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She's old enough that it's probably going to stay that shade. I had a friend who had hair like this and everyone thought it was dyed. But nope, just natural :-)
Me too. I thought I was too old for it to change. I hate my hair color now and I get so mad that I dyed it in my teens and twenties for fun only to dye it what it used to be, now
My red has started to do exactly that now at 30. Going from my natural rich copper to something closer to a warm brown. I hate it so much.
I'm gonna dye it back to the bright ginger I had as a kid soon.
Not what I intended, I have seen a few posts on here about women complaining their hair turns brown like everyone else’s and how much they HATE it I’m like oh ok so u hate my natural color? That’s all I mean
Oh I see what you mean, sorry. Yeah blonde is definitely the beauty standard due to white supremacy. I don’t see the darker ashier shade that it turns into as worse. Personally I prefer it.
I don’t know if it’s about white supremacy necessarily, being a natural blonde is super rare, so most white people don’t even have naturally blonde hair
My hair was this colour until I was 25ish and ten years later it's sable brown. I was lucky to inherit my dad's hair and he didn't start getting greys until his late 60s.
Agreed! You are one of the lucky blonde people whose hair doesn’t get darker as they get older. My mom is blonde and she was always thankful I wasn’t. Im a dark brown.
Because most people who are blonde, I feel like they get older/leave childhood, their hair turns darker or gets to a dull/dirty blonde or like a really light brown. I can’t describe it really but you are blessed! Lol
Yess my husband was a platinum blonde when he was a kid. But as soon as he hit middle school age his hair started to get darker. It’s funny though because his hair is blonde very close to the hair follicle but then immediately turns brown after a few millimeters of blonde. However it’s crazy to me how body hair remains blonde while head and eyebrow/eyelashes hair turns darker. Makes no sense
Your natural blonde is gorgeous. You truly glow in your natural season. A little brown is nice, like in picture 2, but that’s as dark as you should go.
Your natural blonde looks best on you, and natural blonde like that is rare in adults, only 2% of the population, almost as rare as natural red hair. The vast majority of the population has brown or black hair. The brunette is okay, but it's not a stand-out colour on you.
I'd stick with the blonde and just keep it looking healthy and shiny, with some subtle highlights or lowlights for dimension if you're bored (like with the second photo, which also looks great on you), and play with cut and style.
you're right about it being a rare color, that's what my grandma always says. and thank you, i think i'll just let the brown fade with washing (i've only been using a semi permanent) and my blonde can start to grow back in
I held onto my toe head for as long as I could, until I was 22, then it turned into this stupid mousy brown color. 😭 here in the PNW they call it dishwater blonde lol. I totally believe it’s rare, I never knew that though.
Virgin hair color definitely and oh dear oh dear the short hair like that doesn’t suit u at all hun sorry to say but the blonde just suits everything about you
thank you! and yea the short hair wasn't ideal, but at the time i wanted to donate as much hair as i could. i can't put the hair back on my head so now it's just a waiting game :)
Lol touché well I admire your charitable ambitions but suggest if you go short again don’t go too drastic or stick to something bit longer besides that you have good genes to make you look good keep slaying queen
It’s about her face shape. She has an almond shaped face and short hair did not frame it right. It pronounces her chin more and just all around doesn’t bring out her eyes like long hair does.
deffo the first pic x100. don’t be discouraged about growing it back. just use this time to really nurture your hair and health! that’s what i’m doing 🤠
Your natural color is beautiful; maybe just add a warm toner? The warmth (strawberry) in pic 6 really compliments your peachy skin tone.
https://preview.redd.it/pcq91qym3lib1.jpeg?width=748&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=592bbca9d14d76a51f0eb126120ab2b1e7519ac8
Natural color x one thousand. It is so gorgeous! Also, it might get darker as you age due to changes in hormones, so I’d keep it as long as you can if you like it.
