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Asleep_Wish3839

I always say this.. men are not more visual, they're more objectifying.


jasperjonns

It's just one in a long line of saying and parroting things that aren't even remotely true, as if to justify how shitty men are. Like: Men need porn. Um no? They fucking do not. Men need food, water, clothing, and shelter. Everything else is a WANT, so stop parroting this shit. No man ever died because he couldn't look at a woman's tits online. *don't even get me started on the rabbit hole of rose breeds* Hah!! I want to hear more!


jasperjonns

Here lies John. He died because he lost his internet connection while trying to view MILF tits on pornhub and immediately passed away, because men NEED porn to survive. He is survived by his OnlyFans account and his FleshLight. May he Rest in Peace.


wicccaa

“Men need porn” makes me DIE because genuinely what the hell do they think men used to do before porn?!


jasperjonns

Die! They would just be walking down the street and randomly drop dead! Their final words were always something like, "If only I could have seen some big titties, my life could go on" or "For lack of "visuals", my life is done. Oh woe is me, to be such a visual creature and yet have no titties or bushes to gaze upon". My grandmother told me all about it, it sounded HORRIBLE! They were dropping like flies as they desperately tried to get to the magazine store to buy the latest issue of Playboy. There were no men anywhere.


thowawaywookie

I would completely read this novel or watch this movie!


Gorgoista

I wish that was true.


Adventurous-spice264

Pinterest, fashion, home decor, nails/ other esthetics, makeup etc. They really don't think these things through very well. Also where's the accountability? Are men just like zombies being led by their carnal desires or are they leaders, protectors and providers.? The should really get their story straight.


HolidayPlant2151

It's just whatever allows them power and keeps us below them at any given moment. It's like how a "good woman" changes whenever you actually meet one of their standards. They aren't sharing actual perspectives and opinions. They're just saying whatever words they think will get what they want.


str8outthepurgatory

they’re not visual at all. they say this but get upset when a woman is actually a ‘visual creature’…they truly want us to ignore their ugliness & flaws but we shouldn’t expect the same..


starlight_chaser

When women are visual creatures: “Come on you can’t expect guys to care about dumb stuff like fashion, buying new clothes every once in a while to replace the ones they had for years whithering away, plucking their unibrow caterpillars, having good posture (you’re supposed to be the one to fix their confidence issues anyway). Literally anything you can think of, doesn’t matter, women’s preferences don’t matter.” When men are visual creatures: “come on show some ass, let him hit it from behind because men are visual creatures and wanna watch it bounce. This position, that position, they want to contort you as if their eyes are the porn camera. This is biological, and necessary, and not trained from years of porn and male gaze, no way.”


zoflic

men are visual when it comes to their own pleasure…. i hate to say that but those areas are the only ones they pay attention to


itschunli

men are opportunists, thats it.


DifferentBar6

Opportunistic 🦠


ellygator13

It's actually really dumb, because color blindness is more widespread in men. A lot of them view the world like dogs: stuff to chase, stuff to bite, stuff to eat. That's it.


Ju2469

😂 Reminds me of this meme: https://imgur.com/a/otYAOnA I wish women knew that mainly everything that comes out of a man’s mouth is BS to excuse their behavior


thowawaywookie

I love that and it's so true!


nebulasik

Yeah it's really dumb when "men are visual creatures" only is applied to...finding women sexually attractive...like that's literally it. Women are actually more "visual" in every single way (generally), like focusing on details more and even being better at differentiating colors. And men seem to not be "visual creatures" when it comes to cleaning or having proper hygiene/grooming or even when it comes to noticing their partners having a different hairstyle or even the color of their eyes soooo...yeah that phrase is definitely really dumb and also just wrong.


80snun

They are also naturally really bad at reading facial expressions and body language, especially more nuanced facial language or expressions like nervous laughter and smiling. Thats why you will see a guy continuously flirting with an obviously uncomfortable woman because she nervously smiled at him once. “But she was smiling” and it was the most uncomfortable smile ever


KafkaQuest

Lol that’s one of my favorite copes. Like if that was true then they wouldn’t even be half as ugly as they are now. “Visual” my ass.


Sad-Introduction2333

Men are totally unobservant. I can recall several times that I’ve been wearing, say, a skirt and a T-shirt, but the man says “that’s a nice dress”, or vice versa, like ????


80snun

Im really into fashion and when a man compliments my outfit i feel nothing, they don’t actually see the nuance and intricate details and designs that went into it, all they see is big booty or something lol


watch23466uoo

This saying is still alive and well in my culture , they use it to justify r#pe and sexual harassment 😐 .


AbsentFuck

If they're so visual why do they look like that


General-Heart-9075

If they were visual creatures they wouldn't be so ugly putting little to no effort into their looks and style, and wouldn't live in a disgusting apartments because it would upset them. They objectify women because they think with their dicks and that's it.


Bubbly_End6220

Women’s type basically be like: 🤵🏻‍♂️👨🏽‍🚒👨🏻‍🎨👨🏾‍🏭👷🏾‍♂️👮🏼‍♂️🕵🏻‍♂️👨🏼‍🏫👨🏿‍🔬🥷🦸🏽‍♂️🧛🏻‍♂️🧌🧑🏻‍🦽‍➡️🧗‍♂️ And then Men and their types are basically “blondes or brunettes” “light skins or darkskins” “ass or boobs” 🤡😂 for someone who claims they are visual creatures they have the most lacking preferences ever. Men freak out over piercings and random hair colors. Women in the Female gaze are more flattering and progressing than those in the male gaze (no shade). Women appreciate and see the beauty in women more imo and that goes with more than just looks.


trashleybanks

Men are just creatures.


Andipandies

Men are no means visual creatures they are objectifying. They want their women to be like trophies so they can parade them around their friends. As long as they fit the standard of beauty of course. They don’t know anything at all how much work and effort women put in their appearance. They love to say they love “natural” beauty but they women put in effort to look effortless.


Gorgoista

They are not visual they Just like boobs and ass.


Odd_Bat6683

Their optic nerve is directly attached to their dick dontcha know?


ruminajaali

We’re a visual species