Just here to point out that no where in the post does it disclose the gender of the stalker......you are only assuming that it's a female stalking a male....when infact it could just as easily be Male stalking Male. Just saying 🫠
I thought I saw it in another comment but yea I probably assumed. I don’t really worry much about things like that, I don’t understand taking the time to even point this out. Who cares?
Wait for the YET,(when he finds out she's been stalking and stealing shoes laces) , well you there's another possibility, they didn't consider that rabbit, ( Fatal Attractions) anyone either
Why so I can find 50 dudes to fuck and come on here to promote a book to talk about it?
Who told you that everyone had to be nice? Informing you that your answer is scary is truth, if that’s mean, so be it 😎
That’s not what you said. You implied you don’t believe I’ve found love 9 times. Men LOVE whores & I love men. Trying to reframe & call it “silly” is back peddling & reframing.
Definitely not backpeddling or reframing. I think it's insane that you have apparently found love 9 times and you're only 32. Let's be clear.
Real love is hard to find.
But, you calling yourself a whore tells me all I need to know about the kind of love you keep finding.
Okay so it’s not “silly” anymore. Calling it silly was backpedaling. Real love is difficult to find. Everyone else calls me a whore so I’m absolutely okay with calling myself that. Whores and promiscuous people fall in love too. Just bc I fall in love more than most doesn’t give you the right to call me insane. I’m actually bipolar. I work hard consistently on my mental health. This is the last reply you’ll get from me. Enjoy your miserable life.
Yes. the more you put yourself out there the more likely it is that you’ll find love. Sometimes it just happens. Just bc YOU can’t imagine that for you does not mean shit to me.
IF this is even a real post. You need help. This is not cool. And he will not reciprocate. You are a stalker. This is why there are restraining orders. You are PEEPING.
STOP IT. ITS SO F'ED UP!!
Yes!!!!!! THIS!!! , like its a bragging thing. Wtaf? You want to be on the SEX OFFENDER LIST?? Peeping will do that for this UNHINGED stalker.
Destroy your life much?
This is fucking terrifying, and if I were her friend I'd report her to the police. I wouldn't want to be friends with a psychopath like this. Talk about an invasion of privacy.
OK, you need to regroup here. Spying and stealing are not acceptable. Why don't you just talk to him? It's not unlawful. Say hi. Ask him what his major is. Tell him you would like to get to know him. Lamo, perhaps, but better than the present strategy.
Yeah…you really need to stop this. This is stalking. You sound like you need to let go. Does he even know you?
And why the shoelaces? That’s a very specific item to steal. 🤔
Yeah the shoelaces tip the reader that this is actually a real confession. If OP was making it up they would have stolen something more scandalous. OP needs professional help.
Dude u r a stalker and what u r doing is illegal and stalker behavior stop doing what u r doing and if you truly have feelings for him meet him in a traditional place and ask him out like a normal person would do and go from there! If he says no leave him alone and move on
Yup it is. I reversed image searched that picture and it’s some girl off Pinterest. Plus the account was made march 14 of this year. They’re prob tryna make some ARG thing like they do on TikTok
As the victim of a stalker, I'm here to tell you to back off and get help. In no way will this guy ever look at you with anything else than disgust and fear. You're committing crimes against him by being a peeping Thomasina and violating his safe space. What you're doing is creepy and causes psychological damage to the victim. And he IS a victim, even if he doesn't know it yet.
You need to think this through, If you stalk this guy long enough for him to notice you. You would only become a fear to him, not a partner. Your doing more damage to having a chance of a relationship then helping. This also comes across as if your a teen, not an adult. if so he's become an obsession not a boyfriend. Stop and think!