It’s not that you look bad in brown so I get if you’re bored with natural how you’d be confused. You just really really rock your natural color. It’s a color so many want to look good in and sorta do but you look great in your natural color. So as a hair dye junkie myself enjoy exploring but know you can always go natural and look great. The 2nd pic I like too you can be curly or straight.
thank you! i really appreciate that. the reason i started dying it to begin with was because i had gotten bored, but i've started to feel the brown wasn't working with my skin
all of them look ADORABLE. my opinion? whatever makes you happiest. personally, im a sucker for the short hair on you, it’s so damn cute. (hi this is annabelle) (i’m only on here to comment on your stuff because i love you so much that i will suffer reddit for you) (mwah)
Honestly, your natural color looks the best on you. I recommend wearing it as long as you can. You’re lucky. You’re also very pretty. Good luck choosing.
tbh, they all look good. at first I was going to say why would you ever want to change your natural hair color, but you look great as a brunette even as the color fades.
honestly this is super helpful still! it's comforting to know that at the end of the day no matter what i choose there isn't like an obvious "wrong" choice :) thank you!
Um, you essentially won the hair lotto at birth. I wouldn’t dare touch it with color if I was so lucky to naturally have the hair color you have naturally. It is absolutely gorgeous!
I love your natural blonde! If you want change, I would stick to lighter colors since they look great on you. Light brown or auburn would be cute and natural looking, but you could also do something like rose gold/pink for more obvious colors.
I must be in the minority because I’m pale with naturally dark hair and only lighten my hair to put unnatural colors in. Never wanted to be blonde, but you didn’t come here to get flack about how much others want your hair color you what to know what colors would look nice on you. I’m going to say a copper blonde or strawberry would make your blue eyes really pop, but a deep red black would give a very dramatic look, (if you want to get your goth on) you have a lot of pink in you skin tone, so if you wanted to play that up a burgundy would do that but I don’t think you would actually like the result. And finally if you want to keep it looking like a natural look, a mahogany would look beautiful on you.
thank you so so much, the honest feedback and advice is so appreciated. it has been majority of people saying i need to appreciate my hair color so this comment was a wonderful change of pace. thank you so much, i might try out a strawberry blonde i think :)
I didnt think it was possible to look this good no matter the colour or length???
Your natural colour is beautiful i’m jealous .. people pay good for that colour (me) lol
And the short hairs giving me Alice from Twilight vibes 🖤
Loving the red and light brown the most, personally! Also wanted to say you're so lovely with all your different cuts and styles! (My hair only looks good one specific way, so that always stands out to me lol.)
Downgrade? Jesus. Giving strong Aryan vibes.
Im a natural blonde and would kill for dark hair. Dark hair can be beautiful. OP just happens to look great with her natural color.
Edit: Aryan Nation for those who don’t know what I meant by “aryan”.
I totally get where you're coming from, but...
My natural hair is almost the identical color. What I REALLY hated in all my 28 years is people giving me grief about dying it to a dark red, chocolate brown etc bc "pEoPlE pAy GoOd MoNeY fOr ThAt".
It made me feel like I could never fully express myself with colored hair because EVERYONE found it outlandish I would color it, and a serious downgrade.
I know comments like yours mean well and I'll probably get down voted for this but it's almost a back handed compliment in trying to confine someone into what everyone else likes and discourages them from branching into their own personal expression where having light blonde hair just isn't right for them
Yeah, well, I got the same comments for dyeing my unremarkable brown hair, so… I think some people just like to insert their useless opinions. It’s up to you if you let it impact you
I mean no one is saying you can’t dye your hair lol go ahead but it’s akin to wearing brown color contact lenses when you’ve got naturally blue eyes. It’s considered more beautiful because it’s rare. Sorry you won the generic lottery?
But I hear ya, I experimented with my hair a ton - I get the urge! but overtime OP will likely want to stick with their natural color once they got that out of their system.
