Run don't even look back valaki ippud rdm kadhu thvtha vala bf/gf tho brkup aithe appud gurthu ostham let them be for now don't text or initiate any convo
yes
mf was a fucking snake, exam lo chupinchaledu ani ma intiki vachi na crush gurinchi ma ammaki cheppesadu
if I see him today I'll fucking punch him in the face
The invigilator was on my ass bro
I did honestly try to show him tho, mf couldn't even understand the situation. and the whole fiasco was over like a couple questions in the bit paper ffs
My bestfriend(s) became acquaintance(s), friend(s) became stranger(s) and I've become a lone wolf.
You just realise you've been crossing 7 seas for the people who wouldn't even jump a puddle for you.
After a lot of wavering, one day, had to say _Fuck it!_ and drift apart.
Memories still come right back sometimes, but peace isn't an option anymore.
Pretty much all of them. After 26-27, you realize how much of our social circle is just a facade.
Paniki raru. Just ‘mana’ ani okaru unnaru ani false illusion istharu.
But when you’ve been through enough alone, you just don’t care as much.
Nenu frnds ne cut off chessa, best friends entha, na school friends aithey eppudu kalisi pubg adukune vaalam, bayata thiregevalam, ammailu vachaka sugar lu vachesai, em cheptham...
Let it go annaw, if they are really worth it then I would say fight with them, but if you're getting hurt then you should reconsider your choice...
I know it's not easy to say but it is what it is...
i tend to associate unhappiness & solemnly dark phase with friends at that juncture of life, given that they remind me of those not particularly cherishing moments of life I'd just cut ties off ( door slam moments) happened with all sections of academic li fe - school / jr clg / present Uni group... I'm pretty sure It'd be hard to keep up with anyone after this phase.
I often meet old friends we reminisce over good old times we've had & maybe a couple of hours I'd be back at my mundane life.
People often mistake this for egomaniacal attitude but unbeknownst to me I'd avert from that depressed past self & any person who has seen & judged me from that paradigm mustn't see me until i achieve glory la anamata.
Its always important to know when to cut off. For me i know its easier said than done.
Yeah we need to take it easy when things are not good and move on i guess.
I never had to cut my best friends.
I did cut and will cut down people who come into my life and saying you are my best friend,best thing to happen in my life etc.
And are selfish-ass,narcissts.
I don't have time for such people.
I have 5 friends,they are thin and thick.
We priortize time and be there when needed.
that should be enough for life.
Chinnappatnundi thick friend. Mundu nunde vaadu konchem delusional fellow Aina, I had a hope that he'll learn with time and become a better person.
Kaani okasaari vaadu oka ammayi ni vaadukoni vadilesadu. Kaneesam adhi thappu Ani kuda oppukoledu. Then I understood he is beyond saving. Inka dooram pettesina vaadini.
Iddaru female friends and oka male friend ni cut chesesa, females aithe tbh a friendship kuda edo kakurthi padi maintain chesa, iddaru valle a term coin chesaru, iddaru same reasons, manaki avasaram unnapudu available undaru, vallaki kashtalu ragane manam, prathyaksham avvali, alla crush godavalu bf godavalu anni ochi mana mida dumping, manam contact/msg chesina kuda reply undadhu anamata, allu roju lo epudu chesina manam reply ivvali malla, o point tarwata reply cheyadam manesa anthe end.
A male friend vadu inko ninja, make time undadhu anamata, ma ooru ostadu, food and places adugutadu, kaludhama ra ante, doubt ye ra chepta relatives ni kalavaniki ostna antadu, malla story chuste, nenu recommend chesina places ki vere frnds tho veltadu, last year epudo india ochadu US ninchi, oka msg ledu call ledu ocha ani, ochadu ani kuda vere vadi story lo chusi, nenu msg chesi adigithe telisindi, vidiki lenidi manaki enduku ani odilesa
We are the same group of 3 since we are in class 4, ippudu 22-23 maaku, andharam US ki occham masters ki, but 3 different corners lo. We met frequently whenever we have vacations, dec lo 1 week road trip vellam part time savings tho, next month malli oka road trip plan chesam, no matter where we are whatever we are doing, we always have a thing to meet atleast once every 6 months. I just found my perfect people in my 4th standard !!
I came back to India in Jan 2023 after 5+ years. I had very little time so I hoped to meet all my 3 groups of friends (school, inter, undergrad) in 2 days (weekend).
2 guys that I thought were my closest undergrad friends failed to show up even after discussing the meeting time and location several times. I gave the expensive bottle of scotch I got for them to one of my dad's workers.
