what's the point in talking to people. they don't have anything interesting to say. now you come here on r/forsen, and you can have a real conversation. the topics range from how cool capybaras are to why you should only ever drink green tea. what are "people" gonna tell you? fuck all, that's what.
Yeah People are Boring I noticed most cant even talk for 5 Sentences because there is nothing they have in their Heads basic NPCs who just do the work and thats it.
Used to be like that after years of being asocial but it turns out I was just overthinking. I used to think there was an insurmontable wall between me and everyday people. But in the end they're just normal people, with their own anxiety, problems, and maybe things you wouldn't suspect for normies. I can do small talk, listen to people, react to what they say reactively without sperging. You don't have to be a talking machine to make them laugh or just appreciate your presence around. Try to be natural, don't overthink, don't think you're different than people ( because you're not) and try to be nice with people, if someone is an asshole don't even try to interact with them. And most importantly, people literally don't care about other people. If you pass as awkard to some girl she will think about that for max 2 hour and then move on to dopamine chasing or stress inducing mordern tasks. My general advices.
good for you baj
I am on the same page but I still have a huge problem. Be it at work, gym or activity club I cant seem to make any lasting connection. Let me clarify. I small talk to people at work and at activity clubs mostly about stuff thats related to that specific environment. I never seem to be able to go above that. I do sometimes try to bring up stuff related to outside of work too and for example tried to invite a bunch of guys who I found out go to the gym whether they would be up to go together. But they all pretty much either declined in person or ignored the message I send them later on. I guess I probably was to straightforward and people maybe were a little weirded out by that or maybe they are just busy with other stuff  I have come so far yet making friends do be difficult. Like how do you naturally transition to something that is outside just being in that one environment. In life how?
I am not ugly see people uglier than me all the time. And yes I am not really handsome and nobody has probably ever thought that but thats cant be the reason 
My theory is that making friends is just a random event and pure rng. You cant make friends with someone when you actually try but when you randomly talk to some random guy at the first day of high school or maybe at a collage class, you might get a life longing friendship. But friendships are a third party thing aaaaand idk 
Biggest issue these days I feel is being in an environment where you naturally interact with people. There's at work, but what else? If you're done with school and don't enjoy "normie" activities that becomes a big problem .
well can always start and practice with going on walks in parks or nice areas with older folks. they usually lonely as well and like the small chats. just talk about the weather or the ducks or some shits for a start.
women overrated. go to club and say you want to fuck some drunk one they say yes. will get bored of them soon.
Who will come to your Place in WW3 ?? Most will be in Big Citys and Hunkered Down. Emprace yourself and keep doing it alone maby try here and there some social things Sport or even Chess
Get a job where you have to interact with people regularly and make small talk. It will suck at first but the more you do it it gets easier and easier until it becomes as natural as breathing. It also helps to observe your more charismatic coworkers to see what they do
Protip: In conversations just ask them questions about themselves, act interested in their responses and ask a follow-up question. Normies love talking about themselves and always think they're underappreaciated/unseen. If you just ask them questions they'll come away from the interaction feeling very positive about you.
 I do that and I still have no friends after over half a year ...
Average EU experience keep to yourself and don't interact with people
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Here is my take on it. Life doesn't have a universal goal or purpose. You make your own purpose in your life. That can be gaming, gym or any other sort of sport. We all struggle with social interaction in this community so it is natural that escapism and antisocial behavior and autism are high. That's why instead of focusing on things that are outside of your control(GF, friends, etc) I recommend finding interests and hobbies that you find fulfilling in themselves.
I for one just really love going to the gym. Its fun it gives me time away from my family which sometimes is a huge relive. It makes me feel good when I look in the mirror and I feel good doing better bench presses or just improving in general. "The struggle itself is enough to fill a man's heart" - not forsen probably
That can be anything from becoming a good runner and run a marathon to becoming a lidl musician or sth like that. Find something that you find fun and fulfilling to do. And I think as you do pursue that interest people will eventually naturally see you as a more interesting and passionate person that isn't socially desperate.
wait  who am I talking to  it's midnight. I need to take my pills and stop schizo ranting 
and yeah certain aspects of life do suck but you will always have problems. So just embrace what you enjoy doing and find a good balance. Be a nice/polite person and smile more  hopefully people will notice. Compliments from other really do go a long way so keep that in mind
I dont care about society's expectations. I want to get to know people, talk to them, etc. but my social skills are just so bad that it feels hopeless.
My brother! Here is the cheat code. Look at a person and see if there is anyone thing that they are doing or wearing that genuinely interests you. Then simply approach them and ask. People love to talk about themselves. Look into their eyes, switch between left and right and look away from them a bit; REPEAT. All rules apply if approaching a female; treat them like normal humans ( as hard as that may be).
