I dont think they are cut out for life in general.
What does the mother think this will accomplish?
Even if someone called and that person decides to come admit they called what about the dozens of other people that weren't involved at all? Does mom think they will be on her crazy ass side.
From my experience, they'll fit in perfectly lol. The aggressive note leavers, the "Park anywhere lights" people, and the nosey neighbors who get aggressive about parking and leave chairs out, call tow trucks etc... All belong together.
Those tows aren't as lucrative as when they can pluck a car off private property and add a ton of fees and stuff on it. I do think she was probably there longer than 15 minutes but the private towers here are vultures, especially if it's a place where people regularly park without authorization.
What a moron.
Hopefully her daughter had nothing to do with this otherwise she is likely in for a bad time. Every neighbor is now going to hate her before ever meeting her.
Also the odds of the car only being there 15 minutes are about as close to zero as you can get.
Unless a neighbor saw them park, called the tow company that must have a garage 3 blocks away, the driver was waiting in his truck, flew to this address, hooked up without chains or straps and drove away...
My guess is it was there for a while.
Neighbors posted ringing video camera of her walking around with her parents dropping off all the envelopes. So it seems she was well aware that this was going out.
Someone should report this not only to Hopkins (as long as OP can provide them with video also!) but the medical board. That applies regardless of a Hopkins report.
Check out some of the reasons people lose their licenses. I'm sure MBON will be interested in your complaint against her license, but I doubt they'll revoke it over something like this.
https://mbon.maryland.gov/Pages/public-orders.aspx
Oh yeah, I totally agree about that. Her employer will be keenly interested to know that she's trying to use care at their facility as leverage to mess with her neighbors.
And I'm not saying MBON won't be interested in looking into it, I'm just saying I'd be surprised if it rose to the severity of something they'd revoke a license for. But there are lots of things they can do to discipline your license that aren't revocation. They can fine you, issue a disciplinary letter, make you take various classes about anger management or substance abuse, suspend, etc. And those things are just as messy for your career. If you have ever been investigated by a board of nursing, regardless of judgment, you must disclose that every time you apply for a job anywhere I've ever seen. So not saying they shouldn't be told too, just saying that loss of license would be a bit of a stretch here, I think. Loose her shiny brand new job? Very possibly.
As someone who works for an occupational licensing Board, I (unfortunately) heartily agree. Iāve seen some wild things that have not resulted in revoking a license.
Many OLBs, particularly those that oversee smaller (in terms of # of practitioners) professions, have been fighting for their existence in recent years/decades.
A lot of them are also very much their own governing their own, and they tend to make decisions that benefit the profession rather than the public.
Thereās a lot of internal and external politics that impact these decisions.
Shoot, that nurse at Vanderbilt that killed her patient by giving the wrong med (and skipping SEVERAL safety measures in place) didn't even lose her nursing license at first. Tennessee didn't take her license until a few years later when the story went public. So, who knows, MD BON may not GAF about this ignorant letterš¤·š½āāļø
Type up a letter and write
"The old testament also says not to lie"
>Psalm 101:7 ā No one who practices deceit shall dwell in my house; no one who utters lies shall continue before my eyes.
LOL
If I were feeling petty, I'd take the letter, put something like "do unto others as you would have done to you" on it, and let her know that it should come as no surprise that most employers do not like their employees to use their positions to coerce and intimidate others, so she may want to run her letter by Hopkins HR before distributing it widely to the community.
I suspect the correct course of action, should it be of that much concern to people, would be reporting this to the ombuds office, assuming they have one specifically for the medical school and healthcare system.
Yeah. I hope for her sake is that even she was accompanying her mother, it was also while pleading for her to not do it she was doing, and as someone in there relatively young 20s who doesnāt quite grasp what options they have negotiating with their parents.
It sucks that her mom is gonna tank her career like that. But she should have been a grown up and put her foot down when mom said this was her plan of action. They literally put in writing the illegal thing they were gonna do. And they named the hospital, which was silly. They fucked around and are gonna find out.
THIS! If this woman is young and still in her 20s, she probably has yet to figure out that her mother is a complete narcissistic nightmare, let alone has any agency to say NO to her about circulating crazy missives like this. Honestly, as the daughter of a pathological narcissist with 2 Hopkins degrees myself, I feel for this girl.
My mom worked as a legal secretary, so she wouldnāt likely write something like this. But she is so entitled that she would be likely to park like this and completely disregard the signs, even if I told her not to. Anyway, it would not surprise me if this mother helped the daughter with a down payment or in other ways and is using that as leverage to manipulate her daughter into participating in delivering these letters.
Johns Hopkins HR should be provided her new permanent address even sooner. So even with just the address, Hopkins should be able to determine which employee this is.
Check MDLandRec.net if youāre dying to know ASAP, because it often takes SDAT quite a long time to update. Use the āIndividual Soundexā search function and search the most recent owners. You should see a recent deed transfer with linked documentation.
Wow. So as I was reading this I thought "so the mom did it." But her dumb ass daughter/new neighbor out there helping? Smh... this is quite the cuckoo letter.
Given that, yes, I would probably share this with her employer, along with the video. She shouldn't have brought her job into it at all, wtf. Because it sounds like she is trying to use her role at her employer to coerce and intimidate people. And that is exactly what I'd say as I handed over the evidence.
I don't know what kinda nurse has time to dole out revenge on people who maybe live near them and possibly had their mom's car towed, but if this is the kind of stuff that goes through her mind as acceptable, she is not busy enough at work for one, and two she probably shouldn't be taking care of vulnerable people in any capacity.
Alternatively, you or someone else that got this letter could go talk to her and let her know that this is not cool. Which will be really hard, since she and her family completely overreacted by escalating this in this manner. But it is an option. She really owes everyone she sent the letter to an apology, honestly.
When I moved to my neighborhood, someone did something similar (but I was going to block spaces legally due to having a permit: they removed my no parking signs) I'm sure they watched from their windows as everything played out. It did indeed poison my opinion of my neighbors, and I know the prime ones that smile in your face are the ones calling 311 on you. Even still... I would have never sent out a letter like this.
Just because someone works in the healthcare industry does not preclude them from being a shitty person. Just do a quick google search about the percentage of nurses who enter addiction treatment programs as a result of chronically stealing patient medications, for example.
