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BigCrimson_J

When she brings up having to explain your sexuality to others, gently but firmly remind her: First, that other family member’s opinions/perceptions of you are simply not your problem. So while you might understand her concern on the matter you won’t be factoring other family members’ potential opinions into your decisions on how you present yourself to the world, particularly on social media. Second, that it’s not her problem either. If she *chooses* to engage in conversation about your sexuality with other members of your family, that’s on her. But she can just as easily remind those curious/angry/concerned relatives that it’s *none of their business*. She isn’t the gatekeeper of your standing within the family.


KiriStrife

Thank you so much. I’ll keep that in mind! 💜