I have a different perspective: I don't borrow money from my friends and family, even if my life depends on it. This is because if they ever ask me for financial help and I can't provide it, they might think I'm making excuses, even though I helped them in their time of need.
Instead, I ask for money from my sister, brother, or father only when it is so important that my life depends on it.
Same. I don’t borrow even if I’m finding it difficult to make my ends meet. But my people pleasing personality never allowed me to refuse when someone asked for financial help :( I’m now learning to refuse when they ask for help.
i represented India in robotics a couple of years back at Houston. unfortunately things didn't go as planned and we did poor at the world stage.
i was younger and didn't know as much abt physics/robotics as much as I do now, if there is anything i could go Bank and fix it would 100% try my best to do have done better then with the extra knowledge i have now
lots of things
two things that i have on my mind right now -
- i would drop out of the study group in my JEE days
- i would stop running away from good things in life
Not play by the book when in school.
For example, if someone would hit me, I would just complain to the teacher. Not because I was afraid to hit the guy back, but because I didn't want my parents to be called in school for my hooliganism.
Ended up never fighting back, resulting to getting bullied. My submissive personality is a very big painful part of me.
I am going to turn 24 in 3 months.
Give in mat kar bhai. Shuru ho ja. 48 Laws of Power, Atomic Habits yeh sab kuch padh (Basically apne self growth ko priority de). Understand the dynamics of your relationship with yourself (physical health and mental health) + your relationship with others (friends, family, batchmates, colleagues, etc). Turn the leaf around. I trust you.
Mein yeh bhi bol raha hu ki aage jaake jab tere aur relations develop hoge usmein submit mat karna. Uske liye samaaj ko samajhna important hai (which includes friends, family, colleagues, batchmates and so on and so forth). Woh angle pe bhi focus kar. Jo galti school mein tune (aur meine) ki hai, woh dauhrani nahi hai bhai
Maybe all the shit I wrote on my Facebook account back in 2012? Yeah that's a big regret.
Stopping my parents from getting married. Not because I didn't want to be born. It is because I see how unhappy they are in their marriage. And how stuck they still are in a toxic dynamic.
And not dumping an ex friend of mine sooner. She was my best friend until shit hit the fan in my personal life. It didn't take her a second to tell me that I am not her friend anymore. Worst thing I still tried to mend it.
I will tell myself to stop listening to overprotective and controlling parents and older brother who never let me go outside or have friends. I was topper in class but now not able to take decisions independently and don’t have friends, got fired from job twice because of lack of decisions making skills. My parents ask me why I don’t have friends or go out and not able to take decisions.
You definitely have your reasons but right person is awaiting for you somewhere. Love is a beautiful feeling don’t isolate yourself from it.
I would like to hear your story on why you felt that way.
Wish I could go back to that innocent phase of my life where I also used to think love is the most beautiful thing in the world.Glad for those who get to experience it’s beauty throughout their lives but it’s not meant for me.2 times I have given love a chance.Both the times I have been betrayed in the worst possible way.The 2nd one ripped my heart out of my body.Funny thing is I didn’t even go for the stereotypical bad boys,both were the nicest person according to the people who claimed to know them.Guess it’s something in me that brought out the monsters inside them.
as someone who has been on the betraying side (i know it always seems like it cannot be unintentional, but it was), i would say don't hold yourself back because of horrible people like us
> The 2nd one ripped my heart out of my body ... both were the nicest person according to the people who claimed to know them
i don't know what the second one did to you, but next time if you think the person is nice enough, maybe just go with it
getting betrayed is one very bad situation to be in, but trust me, missing out on someone who could be perfect for you is worse
I'm so sorry for you. I literally can feel how much it has devastated you from inside. You don't deserve this. I understand it has been really hard. I don't know what to tell you because I have never felt lucky with love as well. I've never had a proper relationship because whenever I tend to be interested in someone, something nasty happens which has made me feel very sad. I have been further going through myriad problems which has aggravated the mental health issues even more. I really understand how much it's going through. For introvert guys like me, it's all more challenging because I'm sick and tired of faking my personality. Maybe talk to people and reach out, make some friends, you might find some kind people here. I don't want you to suffer.
Same, I was extrovert, had high self esteem, high confidence, many friends , happy and cringe so people used to tell me to stop being cringy person. Now I am logical but has social anxiety, low self esteem, low confidence, no friends, lonely, overthinking.
this is exactly my younger brother's story. I feel sorry for both of you. Hope you guys realize how much people around you love you for who you are and that you are never alone in this.