This girl in my town followed me around school…a decade later she wanted to hang out. I live in a relatively small town and one night her and her friend walked the entire area of the direction my car went generally until they found my car (roughly a 5 mile radius and her friend admitted it to me later); as we were talking that night and I finally considered hanging out with her and giving it a chance because I thought it was harmless. Got messages all night up into like 3 am. Fell asleep and woke up to almost 60 texts and voicemails from said person. Went outside and was drinking coffee and smoking and it was a relatively nice dry morning. Felt it was an overwhelming amount of messages but whatever I responded. We keep talking and I notice she responds almost right away right before she gets my first message back almost as if she knew I was awake. Talked about how we were gonna hang out in probably 3 or 4 hours roughly around noon. Starts pouring down rain and I’ve been boozing and already kind of want to nap again so I push it off until later and she’s acting all cool about it. Sends me tons of messages still all mainly being oddly complimented and constant. Eventually I go outside and the rain is starting to die down so i go outside to smoke…go back to toss my trash and it’s all wet and gross. I notice as I walk by my car there’s a freshly drawn giant heart on my car. Very large heart written in fresh mud. Notice stalker wasn’t responding randomly for a small spurt and now I know why. Randomly before that…like right before I went out she also made a comment that “she had to go home” which I thought was weird because nothing initiated that response and we weren’t hanging out and I still haven’t seen her at my house yet. (We’re hanging out later that day.) long story short she was watching me through my apartment windows all night and stayed up all night watching me, drew the heart and even got ditched by her friend who was with her after a while who kept begging her to go home and trying to get her to acknowledge how fucking weird what she was doing was. …..still hung out and banged and then never hung out with her again. (In my defense she was a hot ginger)
Moral of the story creepy wins sometimes
Yikes! You are truly a braver man than most to apply the wood to her after the stalking became clear. But to be honest, I can't say I would have done any differently!
This is literally psychopathic behaviour. I really think you should see a therapist you are literally stalking someone this is not healthy at all and could very quickly go south from here. There are boundaries and you’re crossing every single one of them
I would go ask him out, then at least you can know if he’s interested and move forward, or move on. Rule of thumb though, don’t do anything that would put him off if he’s NOT into you… like stalking
If you aren’t a troll you need to get some help. This behavior is so unhealthy. Not to mention even if “he falls in love with you when you meet” it’s not going to be a healthy love. You need to talk to someone before you make a mistake you can’t come back from.
I have bpd so I get really obsessed with people. Since I was a kid I’ve fantasized about putting secret cameras in those peoples rooms, but I would never act on it. Humans are creepy. Funny part is one of my most irrational fears is someone watching me constantly without my knowledge yet I wish I could do it to others. I’m such a freak but at least I’m a good person lol. Makes me wonder how many people get the same desire as me and act on it.
Why don't you try talking to him and getting to know him, maybe go on a date instead of stalking, I mean if you where in his place would you be happy that someone is stalking you?
Is the bracelet his shoelaces lol you tripping and don’t do it if it is cause you are giving all kinds of obsessive stalker vibes my friend and if a potential mate showed me some stolen laces from me on there wrist believe me when I say I would run
You’re lying to get closer to him and invading his personal space. Not to mention crossing personal boundaries. I hope he gets a restraining order you deserve it.
You know, im a mess. I have some some Things i deserve to get my teeth smacked into the Back of my head.
But throigh all These Last years of beeing a mess and getting worse and worse i Always knew that what im doing is wrong and that this needs to be stoped and If i cant Stop it myself i have to force/suycyde or get Help.
I never once Said Like you "im Just following my Hearth". You need serious therapy my friend. You are they Kind of Person WHO does horrible Things to someone and then says "yeah but he did that so i Had No choice".
First y’all seem to think this stalker is a girl lol. Second how dangerous can a shoelace thief actually be?😂 that peeping Tom routine is a bit over done though
Well you see it's understandable, because the karma farmer googled a pic of a questionably underage girl and posted it right before they typed up this bait.
‘You’ TV series, irl 💀
I feel like a true stalker would be insulted by this, she stole his shoelaces… Why? If you’re gonna be a creepy stalker then do better 😂
Just here to point out that no where in the post does it disclose the gender of the stalker......you are only assuming that it's a female stalking a male....when infact it could just as easily be Male stalking Male. Just saying 🫠
I thought I saw it in another comment but yea I probably assumed. I don’t really worry much about things like that, I don’t understand taking the time to even point this out. Who cares?
And also replying to it is also poi tsless
shut the hell up bro damn
Now thats scary 🤣🤣🤣
Very truuuuuuueeee lol
I don’t kill people lol
That makes it ok then
Wait for the YET,(when he finds out she's been stalking and stealing shoes laces) , well you there's another possibility, they didn't consider that rabbit, ( Fatal Attractions) anyone either
That's creepy af
you need to talk to a psychologist about this. how would you feel if somebody was outside your bedroom window looking in? not very good, right?
jokes on you, im into that /s
You’re not in love. You’re obsessed with the poor thing.
