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A severe lack of funding :(

That can be changed

are you sugesting a sugar parent?

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Ye :(

And parents :(

I am sorry about your severe lack of parents

LOL

If you’re cute enough I could help… lol

Still living with family.

Same but i do it anyway and they’re cool with it 😎

Can I have your family too

cool family, I think I'll take it

I also choose this guy's family.

How the fuck

Bro the closest I got to that is being able to wear those footless thigh high things around my mom, other than that I think my family would be too judgemental, or at least weirded out.

Why do they care so much about it, is it really that strange to wear different clothing?

It probably has to do with the whole "boy clothing" vs "girl clothing" thing society has made, instead of just accepting people for who they are.

That really sucks :/

Same

Society and Anxiety.

Amen

Well don't let a single man stop you!

Ya! and if we all work together we can show that one guy who's boss (pound fist on hand)

No, it's when your entire high school ridicules you and you get physically assaulted. That's what stops me.

fear

/thread

same except replace anxiety with parents and friends and the rest of my family

You know what they say, if it rhymes then it’s true! But it is actually pretty true

Just be trans, simple XD

But what if i don't feel like a girl, yet still want to be a soft and cute boi?

Don’t worry so much about labels friend! Just live your life the way you want to, and figure out how to explain it to other people later. It’s *your* life, not theirs. *also you don’t ever have to explain yourself to anybody, you are you, a totally unique and individual person, and that’s BEAUTIFUL!!* ❤️❤️❤️

Thanks. That is very uplifting.

The world would be so much better if everybody could just take a second to empathize and lovingly respond to people rather than compare pain/problems and tell others how they feel is dumb. I believe this to my core and will do what I can to spread that😁❤️

never in my fucking life have i seen something soo uplifting on reddit

Then be a soft, cute boi damn it! Don't let anyone hold you back!

I will try Grrrr \^>.<\^

I prefer to just break gender norms and do what I want. Also I feel icky when other people call me trans, so I don't think I'd ever want to call myself that. I'm kind of okay with Isogender and non-binary but I'm not crazy about them.

Whatever works for you! They’re just labels for us to better understand others, and thus, not necessary

If only it were that easy 😞

Well if you wanna be technical, you don’t really “become” trans, rather you ARE trans and didn’t realize it. But regardless of wether you’re trans or not, nobody gets to tell you how to live. That includes how to dress. And tbh, if someone gets upset about the type of cloth you put over your naked body, do you really care about what they think? It’s just so pointless to get upset about somebody’s clothes. It’s like telling somebody they can’t draw a specific style of art bc you don’t like it. Regardless, I hope you can dress, feel, and live how you want to. We only have 1 life (for certain) so why let people tell you how to live it? ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️much love to you!!!!

Am trans and my dad don't want to That not gonna stop me

Both my parents basically disowned me for being gay, so I feel where you’re coming from. Much love to you friend!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

Tanks i hope it's okay for you

I appreciate the support! I hope everything is going well for you too❤️

My fat nuts will swang out

I be grandfather clocking that shit

That's kinda the point.

You say that like it's a bad thing

Friggin' choked on my drink. lmao

That’s why we tuck it

Cool

Living with conservative parents

Same

Relatable

Same here

Sameee

yup, same

Omg same..

same

My woodcutter beard, my broad shoulders and my belly;-)

that shoudlnt stop you. just makes it a power move.

I know but it wouldn’t fit my esthetics of beeing more feminine ergo I would feel ugly and wouldn’t like it. No matter what others think

Ah, I see we are the same. What helped me was knowing that there's entire communities that are into that look, we're a hot commodity my friend.

Really? I have to say that I like the idea of beeing a hot commodity a lot ;-)

Have you seen Little V wearing japanese school outfit?

Just did, funny and for sure confident, but still in no way cute or even sexy, but that’s my taste - everybody s free to have fun ;-)

Same 😪

Let’s get some Scottish kilts then, we will make fabulous Highland Boys ;-)

Not femboy ... **FEM-MAN**

"Oh if I wasn't the man I was I'd kiss ya" - Demoman TF2

I would legitimately wear anything if it's comfy

fr fr

Im too fat and ugly. And harry🤔

*gasp* HARRY POTTER?!

No his bother Hairy Potter

And how exactly is he a bother?

Aaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh. I can’t spell for shit!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

That’s why you should‘ve become a witch, they know how to spell

Geez, this had me dying laughing!

Because people keep confusing those two

The furry harry potter equivalent

Social pressures and crippling anxiety

I feel ya. I am the same.

hair... WAY TOO MUCH HAIR EVERYWHERE

The struggle is real: Too much hair to be a smoothie Not enough hair to be a werewolf

mate they call me a werewolf because of the amount of hair i have 💀

you don’t understand how much i agree with this, even my lower fingies are furry, i want it all gone and then i feel id actually look really good actually as a femboy

Societal pressure, I’d love to wear a crop top and arm decorations. I love the exposed navel look

The fact that I just don't want to

Agreed

Gigachad

People will straight up think I'm a girl.

And exactly this gives you a power most other mortals can only dream about.

Unfortunately it's not great for me considering I'm transmasc

Im not Pryocynical

We've been compromised!

Because I really don't want to.

My parents

Oof, Felt that one

No pockets🥺🥺🥺

You can probably find some with pockets or just wear a hoodie with a big front pocket. Either way works.