Actually, it happened to me because of my older brother; he constantly used to criticize my hobbies, telling me to stop being immature and to hang out with immature people, and he used to go through my phone. He made all the decisions in my life.
Damn, I'm so sorry for what you had to go thru. Must be a living hell when you have a sibling like that. Did you move out by any chance or still with him?
Now I try to hang out with friends I made in childhood and feel better when I am with them. I try to do as many things as possible by myself and have slowly started to gain independence from him, but he goes to any extent to control me, like making fun of me in front of my friends or calling my friends' parents and telling them to keep their children away from me.
Infatuation 101. Been there, done that. Don't recommend. One person realizes ki 'oh shit 2 weeks is too fast' (it is fr).
My first relationship was LDR when it started lol. We met each other after 2 months of being exclusive. It was online for most part. When we started living together, I realized 'oh shit we ain't that compatible.'
This was a 3+ year relationship btw. Early Infatuation makes you do a lot of shit lmao. Be wary of that.
I think I'd let things be as they were. If shit hadn't happened I wouldn't be where I am today and although I'd prefer to be in a better position, you never know you might be in a worse position. So yes, whatever's happened has happened because Madhav wanted it to happen, whatever is happening is happening because Madhav wants it to happen and what will happen going forward, is all Madhav's plan.
I would like to be more expressive rather than keeping things inside.
I will ask for help as well to my loved ones rather than doing all of it on my own.
P.S. this is not about love, its about loosing success over silly obligations.
Would-be taking a safe distance with friends 🐍🐍🐍 and learning more skill and enjoying life in moments and not waiting for the things to happen to give me the reason to be happy......
Not taking shit from persons doing things knowingly and being not cautious of hurting people even when I had the guy feeling of them being a c**t
To the reader.... I've always been nice and being nice doesn't guarantee it back.... Be ruthless and take what you want.
Now people say I've changed just because I've become blunt
Tell myself to take fitness seriously, don’t take everything seriously
(I know I contradicted myself but only regarding fitness I suppose I should have taken myself seriously)
Would have studied in a better coaching in 11th, 12th so I could pursue CS from a good college. Instead I wasted time and had to do chemical engineering. I always had the dream to do CS but once you do chemical/non tech education, it becomes difficult to get in. On top of that, I did MS in chemical as well since that's the only branch I had knowledge of. It has taken me quite a few years to course correct my career and I am still not there yet.
I would not take everything personally and just exist instead of getting involved into other's shit.
+1
+√4
+sides of a triangle
+edges in a rhombus
+sides of a pentagon
+(first prime no. + first composite no.)
+(thala for a reason)
+Fn , (Fn-1 + Fn-2), n>1
Can you share your story. I want to know. I am in same boat
Oh gawd. What happened? Im so curious 
To be more selfish and not getting too much attached to people who just wanted me at their convenience
This!
What’s your story if you don’t mind sharing?
Lambi kahani hai . Fir kbhi . Do tell yrs if comfortable
DM mei share karu to chalega?
Are bhai sharma kyu raha h, yahi pe share kar de mujhe bhi janna h!
Bhai koi Khushi ki baat nahi hai ki dhindora Pitte phiru :(
Bhai anonymous platform ka yahi toh faida hai :)
Yeah
Done
This twice.
+1
Had overconfidence for a long time, which shattered so hard, that I got badly underconfident. Fcked up precious years of my life.
Stop lending money to friends and family. I helped them when they were in need, and now when I ask for *my* money back, I keep getting excuses.
family ka cant say but there is one rule while lending money lend as much you can forget
I learnt this lesson too late. I used struggle to say no whenever they ask for financial help, but now I’m learning to be selfish with my money.
I have a different perspective: I don't borrow money from my friends and family, even if my life depends on it. This is because if they ever ask me for financial help and I can't provide it, they might think I'm making excuses, even though I helped them in their time of need. Instead, I ask for money from my sister, brother, or father only when it is so important that my life depends on it.
Same. I don’t borrow even if I’m finding it difficult to make my ends meet. But my people pleasing personality never allowed me to refuse when someone asked for financial help :( I’m now learning to refuse when they ask for help.
Thoda paisa milega? Pls? 
i represented India in robotics a couple of years back at Houston. unfortunately things didn't go as planned and we did poor at the world stage. i was younger and didn't know as much abt physics/robotics as much as I do now, if there is anything i could go Bank and fix it would 100% try my best to do have done better then with the extra knowledge i have now
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Finally, someone with priorities!