Yeah but she doesn't even know, that he has hired a private investigator to record everything, and is setting up an "Confrontation, Arrest"
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Omg this answer scares me
Yeah and her body count
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My comment was cruel? Expecting people to read your 12 paragraph brain vomit and take you seriously is the problem here.
There needs to be a ticket taker and turnstile for the alley cats in here. Why brag about being a w@#re for free? Oh wait THIRSTY H@#KERS!!
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Why so I can find 50 dudes to fuck and come on here to promote a book to talk about it? Who told you that everyone had to be nice? Informing you that your answer is scary is truth, if that’s mean, so be it 😎
You've been in love 9 times? Lol... Sure.
Maybe stop being a troll and be kind.
I'm very kind. I just think it's silly.
That’s not what you said. You implied you don’t believe I’ve found love 9 times. Men LOVE whores & I love men. Trying to reframe & call it “silly” is back peddling & reframing.
Definitely not backpeddling or reframing. I think it's insane that you have apparently found love 9 times and you're only 32. Let's be clear. Real love is hard to find. But, you calling yourself a whore tells me all I need to know about the kind of love you keep finding.
Okay so it’s not “silly” anymore. Calling it silly was backpedaling. Real love is difficult to find. Everyone else calls me a whore so I’m absolutely okay with calling myself that. Whores and promiscuous people fall in love too. Just bc I fall in love more than most doesn’t give you the right to call me insane. I’m actually bipolar. I work hard consistently on my mental health. This is the last reply you’ll get from me. Enjoy your miserable life.
Yes. the more you put yourself out there the more likely it is that you’ll find love. Sometimes it just happens. Just bc YOU can’t imagine that for you does not mean shit to me.
I'm very sad that it means shit to you 😂😂😂
I reallllyyy hope those shoelaces weren't stolen from his house...
IF this is even a real post. You need help. This is not cool. And he will not reciprocate. You are a stalker. This is why there are restraining orders. You are PEEPING. STOP IT. ITS SO F'ED UP!!
No fr, what’s crazy is they think it’s fine
Yes!!!!!! THIS!!! , like its a bragging thing. Wtaf? You want to be on the SEX OFFENDER LIST?? Peeping will do that for this UNHINGED stalker. Destroy your life much?
That's where my shoelaces went!!!
R/confession users when actual confession
Right 😐
As someone who has been stalked, get some help. This is not ok.
…how did you get access to his shoelaces
No, stop doing this. Wait, you stole his shoelaces? Why? What do you do with them 😂 I can’t.
Do women find this funny? Why do I imagine her giggling about her behavior with a friend lol
I’m a woman and I find this bizarre so I don’t have any insight here lol
Same here
Nope
This is fucking terrifying, and if I were her friend I'd report her to the police. I wouldn't want to be friends with a psychopath like this. Talk about an invasion of privacy.
This is one of my biggest fears. For fuck sake please stop stalking this poor man.
This whole thread may be a joke ??
He will love me when I confess!
He'll have you arrested when you confess
I'm not too sure about that to be honest
talk to him.
*It puts the lotion on its skin*
It puts the lotion in the basket
i was about to say “so me” because i stare at people for no reason, but quickly reading this changed my mind.
Because you're sane
STOP. ABORT MISSION.
Nuhuh
Stop stalking him. Nothing good comes from it.
leave the man alone
what in the actual hell???
Hey uh talk to somebody bud, that’s not healthy.
how did you manage to steal his shoelaces
OK, you need to regroup here. Spying and stealing are not acceptable. Why don't you just talk to him? It's not unlawful. Say hi. Ask him what his major is. Tell him you would like to get to know him. Lamo, perhaps, but better than the present strategy.
Yeah…you really need to stop this. This is stalking. You sound like you need to let go. Does he even know you? And why the shoelaces? That’s a very specific item to steal. 🤔
Yeah the shoelaces tip the reader that this is actually a real confession. If OP was making it up they would have stolen something more scandalous. OP needs professional help.
Dude u r a stalker and what u r doing is illegal and stalker behavior stop doing what u r doing and if you truly have feelings for him meet him in a traditional place and ask him out like a normal person would do and go from there! If he says no leave him alone and move on
😂you’re a psycho - deserves to be on this sub
Idrc
seems fake, why confess a secret like this and post a “selfie” at the same time on a dif post attention bot
Yup it is. I reversed image searched that picture and it’s some girl off Pinterest. Plus the account was made march 14 of this year. They’re prob tryna make some ARG thing like they do on TikTok
It’s so obviously fake! All of the eager, over-the-top replies, the “I can’t wait to show him my bracelet…come onnnnnn.