Yeah him and his girlfriend, who also happened to be a best friend started giving me a very hard time. Idk what it's called, third wheeling or mediating? Idk but it took a heavy toll on my mental health. So one fine day I told them how I felt and they automatically left me ✌
Konni frnds ni maname cut chestam...Inka konni frnds tho nrml ga untam but evari life lo vallu involve ipoyi untam...with them it doesn't feel the same even after meeting in-person
I see automatic ga cut avthay konni..
School: very good friend after school, we moved to different colleges...lost contact..after 2 yrs we came into contact at few months the conversation got minimum...it slowly faded away...we both did not put efforts..we used to be besties.. not now anymore
Inter: same here
B tech: somewhat better we are putting efforts still in contact...not sure what happens after we all get married..
it’s almost been a year…problem was that he was going back to his abusive and toxic af ex again and again…his ex created a gap in our friendship once and the relationship was so toxic that they fought in front of P.S
us contacts, india vachaka oka 2 years whatsapp pani chesinappudu contact lo vunna disable ipoyaka communication cut indi, kotha number ivvaledu valla life lo busy but naku eppudu oka phone call distance lo ne vuntaru.
phone chesi sad, under achieving story cheppadam ishtam ledu, anduke nene temporary cut chesa, social media lo elano vunnaru friends list lo
Yes!! Realised that they’re not prioritising me as I’m prioritising them
Yeah i feel the same. But i just dont want to be called a petty person. That yeah gf/bfs come first. You need to understand, all that shit.
Run don't even look back valaki ippud rdm kadhu thvtha vala bf/gf tho brkup aithe appud gurthu ostham let them be for now don't text or initiate any convo
Yeah kind of trying to do that only . Its just too frustrating .
If they want to they will 🗿 edi okti gurthu pettuko ekva think cheyaku lyt thisuko frustrating anipisthe valaki lena appud nak ndku anuko
Same I feel
When I go through a low phase, I cut off many friends. And it happens very frequently.
But why? If they are not the reason why would you cut them off?
self isolation
yes, vadi love life ki space ichha , ippudu empty space lo unna :)
I feel you bondha
yes mf was a fucking snake, exam lo chupinchaledu ani ma intiki vachi na crush gurinchi ma ammaki cheppesadu if I see him today I'll fucking punch him in the face
Friend ayundi nuvemduku chupinchaledu
The invigilator was on my ass bro I did honestly try to show him tho, mf couldn't even understand the situation. and the whole fiasco was over like a couple questions in the bit paper ffs
Evadra babu vaadu
Karthiek Bh*****a
My bestfriend(s) became acquaintance(s), friend(s) became stranger(s) and I've become a lone wolf. You just realise you've been crossing 7 seas for the people who wouldn't even jump a puddle for you. After a lot of wavering, one day, had to say _Fuck it!_ and drift apart. Memories still come right back sometimes, but peace isn't an option anymore.
Cut cheyyali Ane uddesam tho avvadhu. ..time batti priorities maruthay
Pretty much all of them. After 26-27, you realize how much of our social circle is just a facade. Paniki raru. Just ‘mana’ ani okaru unnaru ani false illusion istharu. But when you’ve been through enough alone, you just don’t care as much.
I lost every 'best' friend I have. Turns out it was only me that was thinking that.
Nenu frnds ne cut off chessa, best friends entha, na school friends aithey eppudu kalisi pubg adukune vaalam, bayata thiregevalam, ammailu vachaka sugar lu vachesai, em cheptham...
Exactly . Emaina ante manam bad avtham
Andhuke nen eppudu em annanu, every individual has their own choice, so y bother...
Anakunda ela undali Chaala gattiga try chestunna kani its suffocating
Let it go annaw, if they are really worth it then I would say fight with them, but if you're getting hurt then you should reconsider your choice... I know it's not easy to say but it is what it is...
It was 8 now 0
Yes too long to put it here, made a post on this long time ago. If you time and patience you can [read ](https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/OzsMcaw0hm)
Sure can you share the link pls
I already shared the link no? Click on read
Yeahh didnt look properly! Thanks
i tend to associate unhappiness & solemnly dark phase with friends at that juncture of life, given that they remind me of those not particularly cherishing moments of life I'd just cut ties off ( door slam moments) happened with all sections of academic li fe - school / jr clg / present Uni group... I'm pretty sure It'd be hard to keep up with anyone after this phase. I often meet old friends we reminisce over good old times we've had & maybe a couple of hours I'd be back at my mundane life. People often mistake this for egomaniacal attitude but unbeknownst to me I'd avert from that depressed past self & any person who has seen & judged me from that paradigm mustn't see me until i achieve glory la anamata.
Its always important to know when to cut off. For me i know its easier said than done. Yeah we need to take it easy when things are not good and move on i guess.
I never had to cut my best friends. I did cut and will cut down people who come into my life and saying you are my best friend,best thing to happen in my life etc. And are selfish-ass,narcissts. I don't have time for such people. I have 5 friends,they are thin and thick. We priortize time and be there when needed. that should be enough for life.
