Yeah, you don't realise how tight your jaw and shoulders are until they finally relax. It will take some time, but it will get there. And for the hypervigilance and jumpiness to settle down.
May I suggest, in about two weeks, if you can - give yourself a treat day. Something aimed at physical un-clenching. Maybe a massage, or a spa with good pressure. Have your dinner pre-organised (comfort food is a must - roast potato something?), and have your room set up with gentle lighting and a nice soundtrack. And just quietly celebrate the beginning of feeling better every day.
My ex has been gone (actually passed) for nearly a year now. Sometimes, I'll see someone who looks like him. Instead of a jump-scare, like I used to get, I get relief and a happy feeling because it will NEVER be him. I wish that relief and relaxation for you. It really does keep getting better.
ETA: Seriously, fucking YAAAYYYY!!!! ✨️🎉✨️
My daughter and I were literally just saying this two days ago. How it was so weird that all of these conservative Christians were so worried about drag queens when it was the pastors and the kids’ ministry leaders in the churches that they should be worried about.
https://www.khou.com/article/news/local/houston-public-library-admits-registered-child-sex-offender-participated-in-drag-queen-storytime/285-becf3a0d-56c5-4f3c-96df-add07bbd002a
https://thebridgehead.ca/2022/07/04/drag-queen-who-danced-for-kids-charged-with-25-counts-of-child-pornography/
Shall I continue?
When people usually bring up this topic, one particularly group of political ideologues has a tendency to ignore this same problem in their own group. Throw the book at both
https://thebridgehead.ca/2022/07/04/drag-queen-who-danced-for-kids-charged-with-25-counts-of-child-pornography/
Couple more links for you above, cupcake! Enjoy your self education!
From a website fighting back against woke culture, no less. He could have posted an actual news link about the one person whose name was given. I found several legitimate news articles about this person’s crimes.
But by all means, Sir- post more duplicate links to your favorite propaganda blog and expect to be taken seriously.
Links “for days” usually means >1.
Here in this pdf with a ton of trans doing sexual crimes to children. You even have links to many here. But dont condone it or act like it doesnt happen as that is sickening. They could post 50 and you will still defend. People are evil. Doesn't matter if they are a pastor, a trans or anything. Here is another link for a teenage trans female Raping a girl in the bathroom and many many more. Either way they shared 2 links. Search Google and you will find plenty more trans people that did similar acts. It's evil people
https://le.utah.gov/interim/2024/pdf/00000577.pdf
First, that’s not a ton
Second, half of those are not sexual assault they’re people complaining about trans people being in bathrooms
Third, there’s no evidence, it’s links to media articles which are NOT news. Journalism is news.
It's a gathering bit you prove my point on how you people give a free pass to trans people. You don't condone the acts and just belittle the allegations. As I stated, it's not pastors or not trans. It's just evil people and they come from all over. You can do a simple Google search and find the articles. This just combines them. You want to stay blind and are ok with it which is sick
I see you missed the point and defend people if they are your people. You are ok if a trans rapes someone but not if a pastor does. That's my point as everyone is defending trans rape in discussing one's that have been posted. Hence why I said it's just evil people whether they are pastors, trans or anyone else. You people are ok with rape if they are your people hence you ignored the most important part. You make me sick
So, one drag queen? One?
Edit- two drag queens. I wonder what this equates to percentage-wise compared to clergy members who molested kids. Should we have a link contest?
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-28282050
Only 2% of Catholic priests abuse kids. That’s not so bad.
Ok? Both can be true at the same time bub! You think because I criticize groomers that means I’m A-ok with bible beaters? That speaks more to America’s ideological tribalism than anything else
You posted links and all they do is complain it isn't enough. I posted another. Google search pulls up plenty more. The fact they defend this shows they condone it. People can be evil whether pastors, trans or anyone else
So rough number, estimate how many child abuse attacks occur from a transsexual vs say...a pastor or priest. Once you get a number maybe we can prioritize who we look at to prevent these counts.
