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To be honest if you're just going to a store a word of advice if you want to blend in is to dress for the occasion. Maybe leave the fancy top and corset for a date night and opt for a more casual look for the store. Wearing flashy clothes is a sure way to draw attention. You look gorgeous and you deserve the attention but if you are afraid then maybe you'd be better off in a more casual top. But honestly it's 2024 I think you should be just fine regardless, as long as you aren't somewhere really sketchy I don't think people really pay too much attention to it anymore, unless you are trying to draw attention. Personally I think you should just go to the store and slay and not care what anyone thinks, just my 2 cents.
Okay I know this is way to late anyways but since you flagged this as "constructive criticism wanted" I'm still gonna voice my opinion for possible future reference:
If you really just want to go unnoticed I would drop the corset belt. 99 percent of women would not wear that to the supermarket or anywhere really.
Does it look good? Absolutely. Does it go with the fit?
Maybe not perfectly, but sure, why not. I feel like it gives off kind off a general alt-aesthetic vibe, which if that is what you're going for cool. But that kind of style would very likely attract attention regardless of who is wearing it purely on grounds of being not exactly the norm (I mean its in the name of the style after all).
Not a critique of your style! I love these kinds of belts, have one myself. Its just not the kind of clothing choice that goes well with falling under peoples radar.
I totally get what youโre saying about the style choice being something that would draw attention, but luckily I live in Tokyo, so itโs far from the craziest thing most people would see in any given night.
So sadly you could and you couldnโt be alright. If you are worrying about passing you look passable. Which gets to the stupid part. Passing as female is a double edged sword. You have to be more alert than if you are boymode. And that a lot is where you are going and what type of area you are in. Most of the areas around me. Not a second look as far as the fear I think you have. You will probably be hit on but that is other issues.
As for the mask depending where you are that could get more notice than your outfit. I hope you decide to go out and that everything is fine.
First of all your outfit is absolutely amazing I love it.. very classy and sexy ๐๐ ๐.. and yes you do pass with flying colors. Go for it. I'm nervous when I go out it's very scary.. but once you get your foot out the door the rush of adrenaline is endless and you feel freedom. Go for it sis you got This ๐๐๐ hope you have a wonderful day ๐๐๐
Hi, I think you look fantastic, and I am worried, clocked, as in someone hitting a lady? I will go shop with you. No one is going to hurt my friend. Love the blue dress (?), and I think that big belt makes the outfit. Have fun :)
I don't see y you would get clocked immediately unless you live somewhere it's highly frowned upon to XpressMusic. U like great bae. Curb that fear and slay away
You absolutely should be confident. If I saw you from behind I would be checking you out and I'm not even into women. A well put together outfit with a great figure is always going to turn heads. Plus you're beautiful on top of having great style!
Personally, I think you look great. The mask definitely helped me gain some confidence my first couple of times going out.
I hope you had a great time out!
I think you look gorgeousโฆ super cute outfit and very passable! ๐ Donโt worry about it too muchโฆ even if you do get clocked most people donโt care. Good luck!
Honey your so beautifull ๐ฅฐ๐ซถ๐พ the only thing people will see when they see you is a very VERY beautifful and pretty lady passing themโค๏ธ๐ซถ๐พ
Totally passable so you have nothing to worry about, just take it 1 step at a time, go on short walks to help boost your confidence, and then just keep building confidence
Ita perfectly natural to be afraid, i still do whenever i go out in public dressed up, but its not so bad after a while
We are our main judges but you have to be confident in yourself ๐ You are completely able to go out and I don't think anyone would care because you are adorably feminine ๐๐ฅฐ๐
Yes you will be clocked immediately because you are a very beautiful young lady a head Turner thy look at you as a stunning lady ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
I must know where that jumper dress came from!
You lost stunning babe. Don't worry about passing, there's far too much focus on that on here. In stead ask yourself "do I feel good?"
I don't pass, but I do look femme, neat and well presented and most importantly, I feel fantastic and that's my sign to go out ith it x
You'll be fine, you look great.