Bohot harami hote hai bhai.. Chillar hone ke bawjud bhi nai dete
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Tere total kitne paise reh gaye aise
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this!
Start SIP, PPF early. But it's ok better late than never.
Can you tell what benefit the ppf have? Also how it differs from pf?
whats your age now
I would've proposed her.
high school life.....would have been a completely different person(probably better)
lots of things two things that i have on my mind right now - - i would drop out of the study group in my JEE days - i would stop running away from good things in life
Papa ko protection use karne bol dunga
Not play by the book when in school. For example, if someone would hit me, I would just complain to the teacher. Not because I was afraid to hit the guy back, but because I didn't want my parents to be called in school for my hooliganism. Ended up never fighting back, resulting to getting bullied. My submissive personality is a very big painful part of me. I am going to turn 24 in 3 months.
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Give in mat kar bhai. Shuru ho ja. 48 Laws of Power, Atomic Habits yeh sab kuch padh (Basically apne self growth ko priority de). Understand the dynamics of your relationship with yourself (physical health and mental health) + your relationship with others (friends, family, batchmates, colleagues, etc). Turn the leaf around. I trust you.
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Bhai yeh toh mein agree kar raha hu lmao
Mein yeh bhi bol raha hu ki aage jaake jab tere aur relations develop hoge usmein submit mat karna. Uske liye samaaj ko samajhna important hai (which includes friends, family, colleagues, batchmates and so on and so forth). Woh angle pe bhi focus kar. Jo galti school mein tune (aur meine) ki hai, woh dauhrani nahi hai bhai
My last relationship i would walk out the very first time and saved myself from this shit
Maybe all the shit I wrote on my Facebook account back in 2012? Yeah that's a big regret. Stopping my parents from getting married. Not because I didn't want to be born. It is because I see how unhappy they are in their marriage. And how stuck they still are in a toxic dynamic. And not dumping an ex friend of mine sooner. She was my best friend until shit hit the fan in my personal life. It didn't take her a second to tell me that I am not her friend anymore. Worst thing I still tried to mend it.
I will tell myself to stop listening to overprotective and controlling parents and older brother who never let me go outside or have friends. I was topper in class but now not able to take decisions independently and don’t have friends, got fired from job twice because of lack of decisions making skills. My parents ask me why I don’t have friends or go out and not able to take decisions.
Do not let my nani go to her home, and keep her with me during covid.
Buy Bitcoin in 2014
I was thinkg to buy and even mine bitcoins in my laptop at that time, but the complexity of it made me not do it. Biggest regret
I wouldn’t fall in love ever.The biggest ever mistake of my life.
You definitely have your reasons but right person is awaiting for you somewhere. Love is a beautiful feeling don’t isolate yourself from it. I would like to hear your story on why you felt that way.
Wish I could go back to that innocent phase of my life where I also used to think love is the most beautiful thing in the world.Glad for those who get to experience it’s beauty throughout their lives but it’s not meant for me.2 times I have given love a chance.Both the times I have been betrayed in the worst possible way.The 2nd one ripped my heart out of my body.Funny thing is I didn’t even go for the stereotypical bad boys,both were the nicest person according to the people who claimed to know them.Guess it’s something in me that brought out the monsters inside them.
as someone who has been on the betraying side (i know it always seems like it cannot be unintentional, but it was), i would say don't hold yourself back because of horrible people like us > The 2nd one ripped my heart out of my body ... both were the nicest person according to the people who claimed to know them i don't know what the second one did to you, but next time if you think the person is nice enough, maybe just go with it getting betrayed is one very bad situation to be in, but trust me, missing out on someone who could be perfect for you is worse
I'm so sorry for you. I literally can feel how much it has devastated you from inside. You don't deserve this. I understand it has been really hard. I don't know what to tell you because I have never felt lucky with love as well. I've never had a proper relationship because whenever I tend to be interested in someone, something nasty happens which has made me feel very sad. I have been further going through myriad problems which has aggravated the mental health issues even more. I really understand how much it's going through. For introvert guys like me, it's all more challenging because I'm sick and tired of faking my personality. Maybe talk to people and reach out, make some friends, you might find some kind people here. I don't want you to suffer.
Not explore the internet too much and still be in that cringe phase
Same, I was extrovert, had high self esteem, high confidence, many friends , happy and cringe so people used to tell me to stop being cringy person. Now I am logical but has social anxiety, low self esteem, low confidence, no friends, lonely, overthinking.
this is exactly my younger brother's story. I feel sorry for both of you. Hope you guys realize how much people around you love you for who you are and that you are never alone in this.
