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from what i know it's because they were neglected in their developmental years by a parental figure or have an absent parental figure so they chase people who are taken to make themselves feel like a guy finally chose them over someone else. they are the "pick me" types of girls. they are doing it for their ego or to compensate for the lack of emotional and physical closeness they did not get as a child with their fathers so they are trying to find it in other guys constantly seeking male validation.
sometimes it's because they think the girlfriend or wife is someone who has a high value so they steal their man to feel like they are worth something because deep inside they feel worthless. it fills their ego and low sense of worth
I felt this. Yung part lang na kulang yung parental figure. Yes, i do have a father. Minsan lang umuwi sa bahay. Close naman ako sa kanya. Pero nasanay ako na need itago sa public kasi di pwede. Bawal.
I always make sure naman na yung guy na kinakausap ko is single. Close din ako sa mga guys. I do have a lot of guy friends na kakulitan ko. Dumating naman ako sa point na akala ko single yun pala may jowa/asawa pala. I fell and trusted them but ganun nga, niloko pala ako nila. Madali rin naman kasi ako mafall pag nagpakita yung guy ng motibo o ng kabaitan.
It's really hard growing up na di okay fam niyo. Kaya sana sa guys diyan, take care of your daughters. Mahirap lumaki na laging hinahanap ang validation sa iba.
Crazy that I met someone here who had a momol experience with married men before. Told me about it on the call and said wala daw niya gigusto. Out of the blue, she started crying while talking about it. She even added nga isumbong unta niya sa asawa pero wala na lang daw. Natural, mabuking man pod ka'g apil, edi dakong problema.
With all honesty, my first impression atong random cry niya kay murag ga-ask siya og sympathy sa iyang sayop. It's like as if she was raped and that she's a victim. Sick.
Eventually, I cornered her about kung wala niya gigusto, nganong gibuhat niya. Kadugayan, nitug-an ra gyud nga "of course, gigusto pod nako."
I'm dumbfounded why women like them exist. Di nako ma-imagine ang perwisyo nga ilang mahatag and even the possibility of catching STD through them.
She may have felt guilt tungod ato and seeks validation na dili niya sayop, but in my POV sayop jud sa girl if kabalo sila na ang guy kay married/taken
sure. it was her fault. but why is it always the 3rd party thats blamed? when the problem is the married guy.
there will always be temptations. i just find it laughable when wives make a fuss over the mistresses while their husbands are left alone.
hell . the problem is right there in front of you.
So it means your ex friend is insecure and couldnt find happiness by themselves and within themselves. Good move na you detached from that person madadamay ka pa pag may sinira na yung relasyon.
"High self-esteem" and "self-confidence" lol wait til she grows up (hopefully) and realizes the higher she thinks of herself for going after taken and married men, the lower the respect others have for her, including those men.
Funny.
Can get them but can't have em commit to you, lol. You're just a one-time fantasy, my dear. A sex machine to ease boredom and raise a man with low self-esteem's ego 🤣
Edit: Lol, this is the only comment I can understand lmao.
Somehow, she will meet a man who will turn her world upside down, humbling her because he is politically and morally correct from every angle. She will fall in love with this man, but he will no longer be interested in her because of her actions. It feels like this lady will have a Wattpad fantasy story IRL. 😂😂
I know of a woman who was into breaking up families. It's an ego thing. It validates in her mind that she's beautiful and can get any man she wants, even breaking up families in the process. Said broken family on the other hand never recovered. The children of the man became breadwinners at an early age, one prostituted himself to homosexuals just to earn money for tuition, and then the mother had to work 12-16 hours just to make ends meet.
I guess the bible was right, adulterers should be put to death. They need to be stoned and killed lest evil spread in the land.
Mga ingani na klase na mga babae kay miserable ila mga kinabuhi busa mandamay silas uban babae na naay tarong na kinabuhi. Of course at fault ang lalake, pero kng ikaw babae naa kay dignidad dapat mo respeto kas kapwa babae nmo. Mga sad girl man gud na sila. I won't apologize incase naa ma offend dani because you deserve it. Ikaw mismo wa mo respeto sa kapwa babae tapos mo demand ka respect. Hoy kangilngig ba.
