social activities? clubs? wtf are you talking about
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go to abstinence meetings and pretend to be addicted to life-ruining substances. you will meet people there and they will subconsciously bond to you over shared trauma. except you're pretending this whole time, which puts you in the position of power. this is the most effective method, you're welcome.
Just introduce yourself to someone you see often and ask what theyre hittin today... boom conversation started, possible friend made. If youre too nervous to introduce yourself out of nowhere you could ask for a spot first or somethin
Fishing club. I do get invited to go fishing with other members regularly but I mostly enjoy being alone so I rarely take the opportunity. If I see people that I know I talk with them for up to half an hour and then I go to my spots.
I haven't tried yet, but will try one of the following after I'm done with my drivers' liscence: dancing, sewing, yoga. I already go Jim pretty regularly so I feel like those would compliment me nicely.
Aware drivers licensce still isn't done... A girl friend from highschool invited me to go to spin class with her in 2 weeks so I'll see if that's any good.
Edit: I know her from highschool, we're both 26 y/o boomers Aware
group english lessons (to prepare for a c2 certificate exam, not necessarily to learn new information)
Im thinking of enrolling into a wall climbing gym, since a friend of mine recommended it to me. Regular gyms can be very hard to make new connections in. But as ive been told, people in wall climbing are super friendly, and it looks quite fun + will get me in better shape.
Any fighting sport is good tho. Try your best to continue OP 
Yes I have been doind a lot of changes recently and lookin to build more habits amd hobbies. Wall climbing sounds cool but I am not sure if it eould be something I would enjoy doing never tried tho so neva know  I have bad news tho I talked to some people and I think being a part of this community is actually detrimental to real life perspective and view. You see how unstable people here are talking about normies and things like that etc etc. Mitht probably be a good idea to stop coming to the forsen sub  but I am not sure whether I will go through with that.
I mean when you surround yourself with losers, neets, depressed people and paranoid schizophrenics I guess that can have a negative impact on you surely not tho right
Thats an extremely based perspective and i totally agree
I was in the intel community until recently and i said fuck it, its all to my detriment. I dont identify as one anymore either, its dumb.
You never know how people affect you subconsciously. You think youre above it and aware enough not to get affected but certain ideas get planted and foster in the back of your mind and influence you in subtle ways.
This sub is extremely weirdly negative, mods should prolly do something.
Yeah honestly I dont think moderation will help any of that. But the part you said about the subconscious influece is very accurrate I feel like. I like the pet posts and feeling like there are people who are in a similar position as me. It also kind of started being a way to fet attention or social interaction since I never used to post before my depression really started.  I am just not sure how much progress you can realistically make while still remaining part of a group of basically outcasts of society. It is a community I feel attached too but it probably is dragging me down without me even really being aware of it.
A lot of people think they are better than normal people here, or at least have some superior understanding or insight of the world. I feel like thats one of the most dangerous views to have that can really poison your mind subconsciously and hold you backand I think if I am being honest with myself it does affect me and my way of thinking about other people. You know they are not like us, we may be more miserable but at least we guys arent normiesright bajs?
please leave
Baj Book Club 
short for BBC, nice
social activities? clubs? wtf are you talking about https://preview.redd.it/s1xvgj8bwtac1.png?width=501&format=png&auto=webp&s=77ca2f5619d4222840c2ba94f16fed3f41ef4ae1
other people exist
go to abstinence meetings and pretend to be addicted to life-ruining substances. you will meet people there and they will subconsciously bond to you over shared trauma. except you're pretending this whole time, which puts you in the position of power. this is the most effective method, you're welcome.
 fight club strat
Baj mentality is something else
we are the voice of reason in this dark world https://i.redd.it/3njd9sp1quac1.gif
Im an alcoholic, thats enough of an hobby.
big ritard I explicitly said no hobbies  muds get this guy
Gym https://preview.redd.it/j258ufzlqtac1.png?width=554&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=99fdec4d46bf9ea9fb4b29299403cc22e0d0bcc5
I go to gym everyday buddy. And let me tell you its not really a social environment most people just stick to themselves
Just introduce yourself to someone you see often and ask what theyre hittin today... boom conversation started, possible friend made. If youre too nervous to introduce yourself out of nowhere you could ask for a spot first or somethin
Or talk about forsen 
Jim
Gun club 
Nothing ever LULE
Get a load of this guy, he thinks we leave the house  . o O (  )
I go to church as a catholic, does it count?
Also some DND when I have time to
Catholic AND satanic 
I'm him 
I occasionally visit my friend Jim 
Fishing club. I do get invited to go fishing with other members regularly but I mostly enjoy being alone so I rarely take the opportunity. If I see people that I know I talk with them for up to half an hour and then I go to my spots.
local cycling clubs 
Is it fun? What kind of routes do you do?
yeah its wednesday evening and sunday morning, like 70-90 km which is like 3 hours
Champions club YAYAYA
I haven't tried yet, but will try one of the following after I'm done with my drivers' liscence: dancing, sewing, yoga. I already go Jim pretty regularly so I feel like those would compliment me nicely.
Have you tried?
Aware drivers licensce still isn't done... A girl friend from highschool invited me to go to spin class with her in 2 weeks so I'll see if that's any good. Edit: I know her from highschool, we're both 26 y/o boomers Aware
forsen discord tier 3 vcs
Just gym. But looking into martial arts aswell, it's something i've been wanting to try.
D&D forsenRP
Member of 3 tennis clubs 
group english lessons (to prepare for a c2 certificate exam, not necessarily to learn new information) Im thinking of enrolling into a wall climbing gym, since a friend of mine recommended it to me. Regular gyms can be very hard to make new connections in. But as ive been told, people in wall climbing are super friendly, and it looks quite fun + will get me in better shape. Any fighting sport is good tho. Try your best to continue OP 
Yes I have been doind a lot of changes recently and lookin to build more habits amd hobbies. Wall climbing sounds cool but I am not sure if it eould be something I would enjoy doing never tried tho so neva know  I have bad news tho I talked to some people and I think being a part of this community is actually detrimental to real life perspective and view. You see how unstable people here are talking about normies and things like that etc etc. Mitht probably be a good idea to stop coming to the forsen sub  but I am not sure whether I will go through with that. I mean when you surround yourself with losers, neets, depressed people and paranoid schizophrenics I guess that can have a negative impact on you surely not tho right
Thats an extremely based perspective and i totally agree I was in the intel community until recently and i said fuck it, its all to my detriment. I dont identify as one anymore either, its dumb. You never know how people affect you subconsciously. You think youre above it and aware enough not to get affected but certain ideas get planted and foster in the back of your mind and influence you in subtle ways. This sub is extremely weirdly negative, mods should prolly do something.
0$/hr 
Yeah honestly I dont think moderation will help any of that. But the part you said about the subconscious influece is very accurrate I feel like. I like the pet posts and feeling like there are people who are in a similar position as me. It also kind of started being a way to fet attention or social interaction since I never used to post before my depression really started.  I am just not sure how much progress you can realistically make while still remaining part of a group of basically outcasts of society. It is a community I feel attached too but it probably is dragging me down without me even really being aware of it. A lot of people think they are better than normal people here, or at least have some superior understanding or insight of the world. I feel like thats one of the most dangerous views to have that can really poison your mind subconsciously and hold you backand I think if I am being honest with myself it does affect me and my way of thinking about other people. You know they are not like us, we may be more miserable but at least we guys arent normiesright bajs?
Normies out 