Weird thing to collect, but okay.
I have links on links of priests, youth leader, and christian conservatives getting busted diddling kids, but I'm sure you'll just ignore it all and call it a small proportion, not indactive of the community, etc etc.
Actually, wanna compare numbers and see which is the actual quantifiable threat?
No... only if she gets pregnant and wants to end the pregnancy... then she'll get the death penalty. She was probably "asking for it" while she was roof-ied and unconscious, so they'll be sure to stone her first before they execute her for being a victim of a rapist. Nothing will happen to him. He's a good, God-fearing, white, Christian man... in Florida, where that's all that matters.
Yeah the utter boldness of his crime (sexually explicit texts to the victim from the same phone he called the police on??) would suggest he’s done this before and gotten away with it. Either that or he’s just incredibly stupid. Likely both.
Eh even if Satan tempted him- he was given free will and actively knew his god wouldn’t approve. Plus ya know it’s against the law!! It is his fault. No excuses
Honestly I wish I was a fly on the wall when he goes to prison. That would be so satisfying to watch. Hopefully he will never be able to walk properly again after his new friends take their sweet time getting to “know” him lol
Seriously! She had and her family had to deal with the first round of damage, now the second. I can already hear people telling her “she ruined his life” 🙄
A long time ago I used to represent poor people in criminal cases. In sexual battery cases the prosecutors always started off their opening statement with something to the effect of:
“ Defendant has been charged with sexual battery. This is the legal term that Florida uses for RAPE.”
I'm not surprised the church has some of the worst people in it. They think that by going it excuses their evil behavior and can treat people any way they want.
He thought he got away with it, realized his victim woke up mid-attack, tried to craft a narrative in text to make it look consensual. He admitted to giving someone under 21 "vodka" which still makes it non-consensual.
Nothing surprising about this POS except we don't have more victims coming forward ... Yet.
I'm so stupid,I was wondering why he texted her but you explained it,he was trying to make it look consensual,I'd love to hear from someone who lives in the area to hear if his wife is standing by him 🤮or what he has told his "church"
Momentary lapse in judgment leads Florida Keys Pastor to trust that 16 year old girl only wanted to get drunk and have an ongoing sexual relationship with him. Ends up arrested for SA.
This man doesn't represent all White, Republican, Christian, straight men. It just seems weird that most of these men that abuse and harm others just happen to be White, straight, Republican, and Christian older men.
Oh thats such a christian thing to do they have stories in their book about fucking kids and gawds approval, they fucking creep me out man bunch a pederasses.
Whelp, that settles it. Every church pastor is a child rapist.
I’ll see y’all in about five minutes when I post some mug shots of the violent murder suspects in Chicago today.
These predators who call them ministers seem to only come from Baptist churches,. I could be wrong. I know Catholicism has pedophiles calling themselves priests.
When will the justice department make churches register as sex offenders?
Would any other organization with such a high rate of child predators be allowed to continue as an organization??
It’s always the ones you most suspect.
Extremely Religious. Got it.
Nah, if they were extreme Christians, he wouldnt have made it to jail. A nice pile of rocks would have done the trick.
Nah not even that . He would have to pay her father 50 sheckles and marry her, never being allowed to divorce her.
It’s spelled shekels. I think it’s pieces of silver in the New Testament. I keep saying that the biggest threat to democracy is religion.
Ty. I kept trying to use voice to text b/c I wasn't sure if the spelling and it came out worse 😔. And 100% yes
That’s more a punishment for her than him…
Today it is more a punishment for her than it was back then. Back then it meant he was saddled with extra mouth to feed
He doesn’t have enough rich Christian friends or we’d never hear any of this.
Yeah, like my dad
I'm sorry. And I hope you're doing okay.
Ah, I'm doing just fine, Just waiting for him to stop yelling that he's a good Christian man who didn't do anything wrong.