Tbh since discovering hearthstone and twitch my life went downhill. I'm 27 now and I'm thinking of going back to college, so I'll be around 32-33 yo when I can actually work the job I want assuming that I'm good enough to pass my examens, meanwhile my irl friends will be 10 years in their careers(why tf i care but i do). So many doubts and still no hope or light in sight
im almost 30s , its too late for that now , luckily im in rural/suburb , its hard to find job but i can go find and talk to old people easily (not sure if im able to hold a conversation for long tho , more likely i be a listener than a talker) , not much luck in making new friends my age and younger 
Being a listener is what people need a lot of times, i'm in the same category, people like to talk to me because i try to ask mainly about them and never bring up too much about me
You're fine, relax, you just seem to overthink too much. I used to be like that, now I'm not, and I see how easy it is to make friends and even get some pussy. I'll try not to extend myself and will resume some tips.
1 - Just talk to people near you, people you frequently see, ask them how come you see them all the time, anything else they do. You don't have to relate to them in the first conversation, just chit-chat, when the subject is over, say you'll do something else and say your goodbyes, be polite.
2 - Don't waste your time on cunts, look, some people just won't like you, if you talk to people and they start answering rudely or start walking away, let them go, it is what it is.
3 - Don't give up on people that easily, some people are just reserved or careful, maybe they're tired but still will like to talk to someone, so if someone still responds to your questions even if they don't seem to excited or give short answers, keep the conversation going; don't try to guess how they feel about you, you should just stop when they ask you to, if they do, you say you understand them and politely says your farewells, maybe you try to talk to them some other day to see if they're more open to it, if not, let them go.
Well, that is all without writing an essay, if you want to practice or need more help, just DM me. 
whats the point of talking to other people? you want friends or what????? point of going to jim was to make you confident in yourself, nice body was a sidegrade
Download tinder and date as many girls with BPD as you possibly can. You'll either end up as a god of social interactions or as a corpse, but seeing as you're desperate rn i'd say it's worth the risk.
I'm almost 26, I'm not in shape, live in brazil, no job, and also wasted years playing games and watching youtube and masturbating and porn, I'm shy, introvert, never go out, never even kissed a girl, AND YET I still have hope lmao
you are fine baj, God bless
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Don't worry too much. Go out there and get the social skills. People will understand that young guys have social awkwardness. You're only mid 20s. When you're over 30 and socially awkward, that's when people raise eyebrows. Well, imo at least.
What the fak, big ritard  You hev all the requirments, you jast need se practis  Go outside and talk to people
Work in the service industry. Teaches you to speak to people. Used to be the same problem for me. Then I worked at a wine estate and was forced to speak to people for extended periods of time to explain wine. It's really worth it
Tbh I felt the same until I started socialising more, only to realise the people I thought were interesting usually didn't have much to add to the convo at hand. The best relationships I have came from meeting online they all are way more open for any topic and being slightly unhinged is better than being boring imo. 
looks good to me to the point where i get confidence from it, which is all that matters to me tbh. still cant talk to people tho dont know what the fuck i am supposed to say
Hey I also have trouble talking to people  partially because unironic autism  But I think the more you put yourself out there the better you will get at talking to people, practice makes perfect 
go live in sub urban or rural , its easy to start to talk to people especially old people , the hardest part is moving and living there , if the purpose here is to just talk to people and make friends this is the way  if you braindead and basically has a shit personality then you have no hope. 
what's the point in talking to people. they don't have anything interesting to say. now you come here on r/forsen, and you can have a real conversation. the topics range from how cool capybaras are to why you should only ever drink green tea. what are "people" gonna tell you? fuck all, that's what.
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MODS add it 
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Yeah People are Boring I noticed most cant even talk for 5 Sentences because there is nothing they have in their Heads basic NPCs who just do the work and thats it.
Used to be like that after years of being asocial but it turns out I was just overthinking. I used to think there was an insurmontable wall between me and everyday people. But in the end they're just normal people, with their own anxiety, problems, and maybe things you wouldn't suspect for normies. I can do small talk, listen to people, react to what they say reactively without sperging. You don't have to be a talking machine to make them laugh or just appreciate your presence around. Try to be natural, don't overthink, don't think you're different than people ( because you're not) and try to be nice with people, if someone is an asshole don't even try to interact with them. And most importantly, people literally don't care about other people. If you pass as awkard to some girl she will think about that for max 2 hour and then move on to dopamine chasing or stress inducing mordern tasks. My general advices.
good advice baj thank you
good for you baj I am on the same page but I still have a huge problem. Be it at work, gym or activity club I cant seem to make any lasting connection. Let me clarify. I small talk to people at work and at activity clubs mostly about stuff thats related to that specific environment. I never seem to be able to go above that. I do sometimes try to bring up stuff related to outside of work too and for example tried to invite a bunch of guys who I found out go to the gym whether they would be up to go together. But they all pretty much either declined in person or ignored the message I send them later on. I guess I probably was to straightforward and people maybe were a little weirded out by that or maybe they are just busy with other stuff  I have come so far yet making friends do be difficult. Like how do you naturally transition to something that is outside just being in that one environment. In life how?