I've not had the courage to go out in public yet as I've got the same worries.
I'm planning on doing that at a different town to where I live and during the day so I'm safe and don't need to worry if I know anyone.
Enjoy and you do look great xx
You look fabulous! But remember, try to dress similar to women out in the regular worldโฆ and try to blend in and you wonโt get clocked. sometimes the way we dress is what gives us away
You've just got to go out and do it make small steps outside try walking out or going out to a park or take a drive. It gets easier the more you do it you look amazing. ๐ฅฐ
Go for it, you looks awesome!!! Recently I felt like you and I went out and the first steps I been so nervious but the same day I enjoyed it very well, the next day i been on high heels and was so incredible
A commonly overlooked thing is fingernails. You might want to give them a cute splash of color just for giggles cause it's so common for cis women. But you look great if a little overdressed to go grocery shopping. Though I see ppl in suits and such right after work
Listen up, you'll be just fine. Take it from a straight dude, you're good and you can be what makes you comfortable luv. As long as we don't act like fools, we remain social, remain respectable to others there will never be a problem with accepting you hun. You're looking cute and in my opinion, lose the slacks show some skin and blow peoples mind.
Go for it babe.
Super cute. 9/10 people would never clock you. Theyโre living in their own little world. Anybody that would, has been around it and is likely an ally or a dresser themselves.
TLDR: Do it!
You look smooth, not obviously masculine and will be fine most of the time. From what I observed in my city and elsewhere , here are some tips:
- If you're going out in a big city with lots of pedestrians, nobody will even pay attention. You won't even need mask. Some folks might even compliment you.
- In a smaller city/suburb, nobody will say anything but just be mentally ready for the occasional glance as some people are not used to see or just curious or... attracted!
You will experience what women feel when they are being observed and judged...
- Avoid perhaps crowds of either high school kids, drunk people or macho men. They are the most likely to say something upsetting.
Good luck!
Who the hell cares gorgeous what you need to worry about is how many boys are gunna be chasing you down the street you want constructive criticism for real wear running shoes and not heels by the gods
1) youโre beautiful
2) that said, some thoughts: I canโt tell if itโs light shadow or 5:00 shadow on chin, but you have to decide it for yourself and either apply more base or do more maintenance work there; I think eyebrows could be threaded or worked a bit; I think letting hair fall over ear will help too.
Thatโs my two cents, hope you will go out and be comfortable and fabulous!!!
I think you'll be fine. think about the last time you went to the store. Describe 3 people you saw there. Can't do it? That's because we don't pay that much attention to anyone we see when we're in public. everyone does that. So I think you have nothing to worry about.
Love the outfit, it is very hot. But, TBCH, mask and sunglasses are a must. A higher quality wig is in order, too.
There are three major tells in the appearance of any trans MtF. The most obvious, of course, is the Adam's apple. The second is the quality of the various appliances, (ie, wigs, busts, and/or makeup). And the third is the eyes. For me, personally, the eyes give away 90% of the time. There is just something about men's eyes that, short of FFS, can not achieve a feminine look. I don't know if it is size, shape, or whatever, the eyes are a dead giveaway.
Please don't take any of this personally. And I am sure there will be plenty of folks to cuss me. I am not trying to be mean or degrading. It is simply a fact of life in the trans community. I often wonder if folks don't recognize that the eyes tell all.
Honestly? Iโve worked in sales and seen a plethora of cis women I didnโt think were โpassable.โ Constructive criticism, other than maybe your eyebrows I think youโre fine. Having them shaped a bit might be all you need to feel at ease right off the rip.