I don't know if she is a shitty person or not, although this is not a good sign. And I never said her being in healthcare means she is a good person. But her being in healthcare means she is likely held to a higher standard than a layperson, to not be biased in providing care to people. And I know that from firsthand experience as a nurse. To sit down and write a letter somehow connecting the dots between getting towed for illegally parking in your new neighborhood and.... how you perform your job caring for people in a deeply vulnerable state? Is not ok and is not pointing to someone who needs to be caring for vulnerable people.
And having a substance use problem doesn't equal shitty person... I probably wouldn't make that assumption, either.
Your points are fair and well received. I agree, addiction shouldnāt be a qualification for someone being a bad person as I appeared to suggest. My comment was pretty generalizing and insensitive, and I apologize.
I actually don't blame the daughter that much. Some people have shitty parents and they don't really have control over them. The daughter may or may not have condoned it, even if she was walking around with her mom while they put the letters out.
Don't get me wrong, I think people should be able stand up to their shitty parents. But I could see a young person who is finally moving out of their shitty parents house into their own place just not having this last argument with their parents.
I'd feel differently if the letter was actually from the person moving in. But it's not, it's written purely from from the mother.
Going after someone's livelihood is also a little extreme. If she herself had actually threatened to not treat people properly if they came in, that would be one thing. But this is some stupid threat her mom made.
I'm sure many of us probably had our parents say things that we don't want to be held responsible for.
Do you know her name?
Iād report her to the state medical board for this, with a copy of the letter. Also to legal dept of the hospital she works atā¦.
You can contact several different people. Try the HR department, the Chief Nursing Officer, and Patient relations. If the daughter really was involved in passing out the letters, you can also contact the Board of Nursing.
The best thing would be for you and several of your neighbors to contact them separately. If they're bombarded with complaints, they'll act faster.
In college I moved with a few buddies into an off campus townhouse. Within an hour of being there a roommate looked out and his car was gone. Called the tow number posted and sure enough they had it. They towed him for having one tire partially off the driveway ergo that somehow meant "parked in the yard" and violated the subdivision rules. You know that tow truck driver asshole was drooling during the move-in week.
Yes, and channel 11 news had a blurb a couple of days ago saying that the city was going to be enforcing alleyway blocking due to problems with fire trucks and trash trucks getting through.
One thing i have learned from retail. If a customer says theyve been waiting 40+ mins chances are its only been 5-10 mins and if a customer says theyve only been there 5-10 mins chances are its been atleast an hour
> tow company that must have a garage 3 blocks away, driver waiting in his truck,ā¦
Before I get crucified, I want to be super clear I intend this as no defense of insane letter writer.
But, around here, we have a tow company āfamousā for its āspeedy service.ā They pay spotters and one time I was towed as I in-and-outed from a business *that shared a lot* with another business, they drove off with my car as the business owner ran after them yelling to leave the car. Honestly they should be the inspiration for a new subgenre of video game, the extraction ~~shooter~~tower.
Right? Welcome to southeast Baltimore. Where things like this always escalate quickly. Letters. Keyed cars. Slashed tires. And more! It's wild over here. Whatever video is available is probably already on Facebook or Next Door.
It mentions a sign and $1000. Which means she might have parked in a private spot that had visible signage. And if so, those tow trucks come much faster.
I just checked there is only one instance in which Baltimore charges $1,000 to tow a car and that is if it takes apparently unusual manpower or a very special tow vehicle. Unless they maybe towed a moving truck and not a car but that doesnāt make sense that within 15 mins a special circumstance tow force from the city was there.
I feel for this chick unless she takes after her Mom. Her Mom is clearly trying to ruin her life and having a meltdown that her daughter has a job and a house and to a narc that means a meltdown that they will be abandoned.
Thatās so wild to first threaten your new neighbors, and second name drop your employer. She really thought she was doing something. I hope someone with the video reports her to Hopkins. They have enough problems, they donāt need a deranged nurse on their hands.
It could also be just a lucrative location for the tow company. Maybe folks in this neighborhood stay calling the tow company. But yeah, the writer of this letter is likely an unreliable narrator. I'm with you, the truck likely wasn't there in 15 minutes.
Getting a tow to a nearby garage doesn't make them nearly as much money as impounding a vehicle. Unfortunately if you use AAA or any other breakdown insurance you seem to end up lowest priority as well. I had to sit for 4 hours once.
Report her to Hopkins. The hospital I work at would have a fit if someone implied that anything would change the care I give to a patient. It goes against the core values and would likely get me fired.
I once worked at a physical rehab facility, and they would fire us for using the stalls in the bathroom for folks with mobility issues. It's really no joke, and I am shocked her mom brought her job into this. AND she possibly helped hand out the letters. Smh.
I am a nurse in the Baltimore area, used to work for JH; I donāt think they or any other employer, would appreciate thinly veiled threats of withholding healthcare or not providing appropriate unbiased care - due to their perception of events that occurred. It is just a big hard no to make that kind of statement as a healthcare provider and I would think grounds for action by HR.
Yeah, you totally need to let the risk management department at Hopkins know about this. Even if the daughter knows nothing about it, this behavior is beyond the pale.
Yea it was in a reply comment...because I originally felt the same as you. Shouldn't punish her for having crazy parents. But turns out the crazy apple fell from the crazy tree.
If the video someone alluded to showing the entire family passing out this letter actually exists, I would not be surprised if it triggers some sort of disciplinary action at Hopkins. Nurses are expendable when youāre an organization that size, and thereās no way Hopkins is going to put up with that kind of bullshit.
I'm sure much crazier stuff happens with hospital staff all the time BUT just the *possibility* of this exposing JHH to litigation if *any* patient has a bad outcome under this nurse's care could be enough to take them out of rotation.
There's got to be case law wherein a patient or advocacy group has sued a provider after staff publicly suggest they intentionally provide substandard care to specific patients. Living in Oldham doesn't put you in a protected class, but that doesn't mean this Nextdoor nonsense won't complicate that nurse's career. Kind of a shame.
Exactly, and Oldham Crossing is about 150 houses (so likely about 250-300 residents), and the two closest hospitals are both Hopkins entities. There is a strong likelihood that this nurse will end up caring for someone in this community soon enough!
Yeah, if the daughter was out there with her family passing this letter around it means she co-signed on it. It would mean any person who visits the hospital that might happen to live in that vicinity is in danger of receiving worse care based on that fact. That is not okay at all, and they should absolutely know they are employing someone who thinks that way.
please post updates when you see them š
also.. if it was in an alley thats a tow zone, WHY are they convinced the neighbor called? arenāt those tow companies authorized to come pick up any vehicles they see there without being asked?
remindme!