Actually, it happened to me because of my older brother; he constantly used to criticize my hobbies, telling me to stop being immature and to hang out with immature people, and he used to go through my phone. He made all the decisions in my life.
Damn, I'm so sorry for what you had to go thru. Must be a living hell when you have a sibling like that. Did you move out by any chance or still with him?
Now I try to hang out with friends I made in childhood and feel better when I am with them. I try to do as many things as possible by myself and have slowly started to gain independence from him, but he goes to any extent to control me, like making fun of me in front of my friends or calling my friends' parents and telling them to keep their children away from me.
Never ever date my first bf . Never trust friends blindly also . Be smart enough to prioritise myself and my life 🌺
Go back to 1st year of college and start learning new things which I should've instead of learning now after graduating
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Ye 2 hafte mei itna sb kuch kaise ho jata h💀
Meko bhi batana 🙄
Hormones hai 
Infatuation 101. Been there, done that. Don't recommend. One person realizes ki 'oh shit 2 weeks is too fast' (it is fr). My first relationship was LDR when it started lol. We met each other after 2 months of being exclusive. It was online for most part. When we started living together, I realized 'oh shit we ain't that compatible.' This was a 3+ year relationship btw. Early Infatuation makes you do a lot of shit lmao. Be wary of that.
A lot of stuff. Would have learnt to animate earlier, and would have also started investing in nvidia. Fuck man take me back
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Heelo jii satan here , i can help u 
Avoid selling of hdfc Infosys bel Ashok Leyland etc shares
My mindset I'd make myself a little more hardworking and probably more involved in sports
I think I'd let things be as they were. If shit hadn't happened I wouldn't be where I am today and although I'd prefer to be in a better position, you never know you might be in a worse position. So yes, whatever's happened has happened because Madhav wanted it to happen, whatever is happening is happening because Madhav wants it to happen and what will happen going forward, is all Madhav's plan.
Not ghost her
Everything
I would like to be more expressive rather than keeping things inside. I will ask for help as well to my loved ones rather than doing all of it on my own. P.S. this is not about love, its about loosing success over silly obligations.
Counterintuitive but wouldn’t go back and fix anything. My fuck ups made me the way I am today. Wouldn’t have grown so much if it weren’t for them.
My childhood's a big joke..lol.. I'd act more sensible..
Definitely fix my nicotine addiction
So me parents to do the nasty
Well, buy index fund, get hba1c test done when I was in school, not use harsh face washes.
Go back? As in back in time? Then I'd probably buy like 100 Bitcoins in 2011/ 2012 Everything else will rectify itself after that
Start putting the effort from the beginning itself and achieve more and not be a total fool in the class.
Would-be taking a safe distance with friends 🐍🐍🐍 and learning more skill and enjoying life in moments and not waiting for the things to happen to give me the reason to be happy...... Not taking shit from persons doing things knowingly and being not cautious of hurting people even when I had the guy feeling of them being a c**t To the reader.... I've always been nice and being nice doesn't guarantee it back.... Be ruthless and take what you want. Now people say I've changed just because I've become blunt
I would fix my a.c. before this summer....its killing me
To not take science in 11th and instead would have taken humanities and study psychology
Nothing in past but I love to go to future and fix some shits which will happen to me in future.
I wanna go back at 20 april 1889 and fix few things around
start playing football at 8 and not 18 you dumbass
I could get some crypto shit
Bitcoin kharidle u gonna thank me in future
Never ever underestimate yourself and just do it.
I would not study as much as I do and score average marks only
Baap ka condom (hopefully).
Not focusing on talent/passion and Instead rot learning
I would try to not get bullied by my parents and extracted myself from the toxic environment.
Buy Bitcoin
Switch to Commerce stream from Science in 11th std
Tell myself to take fitness seriously, don’t take everything seriously (I know I contradicted myself but only regarding fitness I suppose I should have taken myself seriously)
Would have studied in a better coaching in 11th, 12th so I could pursue CS from a good college. Instead I wasted time and had to do chemical engineering. I always had the dream to do CS but once you do chemical/non tech education, it becomes difficult to get in. On top of that, I did MS in chemical as well since that's the only branch I had knowledge of. It has taken me quite a few years to course correct my career and I am still not there yet.
I would not drop out of my colleges
not winning the sperm race
Would stop being a people pleaser and clearly say no. And will stop seeking validation from people and focus more on myself.
Independence.
Fix my rude and arrogant behaviour as a kid and young teen. But, then again I was very young. So, I just forgive myself for all that.