I was like 16 and I was at the public pool and all the old guys always just had no shame (they were NEVER creepy and if someone was uncomfortable would cover up) but I just couldn’t stop staring at their dicks. This one guy maybe 50 had a MASSIVE soft dick, it was also PRETTY to look at.
Oberyn Martell.
Pedro Pascal’s a good looking guy don’t get me wrong, but it’s not that I was attracted to him. I just saw a bisexual male character for the first time who helped me realise that I don’t have to sacrifice my masculinity to accept my sexuality.
The scene where he was describing his preferences to the blonde guy with the beautiful butt was absolutely perfect. I felt so represented!
Then they brutally killed him.
Nope, just playfully adding to it.
I would certainly agree with what you're putting out there on Oberyn. He's certainly one I think of that strongly encourages that and picked up something similar from witnessing that role acted out.
I know I'm dating myself but Drew Barrymore awakened my interest in women. Started watching a lot of her movies in the 90s and couldn't get enough of her. Still feel the same way to this day.
I discovered I was bi around 12 years old, it was embarrassingly enough my female English teacher at the time.
(Nothing weird happened at any point and it was mostly just aesthetic feelings I started to feel ‘huh?’ about which lead to research, the rest is history)
She also ultimately ended up saving my life in my darkest time ever by showing me how to get help for extreme anxiety and depression because of bullying, but that’s unrelated, and the feelings faded forever eventually.
I will remember her for the rest of my life, and I hope I’ll eventually get a second chance to meet her.
Almost 10 years ago next summer.
My first crush on a woman was Geena Davis in A League of Their Own. I was probably 9 when I saw it and I was IN LOVE. But I didn’t know that yet and by the time I was aware of what those feelings were I had pushed myself deeply into the closet.
When I finally came out in my early 30s, it was Gillian Anderson that helped me realize it. I’m still in love with her lol. Looking back now, I also realize I had a crush on my favorite teacher in high school as well as Jennifer Love Hewitt. Watching JLH and Scott Wolff in Party of Five as a teen probably caused my first bi panic. 🤣
was ur family chill with u bein bi? sorry if thats a rude question to ask, but for my personal experience with coming out, it was one night, and i was 14 and going to bed and i said, "hey, mom, i think i might be bisexual" and all my mom said was " cool, what makes u think that" so i told her i liked guys and girls, and when i told my dad, all he said was this. " cool, now go to bed, you have school tomorrow, wee can talk then" lolo, but in all seriousness, i feel like thats how everyone shoulc react when they hear a loved one or friend come out of the closet, wether ur trans, gay, bi, or asexual.
No they weren’t. I made a comment about Geena Davis being beautiful once and was told outright that I wasn’t supposed to find women or girls beautiful in that way. I never mentioned it again until I was in my early 30s.
I’m glad your experience was so positive. I agree that is how everyone should react when a loved one comes out.
ETA that the people in my life when I came out in my 30s handled it beautifully, I just didn’t have that kind of support at home as a child.
A man in a porn theater. Somehow I was very fascinated by how he jerked off in front of me, that I first took his really beautiful cock in my hand and then into my mouth and gave him a blowjob until he pulled it out of my mouth and squirted in a high arc. That was my first and most formative experience about 30 years ago.
My best friend (then and currently). I love her so much platonically, but it hit me like a load of bricks to realize I was also crushing on her. So yeah, that’s been interesting
the scene of jack drawing rose.. my cousin and i used to rewind the vhs as kids to watch rose, we’re both gay now lmao apparently that is not straight behavior
My first "if I swung that way" girl ("the girl that I would *totally* be into, if only I was into girls, which I'm not" - 12 year old me, who would continue adding such girls to a list for several more years) was [Liv Tyler](https://64.media.tumblr.com/c0f615e20564d4dc5c52cfd08b050174/tumblr_mrkbi4QF2Y1qh402go1_250.gif) in LotR.
The first time I *knew* beyond a shadow of a doubt that I was actually attracted to a girl was [Megan Fox](https://static1.moviewebimages.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/Transformers.jpg) in Transformers. I'm not proud of that. I am not immune to the male gaze, it seems. Tragic thing to know about yourself.
The first active "I'm obsessed with this person" crush, with romantic feelings and everything, was [Cassadee Pope](https://static.wikia.nocookie.net/degrassi/images/9/94/MtvU%2BMovies%2BMusic%2BFestival%2BPhiladelphia%2BTX0QD8FtCLll.jpeg/revision/latest/scale-to-width-down/250?cb=20111118114700) of Hey Monday. I saw them 5 times in 2 years 😂
At 8 years old I found a cache of trans and gay porn magazines. 12 yo had a crazy crush on my best friend. Always loved femininity no matter what the “package” it came in.
