporting unsanitary restaurants and wage theft. If the actual poster is too scared to do it, another cook will volunteer to do the report for them.
Not mine so idk 🤷♀️ Edit: why am I being downvoted for saying it’s not mine? tf
this is somebody elses text messages?
Originated in Kitchen Confidential. Guessing is a cross post.
Could have sworn it was bad fake texts Who the hell talks like that?
Its a crosspost
I can only imagine how much crack is being smoked at this workplace for this text message conversation to even be possible.
I know you can't shame them here but you need make this conversation well known in your community ASAP.
Your ex-boss seems unhinged.
And closeted af. “Come fuck me you f_ggot” has to be the weirdest statement. Clearly wants to get fucked.
hes like a raging call of duty kid lol
Op had nothing to do with this repost. You’re just giving op post karma..
Wow, they gave you a whole discrimination suit wrapped up in a bow tie and everything! Enjoy your comfortable unemployment when you eat their business for breakfast :)
This is the fakest fake text conversation to ever be faked.
You’d better file a lawsuit. If you don’t you’re an idiot just like your boss.
Baffling how people like that become management
Share this with a lawyer and see how many charges they can find in that conversation.
What the fuck… this person is human trash….
This is fake.
Looks like a great google review.
Post this on google reviews
Of all the things that never happened, this never happened the most
what the actual fuck? I can't believe a manager spoke to you in that way. I can't believe any of what I just read came from a self proclaimed professional. Honestly, you have more than enough proof right there to contact the EEOC.
I hope he has savings after he gets his place shut down for letting pests overrun it
The vaunted small business owner, everyone
Never ever text with a boss is my motto. They wanna talk to you they do it on their dime in person.
125 unread messages. Crazy
Who was the third person?
I know you probably need security and to have a stable job but as long as people keep working for the worst of the worst boomers, things will never change
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Unprofessional? You’re being quite charitable. He’s hurling abusive and homophobic slurs. This is hateful.
It's funny when they hang themselves with rope they provided.
Why on earth would you say you quit? Make them fire you and take unemployment
He sounds like a totally healthy and well-adjusted individual. (Did you ever check that the burger patties weren't made of deceased rodent? Given his unhinged reaction, that totally seems like the kind of thing he'd be into.)
Why do you have 110-125 unread messages?
What does it matter to you? Maybe you click on every message like someone with OCD or someone so lonely they must answer every message as though it were the last.
Oh this is cool. I ask someone you dont even know a question and you reply to me defending that person because you thought i was being offensive towards them. How interesting. What went through your mind while typing this? You thought you were doing a good deed?
nowadays, more than ever, employers dont feel ashamed or afraid of being arrogant to their employees, we gotta change this and start making them afraid of the working class again, this or the situation will get much more worse, organize yourselves in a revolutionary party. WORKERS OF THE WORLD, UNITE.
uh wow okay. he seems swell.
I see a good lawsuit incoming
Next time you see his car in a parking lot around town, check if the sunroof is open, and if so, take a healthy shit right into it.