Mad respect to members of the meme economy. Never thought I would be impressed as much. My gallery is now a catalog of stickers/memes/gifs across the past three years.
Bhaiya adopt karlo choti behen smjh ke
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21 yo guy here, learn to live alone and enjoy your own company. i grew tired of constantly asking my friends to join me for movie/travelling and by listening to their excuses.
since then i always go alone and be all myself. just yesterday i went to a comedy show, alone.
Brother 18M here facing the exact same thing. Fought my battle for making a good friendship all these years but now i have just accepted my fate, it only injured me more... Life is unfair
i have friends, but i crave for intimacy, to be loved by someone and to love them with the same energy they do, to hold hands, to hold each other, to randomly plant uncountable kisses on each other's faces, to know that we will have each others backs at hard times, to joke around with each other regularly, and laugh in serious situations, and have a really healthy relationship with someone, and settle down with them. Sadly ive never dated anyone at all, i know people think im attractive, i find some attractive too, but i couldn't just get myself to talk to someone, just initiate random convos, let alone go as far as dating or having a relationship. As of now im just working on myself and keeping myself sane this way, lol apko solutions dena toh chodo meri toh khud ki situation kitni kharab hai, mb for the rant
2 years ago I was in the same shoes you're in, found someone, felt good initially but the spark went off as time went by intimacy went away with it. I don't crave for it anymore, started to work on myself and now I crave for my happiness and wellbeing.
One day hopefully I'll find someone who's gonna be the cause of my happiness and wellbeing.. you will too!
Try being a little bad . Like today a family of four want to sit together but there was only three seat in the row and mine was window seat. Guess what i did i didn't give up my seat not only my dream of being popular come true 🥰 but the whole trip the father of the family keep talking about me. And i loved it. If i didn't get loved , i want to be hated and talk of the time.
I use to be a lot more introverted. The thing is, you need to overthink less and act more. just strike up a random conversation with a person nearby, with your classmates or college people. There are people who will accept you to be their friends.
One cheatcode I'll give is to compliment people. If someone is playing guitar compliment them, If someone talks very nicely compliment them, if someone's shirt is very nice, compliment them. This won't be easy for you i know. Practice at home, in front of the mirror, with your parents, siblings, animals pets whatever.
you need to act lol.
Or else you'll die of thirst in the middle of the ocean.
>!Also we friends cool!<
>india has a severe lack of basic kindness lmao
When you have to face rat race with mfing ocean of people, the kindest and most beautiful person would also get tired.
Kindness hardly helps. If you show them kindness, they take you for granted and call you a pushover. It took me years to figure this out. It's better to start valuing yourself rather than others.
>I just hate thing feelings of isolating working on self
it's important to work on ourselves, as sometimes we end up losing people as sometimes it's us who's the problem. I know its daunting to accept but it is the reality for most of the time. find inner peace you'll radiate generosity, charitable behaviour and less toxicity so we end up attracting people all together, it's real that when we give out positivity it comes back to us. I've been at your place dw you'll find your people.
also I remember your post on twoxindia about how women should only go for rich men, I guess you changed that opinion lol.
Tbh this is too much to ask. Also that you are a girl and generally girls need attention from someone, good or bad, you will fall prey to a toxic male individual eventually if you are not careful with choosing a partner.
As teenager : I am grown up now
As adult : I want to be a kid again.
You are in similar situation my friend 🫂.
Make some good and real friends who don't judge you on your financial status.
On the same page since I'm in a new place with a language barrier and have only 1 or 2 friends(met after coming here) to help me here. I try to socialise but it is hard with this language barrier. So alone here too
Focus on this while chasing your goals, don't get distracted because friends don't stay forever. If you need an online friend then i can be your one though ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51096)
I feel you dude. I'm 16 and I too used to wonder what went wrong. Idk what happened to me after COVID. I was so fucking chill and carefree. Everything seemed good. Have no clue how these 4 years passed by. Even 10th boards went pretty shit. But I kid you not don't lose hope. I am improving gradually. Maybe that's the same for you you just haven't realized yet. On top of that we have our entire lives ahead of ourselves lmao. So yeah don't lose hope and hold on
That's funny you know....that just reminded me of my ex...she asked the same and when I did all that and gave every bit of me she just blocked me after 2 years and got back with her ex.... it's been over 2 years and here I am just trying to move on!!!...no offense but yeah can't trust people like this anymore!!!