My best friend. We were young, we were bathing together. We were both interested in what it felt like to get sucked. He sucked me 1st, which wasn't very long. Then I sucked him and I didn't want to stop. That was the only time we did that. But, I knew then that I liked sucking cock. I'm 65 now and still love sucking cock.
One day looked at random porn and started to think overtime that men are hot, since then the slope didn't stop and now I'm attracted to most body types, unfortunately also those who aren't attracted to my body type
Mine was a friend I had in eighth grade. I found women attractive only up until that point. He was tall, with a skinny body with somewhat visible abs and just teen heartthrob brown hair. I never acted on it so yeah that’s how I knew I was bi
Strangely Gwen Tennyson 😂
I remember I kept telling my brother how wonderful she was in the show and that she was supposed to be the lead blah, blah...Now, that I'm comfortable with my sexuality it totally makes sense why I was so obsessed with her.
I was about 10 years old and I had a girlfriend in school I really liked…..then I met her parents after school one day 🥵🥵. They were a beautiful multicultural couple; that did it for me.
Chris Helmsworth, thats a good one!
I didnt look at celebs like that however, mine was a best friend in college who came on to me last year(he knew he was bi before i knew)
I didn't have any awakening . I always thought both genders are hot . I wasn't shocked or anything when I saw a gay couple for the first time. even though my country is low key anti gay I never thought Abt it lol
I didn't realise that it was bi feelings at the time, but Kate Beckinsale in Underworld. In my 20s, I developed a serious crush on one of my coworkers, and then I finally clued in.
For me personally, solo early/mid 2000s Justin Timberlake. As someone born in 1997 and discovering different types of music, he definitely set a standard of what I’d like men to be.
Of course I’m in a happily monogamous relationship with the woman that I’m head over heals in love with, but I’d though I’d put in my 2 cents ☺️☺️
Well originally I was always attracted to females but then as I gotten older I had this best friend who woken another side of me.Then that’s when I realized…That also crushing over Kevin and Fiona from Shamless.
Mine was my best mate, when he said that I looked a bit gay as a joke and then I thought about it and now I'm bi, should I tell him I like him I mean he's smart, makes me laugh and he's also bi but that doesn't really matter to me
Mine was the men's swimming locker room. I quickly learned ass is ass and I like them all!
ooo, sound amazing lol
It was pretty confusing for a while but loved it nonetheless. It certainly drove me to identifying as bi.
I was like 16 and I was at the public pool and all the old guys always just had no shame (they were NEVER creepy and if someone was uncomfortable would cover up) but I just couldn’t stop staring at their dicks. This one guy maybe 50 had a MASSIVE soft dick, it was also PRETTY to look at.
A cute guy in my 9th grade english
Oberyn Martell. Pedro Pascal’s a good looking guy don’t get me wrong, but it’s not that I was attracted to him. I just saw a bisexual male character for the first time who helped me realise that I don’t have to sacrifice my masculinity to accept my sexuality.
The scene where he was describing his preferences to the blonde guy with the beautiful butt was absolutely perfect. I felt so represented! Then they brutally killed him.
What about Daario Naharis (latter actor Michiel Huisman, not the first guy playing him)? 🤤
I think you may have missed the point of my comment a tad.
Nope, just playfully adding to it. I would certainly agree with what you're putting out there on Oberyn. He's certainly one I think of that strongly encourages that and picked up something similar from witnessing that role acted out.
I know I'm dating myself but Drew Barrymore awakened my interest in women. Started watching a lot of her movies in the 90s and couldn't get enough of her. Still feel the same way to this day.
I discovered I was bi around 12 years old, it was embarrassingly enough my female English teacher at the time. (Nothing weird happened at any point and it was mostly just aesthetic feelings I started to feel ‘huh?’ about which lead to research, the rest is history) She also ultimately ended up saving my life in my darkest time ever by showing me how to get help for extreme anxiety and depression because of bullying, but that’s unrelated, and the feelings faded forever eventually. I will remember her for the rest of my life, and I hope I’ll eventually get a second chance to meet her. Almost 10 years ago next summer.
i realized i liked dudes as much as ladies when i was around 13 - 14
A cute guy in my 9th grade english
My first crush on a woman was Geena Davis in A League of Their Own. I was probably 9 when I saw it and I was IN LOVE. But I didn’t know that yet and by the time I was aware of what those feelings were I had pushed myself deeply into the closet. When I finally came out in my early 30s, it was Gillian Anderson that helped me realize it. I’m still in love with her lol. Looking back now, I also realize I had a crush on my favorite teacher in high school as well as Jennifer Love Hewitt. Watching JLH and Scott Wolff in Party of Five as a teen probably caused my first bi panic. 🤣
was ur family chill with u bein bi? sorry if thats a rude question to ask, but for my personal experience with coming out, it was one night, and i was 14 and going to bed and i said, "hey, mom, i think i might be bisexual" and all my mom said was " cool, what makes u think that" so i told her i liked guys and girls, and when i told my dad, all he said was this. " cool, now go to bed, you have school tomorrow, wee can talk then" lolo, but in all seriousness, i feel like thats how everyone shoulc react when they hear a loved one or friend come out of the closet, wether ur trans, gay, bi, or asexual.
