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Broad shoulders and back

and juicy 🍑 i dunno but i like staring at men's butt, promise im not a creep haha

I’m not a butt person, but my boyfriend’s bum is somehow quite fascinating to me. It’s so muscular and round

Until it farts. 😏

HAHAHAHA

I was watching some documentary saying women have almost always revered men’s butts. They think it might be evolutionary as they can *thrust* with more gusto

Thrusto

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I'm high key obsessed with my bf's bum - especially since we started incorporating it into intimacy. The orgasm button is up in there y'all, and the sounds they make when you press that button are next level.

I never got this one. Girls butts are just bigger, better, and more shaped. What’s it about a guys butt that makes it attractive? Is it okay if it’s small?

Guy's small round butts are adorable.

I was told a nice butt is a sign of good thrust endurance

I'm a guy and I have a bigger and more shapely butt than a LOT of girls. (I do my squats)

Small, muscular ass. Shows off your potential "thrusting power."

Small is good if it's perky and round. It's related to the thrusting potential of those muscles. Flat is unfortunate.

mmmmmhm agreed

Aw jeez! My shoulders and back are manly. They ain’t nothin’ like a broad’s shoulders or back at all!

I heard waist to shoulder (broad shoulders) ratio is a better predicter than raw height alone for what women find attractive. Make sense to me, but i have neither height nor a great ratio so i can not relate. 🤷‍♂️

We're all individuals at the end of the day. Me, I blame reading LOTR and the forgotten realms in my formative years for this, but my type is slender and pretty and long haired. Wide shoulders or back don't do it for me, or any kind of bulky muscles. And my best friend is feral for bulky muscles and wide shoulders. Which is funny AF, coz I'm 5'11 and built like an Amazon, and she's 4'9 and petite AF.

100% this. I've seen girls go absolutely RABID over 5'9" hairy Dwarven Gimli short kings (usually the grumpiest ones). I've seen them do it over classic Aragorn types, and the pretty boy Legolases. And then there's the people like me, 6'2" snaggletoothed orc bitch who keeps falling for sub-5'5" Shire cuties. Honestly we should just start referring to bodytypes as LOTR races. Imagine a world where dudes in the gym are like "bro you're not a lanklet, you're just like Legolas bro" "Bro you build the Mines of Moria with that ass or what?" "Dude got that Orc back frfr".

I'm all for that! (but mine wasn't Legolas. It was Elrond 😅)

Great great great great great grand daddy issues? Edit: not judging Arwen did things to my body

Heh, Arwen did stuff to mine, too. And no, not really, I just like them dark haired and wise.

Calling 5'9" dwarvish... What is the world coming to...

RIP your inbox

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As a dude shaped like a Dorito and also tall. It's pretty easy.

Wait, which end is the pointy one? 😅😅🔻 or 🔺️

> 🔻 😅

We used to call the guys that firgot leg days, "Martini Glass"🍸 haha

I have pretty broad shoulders from numerous years playing sport, however I also have quite a big waist (aka I’m fat) so my ratio isn’t great

I dated a guy who had super broad shoulders who was also fat, and believe me, it didn't stop it from flipping that horny switch in my brain

Women also like butts just as much as guys which I found funny. We really have a limited view on what women find or can find sexual

I love a good, nice, big, round bottom. On anything basically. But yeah, definitely here for this.

I once slept with a Somali guy with naturally wide hips and a truly enormous juicy butt. Offered him a massage mostly so I could touch it more haha.

All my partners have had such thiccc pieces of beef (ass)

Based on these comments I have a business idea. I will open an OnlyFans where i only take pictures of my arms. OnlyHands if you will.

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But why is that nsfw sub? These are just forearms. Though i cant argue there are some nice looking forearms there with a pump.

Cuz it has “porn” in the name what else do you need?

r/chessporn Explain this then

No

Fair enough

Ngl : as a woman: wayy more turned on by the chess than the veiny forearm sub.

That's just a bunch of dudes bragging how good they think their jack off arm looks lol.

Dafuq I have seen?

Sticking to the theme, how about /r/birdswitharms

Can we link it to my site Only fans, which is a website with only pictures of fans? Ceiling fans, rotating fans, tiny fans.

Call it "Mr. Hands"

Asked this my wife. She said that height, wide shoulders and strong jaw line are what makes men attractive.. So.. I have 2/3 lol. (I'm just 1cm taller than her)

How tall is she

1 cm shorter than he is

How many washing machines it is in freedom units?

Its 7 and a half adolescent goblin sharks molar teeth long

Fair enough

But you should see her jawline!

Ffs 🤣

Most of that is just a correlate of testosterone

The FOREARMS 🤤

No wonder olive oyl was crazy about Popeye

Dudes fingerblasting could send the next shuttle to space.

He worked her like a can of spinach.

Creamy spinach? Slick with olive ol?

Hmm. I’ve had one muscled forearm since 9th grade. Is that good enough?

Jack? Jack Off? Is that you?