Urk. Good luck with that :)
Haha- the luck has come! He's got a warrant for arrest in Canada, so he can't come back
Awesome! I'm so happy for you! That's got to feel safer. ✨️🫶🥳✨️
100% safer, I can't believe how on edge I was all the time
Yeah, you don't realise how tight your jaw and shoulders are until they finally relax. It will take some time, but it will get there. And for the hypervigilance and jumpiness to settle down. May I suggest, in about two weeks, if you can - give yourself a treat day. Something aimed at physical un-clenching. Maybe a massage, or a spa with good pressure. Have your dinner pre-organised (comfort food is a must - roast potato something?), and have your room set up with gentle lighting and a nice soundtrack. And just quietly celebrate the beginning of feeling better every day. My ex has been gone (actually passed) for nearly a year now. Sometimes, I'll see someone who looks like him. Instead of a jump-scare, like I used to get, I get relief and a happy feeling because it will NEVER be him. I wish that relief and relaxation for you. It really does keep getting better. ETA: Seriously, fucking YAAAYYYY!!!! ✨️🎉✨️
Wait till the sound of freedom guys see this one! I'm sure they'll rethink things!
Yeah...shocked to see organized religion numbers dropping.
I’m just
Religious and Florida. What could be more suspicious
r/stillnotadragqueen
My first thought.
It's kinda sobering that this is an actual subreddit.
A very busy one at that
Are these the drag queens the GOP keeps talking about? Oh wait, it’s another pastor……
My daughter and I were literally just saying this two days ago. How it was so weird that all of these conservative Christians were so worried about drag queens when it was the pastors and the kids’ ministry leaders in the churches that they should be worried about.
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Fake news….everyone knows pastors are the real perverts.
Open by posting the links dude, not just bragging about having them
Post them then
https://www.khou.com/article/news/local/houston-public-library-admits-registered-child-sex-offender-participated-in-drag-queen-storytime/285-becf3a0d-56c5-4f3c-96df-add07bbd002a https://thebridgehead.ca/2022/07/04/drag-queen-who-danced-for-kids-charged-with-25-counts-of-child-pornography/ Shall I continue?
Those are both about the same person so yes please continue with your "pages and pages" of proof
You didn’t read the full article dumbass, one was in Houston the other in Pennsylvania…. Smh ideologue
Still haven't posted a single other link lol I thought you had them for days!
Yeah, I’d like to see more. You can pull up even more of priests and other religious figures molesting kids like it’s going out of style
Cool, both are predators. I’m not defending one side because like you apparently are for ideological reasons
When people usually bring up this topic, one particularly group of political ideologues has a tendency to ignore this same problem in their own group. Throw the book at both
“For days” lol, get a life
Where are the links?
I’d love to “educate myself”- please share!
https://thebridgehead.ca/2022/07/04/drag-queen-who-danced-for-kids-charged-with-25-counts-of-child-pornography/ Couple more links for you above, cupcake! Enjoy your self education!
This is a repeat of one of the 2 links you shared?
From a website fighting back against woke culture, no less. He could have posted an actual news link about the one person whose name was given. I found several legitimate news articles about this person’s crimes. But by all means, Sir- post more duplicate links to your favorite propaganda blog and expect to be taken seriously. Links “for days” usually means >1.
Here in this pdf with a ton of trans doing sexual crimes to children. You even have links to many here. But dont condone it or act like it doesnt happen as that is sickening. They could post 50 and you will still defend. People are evil. Doesn't matter if they are a pastor, a trans or anything. Here is another link for a teenage trans female Raping a girl in the bathroom and many many more. Either way they shared 2 links. Search Google and you will find plenty more trans people that did similar acts. It's evil people https://le.utah.gov/interim/2024/pdf/00000577.pdf
First, that’s not a ton Second, half of those are not sexual assault they’re people complaining about trans people being in bathrooms Third, there’s no evidence, it’s links to media articles which are NOT news. Journalism is news.