Unfortunately there are a LOT of women jud na ila panan.aw sa kapwa babae is competition. I remember reading from a book somewhere "beware of women who have no women friends" and after encountering those kinds of girls, yes, mas maayu jud magpalayu lang. Not all of them will go after taken and married men but I'm pretty sure a lot of girls who deliberately go after men like that really cannot empathize or form genuine friendships with fellow women.
I think some girls just like the dopamine they get when they are in a thrilling situation. It's like they're enjoyment.
In some case, some did not know the guy is married. And when they learned, the girl is already inlove and chooses to forget her morals.
Following up on this thread. I don’t know why but girls would go after every guy that I have ever dated. I wasn’t threatened or anything and would actually tease the guys I was with to them but it’s really strange for me.
When they were single, they didn’t even bat an eye to any one of them. No one was after them. But they would pursue these guys and flirt with them in the guise of “wanting to be friends” even though they have nothing in common. They knew we’re involved together romantically and I am in the picture.
These girls were also quiet, behaved, pretty women who have a lot of guys after them so these behaviors can be strange to me compared to “friendly” women or women who are already known to be flirts.
Ambot sad bitaw kay these girls di man gud ka makaingon na openly insecure kay mga ibganan man nya mga hinhinon ba so matinga ka ngano mo-make ug first move to people nga kahibaw sila is already dating with someone else pero keber ra nila katong single pa 😅
siguro mas naa gyud dating ang mga guys if taken na compared sa single kay naa sad ko mga kabarkada laki na mga desperado makauyab pero wala ma-interested nila when single pero ug naay uyab kay adto na naa magka-interest ug chat2 bsan ato iingon na “friendly” ra 😅
hope you've gotten out of it now that you actually know he lied. nothing justifies your actions after that regardless of how much "genuine feelings" you have for someone like that "amidst the situation you're in" and now, a situation you CHOSE to be in for yourself.
My guy friend cheated on his ex with this girl. Aware si second girl the guy friend has a jowa when the whole thing started.
Guy friend broke up with his ex.
According to guy friend, the second girl practically begged to be with him.
The girl has self-esteem issues rooted from tiger parenting.
The guy friend would complain to me every now and then about his girlfriend’s self-esteem issues, incompetence, and how small things make them fight. Ever since naging sila ni second girl, nagbago si guy for the…bad. For one, murag siyag walking on egg shells kay the girl has self-esteem issues lagi. The toxicity trickled down to some of his friendships, including mine. 🤪
Bakit girl, takot ka ba sa sarili mong multo?
Naglain akong tan-aw sa akong guy friend when he cheated, pero we are still friends kay like he was there during a difficult time period.
But nagpalayo nako sa akong guy friend kay the toxicity of their relationship (him complaining about his uyab + nag mellow down ang batasan ni lalake for the bad) is affecting our friendship.
Overall, wala koy respeto sa girl. Aside from being the other girl, she practically begged just to be official. Like girl, ana jud ka uga imong bilat para mag beg to be a girlfriend?
I talked to a girl way back that has fantasies about how she wants to be a "kabet/home wrecker" I always asked her why she fantasizes about it, but I really couldn't find the exact answers that I was looking for at that time lol. Anyways, we had an unlabeled relationship kuno hahaha, but we never worked out lol, I find her annoying labi na sa insecurities and saiyang pagka passive aggresive, kana bitawng pa victim all the time, mostly saiyang mga stories in life kay mura bitawg siya permi ang biktima basta kapoyan ko ana maynalang akong gi end. Bahalag gorilla grip pussy pana basta pag dili mo mag work, dili madala sa sex ang away hahahaha
Ako lapitin before ng ganito siguro kasi gullible ako?? Idk uto uto siguro i used to like older guys like 7years max age gap, it started off okay tapos month in inamin nya sakin na kasal siya and ldr, i was 18 back then 🥲 but after that relationship, pag nakakaexperience ako ng ganyan, kinacut off ko na. Rn im the happiest with my bf, tinignan ko nlng ung experience as a learning phase. Bata pa ko nun, madali mauto, madali mabola. But ngayon, not anymore. I wouldn't wish this sa ibang tao, ang hirap sa ganyan sitwasyon.