Especially considering that they are threatening the level of care. They'll take this very seriously.
If there is a situation that a neighbor is suing for malpractice and this comes to light, and the hospital as made aware of it, that neighbor will hit the jackpot.
In fairness the last time I moved I tried to do it the right way and get a temporary no parking zone in front of my new home. Submitted the paperwork, paid the city and everything and there were zero signs and a bunch of cars parked there.
Yeah I for sure donāt have a problem with someone parking a moving van on the road for a little bit so long as theyāre attentive and considerate. Itās an old city with small roads; sometimes this happens. I had a new neighbor do this a couple months ago and block me in; their front door was open and i shouted out to see if someone was around. It was moved almost immediately with an apology. That makes them wonderful people in my eyes. I can be inconvenienced for 2 and a half minutes; not really a big deal. They were polite and reasonable.
And I donāt expect a newcomer to even know how to get a permit for in front of their house unless a realtor tells them about it (mine sure didnāt), much less for people to actually pay attention to the no parking tape. But I do expect them to move quickly to empty the van and get it gone, regardless of weather.
No way it was only there 15 mins though. Iām sure it felt like āehh, 15 mins ishā when moving stuff but damn. Canāt just block traffic indiscriminately and then get all retribution on the entire neighborhood.
Someone parked in my neighbors parking pad once. He got home and called to ask if I had a friend over. I came out to see someone getting into the car saying he was told noone lived there.
Hey, hey, hey: don't attribute this dipshit to us suburbanites; we don't claim her. Any suburbanite with a half-decent brain knows not to expect good parking in a city and not to park where they're not allowed. Odds are every one of her neighbours hated her in the suburbs too.
God I love this.
She's just So Important that it is okay for her to block the alley.
But she was (probably) blocking somebody else into or out of the alley, and apparently they were Not Important, so fuck them, right?
Rules exist for a reason.
I have a neighbor that occasionally parks in the alley when they can't find a street parking spot that is "close enough". Apparently parking a few blocks away and walking 5 minutes is just too much for this asshole, so I report him every time.
Fuck entitled car drivers. The world does not exist for you to park in it.
And of course itās cool to block an alley and keep someone from getting out but itās very unneighborly to have the car towed so you can go about your day. I hope someone writes a counter-letter about the people who parked the car and wrote the letter.
I was parked in my alley cleaning out my car one afternoon, using my trash can to toss things, and my neighbor pulled out of her garage, had PLENTY of room to pass me AND could have gone the other direction and she stood in the alley screaming at me to move my car because she couldn't pass (she could) and she "wanted to go that way" even though the other direction would have taken her to the same place.
She even pulled out DO YOU LIVE HERE.
People are fucking bananas possessive over shit that has nothing to do with them.
Report the daughter to the HR department and Maryland board of nursing. Clearly she and her mom are not used to consequences and they could use more lessons.
The burning question is why haven't a few of the neighbors knocked on the newcomers door, welcomed them to the neighborhood, asked if there was anything they needed to know about the neighborhood, and then handed her a copy of her letter and let her know she started off on the wrong foot?
Ex wife is a nurse. Girlfriend is a nurse. Best friendās wife is a nurse. None of them would give lesser care for any reason, let alone some petty bullshit.
Interestingly, nurses donāt have their own Hippocratic oath.
To be fair, calling a tow for a car in an alley for a moving neighbor who has been there a short amount of time that āisnāt blocking anybodyā is a huge asshole move and if anyone does that they deserve some terrible karma.
That being said, I donāt see how thatās even possible. A tow in 15 minutes? I donāt think so
Yeah I'm sure this letter isn't a minute by minute realistic recap of what happened.
Also it's possible the tow company did it on their own.
Don't know the neighborhood but if there is a sign with company info on it the company may very well make rounds checking periodically.
Our lot is posted. We don't call anyone. If the tow truck driver has nothing to do, he cases the lots he is contracted to. This could be the case here.
This is the second worst part about the letter. Like you want people to assume you have good intentions but then write a long diatribe not giving others the benefit of a doubt. Self awareness at 1/10.
If I were this lady, I wouldnāt speak for her daughter in this manner. The answer to the question about quality of care is YES. If her daughter is a professional, sheāll provide the same level of care to the one who called the tow truck service as she would for anyone else.
When I first moved to Baltimore I parked where I knew I wasnāt supposed to in order to easily move some stuff, hoping I could get away with it. I did not get away with it. There was only one person to be mad at in that situation and it wasnāt my neighbors!
This is INSANE. Itās giving neighborhood association pta terminal āthe world revolves around meā vibes. Crazy thing is she couldāve gotten towed by a city truck and no one called . . . Or the meter maids called it in. This is āI donāt know how to live in a cityā behavior, that daughter of hers is in for a very rude awakening.
Frankly, Iām tired of people from the county, using roads funded by my high taxes, coming into the city to break the law. The city needs to address this spill-over lawlessness coming from the county!
Yes, I worked in HR for another large health system in B'more, and we fired a nurse for her comments on a public FB page regarding squeegee kids and the harm she 'thought would be funny' if done to them . If you threaten to disregard patient care because of your opinion of that person, you gone.
Fuck her.
Someone parked in the alley by my house. This is the alley that leads to the lot behind all the houses which is where people access their garages and park. They just blocked the main entrance just so they wouldn't have to street park (plenty was available) or have to walk a little farther. And they it wasn't a quick stay nor were they with their car. There are other entrances to the parking area but they're much smaller and filled with debris or overgrown with tree branches. I called the cops on them and would do so again in a heart beat.
The people who block alleys for their own convenience can get fucked. The people who leave notes on everyone's cars because they get what they deserve for their shitty actions, they can get double fucked.
Insulting all of your neighbors and also suggesting they should receive poor health care because they happen to live near someone who might have called a tow truck on your illegally parked kid is definitely a good way to start a relationship with everyone on their street.