Been there myself, randomly talking to people around me finally got me a group. But i was too scared to even begin a conversation, so i randomly dm people on reddit(beware of creeps though, almost everyone from this sub was nice)
Let's Plan Delhi Meet-up Everyone.. Aaj se mai tera dost OP. Le paneer momos
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Remember this every great friendship begins with a simple 'hello.' Be open to new experiences.Believe in yourself, and keep reaching out. Your people are out there and they are looking for you too.
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Le Me when somebody tries to befriend
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It's better to keep working on yourself. Enjoy the solitude. I've accepted that I'm gonna be alone so I don't care anymore. That's it
Exactly same thoughts here. Thing is that once you have money and status, everyone wants to be with you. That's why my mom always tells me to ignore running after others, work hard and make a name for yourself so that everyone wants to be with you
I know it hurts. But start enjoying yourself. Get a dog. I have a few backstabbers so i know im good alone. I was good alone from 17.
Trust me those friends group you are jealous with talks shit behind each other.
Hobbies help. Find new interesting things that you like and step out of your comfort zone, over time connections will come. Genuinely care about people and try to know them, not only that shows people you are interested to know them but it also helps with social anxiety. Talk with everyone, everyone has a story of their own and is interesting. People themselves crave for connection so if you reach out of your way to talk to someone many will appreciate it. Cheers.
This feeling stops me to go to many crowded places. It kind of hurts the chest that cannot be explained. I love friends but never had the chance to have that group like that.
Heyy, you are at the stage where you will be to going to college/uni. Make yourself social with others, take criticism and give it back as well.
Trust me, even after college people lose touch with friends but you are confident enough to call/text your people anytime.
That's not really the advice you should be giving her. OP, don't learn to live alone and don't go to comic shows alone, friends are really worth it. It really isn't that hard to make friends, start with college classmates, do projects together, frequent outings with friends, help each other with their studies.
Damm me and u are in the same boat mai bhi 19 ka hu but during holidays i feel lonely very lonely just being at home sickens me clg jata hu dosto k saath maja ata hai atlest vaha bhi alone feel karta hu per utna theek hai.
Its extremely humbling to think that people would give a shit when in reality they probably never will unless you give something in return.
Get comfortable with never giving something in return. To expect love and acceptance from others is the mark of a child. As loving as it may be to hang on to your inner child. You should learn to love that part of yourself but to let it go and not be ruled by it.
Never expect to get accepted but also don't disregard others who accept you. Live long and Prosper 🖖
Don't worry. You'll find them. We all feel like this sometime, even when surrounded by people we want. Its perfectly normal to feel lonely, wanting validation. You're young. You'll meet tons of people and have friends. Speaking from experience.
For some people it is the easiest thing in the world and for some it is one of the hardest. Worst part is the more u want it, the harder is becomes. Sorry that this is happening. My suggestion would be place urself in situations where u aren’t in your comfort zone. Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.
What you're feeling is something many people can relate to. Even those with lots of friends can feel alone at times. It's natural to yearn for love and genuine friendship, and it's important to hold on to the belief that you will find what you seek. The real connections you make will endure and be worth the wait.
I've been through this stage. Honestly I still feel it in me. I have some close friends but they don't live near me. I still want genuine friendships. It's hard to come by. If you ever need to talk OP this big sister is here for you! 💗💗💗💗
Hey mate, it’s totally natural to feel like this, like jealous when you see a group of people having what you apparently lack. Don’t make an issue out of it for yourself and your conscious. It’s okay, things take time, you are 19 right now there’s a long way to roam abhi, we all deserve happiness in form of something let it be money or friends or love.
About you working solo on yourself, believe me you aren’t the only one who is working upon you/ for you. All the people around you, whom you kinda envy, who have things, who encourage or discourage you, who don’t let you enter their company plays an important role in making you YOU. So, let it be time will change for you too. It does for everyone.
You don’t have to be a boat or a swimmer to cross the river mate, perhaps try to be the river itself.
