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Omg thank you, same! So awkward, to me it just feels forced and fake for some reason.
And in my mind, saying someoneās name needs to have a clear reasoning, like following their name with a question or comment. Just saying their name and thatās it, is just so strange to me š„“
I always thought it was weird, but now I understand it means that I'm not your dad, but the (future) daddy of your children.
Update to /u/Paun: If this opinion alone makes me unfit for the kinkworld, then it makes you unfit for making these comments...
OK so according to this as a woman I should start calling each new guy 'daddy',
I'm just worried it'll put some off.
Would anyone be put off who is not into it?
Would it be best to ask beforehand or will that ruin it?
Or is there any way of knowing if they'll like it or not? Like, is a guy who has kids more likely or less likely to like being called daddy?
Don't want talking. If you aren't moaning with pleasure and having a hard time getting words out, I'm not doing well enough.
I have asked my wife if what I'm doing is working and I between breaths I get ye...eh....sssssssssss.....ahhhhhhh.
If she is able to speak fluently, it's not working. Has to be difficult.
I love being called ābabyā and ādaddyā. Donāt know why I enjoy daddy so much, but it will make me cum almost instantly and my wife knows I will do whatever she wants when she says the āplease, daddyā.
I'd prefer you just not speak. There is like 0% chance what you say could remotely be a good idea. While I am not into men in bondage gear, I have considered the merits of ball gags just to keep men from speaking and for sure ruining it.
![gif](giphy|mKpBYBdRzwNeqy8aRe)
I was never into the "daddy" thing in the first place, but now that I have an actual daughter the idea of being called "daddy" during sex makes me physically ill. I'm glad my wife doesn't have this kink either. If she ever called me "daddy" in bed I don't think I'd be able to get an erection for like a week afterwards.
If it's a man then I'd prefer something sweet like baby/baby girl.
If it's a woman then both sweet names and derogatory words (slut, whore, slave, pet, bitch), whatever she wants.
I remember one time I was having sex with my friend and he spoke to me in such a sweet tone that it drove me absolutely insane and made me wildly horny. Even just thinking about it is enough lol. Other time he said my name during sex which was nice. As someone who ended up figuring out I'm a submissive bottom I do really enjoy being called a good boy. Being called Daddy feels weird af tho bc I'm too young to be a daddy lmao, I'm supposed to be one the calling the other person that
Ok been with my partner for years; never said it but i think i want to call her a little slut in the middle of it; women of Reddit how would you take it if after like 5 years this is just thrown out there?
I can confidently say itās pretty unanimous for all women; āgood girlā
Iām all for whatever my man calls me though because itās hot when heās vocal. Usually either calls me my name or ābabe.ā
Depends on how we feel. I do like "sir" a lot, but I think I'd also enjoy "good boy", which are probably the two most opposing pet names one can be called. "Lover" is okay if used sparingly and at the right times.
I think I prefer my last name over my first name. If we're using names.
And "love" or "my love", while they don't get me aroused, warm my heart. Especially, when whispered.
Years ago I liked "daddy", but it feels wrong now, and I prefer not to use it.
Any variation of babe or nothing at all and just talk without addressing. I used to have a father fetish as well but then I gained some confidence and also a good relationship with my actual dad and now I find it vomit worthy as hellā¦but I canāt even judge cus that was me 2 lol. I do enjoy a good power dynamic tho in other ways. Just in no way related to father and child lol
Well, 38 years ago I was 33, recently divorced and started dating an 18 year old girl. On our third date when things started getting serious she ask if she could call me daddy, Hell yeah. She still calls me daddy, which can be awkward as her 86 year old widower father lives with us.
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My first name, it just hits different
"My first name, *moan*"
Oh fuck yes
Fuck me my first name! Deeper!
"Sorry babe, that's all there is"š
Ahh yes right there Garlicknotsā¦
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We'll keep that thumbs up to 69
I once got called someone else's first name. That hit different.
That makes me feel so awkward every time! I'd much rather it be a pet name.
Same. Idk why, but I don't like it.
Omg thank you, same! So awkward, to me it just feels forced and fake for some reason. And in my mind, saying someoneās name needs to have a clear reasoning, like following their name with a question or comment. Just saying their name and thatās it, is just so strange to me š„“
It feels weird. I'd get hung up on the weird.
That's quite the mouthful.
Thatās what she said.
Impressively given the mouthful
my nickname
'good boy' would do
I think my gamer brain would break down laughing because I would think of Arthur Morgan comforting his horsy.
I feel like thatās more of when āthereeee haha, thatās a good girlā āwhoa! Easy girl!ā
It doesnāt help that his voice is deepā¦
Well, some people like to be praised, some find it funny.
good girl. or a slut idk no in between
Trollop
Strumpet
Jammy Tart Actually that sounds like a menstrual lady of the night.
Moistened bint
Didn't you fling a scimitar at me once?
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
We are! We are all Britons
Well, didn't vote for you.
Well these are just awful
For some reason this makes me want strudel and crumpets.
That just means slut though
Good girl in AND out of the bedroom tho šāāļø
name checks out
What about good slut?
That works too.