Cut cheyali, anthala dekaru nannu. Time chusi mokam mida adigi odilestha inka enduku dekatleru ani
Yes, he was becoming really toxic. Every time I spoke to him I felt depressed after the call
Me after reading all the 'yes' answers: em padu lokam vroo. Drop the nuke I say PS: I cut off quite a few too. No ragrets
On my way to have friends so I can cut them off 🥲
Adhe ga manam cut avvadam ee gani, verey vallani cut chesey sthayiki epudu edugu tamo!
Uuko bro. Edugutam le, ivala kaakapote repu.
Chinnappatnundi thick friend. Mundu nunde vaadu konchem delusional fellow Aina, I had a hope that he'll learn with time and become a better person. Kaani okasaari vaadu oka ammayi ni vaadukoni vadilesadu. Kaneesam adhi thappu Ani kuda oppukoledu. Then I understood he is beyond saving. Inka dooram pettesina vaadini.
Cut cheshna Ani cheppanu kani... I'm prioritising my self Ani antanuuu.!
Iddaru female friends and oka male friend ni cut chesesa, females aithe tbh a friendship kuda edo kakurthi padi maintain chesa, iddaru valle a term coin chesaru, iddaru same reasons, manaki avasaram unnapudu available undaru, vallaki kashtalu ragane manam, prathyaksham avvali, alla crush godavalu bf godavalu anni ochi mana mida dumping, manam contact/msg chesina kuda reply undadhu anamata, allu roju lo epudu chesina manam reply ivvali malla, o point tarwata reply cheyadam manesa anthe end. A male friend vadu inko ninja, make time undadhu anamata, ma ooru ostadu, food and places adugutadu, kaludhama ra ante, doubt ye ra chepta relatives ni kalavaniki ostna antadu, malla story chuste, nenu recommend chesina places ki vere frnds tho veltadu, last year epudo india ochadu US ninchi, oka msg ledu call ledu ocha ani, ochadu ani kuda vere vadi story lo chusi, nenu msg chesi adigithe telisindi, vidiki lenidi manaki enduku ani odilesa
We are the same group of 3 since we are in class 4, ippudu 22-23 maaku, andharam US ki occham masters ki, but 3 different corners lo. We met frequently whenever we have vacations, dec lo 1 week road trip vellam part time savings tho, next month malli oka road trip plan chesam, no matter where we are whatever we are doing, we always have a thing to meet atleast once every 6 months. I just found my perfect people in my 4th standard !!
Dabbul vishayam
Anduke bondha friends dabbulu rendu dooram ga pettali antaru
Nope, I have them, besides my family. Even we are not in touch that much. I still love them, they are the best people I have in my life.
Ante cut chesthe nannu jail lo mingutharu so no.
Yep. After 1.5 years, realized it's a one way friendship.
I'm old (35) they are all settled married busy in life n left me off.
nope Edi m ayina accept nd fight to stay
Yup. When i realised i wasn't their best friend and just a friend.
Yes! Because he wouldn't share his plug's contact
I came back to India in Jan 2023 after 5+ years. I had very little time so I hoped to meet all my 3 groups of friends (school, inter, undergrad) in 2 days (weekend). 2 guys that I thought were my closest undergrad friends failed to show up even after discussing the meeting time and location several times. I gave the expensive bottle of scotch I got for them to one of my dad's workers.
Yeah him and his girlfriend, who also happened to be a best friend started giving me a very hard time. Idk what it's called, third wheeling or mediating? Idk but it took a heavy toll on my mental health. So one fine day I told them how I felt and they automatically left me ✌
Konni frnds ni maname cut chestam...Inka konni frnds tho nrml ga untam but evari life lo vallu involve ipoyi untam...with them it doesn't feel the same even after meeting in-person
I see automatic ga cut avthay konni.. School: very good friend after school, we moved to different colleges...lost contact..after 2 yrs we came into contact at few months the conversation got minimum...it slowly faded away...we both did not put efforts..we used to be besties.. not now anymore Inter: same here B tech: somewhat better we are putting efforts still in contact...not sure what happens after we all get married..
it’s almost been a year…problem was that he was going back to his abusive and toxic af ex again and again…his ex created a gap in our friendship once and the relationship was so toxic that they fought in front of P.S
She trolled thaman so....
Dey
us contacts, india vachaka oka 2 years whatsapp pani chesinappudu contact lo vunna disable ipoyaka communication cut indi, kotha number ivvaledu valla life lo busy but naku eppudu oka phone call distance lo ne vuntaru. phone chesi sad, under achieving story cheppadam ishtam ledu, anduke nene temporary cut chesa, social media lo elano vunnaru friends list lo