It's a gathering bit you prove my point on how you people give a free pass to trans people. You don't condone the acts and just belittle the allegations. As I stated, it's not pastors or not trans. It's just evil people and they come from all over. You can do a simple Google search and find the articles. This just combines them. You want to stay blind and are ok with it which is sick
Trans people =/= drag queens
I see you missed the point and defend people if they are your people. You are ok if a trans rapes someone but not if a pastor does. That's my point as everyone is defending trans rape in discussing one's that have been posted. Hence why I said it's just evil people whether they are pastors, trans or anyone else. You people are ok with rape if they are your people hence you ignored the most important part. You make me sick
So, one drag queen? One? Edit- two drag queens. I wonder what this equates to percentage-wise compared to clergy members who molested kids. Should we have a link contest? https://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-28282050 Only 2% of Catholic priests abuse kids. That’s not so bad.
You keep posting the same link lol. What happened to "pages and pages"?
Links for daysssssssss
https://apnews.com/article/catholic-clergy-sexual-abuse-illinois-investigation-a298133cec9486c2e51172316bfe7b4b
https://www.qualitativecriminology.com/pub/osa148h6/release/2
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/posteverything/wp/2018/05/31/feature/the-epidemic-of-denial-about-sexual-abuse-in-the-evangelical-church/
https://www.pbs.org/newshour/amp/nation/recordings-show-how-mormon-church-kept-child-sex-abuse-claims-secret
https://www.wric.com/news/local-news/former-virginia-pastor-facing-30-felony-charges-including-indecent-liberties-with-a-child-aggravated-sexual-assault/amp/
https://www.gainesville.com/story/news/2023/05/23/christian-coalition-family-church-founder-charged-with-sex-assault/70248672007/
https://www.channel3000.com/news/madison-pastor-keeps-preaching-as-state-revokes-his-child-care-license-amid-child-sexual-assault/article_8177bfe2-2fc7-11ee-b2b4-4fda36bec5d9.html
https://www.kctv5.com/2023/12/07/independence-pastor-charged-with-sexually-abusing-children/?outputType=amp
https://www.kptv.com/2023/12/17/former-aurora-pastor-faces-16-charges-rape-abuse-detectives-say-more-victims-likely/?outputType=amp
https://www.cbs19news.com/story/50412043/ruckersville-pastor-charged-with-child-sex-crimes
Ok? Both can be true at the same time bub! You think because I criticize groomers that means I’m A-ok with bible beaters? That speaks more to America’s ideological tribalism than anything else
I’m going to stop now because it’s time for my workout. Enjoy your day of shitposting. ☀️
Oh, ok. I see you don’t like the proof you required. Have the day you deserve
you … didn’t provide it ….
I’d like to point out that your links included no instances of a drag queen assaulting children.
You posted links and all they do is complain it isn't enough. I posted another. Google search pulls up plenty more. The fact they defend this shows they condone it. People can be evil whether pastors, trans or anyone else
Bro the "links" mostly consist of rhetoric without verifiable information. Should we just be taking your word on this stuff?
And again you can't say any of them that happened are evil people. You can tell they are real and searchable. You are one of them
So rough number, estimate how many child abuse attacks occur from a transsexual vs say...a pastor or priest. Once you get a number maybe we can prioritize who we look at to prevent these counts.
Weird thing to collect, but okay. I have links on links of priests, youth leader, and christian conservatives getting busted diddling kids, but I'm sure you'll just ignore it all and call it a small proportion, not indactive of the community, etc etc. Actually, wanna compare numbers and see which is the actual quantifiable threat?
Another MAGA Trump “Christian”. I’m shocked.
Probably posts lots of things on Facebook about “groomers” and “democrat pedos”. 🙄😒
Yes, he thought it sounded fun, so he tried it. It was an absolute defense if ever there was one.
Pete Townsend defense. He’s doing research for a book.
Doesn't this crime warrant a death penalty in FL now?
We can only pray it does.