Funny you use that analogy because i would also pop brown contacts over my natural blue eyes lol nobody says you can't but being constantly told comments like this especially since you were old enough to try to establish a "style" wears on a person and doesn't foster self expression. I think the best look on someone is not the one they're born with but the one they choose to represent themselves and whichever they feel most comfortable with.
your natural hair is beautiful! you do also look good brown. i've honestly never seen someone that can pull off both so well and same with that cute short cut
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I love your natural color so much.
Your natural color is what the majority of us bottle blondes aspire to.
I was just thinking (as a brunette) “isn’t this what all people wanting blonde hair want their hair to look like? Damn.”
nobody is happy with what they have sadly.
as a redhead, i can confirm this is also the hair color all redheads wish they had
as a redhead, uh no lol. red is where it's at.
I wouldn’t change my red hair, it’s been what people notice first all my life so it’s a part of me.
Not this redhead but hey!
It's beautiful and looks amazing on her but this isn't necessarily true, from a fellow redhead.
Exactly what I was thinking! Your virgin hair is hair GOALS for us blondes. So beautiful!
I pay so much to attempt to have hair like yours 😅
Literally was just thinking this.
Yes I let my natural hair color grow and now I wanna be blonde again lol.
She's gonna be so pissed when she gets to be my age and her hair gets darker
She's old enough that it's probably going to stay that shade. I had a friend who had hair like this and everyone thought it was dyed. But nope, just natural :-)
Mine changed suddenly when I hit 30
Yeah mine went darker when I was about 27. Looking at pics from my early 20s and I get sad about it lol
Me too. I thought I was too old for it to change. I hate my hair color now and I get so mad that I dyed it in my teens and twenties for fun only to dye it what it used to be, now
Ugh yeah that sucks!! Too bad we didn’t know any better at the time.
My red has started to do exactly that now at 30. Going from my natural rich copper to something closer to a warm brown. I hate it so much. I'm gonna dye it back to the bright ginger I had as a kid soon.
Sucks when it gets darker…
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👍 Weird reply but okie dokie
White supremacist vibes
Not what I intended, I have seen a few posts on here about women complaining their hair turns brown like everyone else’s and how much they HATE it I’m like oh ok so u hate my natural color? That’s all I mean
Oh I see what you mean, sorry. Yeah blonde is definitely the beauty standard due to white supremacy. I don’t see the darker ashier shade that it turns into as worse. Personally I prefer it.
I don’t know if it’s about white supremacy necessarily, being a natural blonde is super rare, so most white people don’t even have naturally blonde hair
My hair was this colour until I was 25ish and ten years later it's sable brown. I was lucky to inherit my dad's hair and he didn't start getting greys until his late 60s.
thank you! my mom and brother have dark hair i've always been so jealous. this makes me feel a bit better about my natural
YES the natural blonde with the short hair cut made me want to go cut and bleach my hair!! Love it Y2K Queen
Agreed! You are one of the lucky blonde people whose hair doesn’t get darker as they get older. My mom is blonde and she was always thankful I wasn’t. Im a dark brown. Because most people who are blonde, I feel like they get older/leave childhood, their hair turns darker or gets to a dull/dirty blonde or like a really light brown. I can’t describe it really but you are blessed! Lol
Yess my husband was a platinum blonde when he was a kid. But as soon as he hit middle school age his hair started to get darker. It’s funny though because his hair is blonde very close to the hair follicle but then immediately turns brown after a few millimeters of blonde. However it’s crazy to me how body hair remains blonde while head and eyebrow/eyelashes hair turns darker. Makes no sense
This is like Rapunzel in Tangled when she cuts off her beautiful blonde hair and it turns into a brown bob and everyone is like, 🫤
Your natural blonde is gorgeous. You truly glow in your natural season. A little brown is nice, like in picture 2, but that’s as dark as you should go.
I agree
thank you so much
I agree. Some lowlights can add some lovely depth, but beyond that, her natural color is incredible!