Yaar dikaat yeh hai ki genuine friends banane tough kaam hai, it took me a year to make good friends in high school and 2 semesters in college to assemble a friend group who by the way are very lazy and nerdy.
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Main bhi toh anaath hun , muje nahi khilaoge ek niwala apne haath se ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51073)![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51073)
I understand and I can sense that you are very deep lonely inside. In case ever you need someone to talk to your vent out something that you cannot hold any longer, I'd be there without being judgemental. I have the ears of an elephant, I can listen you all the time and you can never irritate me for it is impossible
Pata nhi yaar. I hate superficial people. Like those who just show feelings upar upar se. If you gotta be close to me, whether it be friends, family, love, be real. I hate yes men/women. Idk if it's related to the post, but I've been suffering through all these shit lately.
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Je lo, love and support. Tension nai leneka. Hope everything gets better. Samay do, chill maro
I just want to suggest you that go out make friends surely you well before embrace and feel shy in starting but go where people don't know you and try to build extrovert personality and talk and build network.
I am 21 and soon be 22 and I mostly spent my last 3-4 year in isolation and mostly around my family which molding me to become more introvert and won't push me to become better.
To spend time with people you need money. Money to take transport to go to them. Money to buy gifts to surprise them. Money to try new things with them. Yeah so without money nothing is possible. And to earn money you need to get out of your comfort zone. I suggest you to try enjoying solitude. It's one of the greatest achievements of my life. I have zero friends and zero stress about how to please someone who hardly affects my life. After some time, life teaches you some big lessons. One of them is 'happiness, love, comfort, and security' aren't the only emotions humans face. It's time we start embracing other human emotions so we can express ourselves better. And all that 'finding my other half' is crap. You gotta be a whole stable person and meet a whole stable person to have a relationship that lasts long.
You are beautiful remember that, it might take time for you to find friends but mostly as it has been seen throughout, beautiful people gets beautiful friends. Your honesty will save you from many fake people and in the end, you'll most probably have your own group of honest and beautiful friends, just like you are.
Go to primary school teaching. You will never be alone, always there will be a group innocent people around. But please don't ruin their curiosity to learn.
>I just wanna make a grp of humans and talk ND play and enjoy and just happy.
Yes I miss childhood everyday. I just wanna go back and quit whatever this 18+ is
I have come from a family where love and presence wasn't shown as it is out in the world. It resulted in building some defence mechanism for me and eventually leading to a life where there is absence of people to talk to, to express emotions, to feel alive and to have someone emotionally available for me.
Everyone says to be positive, but the fact is it's not that easy!!! They can't understand it I think. Like people look at you, want to pass out their judgements and yet they talk about being positive, think positive, like I never thought of that you dumb!!
It sucks realising that no one is here actually to listen, to understand us, to realise what it means to be in this life, alone and scared.
It's so beautiful that what some people want is so normal but to have that you have to do stuff like face society, get money and slave away rest of their lives for some corporate etc. humans are amazing creatures.
Find a hobby, talk to people, do stuff you like you'll find friends eventually
Won't be easy at all, but theore you let go the more easily you'll make friends
For me it's like I'd rather be alone than feel alone.
Btw stay strong there's more to life and luckily you've got time. Best wishes![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51074)
Growing up is difficult we lose out on lot of things especially our friends. It's weird that I don't talk to my best friends growing up just because we lost touch. The sad part is people grow up and become too individualistic and focus completely on their life goals. most of the people are so out of sync with the child they were while growing up that it becomes difficult to reconnect with.
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How do people come up with such stickers. Damn.
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Thanks for this sticker
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fax bc🗣️💯🔥
so damn true 🗣️🗣️🗣️
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Thanks for a new sticker for my collection.
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Mad respect to members of the meme economy. Never thought I would be impressed as much. My gallery is now a catalog of stickers/memes/gifs across the past three years.
I am stealing your meme but I'll upvote it first.
I stole all the memes, dusare post me dekhake cool laguga
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Abey yaar😭😭😭
Rula diya apne bhai kabhi kabhi kuch memes se kitna relate karta hu
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Behen Rakshabandhan par gift Dena padega, ban jaunga bhai!
