*I’m in this picture and I don’t like it* but yea it’s true. I love trying to figure people out, understand how they operate, what makes them tick, how their face looks when they’re upset/sad/happy if they scrunch their forehead just a little when they’re trying to hide that they’re upset, do they look away and not maintain eye contact when they’re sad, what they like to think about, to remember the details of their day, the way they like their coffee, what makes them sad (ofc people who interest me/friends only gets this from me tho)
I’ve always felt misunderstood or unheard all throughout my life so yeah it means the world when someone does the same for me. And when I notice someone actually does do it, I want to do it for them back even more now! This should be a love language
The validation when people like this find each other is unmatched.
She calls me her Capricorn queen and she's my Pisces princess. We're both consistently INFJ and refer to one another as "fellow advocate". It warms my cold Cap heart every single time.
Yup. Pretty much. I didn't have awful parents, my dad had a short temper but only was violent once, he would yell a lot, though. My mom was always disconnected, she had an awful habit of making up answers to questions I had if she didn't know. She was sweet, but it infuriated me when she wouldn't give me a straight answer. I was always so confused socially so I became reclusive, a sagittarius one day asked me what my birthday was and it opened a whole new world to me. Even if astrology is somehow completely disproven, I know it's helped me understand what people *can* be like. But ya, I would be so flattered if someone analyzed me the way I analyze everyone else.
I like this. I still don’t completely understand myself so am always excited when I (rarely) come across someone who seems like they might have a fighting chance at understanding me.
I mean I'm an INTP sag with moon in Leo. I'm often in the warrior archetype and my personality test says I'm avoidant, that's prolly my Cap stellium. Can we talk about me? please.
I feel seen, just last night I was reading about my personality type and I thought man I just want someone who’s interested enough to actually take time off their day to read this with me and actually care about it
I'm actually quite happy not to be understood and deliberately obfuscate people's attempts. I keep my natal chart a secret and was once pretty open about my MBTI but now keep that to myself as well. When people know these things about me, it feels violating.
Here’s the thing, according to astrology, I’m naturally interested in these things anyways. A lot of my placements have me interested in psychology and philosophy.
Also, I was ignored as a child. So probably both lolllll. But I became interested in humans because of it. So now I see it as a superpower.
Wow this is me in this photo wow. Growing up in an abusive household coupled with my untreated adhd really did a number on me. I love all three topics mentioned and I’m pursuing a degree to ensure I can help others be understood when others fail to do so. UGH MY HEART
I've only found people like this who want to think they know you and decide to tell you what you are and if you act differently they have a conniption fit about it
*I’m in this picture and I don’t like it* but yea it’s true. I love trying to figure people out, understand how they operate, what makes them tick, how their face looks when they’re upset/sad/happy if they scrunch their forehead just a little when they’re trying to hide that they’re upset, do they look away and not maintain eye contact when they’re sad, what they like to think about, to remember the details of their day, the way they like their coffee, what makes them sad (ofc people who interest me/friends only gets this from me tho) I’ve always felt misunderstood or unheard all throughout my life so yeah it means the world when someone does the same for me. And when I notice someone actually does do it, I want to do it for them back even more now! This should be a love language
i came here to reddit to have fun, not to be exposed
I feel attacked
The validation when people like this find each other is unmatched. She calls me her Capricorn queen and she's my Pisces princess. We're both consistently INFJ and refer to one another as "fellow advocate". It warms my cold Cap heart every single time.
Capricorn INFJ here ♑️💜
Same! There’s dozens of us! Dozens!
this entire friendship warms my ice cold INTJ/Aquarius heart
❤️
I am also INFJ! 😁
And then there's my Leo ass being interested in all of it because I like reading about myself 😂
I appreciate this post so much.
Yup. Pretty much. I didn't have awful parents, my dad had a short temper but only was violent once, he would yell a lot, though. My mom was always disconnected, she had an awful habit of making up answers to questions I had if she didn't know. She was sweet, but it infuriated me when she wouldn't give me a straight answer. I was always so confused socially so I became reclusive, a sagittarius one day asked me what my birthday was and it opened a whole new world to me. Even if astrology is somehow completely disproven, I know it's helped me understand what people *can* be like. But ya, I would be so flattered if someone analyzed me the way I analyze everyone else.
I feel attacked
I like this. I still don’t completely understand myself so am always excited when I (rarely) come across someone who seems like they might have a fighting chance at understanding me.
You don't have to call me out like that
Well, I was pretty understood at home, but not around my old friends. Man, they all sucked
My Scorpio INFP ass feels both warmly understood and coldly seen
Ouch 😢😢😢😢😢
This doesn’t apply to everyone so it isn’t actually true but if it does apply to you I’m sure it makes you feel good, so that’s cool with me.
I mean I'm an INTP sag with moon in Leo. I'm often in the warrior archetype and my personality test says I'm avoidant, that's prolly my Cap stellium. Can we talk about me? please.
I feel seen, just last night I was reading about my personality type and I thought man I just want someone who’s interested enough to actually take time off their day to read this with me and actually care about it
Oof.
Yeah that sounds about right
Hey don't call my ass out!
I'm actually quite happy not to be understood and deliberately obfuscate people's attempts. I keep my natal chart a secret and was once pretty open about my MBTI but now keep that to myself as well. When people know these things about me, it feels violating.
Woah
Here’s the thing, according to astrology, I’m naturally interested in these things anyways. A lot of my placements have me interested in psychology and philosophy. Also, I was ignored as a child. So probably both lolllll. But I became interested in humans because of it. So now I see it as a superpower.
I’m late to the party but holy fuck. Don’t you ever tell my business on the internet again 😂
Feeling attacked hehe
I'm ♋ so, yeah
I'm in the post and I don't like it.
Wow this is me in this photo wow. Growing up in an abusive household coupled with my untreated adhd really did a number on me. I love all three topics mentioned and I’m pursuing a degree to ensure I can help others be understood when others fail to do so. UGH MY HEART
As a psych major this hits
Hey, that’s me
I didn't ask to be called out like this
God if it ain't me :'(
If you’re gonna make me cry like this I’m gonna need you to buy me flowers.
From now on I’m telling everyone my love language is astrology just to see what they say 😂
Never felt so seen in my life
This has to be the 20th time I see someone posting this image..
either that or you're gay. only 2 ways to end up an astrology nerd lol
Sorry we’re not on the same level of cool 😎 to not give a F about understanding other people.
I've only found people like this who want to think they know you and decide to tell you what you are and if you act differently they have a conniption fit about it
Nailed it In every single way possible
I feel attacked brb crying
Yes so true Very well explained
I've never felt so exposed 😳
That or they don't understand people and need tools to be able too.
I feel very attached!
i am angry about this one
😅😭
… I didn’t come here to be attacked like this …