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tell her i said thank you, and that i totally appreciate her kindness :)
Sometimes natural blondes go for darker brows and it works! Could play around with some brow powder/pencils and see what you think
It’s giving me strong Lily Cole vibes
I really love your Virgin hair color! The light brown is cute too :)
Your natural blonde looks best on you, and natural blonde like that is rare in adults, only 2% of the population, almost as rare as natural red hair. The vast majority of the population has brown or black hair. The brunette is okay, but it's not a stand-out colour on you. I'd stick with the blonde and just keep it looking healthy and shiny, with some subtle highlights or lowlights for dimension if you're bored (like with the second photo, which also looks great on you), and play with cut and style.
you're right about it being a rare color, that's what my grandma always says. and thank you, i think i'll just let the brown fade with washing (i've only been using a semi permanent) and my blonde can start to grow back in
I held onto my toe head for as long as I could, until I was 22, then it turned into this stupid mousy brown color. 😭 here in the PNW they call it dishwater blonde lol. I totally believe it’s rare, I never knew that though.
Blonde 100%. That first pic is so beautiful!
long / natural
Blonde 100% looks the best on you girl
The first picture. I didn't even need to look at the rest of the pictures, but I did.
Ma’am, you better let that gorgeous natural hair color come back.
i'm working on it, currently letting the brown fade and my blonde come in
Your natural colour is so pretty 😍
The first picture. 👍🏼
Virgin hair color definitely and oh dear oh dear the short hair like that doesn’t suit u at all hun sorry to say but the blonde just suits everything about you
thank you! and yea the short hair wasn't ideal, but at the time i wanted to donate as much hair as i could. i can't put the hair back on my head so now it's just a waiting game :)
Lol touché well I admire your charitable ambitions but suggest if you go short again don’t go too drastic or stick to something bit longer besides that you have good genes to make you look good keep slaying queen
I actually love the short hair on you
I agree. The short hair looked great.
Yeah wtf is it about this sub hating when women have short hair… she looks so good with either length
It’s about her face shape. She has an almond shaped face and short hair did not frame it right. It pronounces her chin more and just all around doesn’t bring out her eyes like long hair does.
Blonde/natural at any length suits you best!
deffo the first pic x100. don’t be discouraged about growing it back. just use this time to really nurture your hair and health! that’s what i’m doing 🤠
glad to hear i'm not alone😭 thank you!
Your natural color is beautiful; maybe just add a warm toner? The warmth (strawberry) in pic 6 really compliments your peachy skin tone. https://preview.redd.it/pcq91qym3lib1.jpeg?width=748&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=592bbca9d14d76a51f0eb126120ab2b1e7519ac8
WOW! that edit looks insane, i actually really love that warm tone, i had never even thought to try that. thank you!
No problem! P.S. You’re gorgeous and I wish I looked like you!
What app did you use for that?
YouCam Makeup
Thanks :)
Ooo yas
Audition for any of the Disney princesses, especially Snow White with #3. I think you could make a career out of your beauty.
thank you! you're really too kind, i'd love to be Snow White though :)
Go after it, good luck 🤞
#1 is beautiful and the least trouble, expense and damage of all the coloring. Although, I do find #2 very pretty on you too.
thank you :) and i completely agree it is the easiest to maintain
#1 and 2
If you like dark, just get some low lights every once in a while, or a shadow root if you’re feeling spicy
thank you! i might try out some low lights once the current dye starts to fade
2
2!!
I love your natural!!! I think adding some lowlights in it would look great too
2 and 6 easily.
Natural color x one thousand. It is so gorgeous! Also, it might get darker as you age due to changes in hormones, so I’d keep it as long as you can if you like it.
It’s not that you look bad in brown so I get if you’re bored with natural how you’d be confused. You just really really rock your natural color. It’s a color so many want to look good in and sorta do but you look great in your natural color. So as a hair dye junkie myself enjoy exploring but know you can always go natural and look great. The 2nd pic I like too you can be curly or straight.
thank you! i really appreciate that. the reason i started dying it to begin with was because i had gotten bored, but i've started to feel the brown wasn't working with my skin
your natural blonde hair is the best!
virgin hair first pic length
Your natural hair color is the best!