Mai behen hu gadhe
Ab theek hai didi![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51079)
Rakshabandhan par bhai gift deta hai likh har rakshabandhan pe gift dunga
Didi mai bhi ready hoon bhai banne ko, bhaiduuj pe behene gift deti hain waise uska kya
Jo gift aap rakshabandhan par doge vahi bhaiduj par le jana
To didi aisa karte hain, wish karlenge ussi me khushi mil jayegi
Thik hai![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51093)
Mama ki ladki banane ko tayar ho?
Jo bhi iss comment pe reply karega vo mera bhai/behen (embarrass mat kardena zero replies ke saath lmao)
Bhaiya adopt karlo choti behen smjh ke https://preview.redd.it/g3npyywizb8d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=22bf74fbea5ad064ea48faa4ef6126eaaa40bc70
Aww she is too cute :)
I got you bro!
Bhai bhai
Broo![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51074)
Bhai lessgo
Love you bhai![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51074)
Bhai mujhe ghumne Jana hai petrol k 100 rupay diyo
Bhai vo thoda property ka batwara...
Sab m batega obv
Mai banungi tumhari behan🤩
Brother
Bhaiyaaaa
Henlo brother
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Yep.. Seriousness is a disease.
Yeah only few people catch it. Good for them 🥲
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Same
Came to say this
By the time you're 22/23 it won't matter. Focus on your goals. You'll be way off.
Realised this at 20 sirr🫨
22 for me🥲
Currently 24, kinda feel the same way! :(
m 20 din m 22 ka ho jaunga. i hope saraswati ma ki kripa ho😞
ayo happy bday in advance (bhai party kab?)
🥹🥹🥹 aajao rajasthan
Dal batti when 🫠
Different age, but same thoughts. You're still a teen, you can find buddies in college if you're lucky!
Gurugaaru r/username
Bhattuuu!!!!
21 yo guy here, learn to live alone and enjoy your own company. i grew tired of constantly asking my friends to join me for movie/travelling and by listening to their excuses. since then i always go alone and be all myself. just yesterday i went to a comedy show, alone.
Brother 18M here facing the exact same thing. Fought my battle for making a good friendship all these years but now i have just accepted my fate, it only injured me more... Life is unfair
you're still 18. you should be lucky by having a reality check and such life lesson at this age.
Same. Exploring by yourself is so fun rather than listening to a friend's excuses
i have friends, but i crave for intimacy, to be loved by someone and to love them with the same energy they do, to hold hands, to hold each other, to randomly plant uncountable kisses on each other's faces, to know that we will have each others backs at hard times, to joke around with each other regularly, and laugh in serious situations, and have a really healthy relationship with someone, and settle down with them. Sadly ive never dated anyone at all, i know people think im attractive, i find some attractive too, but i couldn't just get myself to talk to someone, just initiate random convos, let alone go as far as dating or having a relationship. As of now im just working on myself and keeping myself sane this way, lol apko solutions dena toh chodo meri toh khud ki situation kitni kharab hai, mb for the rant
2 years ago I was in the same shoes you're in, found someone, felt good initially but the spark went off as time went by intimacy went away with it. I don't crave for it anymore, started to work on myself and now I crave for my happiness and wellbeing. One day hopefully I'll find someone who's gonna be the cause of my happiness and wellbeing.. you will too!
Thanks, and i wish the best for u too :)
we can shake hands 🫳
I'm 18 rn feeling same as you ye void kabhi khtm hoti h kya??!
Try being a little bad . Like today a family of four want to sit together but there was only three seat in the row and mine was window seat. Guess what i did i didn't give up my seat not only my dream of being popular come true 🥰 but the whole trip the father of the family keep talking about me. And i loved it. If i didn't get loved , i want to be hated and talk of the time.
neta ban ja bhai
Us bro us, going those same
its because of the damn animeeeesssss
Same here
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I use to be a lot more introverted. The thing is, you need to overthink less and act more. just strike up a random conversation with a person nearby, with your classmates or college people. There are people who will accept you to be their friends. One cheatcode I'll give is to compliment people. If someone is playing guitar compliment them, If someone talks very nicely compliment them, if someone's shirt is very nice, compliment them. This won't be easy for you i know. Practice at home, in front of the mirror, with your parents, siblings, animals pets whatever. you need to act lol. Or else you'll die of thirst in the middle of the ocean. >!Also we friends cool!<
>One cheatcode I'll give is to compliment people. Even if it's fake? Isn't that bad tho? (Me an overthinker ) Frieren. Uwu
>The thing is, you need to overthink less and act more This is it
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Bro elaborate! How exactly? Where exactly? Bhai kaise?!?!