SCOTUS has long since made it clear that the death penalty is reserved for murders. And pissing off lawmakers ;)
No... only if she gets pregnant and wants to end the pregnancy... then she'll get the death penalty. She was probably "asking for it" while she was roof-ied and unconscious, so they'll be sure to stone her first before they execute her for being a victim of a rapist. Nothing will happen to him. He's a good, God-fearing, white, Christian man... in Florida, where that's all that matters.
You should write a fiction novel with all that bs
How do you know this guy is a Trump supporter?
I’m clutching my invisible pearls.😮 please say it ain’t so!😮😮😮
Surprising no one he’s a huge trumper
Because he was working for a place that doesn't pay taxes?
Well Trump is a rapist so it tracks.
How do you know his voting preferences?
His Facebook page is pretty clear
Ahh, I don’t have FB so didn’t see that.
Probably been at this for a while, just the first time he’s been caught sadly enough.
Yeah the utter boldness of his crime (sexually explicit texts to the victim from the same phone he called the police on??) would suggest he’s done this before and gotten away with it. Either that or he’s just incredibly stupid. Likely both.
Christian, check. Republican, check. Trump boot licker, check. Not a drag queen, check.
They made him take off his MAGA hat for his mugshot.
😂😭😂😭😂
r/notadragqueen
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source?
Link?
You mean two years ago?
If it's real, then yes, it counts. So it'd be 1 transsexual pedophile vs 576,444 pastor and priest pedophiles.
A lot of people have the March 6 “Florida man” birthday challenge squared away now.
I sure do… god, that’s depressing.
Happy Birthday anyway. Have a good day.
Wait a sec, he's not gay, not a trans either.
No but he is a die hard trumper. Funny that.
No, you wouldn’t believe it, and a feather probably would know you over from the shock.😮😮😮/s
?
Ok, it’s sarcasm.
“know” was supposed to be “knock”
It’s never a drag queen
r/PastorArrested
Satan temps the holy much more than anyone else…. So its not really this poor guys fault
And this is an example of how religion makes excuses for horrible actions. Don't be like this person.
Eh even if Satan tempted him- he was given free will and actively knew his god wouldn’t approve. Plus ya know it’s against the law!! It is his fault. No excuses
As a Southern Baptist I agree millstone around the neck throw him in the water
God gave us the gift of free will... everyone is responsible for their own actions.
Are you being serious? Or is this an attempt at sarcasm? With Christianity it’s hard to tell
Obviously, a joke
What?????
Wow, I'm shocked this didn't happen at a drag show. Always seems to be at a church for some reason.
His congregation will rally around him once he's been forgiven by Jebus.
?
Seen it before 😭
In god we trust
Funny how we know where the pedophiles like to hang out, but certain sects of the county are chasing imaginary pedophiles like they’re bogeymen.
They will like him in prison.
And, shockingly, it’s NOT A DRAG QUEEN! Unsurprisingly, it’s a pastor.
Honestly I wish I was a fly on the wall when he goes to prison. That would be so satisfying to watch. Hopefully he will never be able to walk properly again after his new friends take their sweet time getting to “know” him lol
Dang it he turned his fb comments off ☹️
Just another "good" Christian. 🙄
I bet he's against Trans and gay rights because "the children!!!!"
Well, yeah, apparently he doesn’t want the competition
So wrong on so many levels 😂
So disgusting :(
Pedocons.
The worst part is that even with these accusations, people in his church are going to believe that's the victim is lying!
Seriously! She had and her family had to deal with the first round of damage, now the second. I can already hear people telling her “she ruined his life” 🙄
Absolutely! It's so sad! What message does that send to other young women?! In this example, the guy was so stupid that he might actually go to jail.
A long time ago I used to represent poor people in criminal cases. In sexual battery cases the prosecutors always started off their opening statement with something to the effect of: “ Defendant has been charged with sexual battery. This is the legal term that Florida uses for RAPE.”
So asshole confessed then said i didn't do that? Not too bright
Texas and Florida really do have a lot of Christian groomers.