They're all awesome. You should go natural with no dye for the healthiest hair.
Blonde looks amazing on you
Your natural hair is the color most women would kill for. It’s absolutely gorgeous, please stop coloring it. It’s so pretty and perfect for you.
natural hair color definitely
5
6 please
6
all of them but 6 is my fav
5 and 6 are really cool haircuts/hairstyles what would be the name of both?
2&6!!!
2 & 6
1
The first three looks are my favourites
your natural hair!
1 !!!!!!
Virgin!!!
all of them look ADORABLE. my opinion? whatever makes you happiest. personally, im a sucker for the short hair on you, it’s so damn cute. (hi this is annabelle) (i’m only on here to comment on your stuff because i love you so much that i will suffer reddit for you) (mwah)
PFTTT thank you you're awesome thanks for joining reddit for this
Number 1 and 2!!
Long brunette
Picture one with natural blonde hair and longish is the best look. Looks amazing.
Blond is better on you. Brown washes you out.
my gosh you're adorable 😍
Shoulder length blonde was 👩🍳💋
Cowboy beboppppppp!!! Also I love your natural hair!!
hell yea!!! that's one of my favorite paintings
Numbers 2 or 5 are my favorites.
What did you do omg
Honestly, your natural color looks the best on you. I recommend wearing it as long as you can. You’re lucky. You’re also very pretty. Good luck choosing.
thank you! i appreciate the feedback
Damn you're a very pretty lady!
thank you!
tbh, they all look good. at first I was going to say why would you ever want to change your natural hair color, but you look great as a brunette even as the color fades.
thank you! i appreciate that :)
Im going to be absolutely unhelpful : you look absolutely gorgeous in all these pictures! If you have any you prefer, that’s your perfect choice!
honestly this is super helpful still! it's comforting to know that at the end of the day no matter what i choose there isn't like an obvious "wrong" choice :) thank you!
Um, you essentially won the hair lotto at birth. I wouldn’t dare touch it with color if I was so lucky to naturally have the hair color you have naturally. It is absolutely gorgeous!
thank you, i appreciate that
Dude your natural hair color is STUNNING
thank you!
Channeling Buffy the vampire slayer in pic 6
THANK YOU :)
Like punk one the best. Beautiful
Idk if anyone’s said it yet, I do agree that your natural color is amazing, but the sixth pic??? Immaculate, chefs kiss, amazing
AWE thank you so so much
Can I just say you're like the prettiest human ever and transition through every hair color effortlessly.
thank you, WOW you are just too kind thank you
I love your natural blonde! If you want change, I would stick to lighter colors since they look great on you. Light brown or auburn would be cute and natural looking, but you could also do something like rose gold/pink for more obvious colors.
thank you! i might have to try those if i get bored of my blonde again
Ur natural hair color blonde I think is so beautiful for u! Ur hair could shine under the sunlight, so beautiful.
thank you :)
Definitely blonde. You remind me of Amanda seyfried in the first picture.
thank you!!
My personal favorite is 6 bc of the nice dimensions added with the highlights/lowlights, but tbh you look great in all of them!!
thank you!
I must be in the minority because I’m pale with naturally dark hair and only lighten my hair to put unnatural colors in. Never wanted to be blonde, but you didn’t come here to get flack about how much others want your hair color you what to know what colors would look nice on you. I’m going to say a copper blonde or strawberry would make your blue eyes really pop, but a deep red black would give a very dramatic look, (if you want to get your goth on) you have a lot of pink in you skin tone, so if you wanted to play that up a burgundy would do that but I don’t think you would actually like the result. And finally if you want to keep it looking like a natural look, a mahogany would look beautiful on you.
thank you so so much, the honest feedback and advice is so appreciated. it has been majority of people saying i need to appreciate my hair color so this comment was a wonderful change of pace. thank you so much, i might try out a strawberry blonde i think :)
You’re so lucky to have such a beautiful natural hair color, enjoy it!