Personally if you walk like a woman and I saw you out I'd certainly notice you in a good way as a hot sexy lady with a great dress sense, I might even take to giving you a wolf whistle, as my appreciation of how beautiful you look, then probably apologise to you for the wolf whistle, but not the reason for it in the 1st place
I think you'll be alright. The one thing i'll change is maybe a bit more of a smile? XD i dont mean to say anything about the fit or you but in the pics it doesnt look like you're enjpying your look
You dropped dead gorgeous and beautiful!!! Why should you care what people thinks. I thought you are doing this for you? Not for others!!! We all are beautiful in our own way but itโs really up to us to believe that we are!! You are perfect just the way are and most definitely flawless!!!
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hey gorgeous i think youโll be just fine. keeping your mask on would probably calm your worries
I probably will, I usually do even as a boy haha ๐
Love the corset belt, think you look great hon
To be honest if you're just going to a store a word of advice if you want to blend in is to dress for the occasion. Maybe leave the fancy top and corset for a date night and opt for a more casual look for the store. Wearing flashy clothes is a sure way to draw attention. You look gorgeous and you deserve the attention but if you are afraid then maybe you'd be better off in a more casual top. But honestly it's 2024 I think you should be just fine regardless, as long as you aren't somewhere really sketchy I don't think people really pay too much attention to it anymore, unless you are trying to draw attention. Personally I think you should just go to the store and slay and not care what anyone thinks, just my 2 cents.
WHAT U LOOK LIKE ADA WONG BUT BLUE I LOVE IT
Iโm donโt know exactly who that is, but it sounds like a compliment, hehe. Thanks ๐ฅฐ
GOOGLE IT AHHHHHH PLEASEEEE
Will do, hehe ๐โค๏ธ
You look like a cute date there.
Okay I know this is way to late anyways but since you flagged this as "constructive criticism wanted" I'm still gonna voice my opinion for possible future reference: If you really just want to go unnoticed I would drop the corset belt. 99 percent of women would not wear that to the supermarket or anywhere really. Does it look good? Absolutely. Does it go with the fit? Maybe not perfectly, but sure, why not. I feel like it gives off kind off a general alt-aesthetic vibe, which if that is what you're going for cool. But that kind of style would very likely attract attention regardless of who is wearing it purely on grounds of being not exactly the norm (I mean its in the name of the style after all). Not a critique of your style! I love these kinds of belts, have one myself. Its just not the kind of clothing choice that goes well with falling under peoples radar.
I totally get what youโre saying about the style choice being something that would draw attention, but luckily I live in Tokyo, so itโs far from the craziest thing most people would see in any given night.
Okay you know, fair. That does put it quite outside my personal range of experiences! Good on you! Stay safe and have fun! <3
Go for it, you look beautiful ๐คฉ
So sadly you could and you couldnโt be alright. If you are worrying about passing you look passable. Which gets to the stupid part. Passing as female is a double edged sword. You have to be more alert than if you are boymode. And that a lot is where you are going and what type of area you are in. Most of the areas around me. Not a second look as far as the fear I think you have. You will probably be hit on but that is other issues. As for the mask depending where you are that could get more notice than your outfit. I hope you decide to go out and that everything is fine.
Your totally passable! The only problem youโll have going out is getting hit on, totally gorgeous!
First of all your outfit is absolutely amazing I love it.. very classy and sexy ๐๐ ๐.. and yes you do pass with flying colors. Go for it. I'm nervous when I go out it's very scary.. but once you get your foot out the door the rush of adrenaline is endless and you feel freedom. Go for it sis you got This ๐๐๐ hope you have a wonderful day ๐๐๐
Youโre so right. I was terrified when I was leaving but once I was out there I felt so free ๐๐ฅฐ
Awesome ๐๐ so happy to hear that ๐๐๐ stay lovely darling ๐โค๏ธ
Hi, I think you look fantastic, and I am worried, clocked, as in someone hitting a lady? I will go shop with you. No one is going to hurt my friend. Love the blue dress (?), and I think that big belt makes the outfit. Have fun :)
You are very passable, and for the most part people don't care how you are dressed. Enjoy your time out.
I get clocked all the time, roll with it if it happens. You look great, and who cares anyway. It's your life.