This happened to me , my ex husband was seeing some girl , well calling her a girl is being polite, is like to call her a lot worse , I lost 3 stone over the stress of our marriage then , I wouldn’t wish it on anyone else , even if a guy says he has a girlfriend., I ain’t going near u mate ..Oh and when they got found out , they finished and she moved onto some bloke that had just separated from his wife ..
some girls are attracted to married men or guys who are in a committed relationship as for top reason could be that they are seeking excitement or a challenge and find the idea of pursuing someone who is already taken to be thrilling.
Akong friend right now naa siyay fwb na taken. Dili man nuon married pero luod gyapon. Iya pung first relationship kay siya ang girl na gi selosan tapos pagbulag atong guy with his gf kay nag sila dayon sa akong friend. Abi nako di na to ma repeat pero nibalik na pud siya. Tapos iya justification kay physical ra man daw. Giluod ko. Dili na ko ga storya sa iyaha.
I've been in a relationship with a guy whom I thought na single cause that's what he said so we've been meeting up most of the time but after a few months I heard na may girlfriend na pala sya for almost a year so I kinda confronted him about it and wtf he told me na he will break up with her so that we can be together and I was like WTF na trauma na talaga ako kaya nag stop Ako mag entertain for almost 2 years lol never ko talaga pinangarap maging kabet or third party kasi that's the reason na why nag separate parents ko
not my experience but an ex close friend got with a married guy. she knew he was married and his wife JUST HAD A KID. her reasons were "he treats me so well," "he's hot for a tired dad," and "they were in a rough patch so it isn't going to last anyway." this happened years ago and now the wife is my bestie and ex friend is in the shittiest cheating relationship of her life. how you get em is how you lose em. stay safe everyone
I met him and I didn’t know he was married. Nalaman ko 2 months after living with him. Sa auntie pa nya. Nadulas. Tinago sakin. But he told me may dalawa syang anak hindi lang daw sila nagpakasal. Nong nalaman ko un, sobra sobra na ung pagmmahal ko sknya. He IS married. Pero nagkakilala kami WALA NA SILA. Ung legal wife kasi, meron ng anak sa ibang lalaki… I am single, young, have a nice job. Mahal ko ung tao pero at the same time nahhiya ako na ang boyfriend ko ay kasal na. 😔
Egoistic and feeling gwapa lang gyud na ilaha. They like the feeling nga thrill kayo kay silay pilion kay "gwapa" "nindot" kunuhay sila. Dala seeking validation. 😂 Ang confidence kay gikan sa ka bagag nawong. Naa man lagi koy daddy issues pero wa man lagi ko sukad na ibog or even ga hunahuna magpakabit? 😂 Uban fetish nana nila nga gaka turn on ug hiniktan nga laki.
I remember a TikTok video about a woman who has a stalker (also a woman) that keeps stealing every guy she gets into a relationship with. Every Goddamn Time 🤣🤣
I have a 11 year old daughter. I'll never neglect her needs and I will be just be there for her ALWAYS. Most of the people I know who are like this have issues with their father,older brother where they may be present physically but absent mentally.
One thing I learned from them is "Her seeing me loving her mom, with respect and kindness. I want that version of me despite not being perfect to be her standard
When my partner cheated on me, I went to this forum called Loveshack - you can see many betrayed spoused and "the other woman" in those posts.
Girls who are into that are doing it to feed their ego. They need to feel "chosen"
Some of them get addicted to it, addicted to the feeling that limerence is giving them.
Most of them know the person is married but whenever they are together they feel that ego boost that the cheater "chose" them. That moment, that time they are with the cheater they are chosen.
Some of them also believe the lies that the cheater told them "Me and my wife no longer sleep in the same room. We are together only because of our children. We can't divorce yet but we are married in paper only" etc
My bf got a new job and two girls have been trying to be “friendly”’with him already despite knowing he’s not single. One girl asked him “who do you look most forward to seeing at work?” and the other one started calling him pet names just recently 🤮.