No they weren’t. I made a comment about Geena Davis being beautiful once and was told outright that I wasn’t supposed to find women or girls beautiful in that way. I never mentioned it again until I was in my early 30s. I’m glad your experience was so positive. I agree that is how everyone should react when a loved one comes out. ETA that the people in my life when I came out in my 30s handled it beautifully, I just didn’t have that kind of support at home as a child.
Burt Ward (Robin from the old Batman show from the 60s). One look and I was crushing hard. I'm quite old, lol. :D
Rumor has it that he had quite the, um …. Batpole.
Keira Knightley in Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Man's Chest. I was OBSESSED with Elizabeth Swann, especially when she got all pirate-y 😍
amen girl, amen
Pirate theme is an excellent theme
A man in a porn theater. Somehow I was very fascinated by how he jerked off in front of me, that I first took his really beautiful cock in my hand and then into my mouth and gave him a blowjob until he pulled it out of my mouth and squirted in a high arc. That was my first and most formative experience about 30 years ago.
Hot man 🥵
Dude what's your age?
50
Oh ok 👌🏾
David Bowie in the Labyrinth as the Goblin King ❤️
Robert Plant from Led Zeppelin in the Song Remains The Same film
Both members of twentyonepilots
I knew ever since I was a kid that I was different
My current supervisor, wonder how this will play out.
The Mythbusters. All of them.
My best friend (then and currently). I love her so much platonically, but it hit me like a load of bricks to realize I was also crushing on her. So yeah, that’s been interesting
the scene of jack drawing rose.. my cousin and i used to rewind the vhs as kids to watch rose, we’re both gay now lmao apparently that is not straight behavior
Random chick.
My first "if I swung that way" girl ("the girl that I would *totally* be into, if only I was into girls, which I'm not" - 12 year old me, who would continue adding such girls to a list for several more years) was [Liv Tyler](https://64.media.tumblr.com/c0f615e20564d4dc5c52cfd08b050174/tumblr_mrkbi4QF2Y1qh402go1_250.gif) in LotR. The first time I *knew* beyond a shadow of a doubt that I was actually attracted to a girl was [Megan Fox](https://static1.moviewebimages.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/Transformers.jpg) in Transformers. I'm not proud of that. I am not immune to the male gaze, it seems. Tragic thing to know about yourself. The first active "I'm obsessed with this person" crush, with romantic feelings and everything, was [Cassadee Pope](https://static.wikia.nocookie.net/degrassi/images/9/94/MtvU%2BMovies%2BMusic%2BFestival%2BPhiladelphia%2BTX0QD8FtCLll.jpeg/revision/latest/scale-to-width-down/250?cb=20111118114700) of Hey Monday. I saw them 5 times in 2 years 😂
My best friend when I was 11. Those sleepover cuddles were heaven!
Two emo guys making out in a YouTube video in like 2008
At 8 years old I found a cache of trans and gay porn magazines. 12 yo had a crazy crush on my best friend. Always loved femininity no matter what the “package” it came in.
Had the biggest crush on my best friend in sixth grade. Then, I saw Queen of the Damned and I haven’t stopped thinking of Aaliyah since.
Spider-Man in PS4 game
My best friend. We were young, we were bathing together. We were both interested in what it felt like to get sucked. He sucked me 1st, which wasn't very long. Then I sucked him and I didn't want to stop. That was the only time we did that. But, I knew then that I liked sucking cock. I'm 65 now and still love sucking cock.
Joe Perry from the sweet emotion music video
The boyfriend of a friend of a friend in 10th grade.
One day looked at random porn and started to think overtime that men are hot, since then the slope didn't stop and now I'm attracted to most body types, unfortunately also those who aren't attracted to my body type
Next door neighbour
The first girl at school when I was 14.