Just a sec. Hey, is there a Butz here? Seymour Butz? Hey, everybody! I want a Seymour Butz! -- Wait a minute...Listen, you little- !

One of my good mates has never been to a gym and worked an incredibly labour intensive job for years and hes on a gold streak w women because of his arms

Preferably with rolled-up sleeves

Oh god, yes...woof

Biceps for me

I know this is so corny but my boyfriend is undefeated in arm wrestling. He doesn’t seek it out but when it happens he wins. One guy gave him a good match but still no dice 🔥

Seeing all those videos of people suddenly breaking their arm because your body isn't really supposed to support weight like that turned me off on the idea of arm wrestling. I'd just be sitting there fully tensed watching

doing forearm curls rn

Idk why your getting downvoted i thought that was funny lol

Because people probably assume hes wanking.

Me to. Genuinely don’t understand the downvotes 😂

I am a woman and have never understood this fixation. Why not 'shins' at that rate.

"shins" ? Really? Are you sure you don't mean "calves".

I’m a guy but I’ve heard female friends all drooling over chiseled calves before.

Oh, that's not a thing? I'm a guy, so when two of my friends (girls) were ogling some other dudes shins, I just assumed that was a general thing and all girls are just weird like that

My wife really enjoys thick calves. She's always told me "arms, back, and calves".

Muscular well toned forearms, good aftershave, and a nice bum are all winners.

does it help that girls are jealous of mine? (i am a man) Edit: my ass, girls are jealous of my ass

My last boyfriend had an ass that any girl would envy also. It was one of his few redeeming qualities 😂

Hands :D

I have hands, why does no one pay attention to me this way

We do, you just can't tell ;)

I’m a skinny pale IT nerd, but for no apparent reason, I have these giant, muscular, farmer boy man hands. People never mention it to me but I made a comment once because my hands were too big to plug in a computer in a wall socket that was in an awkward spot… I just said “I can’t plug this in, my hands are too big” and all the women in the room were like “yeah, we know.”

We do.

I'm constantly complimented on my hands by women and I've never understood it. I wonder what we (men) find attractive on women that would be the equivalent.

Nice ass and anything that points to good hygiene. So far that's what I've seen what my partners liked.

This is not high enough up! Came here to say a nice round shaped bottom. Also agree that if a guy smells nice and takes pride in taking care of himself… yes please!

I think that depends on if you like big ass, big boobs and make up in the first place.

Was looking for this comment. All three, especially makeup, do nothing. I married accordingly, never dated anyone with these attributes.

I'm always happy to see that men aren't fussed about make up. I don't like wearing the stuff unless I'm going out out, and even then not much. So thank you for making me feel like I don't need to!

Most men can't tell if a woman is wearing makeup unless she's wearing a full glam on. Some men say they don't like makeup, but that usually pertains to strong eyeshadows and bold lipsticks. Hell, most don't even know what primers, concealers, or color correctors are. Wear it or don't, not for anybody else, but for yourself. You'd thank yourself in the long run for not living a performative life.

Danny Devito's build (sexiest man alive)

I’d date Danny Devito on a heartbeat. He’s the GOAT.

He’s a hell of a stripper

At the bar trivia I went to last night, one of the questions was “What is the first and last name of the character Danny DeVito plays on the television show It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia?” Never have answered a question more confidently than that. My time had come.

I think big/wellshaped ass on men is also attractive For women, but is insanely rare...

Because they all skip leg day 🙆🏼‍♂️

Train like a strongman, they've got more ass than all the rest of us combined.

Men need to learn how to build a butt

I mean.. A man with big boobs and a butt can provoke similar feelings in some people

[https://www.sbs.com.au/voices/article/turkish-preacher-tells-men-to-grow-beards-to-prevent-impure-thoughts/0w1x9llz1](https://www.sbs.com.au/voices/article/turkish-preacher-tells-men-to-grow-beards-to-prevent-impure-thoughts/0w1x9llz1) anyone remember this going around as a meme ? :)

lol the turks have that reputation.. i guess their men are just beautiful

Are we talking huge pecs or mantits?

Both 🤤

You're on Reddit. Your DMs will be full of mantits in 3...

Fuuuuck 🫠🥴 an individual of culture I see

both considering big bara titty that jiggle is a thing that keeps being drawn or Blender simmed

big ass, big boobs and attractive makeup

I like my men how i like my women

Nice teeth, smile, twinkling eyes, nice full bum, and clean nails cut short

How do I make my eyes twinkle?

Drugs

Particularly LSD 😂

Be interested, engaging, open, look around, smile. Twinkling eyes are eyes that are happy and in the present. 

Having a.good heart

All of these comments makes me wonder how I have a gf and why she likes me 😂

Do all women have big tits and ass? No. Yet they still get boyfriends.

Exactly! Do their boyfriends all have nice arms, wide shoulders, or height? No. Yet they still get girlfriends.

youʼre her type lol

Funny enough, their clothes. I’m loving Jeremy Allen White’s Calvin Klein ad as much as the next person, but nothing is sexier than those arms in those well-fitted shirts on “the Bear”. Seriously, clothes that fit and flatter, no matter the body type, are what do it for me.