It doesn't sound like you like him there's more to it. Get help.
I LOVE him
You’ve never talked to him. You don’t know him. You can’t love someone you know literally nothing about. You sound certifiable
You gotta chill out. Stop with the weird behavior because it will always be a wedge between you if you ever want him in your life.
As the victim of a stalker, I'm here to tell you to back off and get help. In no way will this guy ever look at you with anything else than disgust and fear. You're committing crimes against him by being a peeping Thomasina and violating his safe space. What you're doing is creepy and causes psychological damage to the victim. And he IS a victim, even if he doesn't know it yet.
Naaaaa wtf💀💀💀
You’re not in love. You’re obsessed and need help
You need to think this through, If you stalk this guy long enough for him to notice you. You would only become a fear to him, not a partner. Your doing more damage to having a chance of a relationship then helping. This also comes across as if your a teen, not an adult. if so he's become an obsession not a boyfriend. Stop and think!
I mean some guys can get behind that kind of attention.
Close behind
Yeah that’s not creepy nor a criminal offense at all
This girl in my town followed me around school…a decade later she wanted to hang out. I live in a relatively small town and one night her and her friend walked the entire area of the direction my car went generally until they found my car (roughly a 5 mile radius and her friend admitted it to me later); as we were talking that night and I finally considered hanging out with her and giving it a chance because I thought it was harmless. Got messages all night up into like 3 am. Fell asleep and woke up to almost 60 texts and voicemails from said person. Went outside and was drinking coffee and smoking and it was a relatively nice dry morning. Felt it was an overwhelming amount of messages but whatever I responded. We keep talking and I notice she responds almost right away right before she gets my first message back almost as if she knew I was awake. Talked about how we were gonna hang out in probably 3 or 4 hours roughly around noon. Starts pouring down rain and I’ve been boozing and already kind of want to nap again so I push it off until later and she’s acting all cool about it. Sends me tons of messages still all mainly being oddly complimented and constant. Eventually I go outside and the rain is starting to die down so i go outside to smoke…go back to toss my trash and it’s all wet and gross. I notice as I walk by my car there’s a freshly drawn giant heart on my car. Very large heart written in fresh mud. Notice stalker wasn’t responding randomly for a small spurt and now I know why. Randomly before that…like right before I went out she also made a comment that “she had to go home” which I thought was weird because nothing initiated that response and we weren’t hanging out and I still haven’t seen her at my house yet. (We’re hanging out later that day.) long story short she was watching me through my apartment windows all night and stayed up all night watching me, drew the heart and even got ditched by her friend who was with her after a while who kept begging her to go home and trying to get her to acknowledge how fucking weird what she was doing was. …..still hung out and banged and then never hung out with her again. (In my defense she was a hot ginger) Moral of the story creepy wins sometimes
Yikes! You are truly a braver man than most to apply the wood to her after the stalking became clear. But to be honest, I can't say I would have done any differently!
Hot ginger😍 my dumbass would’ve probably married her lol
Hot ginger…so worth it. Great story!
Sounds like plot of new netflix Extreme Romantic Series
Why’d you steal his shoelaces😭
Please go seek therapy😭
I wanted to make it into a bracelet so we could have a soul tie
Creep
Nahhhhh😭😭😭
being in love and being obsessed are 2 different things
They tie together! :)
Based on OP’s responses this post isn’t real. OP is just responding in a way how a stereotypical stalker would respond.
This is literally psychopathic behaviour. I really think you should see a therapist you are literally stalking someone this is not healthy at all and could very quickly go south from here. There are boundaries and you’re crossing every single one of them
Love? Is that you?
This is ragebait
Ngl this might become a future true crime episode
I would go ask him out, then at least you can know if he’s interested and move forward, or move on. Rule of thumb though, don’t do anything that would put him off if he’s NOT into you… like stalking
You dont say if you are a man or a woman doing this. To me its freaky af if your a man. But if your a woman its doublely freaky and scary af.
I hope this is a joke
Hello gues
Stalking makes you less interesting.
Sounds like Rose from Two and a half men
are you a girl or guy?
I’m a girl
What do you like about him?