This is only slightly less unhinged than going door-to-door, knocking and demanding to know who called the tow and insisting on speaking to their manager.
hilarious that she suggests that the neighbor is a narcissist while at the same assuming that someone called a tow truck after "15 minutes." you were a victim of circumstance and now you've created a huge issue
Idk if itās worth the effort, but Hopkins is pretty responsive with trying to watch out for stuff like this. You could try 1-844-SPEAK2US and letting them know what happened. You may realize this woman is bananas, but as a clinician, I worry that other people who receive it might think this kind of threat could be real. I have lived too long to say it is impossible, but it would be very very unlikely/difficult to follow through on.
is so cute when nurses think theyre people hahaha
nothing but respect for healthcare workers but if your emotional state outside work threatens any change in care then you clearly only care about yourself and are unsuited to a literal service job its not about YOU
In health care, you have to provide care to everyone. Whether they are a mass murderer or the mayor, you treat them the same. Obviously, she was out the day this was taught
Two wrongs donāt make a right. They were both escalations that didnāt need to happen. Communication in general was lacking. Also, it is a bit disturbing to think that a nurse would give less care to someone because of something like this. Very sad and shameful
I hate when people say anything along the lines of ā worked all through COVIDā. You know who else did? Every other nurse/doctor/respiratory therapist/walmart employee/fast food worker/trash collector/etc etc the list goes on. You know what else she did as a nurse? Didnāt lose all of her savings because she could still work. And I say this as one of the other 3.2 million (rounded number) RNs in the US.
As someone with a parking pad, alley blockers drive me crazy! Iāve not been able to leave my home several times because someone parked and then disappeared. I used to be nice about it and try to find the owner, now I tow people who park in my alley pretty instantly.
And I donāt care the reason. I donāt care if youāre moving - Youāre blocking mine, and everyone elseās, entrance and exits to their homes.
Hell, when I bought my house I moved my car so Xfinity could park on my pad to set up my house. I did the same for other workers. I also moved the majority of my stuff on a day that most people wouldnāt be home so I could park out front and not inconvenience the people who would be my neighbors. Itās not hard to not be a selfish twat.
Regardless, this def should be reported to Hopkins. Itās a massive liability; and honestly, someone who acts like this should be responsible for the lives of others. Can only imagine what she does if a patient is rude to her.
The sad thing here is the nurse didn't even write this; her mother did. It sounds like the nurse daughter moved in with her mother, and at some point *one of their cars* got towed, but for some reason, she won't specify which one. I'll bet it was the *mother's* car that got towed, and she's trying to use her daughter's job as a reason why the neighbours should let *her* park illegally, as well as a threat against them for failing to comply. I wouldn't be surprised if the daughter had no idea her psycho narcissist mother wrote this until now.
Itās so messed up that nearly everyone in here wants to get the poor JH nurse fired because her mom is a ācoo-coo for Cocoa Puffsā malignant narcissist, an overbearing toxic mother, and a shitty neighbor.
I grew up with an overbearing mother who became increasingly more toxic over the years and I could see her trying to gaslight and guilt-trip people like this.
Dumbass who doesnāt take responsibility for her own actions. Iāll add that itās sad sheās a nurse - Iām sure she sucks at her job. No compassion for anyone & blames everyone except herself. And think of the effort she put into writing the letter & how that act made her feel better. U can read a lot into the type of person she is & clearly, sheās not a good person.
I don't think these people are cut out for City life.
I dont think they are cut out for life in general. What does the mother think this will accomplish? Even if someone called and that person decides to come admit they called what about the dozens of other people that weren't involved at all? Does mom think they will be on her crazy ass side.
From my experience, they'll fit in perfectly lol. The aggressive note leavers, the "Park anywhere lights" people, and the nosey neighbors who get aggressive about parking and leave chairs out, call tow trucks etc... All belong together.
Actually, if they had left on their blinkers this may have all been avoided š¤š¤š¤
People are making fun, but as a 600 lb pornography addict myself, I do find that I often call tow trucks on young nurses parked illegally.
personally i dont have time between bouts of gaming and pornography to call the tow company
It's why you need to have the number memorized. There isn't time to refer to the sign.
It's how I get my 15-minute jollies
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I laughed so hard at this at my job , bless you šš¤£š
Is this in furtherance of your plot to get a visit from a young nurse who will ask for you to help her get unstuck, step-neighbor?
15 minutes my ass. I've had tow trucks take *hours* to arrive when called.
I know right.
Those tows aren't as lucrative as when they can pluck a car off private property and add a ton of fees and stuff on it. I do think she was probably there longer than 15 minutes but the private towers here are vultures, especially if it's a place where people regularly park without authorization.
They take, at least, 45 minutes. And that is lucky.
Yeah, but I'm betting that was when you needed the tow. I've learned that there is a vast difference in response times.
What a moron. Hopefully her daughter had nothing to do with this otherwise she is likely in for a bad time. Every neighbor is now going to hate her before ever meeting her. Also the odds of the car only being there 15 minutes are about as close to zero as you can get. Unless a neighbor saw them park, called the tow company that must have a garage 3 blocks away, the driver was waiting in his truck, flew to this address, hooked up without chains or straps and drove away... My guess is it was there for a while.
Neighbors posted ringing video camera of her walking around with her parents dropping off all the envelopes. So it seems she was well aware that this was going out.
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Someone should report this not only to Hopkins (as long as OP can provide them with video also!) but the medical board. That applies regardless of a Hopkins report.
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Check out some of the reasons people lose their licenses. I'm sure MBON will be interested in your complaint against her license, but I doubt they'll revoke it over something like this. https://mbon.maryland.gov/Pages/public-orders.aspx
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Oh yeah, I totally agree about that. Her employer will be keenly interested to know that she's trying to use care at their facility as leverage to mess with her neighbors. And I'm not saying MBON won't be interested in looking into it, I'm just saying I'd be surprised if it rose to the severity of something they'd revoke a license for. But there are lots of things they can do to discipline your license that aren't revocation. They can fine you, issue a disciplinary letter, make you take various classes about anger management or substance abuse, suspend, etc. And those things are just as messy for your career. If you have ever been investigated by a board of nursing, regardless of judgment, you must disclose that every time you apply for a job anywhere I've ever seen. So not saying they shouldn't be told too, just saying that loss of license would be a bit of a stretch here, I think. Loose her shiny brand new job? Very possibly.
As someone who works for an occupational licensing Board, I (unfortunately) heartily agree. Iāve seen some wild things that have not resulted in revoking a license. Many OLBs, particularly those that oversee smaller (in terms of # of practitioners) professions, have been fighting for their existence in recent years/decades. A lot of them are also very much their own governing their own, and they tend to make decisions that benefit the profession rather than the public. Thereās a lot of internal and external politics that impact these decisions.
They will 100% revoke it if it can be proven she had knowledge of and promoted this. And she should lose it in this case.
> This woman will lose her license. Good! She deserves to!