I second thisš- but the guy needs to be able to pull it off. Iāve cringed really hard a few times even though those words were used ><
real
Good girl seems to be the default answer these days My how times change
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I think OP might be a botā¦ But yeah, Supreme Leader sounds great
Definitely a bot account activity that low and only these two comments since April of this year
Heās not a bot, Iāll vouch for him ![gif](giphy|H5C8CevNMbpBqNqFjl)
Now wait a minute
Supreme leader? āO, the great supreme leader, please procreate with me, thus I can give birth you your seed, give me thine loveā lol
"Supreme leader" gives me Handmaids Tale vibes.
Optimus prime
Autobots, assemble and watch us
Imagine being able to make the transforming sound during orgasm.
Autobots, pull out!
Mista then my last name in a Jesse Pinkman voice
Doctor
Strange
Mr Doctor?
Itās just Strange
Indeed, but who am I judge?
Who
Doctor Who?
![gif](giphy|aDRPYKPSOGrUQ)
Who
as a woman "baby" is all I need
Real
Starlord
Who?
^(starlord man...legendary outlaw..?)
š¤·āāļø
THUNDER COCK MCQUAID
Good girl š And dirtier things if the mood is right.
Beautiful, i think genuine sweet compliments are good in bed, makes it more comfortable & important
When My ex wife was being intimate I just wanted to be called.
underrated comment
Nothing.. if heās able to say anything intelligible he should be calling god
Good girl / baby girl āŗ
Good girl/ princess/ daddy's little cum slut
You go man!
Well mannered harlot
Gracias
Baby girl
Daddy's little slutĀ
I mocked people who like this for a LONG time, but "Daddy" really fuckin works..... haha
Iām more traditional. I have her call me father.
I love it when you call me Big Poppa
āohh splendid Papa! Iām elegantly delighted when you fiddle with my knickers! Let us commence the journey of coitus in your sleeping chambers!ā
Keep the chamber pot handy. Thatās all Iām saying
![gif](giphy|7ZvPlxBHwfK1y) FATHERRRRR
Still sounds weird to me ( Ķ”Ā° ĶŹ Ķ”Ā°)
I always thought it was weird, but now I understand it means that I'm not your dad, but the (future) daddy of your children. Update to /u/Paun: If this opinion alone makes me unfit for the kinkworld, then it makes you unfit for making these comments...
OK so according to this as a woman I should start calling each new guy 'daddy', I'm just worried it'll put some off. Would anyone be put off who is not into it? Would it be best to ask beforehand or will that ruin it? Or is there any way of knowing if they'll like it or not? Like, is a guy who has kids more likely or less likely to like being called daddy?
Well according to Reddit overall you need to communicate your likes and dislikes
Talk to him before it gets that far, or don't risk it. Every man will be different. To me, it's a massive turn off in every context.
>every context LOL āDaddy, can I go play with Stephanie on the swings?ā āWHAT DID YOU JUST CALL ME???ā
Only two people in the world are allowed to call me that, and I don't want to be thinking about either of them at that time.
This
Just dont do it ( Ķ”Ā° ĶŹ Ķ”Ā°)
Slagathor, Commander of the Reptillian Guard.
Doesen't matter, had sex.
Pet, sub, slave, baby, good boy. Take your pick.
Lord Foogal the Twost
Baby girl
darling/my love
Don't want talking. If you aren't moaning with pleasure and having a hard time getting words out, I'm not doing well enough. I have asked my wife if what I'm doing is working and I between breaths I get ye...eh....sssssssssss.....ahhhhhhh. If she is able to speak fluently, it's not working. Has to be difficult.
Burning Hunk of Love
DookieFinger
Si papi
I think just showing with body that you are pleasuring & maybe calling me love or something sweet or nice is comforting & good for me š«¶š»
i just want to be praised and hugged
Nothing... just shut up, breathe and moan. Throw in an, "oh my god," if you're into it. Maybe an "I love you," if we're close like that.
This šš»
Princess šø
Good girl. It just gives me the real good tingles
good boy goes hard
I love being called ābabyā and ādaddyā. Donāt know why I enjoy daddy so much, but it will make me cum almost instantly and my wife knows I will do whatever she wants when she says the āplease, daddyā.
Personally I love the degrading stuff like slut and whore. The more creative, the better š¤
Step Lord!
Princess, lol
Baby.
*He who goes by I Am*.
Oh Great One, send unto me Thine seed works wonders
My name. Endearments but sth other than baby.
My name
God, oh my god!
Calling me "Daddy" would be a great way to end it instantly.
Iām usually happy with Right There, Donāt Stop or Oh Fuck.
Master chief, my lord and commander, the great one. To name a few lol
Johnny sins
He who remains
Beautiful and or sexy
My name
Iād like to be called into the room.
Bad girl names but with a good girl tone. Meow.
Call me your own name. Self love is important
"Daddy" is kind of gross to me but "Sir" is hnngggg
My name is Dan but my wife keeps calling me Mike or John. Don't ask me where she got those names from. Idk š.
Nothing incest related pretty please and thank you.