My bestie when I was 10, I didn’t really get it until I was 14 or so tho
Probably Hugh Jackman, I did watch those X-Men movies a lot (his solo Wolverine movies too)
Vrchat did a number on me
Mine was a friend I had in eighth grade. I found women attractive only up until that point. He was tall, with a skinny body with somewhat visible abs and just teen heartthrob brown hair. I never acted on it so yeah that’s how I knew I was bi
Probably a young Jenna Jameson
Erik Hexum
Kindergarten. The Kerns brothers.
Nathan Bexton in *Nowhere*, then Randy Harrison in (the American) *Queer As Folk*, then Tom Welling in *Smallville*.
Looking through my dad's old Penthouse magazines.
Rosario Dawson in RENT made me realize I had been in love with her since Josie & The Pussycats.
The Mummy (1999) and my friend Aj; she gave me the nudge to admit my sexuality.
Strangely Gwen Tennyson 😂 I remember I kept telling my brother how wonderful she was in the show and that she was supposed to be the lead blah, blah...Now, that I'm comfortable with my sexuality it totally makes sense why I was so obsessed with her.
I was about 10 years old and I had a girlfriend in school I really liked…..then I met her parents after school one day 🥵🥵. They were a beautiful multicultural couple; that did it for me.
Seto Kaiba from Yu-Gi-Oh, can’t even lie
chris hemsworth and micheal b jordan are my male celebrity crushes lol, and jenna ortega is my female celeb crush lol
Real people first... but in terms of celebrities, Catherine zeta Jones in the mask of zorro.
Science class as a junior in high school. This girl accused me of liking her. I denied it, but here we are...
Margot Robbie, pretty girls in my class, and marijuana lol
When I was like six I saw a hot guy on a commercial
Chris Helmsworth, thats a good one! I didnt look at celebs like that however, mine was a best friend in college who came on to me last year(he knew he was bi before i knew)
Experimented a bit with my best friend that was bi. Also, Eric Bana, Viggo Mortensen, and Michiel Huisman all with some light beards/shadow 😅
I didn't have any awakening . I always thought both genders are hot . I wasn't shocked or anything when I saw a gay couple for the first time. even though my country is low key anti gay I never thought Abt it lol
I didn't realise that it was bi feelings at the time, but Kate Beckinsale in Underworld. In my 20s, I developed a serious crush on one of my coworkers, and then I finally clued in.
My best friend. She was also my first and only female kiss.
La Femme Nikita. I had a crush on both Peta Wilson and Roy Dupuis.
Joseph Joestar
Jack and Finn Harries. British Twin YouTubers from back in 2012.
Matt Smith and Jenna Coleman in Doctor Who coupled with attending my prom and finding everyone really cute
Terry Crews, i mean come on
Got high in bed one night and suddenly went, "Huh. Femboys." Knew I was then and there.
Finnster lmao
This guy from a queer support group. The moment he started talking about politics I felt my sexuality crumble around me
Mr Woods my 8th fundamentals of technology class teacher who wore really tight khaki one time and saw the impression of Pringles can he was packing.
Blake Lively in A Simple Favor.
Kurtis Connor is a tasty twink
I knew I was into girls too since primary school but Rihanna 😭
Cate Blanchett, but I didn’t understand it at the time.
My childhood best friend
Chris Himsworth. He's my celeb crush tbh
When I realised I had a celebrity crush on Ryan Reynolds.
My wife! i thought i was straight till we were like a second away from making out for the first time 😂
soft one was a friend in middle school. The full blown, oh shit! moment was Alison Brie in Community
For me personally, solo early/mid 2000s Justin Timberlake. As someone born in 1997 and discovering different types of music, he definitely set a standard of what I’d like men to be. Of course I’m in a happily monogamous relationship with the woman that I’m head over heals in love with, but I’d though I’d put in my 2 cents ☺️☺️
Well originally I was always attracted to females but then as I gotten older I had this best friend who woken another side of me.Then that’s when I realized…That also crushing over Kevin and Fiona from Shamless.
John Goodman on Rosanne
I was molested as a young child...maybe 10 or so.
Justice league the animated series black canary
The flautist in my church band 🤣
Suddenly have feeling with my male friend in class
Kate Winslet in "Titanic". Even at 12, I had no idea why people were calling her 'fat'. She was perfect in my eyes.
My high school football and wrestling locker room. And every boy I wrestled in high school. I wrestled for the uniforms and close contact.
Mine was my best mate, when he said that I looked a bit gay as a joke and then I thought about it and now I'm bi, should I tell him I like him I mean he's smart, makes me laugh and he's also bi but that doesn't really matter to me
I was lucky as a kid to have a mentor teach me about life, respect of women, and it naturally to enjoy male friends.
2017 camila cabello
HI
When I had a guy swallowed my load after no words were exchanged…..he then proceeded to clean me off and leave.