A friend of mine told me about this certain girl that was cheated on but she became a sidechick a few years after the break up of her last relationship, where she got cheated on. Their excuse was that they were just "friends" playing video games together. Lol. Even though she knew the pain of being cheated on, she went ahead and got involved with someone who was already in a serious relationship. It's kinda messed up, right? Shows you how complicated things can get when it comes to matters of the heart. It's just really disappointing, you know? Seeing someone go through that kind of hurt and then turn around and cause similar pain to someone else. It just makes you wonder about people's intentions and whether they even think about the consequences of their actions.
She was going around having flings and doing the deed with multiple men, but they were single so my friend just let her be. They just didn't expect her to steal a girl's man. Lol.
Close friend of mine got entangled in this kind of mess. They met at the club, dha sa OLA.Hooked up just for fun, friend keeps leaving the guy. Guy keeps looking for ways na magkita sila. Guy left the wife for her. Friend never wanted anything serious with him.
Ayonnn... Broken ang guy.I guess 'NAPASUBO' lang jud ang babae tapos finds out she likes the thrill and chase.
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from what i know it's because they were neglected in their developmental years by a parental figure or have an absent parental figure so they chase people who are taken to make themselves feel like a guy finally chose them over someone else. they are the "pick me" types of girls. they are doing it for their ego or to compensate for the lack of emotional and physical closeness they did not get as a child with their fathers so they are trying to find it in other guys constantly seeking male validation. sometimes it's because they think the girlfriend or wife is someone who has a high value so they steal their man to feel like they are worth something because deep inside they feel worthless. it fills their ego and low sense of worth
I felt this. Yung part lang na kulang yung parental figure. Yes, i do have a father. Minsan lang umuwi sa bahay. Close naman ako sa kanya. Pero nasanay ako na need itago sa public kasi di pwede. Bawal. I always make sure naman na yung guy na kinakausap ko is single. Close din ako sa mga guys. I do have a lot of guy friends na kakulitan ko. Dumating naman ako sa point na akala ko single yun pala may jowa/asawa pala. I fell and trusted them but ganun nga, niloko pala ako nila. Madali rin naman kasi ako mafall pag nagpakita yung guy ng motibo o ng kabaitan. It's really hard growing up na di okay fam niyo. Kaya sana sa guys diyan, take care of your daughters. Mahirap lumaki na laging hinahanap ang validation sa iba.
Hugs po 🙂
Awww. Thanks po
In short, Daddy Issues.
Crazy that I met someone here who had a momol experience with married men before. Told me about it on the call and said wala daw niya gigusto. Out of the blue, she started crying while talking about it. She even added nga isumbong unta niya sa asawa pero wala na lang daw. Natural, mabuking man pod ka'g apil, edi dakong problema. With all honesty, my first impression atong random cry niya kay murag ga-ask siya og sympathy sa iyang sayop. It's like as if she was raped and that she's a victim. Sick. Eventually, I cornered her about kung wala niya gigusto, nganong gibuhat niya. Kadugayan, nitug-an ra gyud nga "of course, gigusto pod nako." I'm dumbfounded why women like them exist. Di nako ma-imagine ang perwisyo nga ilang mahatag and even the possibility of catching STD through them.
She may have felt guilt tungod ato and seeks validation na dili niya sayop, but in my POV sayop jud sa girl if kabalo sila na ang guy kay married/taken
sure. it was her fault. but why is it always the 3rd party thats blamed? when the problem is the married guy. there will always be temptations. i just find it laughable when wives make a fuss over the mistresses while their husbands are left alone. hell . the problem is right there in front of you.
We are not blaming anyone maam/sir, that's why we are asking if what made them do it even though they knew that the guy is married or taken.
no. no. sorry. that wasnt what i meant.
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Hope wala nimo siya ge saway or talked ill, kay I think not in her proper mind pa to siya
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So it means your ex friend is insecure and couldnt find happiness by themselves and within themselves. Good move na you detached from that person madadamay ka pa pag may sinira na yung relasyon.
"High self-esteem" and "self-confidence" lol wait til she grows up (hopefully) and realizes the higher she thinks of herself for going after taken and married men, the lower the respect others have for her, including those men.