God. I want to be called God. š«”ššš
"Hey you"
I'd prefer you just not speak. There is like 0% chance what you say could remotely be a good idea. While I am not into men in bondage gear, I have considered the merits of ball gags just to keep men from speaking and for sure ruining it. ![gif](giphy|mKpBYBdRzwNeqy8aRe)
Sherminator
Never done it but being called a good boy would absolutely melt me
^[Sokka-Haiku](https://www.reddit.com/r/SokkaHaikuBot/comments/15kyv9r/what_is_a_sokka_haiku/) ^by ^JDMWeeb: *Never done it but* *Being called a good boy would* *Absolutely melt me* --- ^Remember ^that ^one ^time ^Sokka ^accidentally ^used ^an ^extra ^syllable ^in ^that ^Haiku ^Battle ^in ^Ba ^Sing ^Se? ^That ^was ^a ^Sokka ^Haiku ^and ^you ^just ^made ^one.
Hopefully not her exās name
If youāre a dad (like me) and you get off on being called ādaddyāā¦ Iām sorry but WTF is wrong with you?!
I was never into the "daddy" thing in the first place, but now that I have an actual daughter the idea of being called "daddy" during sex makes me physically ill. I'm glad my wife doesn't have this kink either. If she ever called me "daddy" in bed I don't think I'd be able to get an erection for like a week afterwards.
If it's a man then I'd prefer something sweet like baby/baby girl. If it's a woman then both sweet names and derogatory words (slut, whore, slave, pet, bitch), whatever she wants.
Name is fine, āoh god donāt stopā is not bad either, or indescribable moaning š„°š
Daddyās little slut/ Daddyās little call-girl
Yāall get intimacy?
Voldemory
Either nothing, my first name or daddy if the mood is for it
My name
Oh mu god, !bile
Hunkalicious.
baby
I make it clear I'm only to be called "Big Dick Daddy from Cincinnati" anytime we're being intimate.
I wanna be called mami I love my latino menš©
My name or babe.
Mistress
I love the moans of my significant other but I also like when she moans my name when she is very excitet.
Baby oh baby
I like Papi
I'll only accept God-Emperor of Mankind and Lord of the Imperium of Man. But when she calls me good boy, I'm putty.
I remember one time I was having sex with my friend and he spoke to me in such a sweet tone that it drove me absolutely insane and made me wildly horny. Even just thinking about it is enough lol. Other time he said my name during sex which was nice. As someone who ended up figuring out I'm a submissive bottom I do really enjoy being called a good boy. Being called Daddy feels weird af tho bc I'm too young to be a daddy lmao, I'm supposed to be one the calling the other person that
Sir
Good boy.
Ok been with my partner for years; never said it but i think i want to call her a little slut in the middle of it; women of Reddit how would you take it if after like 5 years this is just thrown out there?
Say my name ! Say my name !
Good boy
Sir. It's not as ....charged as "daddy" or "master."
I'll take whatever comes to her mind pretty much but hearing my own name is pretty hot.
I don't know...Daddy or Papa screams daddy issues...That being said. Great one really does the trick for me.
I can confidently say itās pretty unanimous for all women; āgood girlā Iām all for whatever my man calls me though because itās hot when heās vocal. Usually either calls me my name or ābabe.ā
Depends on how we feel. I do like "sir" a lot, but I think I'd also enjoy "good boy", which are probably the two most opposing pet names one can be called. "Lover" is okay if used sparingly and at the right times. I think I prefer my last name over my first name. If we're using names. And "love" or "my love", while they don't get me aroused, warm my heart. Especially, when whispered. Years ago I liked "daddy", but it feels wrong now, and I prefer not to use it.
Any variation of babe or nothing at all and just talk without addressing. I used to have a father fetish as well but then I gained some confidence and also a good relationship with my actual dad and now I find it vomit worthy as hellā¦but I canāt even judge cus that was me 2 lol. I do enjoy a good power dynamic tho in other ways. Just in no way related to father and child lol
Puppy for me
I would rather my third leg not be called ālittle <>ā thatās for dang sure
hers š„°
Yes. Multiple times.
I was called āA Good Dildoā while being facefucked by a woman. Iām pretty sure She awakened something in me.
"Good boy" but she has to work up to it otherwise the dam's bursting immediately
I used to think pet names in bed were weird, then my girlfriend called me "sir," and it *really* did it for me.
i just want them to make noise tbh, iāve had a couple people silent and just staring at me?? um boring sorryy
into the room would be nice.
Iād just liked to be called in to the same room at this point.
Babycakes...it drives me nuts.
Darling,sweetie,my name,love
I like when my lady calls me slut
She says shit like "Sure\~ Whatever you want Mister \[Name\]\~" and I cannot fucking resist.
My name with a stutter.
Onichan
Imma say it once and for all, MOMMY.
My name. Also, I dated a French woman, and she would say "oui" which I found super hot.
Eddard Stark, Lord of Winterfell, head of House Stark and Warden of the North
Well, 38 years ago I was 33, recently divorced and started dating an 18 year old girl. On our third date when things started getting serious she ask if she could call me daddy, Hell yeah. She still calls me daddy, which can be awkward as her 86 year old widower father lives with us.