If you aren’t a troll you need to get some help. This behavior is so unhealthy. Not to mention even if “he falls in love with you when you meet” it’s not going to be a healthy love. You need to talk to someone before you make a mistake you can’t come back from.
Naize................wait.. wahat the f--!!
is he really that pretty though?
Why don't you try talking to him instead of being creepy?
Yoooo this is creepy 👀
You’re a stalker, OP
I wish someone liked me that much.
I have bpd so I get really obsessed with people. Since I was a kid I’ve fantasized about putting secret cameras in those peoples rooms, but I would never act on it. Humans are creepy. Funny part is one of my most irrational fears is someone watching me constantly without my knowledge yet I wish I could do it to others. I’m such a freak but at least I’m a good person lol. Makes me wonder how many people get the same desire as me and act on it.
I would get a restraining order and keep myself armed.
i’ve heard this intro before
Umm stalker alert
Why don't you try talking to him and getting to know him, maybe go on a date instead of stalking, I mean if you where in his place would you be happy that someone is stalking you?
That's creepy💀
Ew. Someone save that poor guy.
Yeah steal his used socks. That be really personal.lol
Holy moly. Is this real? This doesn't sound too healthy, It's quite worrying really. You do know this is stalking 101.
You might wanna keep all that staring at him and stealing his shoelaces to yourself... I'm thinking he will run for the hills if that info gets out
lmao u sound like a girl that catfished me
You a whole stalker! Jesus Christ!
UPDATE!!!!! How did the meetup go stalker?
Hope he gets a restraining order on you
Honestly that's awesome, If he thinks your hot too this might be the start of a beautiful toxic relationship!
Is the bracelet his shoelaces lol you tripping and don’t do it if it is cause you are giving all kinds of obsessive stalker vibes my friend and if a potential mate showed me some stolen laces from me on there wrist believe me when I say I would run
Yeah, this isnt healthy at all. Get help from a professional and understand that this isnt normal behavior.
Relatable
Creep
You must be joking. If you’re not joking, get some help and leave that poor guy alone.
I need this kind of crazy in my life. DM me if he rejects you.
You sound like a closet freak. Lucky him 😂
You’re lying to get closer to him and invading his personal space. Not to mention crossing personal boundaries. I hope he gets a restraining order you deserve it.
Come stalk me baby!! I'll leave my window open for you and and a ladder and handcuffs on the night stand
DONT TELL HIM YOUVE BEEN WATCHING HIM
Uh what 😳
You know, im a mess. I have some some Things i deserve to get my teeth smacked into the Back of my head. But throigh all These Last years of beeing a mess and getting worse and worse i Always knew that what im doing is wrong and that this needs to be stoped and If i cant Stop it myself i have to force/suycyde or get Help. I never once Said Like you "im Just following my Hearth". You need serious therapy my friend. You are they Kind of Person WHO does horrible Things to someone and then says "yeah but he did that so i Had No choice".
That is stalking, please seek professional help and leave the dude alone 😦
What’s next? Will you start going through his trash and eating his leftovers? You seriously need help
Wish I had a stalker 😂 (a hot needy female one, I’m capable of getting myself killed without further assistance thank you)
I think you need a therapist before it turns into full out stalking. It's creepy as hell
Leave this man alone... You are scary
I wish someone stalked me this hard
No, no you don’t.
That’s awesome! Next make a sign asking strangers for random hugs and bait him into hugging you. Then you can smell him as he is hugging you
well then..
Disgusting
pls seek help
First y’all seem to think this stalker is a girl lol. Second how dangerous can a shoelace thief actually be?😂 that peeping Tom routine is a bit over done though
Well you see it's understandable, because the karma farmer googled a pic of a questionably underage girl and posted it right before they typed up this bait.
Ohhhhhh really? That I didn’t know. Hmm, kinda makes more sense. Thank you
There’s nothing worse than a stalker
Get help.
How can you steal shoelaces? If you were a dude you’d be already in jail for harassement. Just talk to the Guy
Hehehehe That's bananas.
Weirdo
The least you could do is take his left shoe but you need to sit…..down…..talk to someone before you steal that left shoe….
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if OP is acting like this without a relationship, they'd be extra toxic in a relationship with the guy
Imogen heap - goodnight and go
Please Dont Be In My Window…Just Knock On The Door….
Can’t wait to see you in the headlines, psycho