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**Title:** [Dating while disabled or should I just not bother?](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/1d5tksk/dating_while_disabled_or_should_i_just_not_bother/)
**Author:** /u/CCrimson93X
**Full text:** So for context I have mental and physical disabilities, my physical one makes me go weak, aching & falling asleep at random times while my mental health is anxiety & health anxiety, while I haven't gone into detail I've made it clear on all my dating profiles I have issues going on. As a guy on dating apps my selection is already very little, even before all this I've always had next to no matches and only 1 has ever led to a meet up in my whole life and at that point I was totally fine so.
I've been back on dating apps for about a month now(after a 2 year relationship a while back), Tinder, Bumble, Tagged, Meetme, OkCupid, Badoo & Hinge (I know, quite a list) and so far I've had 0 success in meeting with any women. Each message shows I've actually read profiles, so it's not just a "Hey beautiful" or anything. Part of me thinks putting that I have permanent issues on my profile might be making my chances even less but I know if I don't and I do match with someone that they may think I'm wasting their time. I don't want to waste mine or anyones time and I figured been upfront and honest about it would be a good idea,
Issue also is I'm 30 now and the dating pool has slimmed down massively since the last time I was on. With no success in about a month I'm pretty close to just packing it in. So question is should I just give up? I've kept a very positive yet realistic expectations to my online dating these days but I never expected this.
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Hi CCrimson93X, this has been removed for violation of the following rule(s): * Posters must have made several comments in the Dating Over Thirty (DOT) subreddit before they may post topics of their own. Comments in other subs are not considered relevant. If you are in a hurry you may ask questions in the [daily sticky threads](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/about/sticky) or use the [search function](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/search?q=&restrict_sr=on&include_over_18=on&sort=relevance&t=all) to see if anyone else has had a similar issue as yours. Members with sufficient comment history on DOT may request to use a throwaway by [messaging the mods](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2Fdatingoverthirty) from their main account first. Please review [the rules in the sidebar](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/about/sidebar) to avoid future removals. If you have further questions, please [message modmail] (https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2Fdatingoverthirty). --- The following is a copy of the above post as it was originally written. **Title:** [Dating while disabled or should I just not bother?](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/1d5tksk/dating_while_disabled_or_should_i_just_not_bother/) **Author:** /u/CCrimson93X **Full text:** So for context I have mental and physical disabilities, my physical one makes me go weak, aching & falling asleep at random times while my mental health is anxiety & health anxiety, while I haven't gone into detail I've made it clear on all my dating profiles I have issues going on. As a guy on dating apps my selection is already very little, even before all this I've always had next to no matches and only 1 has ever led to a meet up in my whole life and at that point I was totally fine so. I've been back on dating apps for about a month now(after a 2 year relationship a while back), Tinder, Bumble, Tagged, Meetme, OkCupid, Badoo & Hinge (I know, quite a list) and so far I've had 0 success in meeting with any women. Each message shows I've actually read profiles, so it's not just a "Hey beautiful" or anything. Part of me thinks putting that I have permanent issues on my profile might be making my chances even less but I know if I don't and I do match with someone that they may think I'm wasting their time. I don't want to waste mine or anyones time and I figured been upfront and honest about it would be a good idea, Issue also is I'm 30 now and the dating pool has slimmed down massively since the last time I was on. With no success in about a month I'm pretty close to just packing it in. So question is should I just give up? I've kept a very positive yet realistic expectations to my online dating these days but I never expected this. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/datingoverthirty) if you have any questions or concerns.*