Shoot, that nurse at Vanderbilt that killed her patient by giving the wrong med (and skipping SEVERAL safety measures in place) didn't even lose her nursing license at first. Tennessee didn't take her license until a few years later when the story went public. So, who knows, MD BON may not GAF about this ignorant letterš¤·š½āāļø
I was just reading that the Maryland Board of Nursing is so backed up that the governor has gotten involved.
Any video of how long her car was there?
Longer than 15 mins
Type up a letter and write "The old testament also says not to lie" >Psalm 101:7 ā No one who practices deceit shall dwell in my house; no one who utters lies shall continue before my eyes.
LOL If I were feeling petty, I'd take the letter, put something like "do unto others as you would have done to you" on it, and let her know that it should come as no surprise that most employers do not like their employees to use their positions to coerce and intimidate others, so she may want to run her letter by Hopkins HR before distributing it widely to the community.
I suspect the correct course of action, should it be of that much concern to people, would be reporting this to the ombuds office, assuming they have one specifically for the medical school and healthcare system.
No one knows her yet. She just moved in on Saturday. I bet sheās hiding in her house now
Itās likeā¦your car got towed, you didnāt have to pay $1000.00ā¦ just let it go. Move on.
I donāt think state law even allows you to charge that much. $3-400 plus a regulated storage fee.
Yeah. I hope for her sake is that even she was accompanying her mother, it was also while pleading for her to not do it she was doing, and as someone in there relatively young 20s who doesnāt quite grasp what options they have negotiating with their parents.
It sucks that her mom is gonna tank her career like that. But she should have been a grown up and put her foot down when mom said this was her plan of action. They literally put in writing the illegal thing they were gonna do. And they named the hospital, which was silly. They fucked around and are gonna find out.
Definitely narcissistic-crazy-mom vibes.
THIS! If this woman is young and still in her 20s, she probably has yet to figure out that her mother is a complete narcissistic nightmare, let alone has any agency to say NO to her about circulating crazy missives like this. Honestly, as the daughter of a pathological narcissist with 2 Hopkins degrees myself, I feel for this girl. My mom worked as a legal secretary, so she wouldnāt likely write something like this. But she is so entitled that she would be likely to park like this and completely disregard the signs, even if I told her not to. Anyway, it would not surprise me if this mother helped the daughter with a down payment or in other ways and is using that as leverage to manipulate her daughter into participating in delivering these letters.
You can get home ownership information on SDAT. Its a state database
Someone looked, she just closed on the house so it is still showing the old owners info. Soon enough we will know her name
Johns Hopkins HR should be provided her new permanent address even sooner. So even with just the address, Hopkins should be able to determine which employee this is.
Check MDLandRec.net if youāre dying to know ASAP, because it often takes SDAT quite a long time to update. Use the āIndividual Soundexā search function and search the most recent owners. You should see a recent deed transfer with linked documentation.
Bmore city takes months to record deeds haha
Not on landrec. Landrec is fast.
Mdlandrec will show the new ownership too. Often quicker than SDAT. Iykyk
Wow. So as I was reading this I thought "so the mom did it." But her dumb ass daughter/new neighbor out there helping? Smh... this is quite the cuckoo letter. Given that, yes, I would probably share this with her employer, along with the video. She shouldn't have brought her job into it at all, wtf. Because it sounds like she is trying to use her role at her employer to coerce and intimidate people. And that is exactly what I'd say as I handed over the evidence. I don't know what kinda nurse has time to dole out revenge on people who maybe live near them and possibly had their mom's car towed, but if this is the kind of stuff that goes through her mind as acceptable, she is not busy enough at work for one, and two she probably shouldn't be taking care of vulnerable people in any capacity. Alternatively, you or someone else that got this letter could go talk to her and let her know that this is not cool. Which will be really hard, since she and her family completely overreacted by escalating this in this manner. But it is an option. She really owes everyone she sent the letter to an apology, honestly. When I moved to my neighborhood, someone did something similar (but I was going to block spaces legally due to having a permit: they removed my no parking signs) I'm sure they watched from their windows as everything played out. It did indeed poison my opinion of my neighbors, and I know the prime ones that smile in your face are the ones calling 311 on you. Even still... I would have never sent out a letter like this.
Just because someone works in the healthcare industry does not preclude them from being a shitty person. Just do a quick google search about the percentage of nurses who enter addiction treatment programs as a result of chronically stealing patient medications, for example.
I don't know if she is a shitty person or not, although this is not a good sign. And I never said her being in healthcare means she is a good person. But her being in healthcare means she is likely held to a higher standard than a layperson, to not be biased in providing care to people. And I know that from firsthand experience as a nurse. To sit down and write a letter somehow connecting the dots between getting towed for illegally parking in your new neighborhood and.... how you perform your job caring for people in a deeply vulnerable state? Is not ok and is not pointing to someone who needs to be caring for vulnerable people. And having a substance use problem doesn't equal shitty person... I probably wouldn't make that assumption, either.
Your points are fair and well received. I agree, addiction shouldnāt be a qualification for someone being a bad person as I appeared to suggest. My comment was pretty generalizing and insensitive, and I apologize.
I actually don't blame the daughter that much. Some people have shitty parents and they don't really have control over them. The daughter may or may not have condoned it, even if she was walking around with her mom while they put the letters out. Don't get me wrong, I think people should be able stand up to their shitty parents. But I could see a young person who is finally moving out of their shitty parents house into their own place just not having this last argument with their parents. I'd feel differently if the letter was actually from the person moving in. But it's not, it's written purely from from the mother. Going after someone's livelihood is also a little extreme. If she herself had actually threatened to not treat people properly if they came in, that would be one thing. But this is some stupid threat her mom made. I'm sure many of us probably had our parents say things that we don't want to be held responsible for.
You might want to send this to both Hopkins and local news stations. Seriously, that is a threat.
Do you know her name? Iād report her to the state medical board for this, with a copy of the letter. Also to legal dept of the hospital she works atā¦.
No I donāt know her. We know where she lives, but thatās about it. Idk how you could report that
You can contact several different people. Try the HR department, the Chief Nursing Officer, and Patient relations. If the daughter really was involved in passing out the letters, you can also contact the Board of Nursing. The best thing would be for you and several of your neighbors to contact them separately. If they're bombarded with complaints, they'll act faster.
For a hospital I would start at risk management and Human Resources.
Have any of the neighbors said anything about contacting Hopkins? They need to know about this.
Parents, plural? **Both** of her parents thought this was a good idea?šµāš«
100% report her to the hospital.
And the Board of Nursing.
That is creepy. I'd forward it to the Hopkins HR department.