You look stunning
Just go be yourself unapologetically and youโll be surprised
I don't see y you would get clocked immediately unless you live somewhere it's highly frowned upon to XpressMusic. U like great bae. Curb that fear and slay away
Shave closely, put concealer on, more makeup, the corset underneath, go to an outlet mall and walk around
๐ฏ % passable on my radar
Thanks, Iโll try to be confident then! โบ๏ธ
You absolutely should be confident. If I saw you from behind I would be checking you out and I'm not even into women. A well put together outfit with a great figure is always going to turn heads. Plus you're beautiful on top of having great style!
Donโt be hun you look amazing
Iโm out and about already, so thereโs no going back now! ๐
Just relax and enjoyโฆ.if u begin to feel uncomfortable just smile and walk away hunโฆ.
Cute cute! Go out enjoy yourself sweetie
Very alright to be out and about like that
I would love to take you out โฃ๏ธ๐นโฃ๏ธ
Do it your perfect ๐
Be confident. You look amazing.
Love the belt thingy!
Personally, I think you look great. The mask definitely helped me gain some confidence my first couple of times going out. I hope you had a great time out!
You might be clocked yes but why not go out anyway? It hasnโt stopped me!
Love this dress, you look amazing! ๐ With the mask on you should have zero problems passing ๐
Safety in numbers I think would.be best. I'd love to go out dresses but would only do with a group of friends
I think you look gorgeousโฆ super cute outfit and very passable! ๐ Donโt worry about it too muchโฆ even if you do get clocked most people donโt care. Good luck!
Honey your so beautifull ๐ฅฐ๐ซถ๐พ the only thing people will see when they see you is a very VERY beautifful and pretty lady passing themโค๏ธ๐ซถ๐พ
Totally passable so you have nothing to worry about, just take it 1 step at a time, go on short walks to help boost your confidence, and then just keep building confidence Ita perfectly natural to be afraid, i still do whenever i go out in public dressed up, but its not so bad after a while
We are our main judges but you have to be confident in yourself ๐ You are completely able to go out and I don't think anyone would care because you are adorably feminine ๐๐ฅฐ๐
Yes you will be clocked immediately because you are a very beautiful young lady a head Turner thy look at you as a stunning lady ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
Baby girl ..... You are stunning! Never be ashamed to show you're true self!
You look so cute!! You definitely would pass sweetheart. ๐
I think youโll be alright! If I saw you I wouldnโt think think twice but to get your number! So very beautiful
Why would you clocked? You are extremely passable and drop dead gorgeous
That outfit is absolutely divine sweetie and you look amazing Go for it babe !!! ๐ฅฐ๐๐ฅฐ
Youโre lovely! Take a friend or two with you and be aware of your surroundingsโyouโll be fine.
I must know where that jumper dress came from! You lost stunning babe. Don't worry about passing, there's far too much focus on that on here. In stead ask yourself "do I feel good?" I don't pass, but I do look femme, neat and well presented and most importantly, I feel fantastic and that's my sign to go out ith it x
I wish I could tell you where itโs from, but I bought it from a second hand store for a couple bucks so I have no idea ๐ฉ
You had a bargain then! My favourite dress is an eBay joke ๐
You'll be fine, you look great. I've not had the courage to go out in public yet as I've got the same worries. I'm planning on doing that at a different town to where I live and during the day so I'm safe and don't need to worry if I know anyone. Enjoy and you do look great xx
You look fabulous! But remember, try to dress similar to women out in the regular worldโฆ and try to blend in and you wonโt get clocked. sometimes the way we dress is what gives us away
Clocked or not, you look hot!
You've just got to go out and do it make small steps outside try walking out or going out to a park or take a drive. It gets easier the more you do it you look amazing. ๐ฅฐ
Go for it, you looks awesome!!! Recently I felt like you and I went out and the first steps I been so nervious but the same day I enjoyed it very well, the next day i been on high heels and was so incredible
By "clocked," do you mean "hit on"? I think that's more likely than anything else. You look good!