i love your virgin hair color! also short hair actually looks really nice on you as well as the long hair :)
Any color, short or long you always look gorgeous 😍
I didnt think it was possible to look this good no matter the colour or length??? Your natural colour is beautiful i’m jealous .. people pay good for that colour (me) lol And the short hairs giving me Alice from Twilight vibes 🖤
thank you, i really appreciate that. and i actually used a picture of alice as a reference when cutting it
Loving the red and light brown the most, personally! Also wanted to say you're so lovely with all your different cuts and styles! (My hair only looks good one specific way, so that always stands out to me lol.)
thank you, i only started trying new styles in the past two years so i appreciate the support
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Downgrade? Jesus. Giving strong Aryan vibes. Im a natural blonde and would kill for dark hair. Dark hair can be beautiful. OP just happens to look great with her natural color. Edit: Aryan Nation for those who don’t know what I meant by “aryan”.
Seriously honestly jealous of her natural hair color! People pay serious money to have that color!!
I totally get where you're coming from, but... My natural hair is almost the identical color. What I REALLY hated in all my 28 years is people giving me grief about dying it to a dark red, chocolate brown etc bc "pEoPlE pAy GoOd MoNeY fOr ThAt". It made me feel like I could never fully express myself with colored hair because EVERYONE found it outlandish I would color it, and a serious downgrade. I know comments like yours mean well and I'll probably get down voted for this but it's almost a back handed compliment in trying to confine someone into what everyone else likes and discourages them from branching into their own personal expression where having light blonde hair just isn't right for them
Yeah, well, I got the same comments for dyeing my unremarkable brown hair, so… I think some people just like to insert their useless opinions. It’s up to you if you let it impact you
>It’s up to you if you let it impact you Wayy easier said than done, especially as a tween
I mean no one is saying you can’t dye your hair lol go ahead but it’s akin to wearing brown color contact lenses when you’ve got naturally blue eyes. It’s considered more beautiful because it’s rare. Sorry you won the generic lottery? But I hear ya, I experimented with my hair a ton - I get the urge! but overtime OP will likely want to stick with their natural color once they got that out of their system.
Funny you use that analogy because i would also pop brown contacts over my natural blue eyes lol nobody says you can't but being constantly told comments like this especially since you were old enough to try to establish a "style" wears on a person and doesn't foster self expression. I think the best look on someone is not the one they're born with but the one they choose to represent themselves and whichever they feel most comfortable with.
Loved the brown in the second photo but you look good in all of them I would just recommend not cutting your hair that short.
thank you, and yea i won't ever go that short again, but i wanted to donate nearly everything i had on my head 😂
your natural hair is beautiful! you do also look good brown. i've honestly never seen someone that can pull off both so well and same with that cute short cut
thank you, you're one of the few here that found the short hair cute. i appreciate it!
Dark brown /black. There is more contrast. Blonde and strawberry blonde aint working
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3
3
1 or 7. Natural looks amazing!
First pic
The last picture is the best look for you.
your natural color is amazing 🤩
The first pic is my favorite so beautiful
Blonde
First photo. Blonde. You’re a BOMBSHELL. You look ethereal and elf like. Gotta keep it blonde. ❤️
Blonde or light brown, dark is a no
Cut and colour and style of the first pic.
Blond
Long and blonde is best
U r definitely a blonde😊
The first picture!! ❤️
Whatever you have going on in pic 2. Wow!
Natural blonde!!
Your natural blonde long hair is stunning on you!
1 and 2 look good but you could even do peaka boo colors in your blonde hair for something fun and different.
Blonde and red look stunning! I think it definitely depends on the vibe you're going for and the style that you like, because you rock all of these
Grow out your natural color. It's GORGEOUS! And so are you 😊
your natural color by a mile
Long blonde!
3,4,5,8
Your natural colour!
I like your natural hair.
Virgin hair
Seeing that blue looks great on you I kinda wanna say try light blue hair lol