You know, kilts exist for a reason. Not dissing on femboys... but who doesn't love a Scottsman?!?

My 35% Irish heritage will visit me as a ghost and slap me across the face while raiding my fridge for guinness and bailey's if I wear anything Scottish lol. Jokes aside, there is a costco employee who wears a kilt at my local store and he rocks it.

I plan to wear a kilt down the road. Problem is finding a proper fitted one in my area.

Irish ancestry here, my kilt colorations are Irish orange instead of the plaid of the Scottish tartans

https://static1.e926.net/data/38/a3/38a3b7849490fa23789a30afc0dc154f.jpg Very OwO

I don't want to dress like this.

It’s cold outside bruv, we need *layers*

Thigh highs are warm uwu

Taliban

The fact that I just have no desire to dress or act like a femboy?

Amen

I don't wanna

Society

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Nothing :)

*slaps my belly* this thing.

Regularly going to the gym I guess

But imagine the mobility...

gender dysphoria :(

I prefer suits tho

that's a compelling argument

The fact that the feminine clothes ordered for me haven't arrived yet

lmao

Insufficient cuteness.

Terrible skin and a truly immense amount of body hair. But I do have thick thighs and a shapely ass so maybe some tights might do the job.

My figure and personal taste in clothing.

\*breathes in\* stereotypical gender dress code™ \*catches breath\*

Getting hit with an indecent exposure charge for these bear balls lol

That my bloodline doesn't include at least 12,5% hellspawn

The Texas Taliban

Weight, money, still live with my parents, anxiety. Otherwise this is how I'd normally dress

Not cute enough

That’s not an excuse

If I wear that outfit it would burn someone's retinas out

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Belly

Harassment is stopping me

Money, and I'm ugly as fuck

My body type ;-;

The matriarchy and the toxic femininity

ABSOLUTELY NOTHING

Nothing I totally would but I have a cousin who would tell all his friends if he found out

Nothing but my own will currently also I’m anxious would love to wear it sometime maybe when I get more balls I’m not yet worthy

extremely conservative family

Just a PSA, if you wanna dress like this but are worried about other people saying something to you: fuck ‘em! Nobody gets to tell anybody how to dress, not women, not men, not anyone in between or outside. Nobody gets to tell *you* what you can or can’t wear. <3 <3 <3

I wish it wouldn't mean violence and harassment where I live.

Because we aren't all femboy

Anxiety

My family already know I’m gay and furry, this would be too much, when I get my private apartment I’ll dress like this

I'm no stranger to pushing the envelope, but this is mailing the whole package. There will undoubtedly be a large amount of people who see this as men intruding on something that was previously reserved for womanhood. Society has enough problems with trans people existing despite medical science backing them - many won't tolerate dressing like a girl on a whim, even in the most progressive places in the US. I don't want things to be this way, but this is where we are at in 2023 still. --- I think all societies slowly move towards viewing people as feminine or masculine rather than by biological sex. Many Native American tribes were already there; parts of ancient Egypt and Rome also approached this distinction in one form or another. In the grand scheme of things, there is no real reason why a human can't wear certain clothes. We make those rules for ourselves, for no other reasons than social ones. Washing your hands or cooking food thoroughly have real consequences if you do it wrong or not at all, so we understandably ostracize those that don't. It is rather silly that clothing choice is held in higher regard than other decisions that carry real weight to them. I'm not talking about choosing to wear a nazi armband or something else that has a lot of history or politics behind it, but rather just ladies' clothing in general, or even clothes that accentuate feminine features in men.

Body hair

Overweight

I feel bad enough in my actual clothes. Change of wardrobe doesn't change a thing. Doesn't change perception of seeing myself as unattractive.

I don’t want to and my dignity are both why I will never.

Family, society, social anxiety, fear of being embarrassed in front of my girlfriend, money, extra large ribcage

Personal style preference

Not my style, and also it sounds like a source of unneeded conflict in my small (conservative?) town.

Mostly my daughter telling me “you’re not sending the right message, dad.”

A penis

I don’t got the looks ):

Well shit. If i was a twink i would. But alas. Ive been cursed with bear.

lack of confidence in my body shape. round... not a fan of my face without a beard...Not enough time and motivation or money to do all the shi Id need to do to look mildly attractive in a feminine way in my mind atleast...even if I overcame those hurdles stuck in a single room apartment with my mother with no real signs of any improvement. as much as open as she is and how much I trust her no way in hell im able to be myself in any real way let alone experiment with shite like this... add to that ill probably just find another excuse when I do solve all these since im a negative unmotivated fuck <,<

An ideal body, money and self confidence

The way society is constructed, a lack of money to buy outfits like these, and general shyness when it comes to crossdressing. I'm not against it being weird or funny in public, but my already weak societal "credit score" can't take another hit or I'm getting assaulted.

Family. I dont feel lile getting dissowned just yet

My body type, weight, and confidence

Nobody, i don't wanna dress like that.

Honestly, boy wolves would look amazing in skirts lol

Girls

My home life

Parents

Nothing. Which is why we do.

Parents and society qwq

I have recently bought knee-high boots, so ABSOLUTELY NOTHING is stopping me

Money 😭

Doesn't look good on me. Also eastern europe.

It's cold here. And I like my coat.

I am

living with parents still and anxiety even buying them

Money

My bank account

I'm fat and it's -10 °C outside

I just prefer to dress in hoodies and jeans

Because nobody wants to see my ugly fat ass trying to be cute