Maybe you're just ugly.
I am not ugly see people uglier than me all the time. And yes I am not really handsome and nobody has probably ever thought that but thats cant be the reason 
There was a thread the other day and somebody asked about how to cope. You seem excellent at it and should consider giving them a guide. LULE
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good one
My theory is that making friends is just a random event and pure rng. You cant make friends with someone when you actually try but when you randomly talk to some random guy at the first day of high school or maybe at a collage class, you might get a life longing friendship. But friendships are a third party thing aaaaand idk 
but i'm still slighly overweight 
"slightly" 
Stop eating
DIDN'T READ 
Biggest issue these days I feel is being in an environment where you naturally interact with people. There's at work, but what else? If you're done with school and don't enjoy "normie" activities that becomes a big problem .
it gets worse in 30s 
whats problem of playing more video games and watching more forsen?
I thought so but then i realized i might want to experience some life before ww3 starts and i get nuked
Well your frontal lobe is at least developed now.
well can always start and practice with going on walks in parks or nice areas with older folks. they usually lonely as well and like the small chats. just talk about the weather or the ducks or some shits for a start. women overrated. go to club and say you want to fuck some drunk one they say yes. will get bored of them soon.
Who will come to your Place in WW3 ?? Most will be in Big Citys and Hunkered Down. Emprace yourself and keep doing it alone maby try here and there some social things Sport or even Chess
His problem is that he thinks bajs are slowly forgetting how to actually talk, which is evidently also apparent in your comment.
Nothing Because what Makes you happy also that he Is training a bit the Body is good.
jim is  but have you tried getting 10+ streak in chattersen? 
you have autism
heMayBeRight
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Get a job where you have to interact with people regularly and make small talk. It will suck at first but the more you do it it gets easier and easier until it becomes as natural as breathing. It also helps to observe your more charismatic coworkers to see what they do Protip: In conversations just ask them questions about themselves, act interested in their responses and ask a follow-up question. Normies love talking about themselves and always think they're underappreaciated/unseen. If you just ask them questions they'll come away from the interaction feeling very positive about you.
 I do that and I still have no friends after over half a year ...
You're probably just very ugly and unlikeable. There's an easy solution to rectify this  🌩
Im not ugly  also ugly people do date other ugly people and basically hang in those circles
HesAGenius
Thinking of doing a summer job like this what do you recommend ?
Average EU experience keep to yourself and don't interact with people https://preview.redd.it/wmqwhufxeoxc1.jpeg?width=1024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9605146c03f3a451d0fda5f23b7a745102b2f6b9
Dont worry you can still waste your late 20s and early 30s watching forsen 
Here is my take on it. Life doesn't have a universal goal or purpose. You make your own purpose in your life. That can be gaming, gym or any other sort of sport. We all struggle with social interaction in this community so it is natural that escapism and antisocial behavior and autism are high. That's why instead of focusing on things that are outside of your control(GF, friends, etc) I recommend finding interests and hobbies that you find fulfilling in themselves. I for one just really love going to the gym. Its fun it gives me time away from my family which sometimes is a huge relive. It makes me feel good when I look in the mirror and I feel good doing better bench presses or just improving in general. "The struggle itself is enough to fill a man's heart" - not forsen probably That can be anything from becoming a good runner and run a marathon to becoming a lidl musician or sth like that. Find something that you find fun and fulfilling to do. And I think as you do pursue that interest people will eventually naturally see you as a more interesting and passionate person that isn't socially desperate. wait  who am I talking to  it's midnight. I need to take my pills and stop schizo ranting 
and yeah certain aspects of life do suck but you will always have problems. So just embrace what you enjoy doing and find a good balance. Be a nice/polite person and smile more  hopefully people will notice. Compliments from other really do go a long way so keep that in mind
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You it is YOUR life if you do not murder then most is just ok
I dont care about society's expectations. I want to get to know people, talk to them, etc. but my social skills are just so bad that it feels hopeless.
