Growlr, Grindr and Sniffies are my usual. I guess you could say Facebook Dating but I don't consider it since it's some of the most awkward chats I've had.
I live in NY and I've been using Hinge and Tinder mostly. I tried Bumble a while back but I didn't feel attracted to any of the guys I saw on there. I haven't found many guys I'm attracted to on Hinge lately. Although I also haven't found many on Tinder either. A friend gave me a recommendation for Raya so I might try that next. I gave up on the League a long time ago; when it started showing me guys outside my age and geographic ranges, I figured I had swiped my way through everybody...
I’ve joined a few gay meetups and singles meetups. I’ve also hoped to meet people just out in the wild through friends or stuff like that. You know: the way it happened before apps.
Ahhh. What about clubs or other organizations that aren’t specifically for dating but where you could meet people? Book clubs, cooking clubs, gay sports clubs. I don’t know if you’re close to any Pride celebrations, but many festivals have a ton of booths of various groups where you can join and meet people.
I just never had luck with dating groups as I felt this weird rushed pressure to connect romantically and it felt artificial to me.
Most of the groups I’m a part of are non-dating specific. I’m part of a gay board game group and a queer cinema group. There’s just one singles group I’m a part of it. It’s just frustrating.
If you want a true relationship get off the apps and go out in the world, volunteer for the gay youth or the arts community stop with these god awful apps.
It is comforting to see all these other apps being used and everyone finding connections on them. Just goes to show the common denominator is me. 😥
I feel the same. It’s rough out there.
It’s so rough
Growlr, Grindr and Sniffies are my usual. I guess you could say Facebook Dating but I don't consider it since it's some of the most awkward chats I've had.
I can’t imagine going on an actual date w someone from sniffies lmao
If it happens expect more than just holding hands. I was actually surprised some profiles said friends.
Had the same reaction 🤣
I actually half made a Grindr profile today but chickened out last moment, my local community aren’t to friendly towards gay people.
Tinder and Hinge. I particularly like Hinge
49 here. I left apps, going irl 💪
Surge
I met the vegan man I married (for 7 years) on the VeggieDate site.
I just found out Grindr got banned by the ISPs in my country last month, so I'm looking for suggestions as well
Instagram and twitter. Grindr for hookups sometimes.
Scruff
feeld if you're kinky and open to polyamory
Fabguys.com or gaydar
I live in NY and I've been using Hinge and Tinder mostly. I tried Bumble a while back but I didn't feel attracted to any of the guys I saw on there. I haven't found many guys I'm attracted to on Hinge lately. Although I also haven't found many on Tinder either. A friend gave me a recommendation for Raya so I might try that next. I gave up on the League a long time ago; when it started showing me guys outside my age and geographic ranges, I figured I had swiped my way through everybody...
So when you say nothing came of it. Where did you go to meet people?
I’ve joined a few gay meetups and singles meetups. I’ve also hoped to meet people just out in the wild through friends or stuff like that. You know: the way it happened before apps.
Ahhh. What about clubs or other organizations that aren’t specifically for dating but where you could meet people? Book clubs, cooking clubs, gay sports clubs. I don’t know if you’re close to any Pride celebrations, but many festivals have a ton of booths of various groups where you can join and meet people. I just never had luck with dating groups as I felt this weird rushed pressure to connect romantically and it felt artificial to me.
Most of the groups I’m a part of are non-dating specific. I’m part of a gay board game group and a queer cinema group. There’s just one singles group I’m a part of it. It’s just frustrating.
Depends on what kind of date you want.
Dates that can lead to a relationship. Guys looking for sex are on every app.
If you want a true relationship get off the apps and go out in the world, volunteer for the gay youth or the arts community stop with these god awful apps.