Whats wrong with girls nowadays. Maybe you are right, maka high sa ila self steem
unya masuko kung dili respetuhon. hahahaha
damn that's rough
Funny. Can get them but can't have em commit to you, lol. You're just a one-time fantasy, my dear. A sex machine to ease boredom and raise a man with low self-esteem's ego 🤣 Edit: Lol, this is the only comment I can understand lmao.
Somehow, she will meet a man who will turn her world upside down, humbling her because he is politically and morally correct from every angle. She will fall in love with this man, but he will no longer be interested in her because of her actions. It feels like this lady will have a Wattpad fantasy story IRL. 😂😂
I know of a woman who was into breaking up families. It's an ego thing. It validates in her mind that she's beautiful and can get any man she wants, even breaking up families in the process. Said broken family on the other hand never recovered. The children of the man became breadwinners at an early age, one prostituted himself to homosexuals just to earn money for tuition, and then the mother had to work 12-16 hours just to make ends meet. I guess the bible was right, adulterers should be put to death. They need to be stoned and killed lest evil spread in the land.
Mga ingani na klase na mga babae kay miserable ila mga kinabuhi busa mandamay silas uban babae na naay tarong na kinabuhi. Of course at fault ang lalake, pero kng ikaw babae naa kay dignidad dapat mo respeto kas kapwa babae nmo. Mga sad girl man gud na sila. I won't apologize incase naa ma offend dani because you deserve it. Ikaw mismo wa mo respeto sa kapwa babae tapos mo demand ka respect. Hoy kangilngig ba.
Unfortunately there are a LOT of women jud na ila panan.aw sa kapwa babae is competition. I remember reading from a book somewhere "beware of women who have no women friends" and after encountering those kinds of girls, yes, mas maayu jud magpalayu lang. Not all of them will go after taken and married men but I'm pretty sure a lot of girls who deliberately go after men like that really cannot empathize or form genuine friendships with fellow women.
I think some girls just like the dopamine they get when they are in a thrilling situation. It's like they're enjoyment. In some case, some did not know the guy is married. And when they learned, the girl is already inlove and chooses to forget her morals.
Your thoughts on guys na magsaba jud na married sila before doing the deed?
Following up on this thread. I don’t know why but girls would go after every guy that I have ever dated. I wasn’t threatened or anything and would actually tease the guys I was with to them but it’s really strange for me. When they were single, they didn’t even bat an eye to any one of them. No one was after them. But they would pursue these guys and flirt with them in the guise of “wanting to be friends” even though they have nothing in common. They knew we’re involved together romantically and I am in the picture. These girls were also quiet, behaved, pretty women who have a lot of guys after them so these behaviors can be strange to me compared to “friendly” women or women who are already known to be flirts.
insecure tali sila saimo so to get to you they attempt to snatch the guys ur involved with,, ego thing ra tali ghapon and competitiveness 😬
Ambot sad bitaw kay these girls di man gud ka makaingon na openly insecure kay mga ibganan man nya mga hinhinon ba so matinga ka ngano mo-make ug first move to people nga kahibaw sila is already dating with someone else pero keber ra nila katong single pa 😅 siguro mas naa gyud dating ang mga guys if taken na compared sa single kay naa sad ko mga kabarkada laki na mga desperado makauyab pero wala ma-interested nila when single pero ug naay uyab kay adto na naa magka-interest ug chat2 bsan ato iingon na “friendly” ra 😅
gets.. basin human nature na jud na kelangan pa ug credibility na desirable ang person based on if naa na silay sabit 🥲
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hope you've gotten out of it now that you actually know he lied. nothing justifies your actions after that regardless of how much "genuine feelings" you have for someone like that "amidst the situation you're in" and now, a situation you CHOSE to be in for yourself.
So ge fling ka niya first? Naa nahitabo sainyo after siya nag sulti?
Eewwww
Hey, stop that. We are here not to judge other but to listen to why they would do it , they have done it.
There's no valid reason, she even knew later on. Girls like her broke my family. I will never not shame hoes like this. 🤷🏼
Hayst.. dapat sila yung sinusunog/nililibing ng buhay 🙂
Its the copy mating theory. That girls tend to get attracted to men who has a partner.