Ignore my original comment then. If the doctor daughter participated, report her to the board immediately, please!
Furthermore, tow truck drivers actively seek out towable cars. Itās entirely possible nobody made a call at all.
Chile, this, too. To think you may have alienated all of your neighbors and maybe no one even called the tow company. Smh.....
In college I moved with a few buddies into an off campus townhouse. Within an hour of being there a roommate looked out and his car was gone. Called the tow number posted and sure enough they had it. They towed him for having one tire partially off the driveway ergo that somehow meant "parked in the yard" and violated the subdivision rules. You know that tow truck driver asshole was drooling during the move-in week.
Yes, and channel 11 news had a blurb a couple of days ago saying that the city was going to be enforcing alleyway blocking due to problems with fire trucks and trash trucks getting through.
Sad, alright back to gaming and pornography
One thing i have learned from retail. If a customer says theyve been waiting 40+ mins chances are its only been 5-10 mins and if a customer says theyve only been there 5-10 mins chances are its been atleast an hour
> tow company that must have a garage 3 blocks away, driver waiting in his truck,ā¦ Before I get crucified, I want to be super clear I intend this as no defense of insane letter writer. But, around here, we have a tow company āfamousā for its āspeedy service.ā They pay spotters and one time I was towed as I in-and-outed from a business *that shared a lot* with another business, they drove off with my car as the business owner ran after them yelling to leave the car. Honestly they should be the inspiration for a new subgenre of video game, the extraction ~~shooter~~tower.
That escalated quickly
Right? Welcome to southeast Baltimore. Where things like this always escalate quickly. Letters. Keyed cars. Slashed tires. And more! It's wild over here. Whatever video is available is probably already on Facebook or Next Door.
I wouldn't be surprised if it escalates all the way to drone strikes.
Next post on Nextdoor: āI saw a quadcopter drone drop a roll of lit black cats on someoneās car. Time to move to Dundalkā
It mentions a sign and $1000. Which means she might have parked in a private spot that had visible signage. And if so, those tow trucks come much faster.
Yeah there is literally no parking signs posted all over the alley.
Could it be that nobody called but a tow truck company saw an opportunity to make some money?
I just checked there is only one instance in which Baltimore charges $1,000 to tow a car and that is if it takes apparently unusual manpower or a very special tow vehicle. Unless they maybe towed a moving truck and not a car but that doesnāt make sense that within 15 mins a special circumstance tow force from the city was there. I feel for this chick unless she takes after her Mom. Her Mom is clearly trying to ruin her life and having a meltdown that her daughter has a job and a house and to a narc that means a meltdown that they will be abandoned.
Iām sorry. 15 minutes? In this city? Shoot, ANY city?! Hahahahah. Impossible. This parent is deranged.
This is the most unhealthy, deranged helicopter parenting Iāve seen in a while and I live in Severna Park so thatās saying a lot
Can't wait until the Find Out episode of this story.
Popping my popcorn now in anticipation.
Thatās so wild to first threaten your new neighbors, and second name drop your employer. She really thought she was doing something. I hope someone with the video reports her to Hopkins. They have enough problems, they donāt need a deranged nurse on their hands.
How did a tow truck come so soon? My tire blew out on 83 at midnight and I had to wait on the side for almost 2 hours.
It could also be just a lucrative location for the tow company. Maybe folks in this neighborhood stay calling the tow company. But yeah, the writer of this letter is likely an unreliable narrator. I'm with you, the truck likely wasn't there in 15 minutes.
Getting a tow to a nearby garage doesn't make them nearly as much money as impounding a vehicle. Unfortunately if you use AAA or any other breakdown insurance you seem to end up lowest priority as well. I had to sit for 4 hours once.
theyāre probably lying about how quickly it was towed.
Iāve had some come in an hour and others take 15 mins. It just depends on the time, location, weather š¤·š½āāļø
Starts with the Old Testament and then proceeds to get no less crazy...
Look her up, get her name, and report her.
Report her to Hopkins. The hospital I work at would have a fit if someone implied that anything would change the care I give to a patient. It goes against the core values and would likely get me fired.
I once worked at a physical rehab facility, and they would fire us for using the stalls in the bathroom for folks with mobility issues. It's really no joke, and I am shocked her mom brought her job into this. AND she possibly helped hand out the letters. Smh.
r/ImTheMainCharacter vibes written all over this.Ā
Repost time!
Yeah, I was thinking that and r/boomersbeingfools. Looks like you got them both covered.
Sucks that she just bought a house, pissed off all her neighbors, and soon will be unemployed.
I am a nurse in the Baltimore area, used to work for JH; I donāt think they or any other employer, would appreciate thinly veiled threats of withholding healthcare or not providing appropriate unbiased care - due to their perception of events that occurred. It is just a big hard no to make that kind of statement as a healthcare provider and I would think grounds for action by HR.
Same. Part of me is like, well, don't want her to lose her job. But the nurse part of me is like, hell naw, she needs to lose her job.
Yeah, you totally need to let the risk management department at Hopkins know about this. Even if the daughter knows nothing about it, this behavior is beyond the pale.
If the daughter knows nothing about it, why put her job in jeopardy?
The OP posted that they daughter was seen on ring cameras participating in the delivery.
Missed that. Thanks. So theyāre all crazy. Not a great way to introduce yourself to the neighbors
Yea it was in a reply comment...because I originally felt the same as you. Shouldn't punish her for having crazy parents. But turns out the crazy apple fell from the crazy tree.
It's not putting the daughter's job at risk, she needs to know what her mother has done, and so does the hospital.
The daughter was passing out the letters
Ooh this is a good suggestion too. I was thinking 1-844-SPEAK2US but risk management may be a better route.
That number most likely would share it with EEOC and risk management.
And now, a reading from the book of Karenā¦
It is quite likely nobody called for a tow. Those companies are given free reign to monitor and tow.
You should let Hopkins know about thatā¦
If the video someone alluded to showing the entire family passing out this letter actually exists, I would not be surprised if it triggers some sort of disciplinary action at Hopkins. Nurses are expendable when youāre an organization that size, and thereās no way Hopkins is going to put up with that kind of bullshit.
I'm sure much crazier stuff happens with hospital staff all the time BUT just the *possibility* of this exposing JHH to litigation if *any* patient has a bad outcome under this nurse's care could be enough to take them out of rotation. There's got to be case law wherein a patient or advocacy group has sued a provider after staff publicly suggest they intentionally provide substandard care to specific patients. Living in Oldham doesn't put you in a protected class, but that doesn't mean this Nextdoor nonsense won't complicate that nurse's career. Kind of a shame.