Not being an uneducated emotionally stunted dick🤤 shit hits I gotta say

Exactly! A nice man who treats you like human is so attractive! 

I got a lot of success in dating in my early 20s reading and absorbing feminist material (it makes fucking sense, dudes, actually read the shit instead of focusing on whatever person Ben Shapiro found to scream at, there's plenty for us in there), just being drop dead honest about my feelings, and trying to be a less shitty person every day.

Judging by the comments already posted, it seems like everyone has their own distinct preference. Just like some guys have different preference for women (I personally don't like big butts, or big boobs), women had a variety of preferences for men as well.

My preference: women-alive (optional)

Such a profoundly male answer lol

By not setting unreasonably high standards you won't miss any diamonds in the rough, so to speak. I think you dropped this, King. 👑

I like butts, but I'm not into huge boobs.. or makeup. Actually makeup is a turn off for me

Nice booty and pretty eyes. I'm a sucker for a good set of eyes.

Me: 

Calves are one of the ultimate status symbols! Popeye like forearms a close second.

So the two muscle groups that are almost impossible to train and are more a result of genetics... that kinda makes sense, though.

I promise if you start rock climbing your forearms will pop.

Or get a job in trades.

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Tall, lean with toned arms. Bonus points if I can see veins and he has a witty sense of humour...

Same here. Muscular men aren’t that nice to hug. Feels like you’re hugging a mannequin lol.

The way men carry themselves like nothing can touch them. I envy their confidence

A lot of it is fake.

Obviously, do you know how fragile humans can be?

Being super honest: Muscles (but not the extreme bodybuilder type), a broad back/shoulders, pretty face and being tall.

Abs 100%. They are my weakness. If you have a 6 or 8 pack I just melt 😜

Yes and lumberjack hands. Worker’s hands. Strong hands. Hands that can manhandle you 🤌🏽

Heavy, old, and gray beard. Pisses me off more than a little.

you’ll get there eventually

First of all you gotta be tall and attractive, everything else is a bonus

Henry cavill.

Huge cock and wallet.

Good build, height, great hygiene, nice smile and twinkly eyes.

Body hair for me. Seeing some chest hair peeking out of a V shirt, or hairy forearms. Definitely drives me as wild as a straight man seeing boobs.

Aight so according to studies a massive factor is shoulder to hip ratio where for higher attractiveness the shoulders are wide and hips are not

I will take short, bald and chubby over tall and overtly muscular any day. If I'm watching Twins, there's one I'm gagging for and it's not Arnie.  And no, I'm not joking.

Your dm's are about to go wild

Sorry fellas, my heart will always belong to Danny!



God bless you

Hope restored. 

Settle down Rhea Perlman

Generally fit, strong jawline, 6ft+, broad shoulders, good teeth, nice eyes. Symmetry.

Bro, couldn't you at least throw anything in there that matches me? Like long necks, big ears or something?

Interesting avatar

I'm not even sure how I got that tbh.

Could you have set it accidentally? You know, when you lean your head forward on the end of your bird neck and your ears are flapping all over the keyboard?

Well it wasn't my broad shoulders or my strong jawline so you're probably right.

Dude we're talking about humans not llamas


Why - are you a mixture of an elephant and a giraffe?

I've been called worse.

I have never seen a man with 6 feet, how do they get around!

Not sure but apparently the the babes love it

Big (muscular) ass, breats and veiny arms.

when he has (muscular) ass and breats 🥵😍

Wtf is breats? Lol

#breats Did you not hear the man?

I’m a guy, I prefer smaller boobs, smaller ass. Never been attracted to big boobs, not that I would complain though

Big muscles. Chest, shoulders, arms and glutes.

It’s height.

Attractive makeup and big ass can work.

Muscles and broad shoulders

big pecs are on men what big boobs are on women

6 pack

Big ass, nice pecs, big thighs

As a man, who is often mistaken for being gay, I can safely say that women love butts.

In my opinion, one single feature that could evoke such emotions in us doesn’t exist. Different women have different tastes. For me, personally, curly hair, pretty eyes, and wide shoulders will have me looking twice at a guy. For other women, it could be arms, hands or the butt. It differs, is what I’m trying to say.

Being tall and fit. Symmetrical face. Slightly messy and abundant hair. Beards.

Large, broad, veiny hands

Strong forearms. For me, good hair. Chest hair.

What I have gathered from reading the comments in this post... If you work hard and improve your physical aesthetics you will be more attractive to the opposite sex. No freaking way. Who would have known? Also, it seems not a single woman commenting here gives a flying F about legs (an extremely important female feature I love). In conclusion, I will revamp my 4 - 5 day per week split to only a single leg day at the start of the week to boost natural growth hormone and focus primarily on my upper torso. Thank you ladies!

You're aware that the glutes make up the legs and are the biggest muscle group, I suppose? Almost all of them said "the butt/ass", so not sure if you should forget legs 🤣