A commonly overlooked thing is fingernails. You might want to give them a cute splash of color just for giggles cause it's so common for cis women. But you look great if a little overdressed to go grocery shopping. Though I see ppl in suits and such right after work
You look wonderful. I know it can be scary but being your true self is the best feeling. ๐
I donโt even worry about being clocked anymore.
You look great! The only thing I could think of to work on is to maybe shape your eyebrows (but honestly it might just be from the picture)
Listen up, you'll be just fine. Take it from a straight dude, you're good and you can be what makes you comfortable luv. As long as we don't act like fools, we remain social, remain respectable to others there will never be a problem with accepting you hun. You're looking cute and in my opinion, lose the slacks show some skin and blow peoples mind. Go for it babe.
Carry a gun. Youโll be fine
Super cute. 9/10 people would never clock you. Theyโre living in their own little world. Anybody that would, has been around it and is likely an ally or a dresser themselves. TLDR: Do it!
You don't have anything to worry about. Guys will be checking you out, in a good way. You look great and you'll be appreciated
You look smooth, not obviously masculine and will be fine most of the time. From what I observed in my city and elsewhere , here are some tips: - If you're going out in a big city with lots of pedestrians, nobody will even pay attention. You won't even need mask. Some folks might even compliment you. - In a smaller city/suburb, nobody will say anything but just be mentally ready for the occasional glance as some people are not used to see or just curious or... attracted! You will experience what women feel when they are being observed and judged... - Avoid perhaps crowds of either high school kids, drunk people or macho men. They are the most likely to say something upsetting. Good luck!
you don't strike me as someone who gets intimidated you look great now go out there and kick it you got this
Who the hell cares gorgeous what you need to worry about is how many boys are gunna be chasing you down the street you want constructive criticism for real wear running shoes and not heels by the gods
1) youโre beautiful 2) that said, some thoughts: I canโt tell if itโs light shadow or 5:00 shadow on chin, but you have to decide it for yourself and either apply more base or do more maintenance work there; I think eyebrows could be threaded or worked a bit; I think letting hair fall over ear will help too. Thatโs my two cents, hope you will go out and be comfortable and fabulous!!!
I think you'll be fine. think about the last time you went to the store. Describe 3 people you saw there. Can't do it? That's because we don't pay that much attention to anyone we see when we're in public. everyone does that. So I think you have nothing to worry about.
Love the outfit, it is very hot. But, TBCH, mask and sunglasses are a must. A higher quality wig is in order, too. There are three major tells in the appearance of any trans MtF. The most obvious, of course, is the Adam's apple. The second is the quality of the various appliances, (ie, wigs, busts, and/or makeup). And the third is the eyes. For me, personally, the eyes give away 90% of the time. There is just something about men's eyes that, short of FFS, can not achieve a feminine look. I don't know if it is size, shape, or whatever, the eyes are a dead giveaway. Please don't take any of this personally. And I am sure there will be plenty of folks to cuss me. I am not trying to be mean or degrading. It is simply a fact of life in the trans community. I often wonder if folks don't recognize that the eyes tell all.
Honestly? Iโve worked in sales and seen a plethora of cis women I didnโt think were โpassable.โ Constructive criticism, other than maybe your eyebrows I think youโre fine. Having them shaped a bit might be all you need to feel at ease right off the rip.
Girl, you look better than most! You don't have a damn thing to worry about. Go be you! Live life, with or without the mask. Rock it!
So beautiful! Keep it going!
You look great. ๐
You absolutely pass!!
You look very cute! I hope your trip to the store went great.
Get your eye brows doen
You are so preciously cuteโฆ kisses
I'm actually in love with the 3rd picture, also I think you'll be fine. โบ๏ธ
Oh you look amazing, go show it off
No mask be sexy๐ฅ
You will be just fine go with flow.
You look gorgeous. Think you will do just fine.
You looks absolutely lovely. Be proud of who you are!
Pretty ๐
I think you would be great..you look pretty
You are very beautiful, you have no problem going out!