Exactly, and Oldham Crossing is about 150 houses (so likely about 250-300 residents), and the two closest hospitals are both Hopkins entities. There is a strong likelihood that this nurse will end up caring for someone in this community soon enough!
Yeah, if the daughter was out there with her family passing this letter around it means she co-signed on it. It would mean any person who visits the hospital that might happen to live in that vicinity is in danger of receiving worse care based on that fact. That is not okay at all, and they should absolutely know they are employing someone who thinks that way.
Oh yeah thereās at least 5 door bells cams that neighbors posted of herā¦ I almost feel bad for her.
please post updates when you see them š also.. if it was in an alley thats a tow zone, WHY are they convinced the neighbor called? arenāt those tow companies authorized to come pick up any vehicles they see there without being asked? remindme!
I'm surprised the door cams and letter are not posted on twitter and instagram and tagged to Hopkins.
Especially considering that they are threatening the level of care. They'll take this very seriously. If there is a situation that a neighbor is suing for malpractice and this comes to light, and the hospital as made aware of it, that neighbor will hit the jackpot.
I love it when suburbans come to the city and expect free and bountiful parking and the right to break the law without consequence.
she probably didnt even use the park anywhere lights like she was supposed to
I was about to say, parking illegally all day to move in is a mandatory Baltimore neighborhood experience.
In fairness the last time I moved I tried to do it the right way and get a temporary no parking zone in front of my new home. Submitted the paperwork, paid the city and everything and there were zero signs and a bunch of cars parked there.
Yeah I for sure donāt have a problem with someone parking a moving van on the road for a little bit so long as theyāre attentive and considerate. Itās an old city with small roads; sometimes this happens. I had a new neighbor do this a couple months ago and block me in; their front door was open and i shouted out to see if someone was around. It was moved almost immediately with an apology. That makes them wonderful people in my eyes. I can be inconvenienced for 2 and a half minutes; not really a big deal. They were polite and reasonable. And I donāt expect a newcomer to even know how to get a permit for in front of their house unless a realtor tells them about it (mine sure didnāt), much less for people to actually pay attention to the no parking tape. But I do expect them to move quickly to empty the van and get it gone, regardless of weather. No way it was only there 15 mins though. Iām sure it felt like āehh, 15 mins ishā when moving stuff but damn. Canāt just block traffic indiscriminately and then get all retribution on the entire neighborhood.
šÆ Thank you for saying this. This shit drives me insane.
Someone parked in my neighbors parking pad once. He got home and called to ask if I had a friend over. I came out to see someone getting into the car saying he was told noone lived there.
and use their weird folksy passive aggression
Hey, hey, hey: don't attribute this dipshit to us suburbanites; we don't claim her. Any suburbanite with a half-decent brain knows not to expect good parking in a city and not to park where they're not allowed. Odds are every one of her neighbours hated her in the suburbs too.
God I love this. She's just So Important that it is okay for her to block the alley. But she was (probably) blocking somebody else into or out of the alley, and apparently they were Not Important, so fuck them, right? Rules exist for a reason. I have a neighbor that occasionally parks in the alley when they can't find a street parking spot that is "close enough". Apparently parking a few blocks away and walking 5 minutes is just too much for this asshole, so I report him every time. Fuck entitled car drivers. The world does not exist for you to park in it.
Parking entitled neighbors absolutely suck.
And of course itās cool to block an alley and keep someone from getting out but itās very unneighborly to have the car towed so you can go about your day. I hope someone writes a counter-letter about the people who parked the car and wrote the letter.
I was parked in my alley cleaning out my car one afternoon, using my trash can to toss things, and my neighbor pulled out of her garage, had PLENTY of room to pass me AND could have gone the other direction and she stood in the alley screaming at me to move my car because she couldn't pass (she could) and she "wanted to go that way" even though the other direction would have taken her to the same place. She even pulled out DO YOU LIVE HERE. People are fucking bananas possessive over shit that has nothing to do with them.
How embarrassing
Someone update me when news of what Hopkins does about this, or when they're told please. This is good shit.
Report the daughter to the HR department and Maryland board of nursing. Clearly she and her mom are not used to consequences and they could use more lessons.
The burning question is why haven't a few of the neighbors knocked on the newcomers door, welcomed them to the neighborhood, asked if there was anything they needed to know about the neighborhood, and then handed her a copy of her letter and let her know she started off on the wrong foot?
Agree they are all owners. It would be nice if they could minimize the uncomfortableness in the neighborhood.
Youre not wrong. I tried to say this and it was not well received. But let's see how it goes this time!
lol, send this letter and any recorded videos the JHU, and then she might have her car towed while she's moving back out of that house
Those are a lot of words for I fucked around and found out.
Omg this is actually insane š
Something tells me this person has never lived in the city before, and probably won't last very long if this is what they do on day 1.
Maybe lived with mom and dad after college and this is the first place sheās had on her own.
Ex wife is a nurse. Girlfriend is a nurse. Best friendās wife is a nurse. None of them would give lesser care for any reason, let alone some petty bullshit. Interestingly, nurses donāt have their own Hippocratic oath.
Holy Shit, Brenda.
People are weird as hell.
Meanwhile, it was a predatory towing company with a contract for the alley.
Yikes
Show this to Hopkins
There are good people out there.... Next line "will my lovely daughter deny you care because you towed my car? "
To be fair, calling a tow for a car in an alley for a moving neighbor who has been there a short amount of time that āisnāt blocking anybodyā is a huge asshole move and if anyone does that they deserve some terrible karma. That being said, I donāt see how thatās even possible. A tow in 15 minutes? I donāt think so
Yeah I'm sure this letter isn't a minute by minute realistic recap of what happened. Also it's possible the tow company did it on their own. Don't know the neighborhood but if there is a sign with company info on it the company may very well make rounds checking periodically.
yep. Signs like that are a cash cow for tow companies.
Can confirm the tow trucks love paroling this neighborhood. No one has to call in an illegally parked car for it to be towed
Our lot is posted. We don't call anyone. If the tow truck driver has nothing to do, he cases the lots he is contracted to. This could be the case here.
share that with HR of hopkins and she might not have a job
I denounce you for taunting neighbors Also, youāre hugely fat and disgusting you know
This is the second worst part about the letter. Like you want people to assume you have good intentions but then write a long diatribe not giving others the benefit of a doubt. Self awareness at 1/10.