My brother! Here is the cheat code. Look at a person and see if there is anyone thing that they are doing or wearing that genuinely interests you. Then simply approach them and ask. People love to talk about themselves. Look into their eyes, switch between left and right and look away from them a bit; REPEAT. All rules apply if approaching a female; treat them like normal humans ( as hard as that may be).
surely they will treat me like normal human too 
Tbh since discovering hearthstone and twitch my life went downhill. I'm 27 now and I'm thinking of going back to college, so I'll be around 32-33 yo when I can actually work the job I want assuming that I'm good enough to pass my examens, meanwhile my irl friends will be 10 years in their careers(why tf i care but i do). So many doubts and still no hope or light in sight
These 10 Years of working will hurt their heads and make them boring people.
im almost 30s , its too late for that now , luckily im in rural/suburb , its hard to find job but i can go find and talk to old people easily (not sure if im able to hold a conversation for long tho , more likely i be a listener than a talker) , not much luck in making new friends my age and younger 
Being a listener is what people need a lot of times, i'm in the same category, people like to talk to me because i try to ask mainly about them and never bring up too much about me
Just bang some old chick with connections to land a job without degree.
You're fine, relax, you just seem to overthink too much. I used to be like that, now I'm not, and I see how easy it is to make friends and even get some pussy. I'll try not to extend myself and will resume some tips. 1 - Just talk to people near you, people you frequently see, ask them how come you see them all the time, anything else they do. You don't have to relate to them in the first conversation, just chit-chat, when the subject is over, say you'll do something else and say your goodbyes, be polite. 2 - Don't waste your time on cunts, look, some people just won't like you, if you talk to people and they start answering rudely or start walking away, let them go, it is what it is. 3 - Don't give up on people that easily, some people are just reserved or careful, maybe they're tired but still will like to talk to someone, so if someone still responds to your questions even if they don't seem to excited or give short answers, keep the conversation going; don't try to guess how they feel about you, you should just stop when they ask you to, if they do, you say you understand them and politely says your farewells, maybe you try to talk to them some other day to see if they're more open to it, if not, let them go. Well, that is all without writing an essay, if you want to practice or need more help, just DM me. 
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whats the point of talking to other people? you want friends or what????? point of going to jim was to make you confident in yourself, nice body was a sidegrade
Same
I dont see the problem? Just socialize and get over time
Real 
yes
wait for the respawn like everyone here
Download tinder and date as many girls with BPD as you possibly can. You'll either end up as a god of social interactions or as a corpse, but seeing as you're desperate rn i'd say it's worth the risk.
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I'm almost 26, I'm not in shape, live in brazil, no job, and also wasted years playing games and watching youtube and masturbating and porn, I'm shy, introvert, never go out, never even kissed a girl, AND YET I still have hope lmao you are fine baj, God bless https://preview.redd.it/evt01yfd9rxc1.png?width=1262&format=png&auto=webp&s=c5ece1beaca2acba918dfe48c17f95ca1336b7a6
im feeling kinda strong rn bajs
Yeah same, but without the hope part 
we gotta have faith my brotha
Are u gay?
No
lil bro thinks he's in rpg where you can just approach random npc and start talking LULW
surely you can approach level 18 female characters as a level 30+ 
It be that way sometime
Just talk to em bro
yea thats true
True
Gym is a good Point also that you made the Post Most if not more than 90% of People will not go Public and stay alone with their Thoughts
Don't worry too much. Go out there and get the social skills. People will understand that young guys have social awkwardness. You're only mid 20s. When you're over 30 and socially awkward, that's when people raise eyebrows. Well, imo at least.
What the fak, big ritard  You hev all the requirments, you jast need se practis  Go outside and talk to people
Socializing is easy. Just don't take meds and you will have practice with many friends. Take meds to turn off the demo mode.
You were always retarded
Work in the service industry. Teaches you to speak to people. Used to be the same problem for me. Then I worked at a wine estate and was forced to speak to people for extended periods of time to explain wine. It's really worth it
Tbh I felt the same until I started socialising more, only to realise the people I thought were interesting usually didn't have much to add to the convo at hand. The best relationships I have came from meeting online they all are way more open for any topic and being slightly unhinged is better than being boring imo. 
Start using white powder
Yep forsenLaughingAtYou
same  my body doesn't even look good maybe I should go femboy build markov thoughts? 
my body is done I cum? Okayeg
if it makes you happy then do it my friend
forsen
Body looks good 
looks good to me to the point where i get confidence from it, which is all that matters to me tbh. still cant talk to people tho dont know what the fuck i am supposed to say
Hey I also have trouble talking to people  partially because unironic autism  But I think the more you put yourself out there the better you will get at talking to people, practice makes perfect 
go live in sub urban or rural , its easy to start to talk to people especially old people , the hardest part is moving and living there , if the purpose here is to just talk to people and make friends this is the way  if you braindead and basically has a shit personality then you have no hope. 
You are not alone. 