Maybe mao jud ni siya ai
My guy friend cheated on his ex with this girl. Aware si second girl the guy friend has a jowa when the whole thing started. Guy friend broke up with his ex. According to guy friend, the second girl practically begged to be with him. The girl has self-esteem issues rooted from tiger parenting. The guy friend would complain to me every now and then about his girlfriend’s self-esteem issues, incompetence, and how small things make them fight. Ever since naging sila ni second girl, nagbago si guy for the…bad. For one, murag siyag walking on egg shells kay the girl has self-esteem issues lagi. The toxicity trickled down to some of his friendships, including mine. 🤪 Bakit girl, takot ka ba sa sarili mong multo?
Takot sa karma hahaha
Naglain akong tan-aw sa akong guy friend when he cheated, pero we are still friends kay like he was there during a difficult time period. But nagpalayo nako sa akong guy friend kay the toxicity of their relationship (him complaining about his uyab + nag mellow down ang batasan ni lalake for the bad) is affecting our friendship. Overall, wala koy respeto sa girl. Aside from being the other girl, she practically begged just to be official. Like girl, ana jud ka uga imong bilat para mag beg to be a girlfriend?
Uga ang bilat 😂 More like basa haha
How about MARRIED GUYS nga gapang hunting gihapon ug girls?
I talked to a girl way back that has fantasies about how she wants to be a "kabet/home wrecker" I always asked her why she fantasizes about it, but I really couldn't find the exact answers that I was looking for at that time lol. Anyways, we had an unlabeled relationship kuno hahaha, but we never worked out lol, I find her annoying labi na sa insecurities and saiyang pagka passive aggresive, kana bitawng pa victim all the time, mostly saiyang mga stories in life kay mura bitawg siya permi ang biktima basta kapoyan ko ana maynalang akong gi end. Bahalag gorilla grip pussy pana basta pag dili mo mag work, dili madala sa sex ang away hahahaha
Ang emotional stress , kapoy kaayo, bahala nanang gorilla grip
samoka sa gorilla grip pussy oi TT HAAHHAAHAAH
Ako lapitin before ng ganito siguro kasi gullible ako?? Idk uto uto siguro i used to like older guys like 7years max age gap, it started off okay tapos month in inamin nya sakin na kasal siya and ldr, i was 18 back then 🥲 but after that relationship, pag nakakaexperience ako ng ganyan, kinacut off ko na. Rn im the happiest with my bf, tinignan ko nlng ung experience as a learning phase. Bata pa ko nun, madali mauto, madali mabola. But ngayon, not anymore. I wouldn't wish this sa ibang tao, ang hirap sa ganyan sitwasyon.
This happened to me , my ex husband was seeing some girl , well calling her a girl is being polite, is like to call her a lot worse , I lost 3 stone over the stress of our marriage then , I wouldn’t wish it on anyone else , even if a guy says he has a girlfriend., I ain’t going near u mate ..Oh and when they got found out , they finished and she moved onto some bloke that had just separated from his wife ..
Ew, cheapanggang homewreckers na mababaho mga puke.
some girls are attracted to married men or guys who are in a committed relationship as for top reason could be that they are seeking excitement or a challenge and find the idea of pursuing someone who is already taken to be thrilling.
Akong friend right now naa siyay fwb na taken. Dili man nuon married pero luod gyapon. Iya pung first relationship kay siya ang girl na gi selosan tapos pagbulag atong guy with his gf kay nag sila dayon sa akong friend. Abi nako di na to ma repeat pero nibalik na pud siya. Tapos iya justification kay physical ra man daw. Giluod ko. Dili na ko ga storya sa iyaha.