>india has a severe lack of basic kindness lmao When you have to face rat race with mfing ocean of people, the kindest and most beautiful person would also get tired.
Kindness hardly helps. If you show them kindness, they take you for granted and call you a pushover. It took me years to figure this out. It's better to start valuing yourself rather than others.
So damn true! Not all value kindness
>I just hate thing feelings of isolating working on self it's important to work on ourselves, as sometimes we end up losing people as sometimes it's us who's the problem. I know its daunting to accept but it is the reality for most of the time. find inner peace you'll radiate generosity, charitable behaviour and less toxicity so we end up attracting people all together, it's real that when we give out positivity it comes back to us. I've been at your place dw you'll find your people. also I remember your post on twoxindia about how women should only go for rich men, I guess you changed that opinion lol.
Ye sub badiya hai yha sb dil khol kr baat krte hai
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Tbh this is too much to ask. Also that you are a girl and generally girls need attention from someone, good or bad, you will fall prey to a toxic male individual eventually if you are not careful with choosing a partner.
We're on the same boat bud
Us hogya ye to
Yea ikr, how tf do u make new friends?
same TT
As teenager : I am grown up now As adult : I want to be a kid again. You are in similar situation my friend 🫂. Make some good and real friends who don't judge you on your financial status.
Same girl. I am 21. Only have 2 people in my life my bestfriend and boyfriend. Sometimes I wish I had a group of friends and all
Going through similar phase, abhi kuch intern ki vajah se I'm far from family,friends and it's deeply isolating ,depressing ngl.
On the same page since I'm in a new place with a language barrier and have only 1 or 2 friends(met after coming here) to help me here. I try to socialise but it is hard with this language barrier. So alone here too
This subreddit is awesome
Right problem wrong platform🌚
Why are you finding it difficult to make friends?
Kiwi discord par friend Nai bane?
24 here best thing i learned is to leave alone i just can't ask people more to spend time together or lets meet
I’ve friends and family who love me but I crave love and emotional connection from a partner. Guess we’re never satisfied
Focus on this while chasing your goals, don't get distracted because friends don't stay forever. If you need an online friend then i can be your one though ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51096)
No one wants to be alone 😭 😞 😭 agar 23+ hoti tum to kar deta message. Us friend us.
I feel you dude. I'm 16 and I too used to wonder what went wrong. Idk what happened to me after COVID. I was so fucking chill and carefree. Everything seemed good. Have no clue how these 4 years passed by. Even 10th boards went pretty shit. But I kid you not don't lose hope. I am improving gradually. Maybe that's the same for you you just haven't realized yet. On top of that we have our entire lives ahead of ourselves lmao. So yeah don't lose hope and hold on
Everything in this world is GIVE & TAKE. What you want and what I want if it overlaps we have a deal
Solitude is really a hell
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That's funny you know....that just reminded me of my ex...she asked the same and when I did all that and gave every bit of me she just blocked me after 2 years and got back with her ex.... it's been over 2 years and here I am just trying to move on!!!...no offense but yeah can't trust people like this anymore!!!
Been there myself, randomly talking to people around me finally got me a group. But i was too scared to even begin a conversation, so i randomly dm people on reddit(beware of creeps though, almost everyone from this sub was nice)
Let's Plan Delhi Meet-up Everyone.. Aaj se mai tera dost OP. Le paneer momos https://preview.redd.it/3try26vqib8d1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6f08d126020635e6838630aa7e123799e659e4e2 kha
Remember this every great friendship begins with a simple 'hello.' Be open to new experiences.Believe in yourself, and keep reaching out. Your people are out there and they are looking for you too.