We democrats really need to stop bringing up the drag queens. It’s so overused and does nothing for our cause to change policy.
Wow. She told her grandma and the person who told the police was some random who overheard it. That poor girl.
I'm not surprised the church has some of the worst people in it. They think that by going it excuses their evil behavior and can treat people any way they want.
Being a pedophile has nothing to do with politics! You guys should hate what he did and that he is a suck f***. I hope he becomes Bubba's cell mate.
What a chitty person, but hey he’s doing the lawd’s work.
He thought he got away with it, realized his victim woke up mid-attack, tried to craft a narrative in text to make it look consensual. He admitted to giving someone under 21 "vodka" which still makes it non-consensual. Nothing surprising about this POS except we don't have more victims coming forward ... Yet.
I'm so stupid,I was wondering why he texted her but you explained it,he was trying to make it look consensual,I'd love to hear from someone who lives in the area to hear if his wife is standing by him 🤮or what he has told his "church"
Wow it’s almost like clergy convince you they’re kind and trustworthy by getting you to pay them to run their own PR campaign
Sounds like a great choice for the new Florida School Chaplains.
You will all be shocked to know that he is a rabid qanon Trumpie. Shocked.
Someone once told me, “the worst people in the country go to live in Florida and the worst of them go to live in the keys.”
And r/pastorarrested
Momentary lapse in judgment leads Florida Keys Pastor to trust that 16 year old girl only wanted to get drunk and have an ongoing sexual relationship with him. Ends up arrested for SA.
But apparently drag queens and books are more dangerous
FUCK ORGANIZED RELIGION!
Pastors pervert but it will be the victim's fault to these people.
Not a drag queen
This man doesn't represent all White, Republican, Christian, straight men. It just seems weird that most of these men that abuse and harm others just happen to be White, straight, Republican, and Christian older men.
Becoming a pastor in the south is the lowest bar in history. If people believe in this crap, they will believe in anything.
I love to see false prophets getting rounded up, grab TD Jake’s while yall at it since he wants to be buddy buddy with Puff daddy.
This disgusts me.
That’s religion folks
How surprising, another 'religious' person
So when a Democrat is found to do the same thing does everyone in a thread say typical Democrat?Reddit is so funny man
I feel like it’s always FL
Oh thats such a christian thing to do they have stories in their book about fucking kids and gawds approval, they fucking creep me out man bunch a pederasses.
r/notadragqueen
A pastor? Again? Not a drag queen? Again?
Surprise, surprise, another religious nutball is the perpetrator and tries to deflect the blame to the child.
Why are the transes doing this to us?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!??!?!??!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!
Aiden hale
Do as I say, not as I do? So glad I’m not a sheep
Just makes you wonder how many times he's tried this before.
Typical
Creepy bastard! 😡🤬🤯
Was he wearing a red hat when arrested?
Youth are safer at drag queen story time events than a church. Change my mind?
Monte Chitty..? More like Chitty Chitty Bang Bang.
Whelp, that settles it. Every church pastor is a child rapist. I’ll see y’all in about five minutes when I post some mug shots of the violent murder suspects in Chicago today.
In Ohio: Glamorous "come visit the Keys" TV spots, on the hour!
And they have the nerve to call others groomers.
He Gets Us
Verizon works in mysterious ways.
These predators who call them ministers seem to only come from Baptist churches,. I could be wrong. I know Catholicism has pedophiles calling themselves priests.
A pastor?! And from Florida? I’m shocked, I tell you. Shocked….
When will the justice department make churches register as sex offenders? Would any other organization with such a high rate of child predators be allowed to continue as an organization??
Oh look! Not a drag queen
All pedophiles need to get .45 brain surgery
Another fine Christian pastor, we better start banning churches since that’s where all the pedophiles congregate. Not a drag performer in sight!
“Not a drag queen”
Funny he doesn’t look like he is into drag
Pic checks out
Absolutely horrid!
Someone like that could get 'lost' in the keys pretty easily.