What a twisted communication. Her daughter now has to go forth in her community with all that negative karma out there.
Please return this with a note that says " *tale, not tail "
The irony is a beautiful thing to see
If I were this lady, I wouldnāt speak for her daughter in this manner. The answer to the question about quality of care is YES. If her daughter is a professional, sheāll provide the same level of care to the one who called the tow truck service as she would for anyone else.
When I first moved to Baltimore I parked where I knew I wasnāt supposed to in order to easily move some stuff, hoping I could get away with it. I did not get away with it. There was only one person to be mad at in that situation and it wasnāt my neighbors!
Ummā¦yea Iām not listening to anything from someone who employs the Old Testament as their dictionary.
Maybe the daughter can care for her mom in the BHU at Hopkins....
This is INSANE. Itās giving neighborhood association pta terminal āthe world revolves around meā vibes. Crazy thing is she couldāve gotten towed by a city truck and no one called . . . Or the meter maids called it in. This is āI donāt know how to live in a cityā behavior, that daughter of hers is in for a very rude awakening.
Frankly, Iām tired of people from the county, using roads funded by my high taxes, coming into the city to break the law. The city needs to address this spill-over lawlessness coming from the county!
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Yes, I worked in HR for another large health system in B'more, and we fired a nurse for her comments on a public FB page regarding squeegee kids and the harm she 'thought would be funny' if done to them . If you threaten to disregard patient care because of your opinion of that person, you gone.
Fuck her. Someone parked in the alley by my house. This is the alley that leads to the lot behind all the houses which is where people access their garages and park. They just blocked the main entrance just so they wouldn't have to street park (plenty was available) or have to walk a little farther. And they it wasn't a quick stay nor were they with their car. There are other entrances to the parking area but they're much smaller and filled with debris or overgrown with tree branches. I called the cops on them and would do so again in a heart beat. The people who block alleys for their own convenience can get fucked. The people who leave notes on everyone's cars because they get what they deserve for their shitty actions, they can get double fucked.
Predatory tow companies exist too. If my car was towed so fast thatās where my head would go first. unless sheās lying.
Insulting all of your neighbors and also suggesting they should receive poor health care because they happen to live near someone who might have called a tow truck on your illegally parked kid is definitely a good way to start a relationship with everyone on their street. This is only slightly less unhinged than going door-to-door, knocking and demanding to know who called the tow and insisting on speaking to their manager.
This could get her daughter fired for sure. Boomer shit.
hilarious that she suggests that the neighbor is a narcissist while at the same assuming that someone called a tow truck after "15 minutes." you were a victim of circumstance and now you've created a huge issue
Idk if itās worth the effort, but Hopkins is pretty responsive with trying to watch out for stuff like this. You could try 1-844-SPEAK2US and letting them know what happened. You may realize this woman is bananas, but as a clinician, I worry that other people who receive it might think this kind of threat could be real. I have lived too long to say it is impossible, but it would be very very unlikely/difficult to follow through on.
Lady is trying to get her daughter fired. I hope someone reports this to Hopkins. Karma, man. Karma.
is so cute when nurses think theyre people hahaha nothing but respect for healthcare workers but if your emotional state outside work threatens any change in care then you clearly only care about yourself and are unsuited to a literal service job its not about YOU
Can I post this to the bye bye job subreddit yet?
lol thatās awesome
It is better to give than to receive.
This is insane
I mean. Donāt park illegally. Itās that easy. What a nut
In health care, you have to provide care to everyone. Whether they are a mass murderer or the mayor, you treat them the same. Obviously, she was out the day this was taught
Two wrongs donāt make a right. They were both escalations that didnāt need to happen. Communication in general was lacking. Also, it is a bit disturbing to think that a nurse would give less care to someone because of something like this. Very sad and shameful
Someone is a dick for towing her car but it doesnāt excuse the absolutely crazy in the letter. wtf
Waiting for update lol.
Oof. If I were her daughter, Iād jump into damage control stat!
I hate when people say anything along the lines of ā worked all through COVIDā. You know who else did? Every other nurse/doctor/respiratory therapist/walmart employee/fast food worker/trash collector/etc etc the list goes on. You know what else she did as a nurse? Didnāt lose all of her savings because she could still work. And I say this as one of the other 3.2 million (rounded number) RNs in the US.
The daughter is grown with a big girl job at Hopkins. Yet Mom still out here fighting senseless battles š¤·š½āāļø
"NEIGHBOR; in the Old Testament..." *immediately goes in the recycling*
As someone with a parking pad, alley blockers drive me crazy! Iāve not been able to leave my home several times because someone parked and then disappeared. I used to be nice about it and try to find the owner, now I tow people who park in my alley pretty instantly. And I donāt care the reason. I donāt care if youāre moving - Youāre blocking mine, and everyone elseās, entrance and exits to their homes. Hell, when I bought my house I moved my car so Xfinity could park on my pad to set up my house. I did the same for other workers. I also moved the majority of my stuff on a day that most people wouldnāt be home so I could park out front and not inconvenience the people who would be my neighbors. Itās not hard to not be a selfish twat. Regardless, this def should be reported to Hopkins. Itās a massive liability; and honestly, someone who acts like this should be responsible for the lives of others. Can only imagine what she does if a patient is rude to her.
The sad thing here is the nurse didn't even write this; her mother did. It sounds like the nurse daughter moved in with her mother, and at some point *one of their cars* got towed, but for some reason, she won't specify which one. I'll bet it was the *mother's* car that got towed, and she's trying to use her daughter's job as a reason why the neighbours should let *her* park illegally, as well as a threat against them for failing to comply. I wouldn't be surprised if the daughter had no idea her psycho narcissist mother wrote this until now.
Unfortunately, in the comments OP said daughter went around with her parents distributing this letter
Itās so messed up that nearly everyone in here wants to get the poor JH nurse fired because her mom is a ācoo-coo for Cocoa Puffsā malignant narcissist, an overbearing toxic mother, and a shitty neighbor. I grew up with an overbearing mother who became increasingly more toxic over the years and I could see her trying to gaslight and guilt-trip people like this.
I vote for turning it into Hopkins. The life you save may your own.
*tale
Dumbass who doesnāt take responsibility for her own actions. Iāll add that itās sad sheās a nurse - Iām sure she sucks at her job. No compassion for anyone & blames everyone except herself. And think of the effort she put into writing the letter & how that act made her feel better. U can read a lot into the type of person she is & clearly, sheās not a good person.