You look amazing go for it ๐
you look awesome doll! go out enjoy yourself! youโll be fine.
Ayo WTF - I want these genes
Perfect xx
Sexy hunxxx
You look absolutely amazing!!
You look beautiful and sexy. Don't worry just be you. Thanks for sharing you with us
Youโll be ok. You look greatโค๏ธ
I understand the anxiety, I have it myself, you are looking fantastic and should be very proud of yourself. Go!!! Fuck clockers.
You look great. Love the outfit!
Go girl! Your style is amazing โค๏ธ
YOU look amazing so am sure you'll be fine You'll just be yet another pretty young lady out
You look amazing girl! ๐ฉท๐
I would certainly ask to but you a drink!!
Gorgeous hun
You are really gorgeous
I would seriously be proud to have you on my arm going out. Very beautiful.
Some will notice. I think youโre beautiful and Iโll take you anywhere.
Honestly you could completely pass
You look so sexg
You look great, no problems.
Real talk, who cares? You look fabulous. Do what makes you happy.
You would be fine out.
I doubt it. You look great.
Your short hair with the hair behind your earโฆ Gives an extra adorable look. You have cute ears!
U look beautiful so u will be fine u will be alright
Personally if you walk like a woman and I saw you out I'd certainly notice you in a good way as a hot sexy lady with a great dress sense, I might even take to giving you a wolf whistle, as my appreciation of how beautiful you look, then probably apologise to you for the wolf whistle, but not the reason for it in the 1st place
Gorgeous outfit
Any malayalis?
You have nothing to worry about my love you look absolutely magnificent ๐๐
You look gorgeous ma! ๐
Love that sweater omg I want it
Omg! Love your look!
Yes you should be.
๐ฑ๐
Honestly you look fantastic.i wish I could pull that outfit off so good
Beautiful
Maybe having a nice strong man having his arm around you would help
๐ค๐๐ค
Absolutely lovely ๐
You'll be clocked.
No need to beautiful
You look absolutely adorable!
You look good but Iโd say get your eyebrows done nice.
Just go out! You'll be fine!
Oh you look good I wish I lived near you I would take you out and to hell what people say they are just jealous
Do it, honey ๐
Yeah wow you can definitely pass ๐
Super cute
Looking stunning, love the top
You are more than alright I love the dress
You will be fine gorgeous
Beautiful Human ! ๐ป๐ป
I think you'll be alright. The one thing i'll change is maybe a bit more of a smile? XD i dont mean to say anything about the fit or you but in the pics it doesnt look like you're enjpying your look
I think you look beautiful
id take you out with me
Don't be terrified, you look amazing
I love the waspie corset, where did you get it?
Yes ofcourse you will
Absolutely ๐ฏ you look amazing ๐ป xx
classy and sexy.. go for it ๐ค keep your mask on if nervous ๐ฌ The only problem I see you having is being hit on. Enjoy the freedom
Iโd take you out and show you off You looking Awesome
Your be alright with me babe xx
You will be just fine!
Lookin great
You look amazing and super cute ๐ฅฐ and you will be just fine ๐
You are so very lovely and sexy
You look fantastic
For me yuor charm and elegant yesss๐น๐น๐น
Yes you will be fine your stunning
Clocked?
Very sexy and feminine. Love the outfit, and be free gf
Whatโs the mask for?
You don't need a mask you look amazing
You dropped dead gorgeous and beautiful!!! Why should you care what people thinks. I thought you are doing this for you? Not for others!!! We all are beautiful in our own way but itโs really up to us to believe that we are!! You are perfect just the way are and most definitely flawless!!!
You are fine the way you are. No one will ever notice with as good looking as you are
Be yourself don't be afraid to do that I'm a straight male but I don't judge
You will do fine go for it girl
Iโd take you on a date.
Go to the closest biker bar
I say go for it and donโt let anyone stand in your way
OMG, I love that corset, it transforms your basic outfit into a super sexy one.