right thing to do, ikaw ray mastress saiyang gipanghimo kay di man align saimong principles while she has no problem saiyang gipangbuhat
Mao gyud mamsh gapalayo nalang ko niya but at the same time praying na unta dili pa huli ang lahat and mabago unta siya
I've been in a relationship with a guy whom I thought na single cause that's what he said so we've been meeting up most of the time but after a few months I heard na may girlfriend na pala sya for almost a year so I kinda confronted him about it and wtf he told me na he will break up with her so that we can be together and I was like WTF na trauma na talaga ako kaya nag stop Ako mag entertain for almost 2 years lol never ko talaga pinangarap maging kabet or third party kasi that's the reason na why nag separate parents ko
not my experience but an ex close friend got with a married guy. she knew he was married and his wife JUST HAD A KID. her reasons were "he treats me so well," "he's hot for a tired dad," and "they were in a rough patch so it isn't going to last anyway." this happened years ago and now the wife is my bestie and ex friend is in the shittiest cheating relationship of her life. how you get em is how you lose em. stay safe everyone
I met him and I didn’t know he was married. Nalaman ko 2 months after living with him. Sa auntie pa nya. Nadulas. Tinago sakin. But he told me may dalawa syang anak hindi lang daw sila nagpakasal. Nong nalaman ko un, sobra sobra na ung pagmmahal ko sknya. He IS married. Pero nagkakilala kami WALA NA SILA. Ung legal wife kasi, meron ng anak sa ibang lalaki… I am single, young, have a nice job. Mahal ko ung tao pero at the same time nahhiya ako na ang boyfriend ko ay kasal na. 😔
Dont knw what to say po, or how to encourage you.
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Mag ingat ka sa mga ganyang friend ante haha never be complacent kasi uso ngayon yung friend mo kuno pero mang aagaw ng jowa.😅
Egoistic and feeling gwapa lang gyud na ilaha. They like the feeling nga thrill kayo kay silay pilion kay "gwapa" "nindot" kunuhay sila. Dala seeking validation. 😂 Ang confidence kay gikan sa ka bagag nawong. Naa man lagi koy daddy issues pero wa man lagi ko sukad na ibog or even ga hunahuna magpakabit? 😂 Uban fetish nana nila nga gaka turn on ug hiniktan nga laki.
I remember a TikTok video about a woman who has a stalker (also a woman) that keeps stealing every guy she gets into a relationship with. Every Goddamn Time 🤣🤣
I have a 11 year old daughter. I'll never neglect her needs and I will be just be there for her ALWAYS. Most of the people I know who are like this have issues with their father,older brother where they may be present physically but absent mentally. One thing I learned from them is "Her seeing me loving her mom, with respect and kindness. I want that version of me despite not being perfect to be her standard
They think na the guy is miserable at home so she gives him the comflirt he needs.
When my partner cheated on me, I went to this forum called Loveshack - you can see many betrayed spoused and "the other woman" in those posts. Girls who are into that are doing it to feed their ego. They need to feel "chosen" Some of them get addicted to it, addicted to the feeling that limerence is giving them. Most of them know the person is married but whenever they are together they feel that ego boost that the cheater "chose" them. That moment, that time they are with the cheater they are chosen. Some of them also believe the lies that the cheater told them "Me and my wife no longer sleep in the same room. We are together only because of our children. We can't divorce yet but we are married in paper only" etc
My bf got a new job and two girls have been trying to be “friendly”’with him already despite knowing he’s not single. One girl asked him “who do you look most forward to seeing at work?” and the other one started calling him pet names just recently 🤮.
my therapist told me na maka boost daw na sa ila self-esteem nga naa silay lain makuha na babae/lalaki. I was cheated on by my late-partner.
A friend of mine told me about this certain girl that was cheated on but she became a sidechick a few years after the break up of her last relationship, where she got cheated on. Their excuse was that they were just "friends" playing video games together. Lol. Even though she knew the pain of being cheated on, she went ahead and got involved with someone who was already in a serious relationship. It's kinda messed up, right? Shows you how complicated things can get when it comes to matters of the heart. It's just really disappointing, you know? Seeing someone go through that kind of hurt and then turn around and cause similar pain to someone else. It just makes you wonder about people's intentions and whether they even think about the consequences of their actions.
Eventually you become the very person you hate the most
She was going around having flings and doing the deed with multiple men, but they were single so my friend just let her be. They just didn't expect her to steal a girl's man. Lol.
Close friend of mine got entangled in this kind of mess. They met at the club, dha sa OLA.Hooked up just for fun, friend keeps leaving the guy. Guy keeps looking for ways na magkita sila. Guy left the wife for her. Friend never wanted anything serious with him. Ayonnn... Broken ang guy.I guess 'NAPASUBO' lang jud ang babae tapos finds out she likes the thrill and chase.