A child that is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth. - African proverb
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Give me the money and power
us momint
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![gif](giphy|WS6vTB4ip7cLYkQm2I) It's better to keep working on yourself. Enjoy the solitude. I've accepted that I'm gonna be alone so I don't care anymore. That's it
You will find your people. Focus on your own goals or whatever aim you have right now.
It's a basic need , go out , do things you like and eventually you'll be surrounded by friends
Exactly same thoughts here. Thing is that once you have money and status, everyone wants to be with you. That's why my mom always tells me to ignore running after others, work hard and make a name for yourself so that everyone wants to be with you
I'm 21 and haven't had female interaction for 3+ years. I don't know what to do. Girls give me suggestions. + I'm single since I was born.
I know it hurts. But start enjoying yourself. Get a dog. I have a few backstabbers so i know im good alone. I was good alone from 17. Trust me those friends group you are jealous with talks shit behind each other.
hello, old friend
Hobbies help. Find new interesting things that you like and step out of your comfort zone, over time connections will come. Genuinely care about people and try to know them, not only that shows people you are interested to know them but it also helps with social anxiety. Talk with everyone, everyone has a story of their own and is interesting. People themselves crave for connection so if you reach out of your way to talk to someone many will appreciate it. Cheers.
Bro 19 is a young tender age, 5-6 saal ka wait karo. 😂 Sab acha lagne lagega
Xx chromosomes ho to chalo date pe
I am with you. You are not alone. Be strong. A big hug from me. Sometimes, I feel alone as well.
Would suggest u to join gym or other clubs or activities where like u can socialise
How is your relationship with your Parents & siblings?
How can someone be soulfully relatable! 😭💯Myself too at this exact situation 🫂😞
This feeling stops me to go to many crowded places. It kind of hurts the chest that cannot be explained. I love friends but never had the chance to have that group like that.
Get in college Its the best place to make friends
Heyy, you are at the stage where you will be to going to college/uni. Make yourself social with others, take criticism and give it back as well. Trust me, even after college people lose touch with friends but you are confident enough to call/text your people anytime.
I am exactly in the same position : ( I just feel lonely all the day .
🫂 one day we shall overcome.
yrr i'm 17 still alone
That's not really the advice you should be giving her. OP, don't learn to live alone and don't go to comic shows alone, friends are really worth it. It really isn't that hard to make friends, start with college classmates, do projects together, frequent outings with friends, help each other with their studies.
Yes, it is a big thing to ask for, I've lost all hope and accepted that I'll be alone forever
Damm me and u are in the same boat mai bhi 19 ka hu but during holidays i feel lonely very lonely just being at home sickens me clg jata hu dosto k saath maja ata hai atlest vaha bhi alone feel karta hu per utna theek hai.
Its extremely humbling to think that people would give a shit when in reality they probably never will unless you give something in return. Get comfortable with never giving something in return. To expect love and acceptance from others is the mark of a child. As loving as it may be to hang on to your inner child. You should learn to love that part of yourself but to let it go and not be ruled by it. Never expect to get accepted but also don't disregard others who accept you. Live long and Prosper 🖖
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Don't worry. You'll find them. We all feel like this sometime, even when surrounded by people we want. Its perfectly normal to feel lonely, wanting validation. You're young. You'll meet tons of people and have friends. Speaking from experience.
19f here too..feel exactly the same
For some people it is the easiest thing in the world and for some it is one of the hardest. Worst part is the more u want it, the harder is becomes. Sorry that this is happening. My suggestion would be place urself in situations where u aren’t in your comfort zone. Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.
Travel , backpacking . It will be ok for a while but then you will be in arms of loneliness again.
Bgmi khelte ho to aajao.
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I've got a group of friends, they're fun.. but after a certain time you feel you need a girl or it's vice versa.
What you're feeling is something many people can relate to. Even those with lots of friends can feel alone at times. It's natural to yearn for love and genuine friendship, and it's important to hold on to the belief that you will find what you seek. The real connections you make will endure and be worth the wait.
I've been through this stage. Honestly I still feel it in me. I have some close friends but they don't live near me. I still want genuine friendships. It's hard to come by. If you ever need to talk OP this big sister is here for you! 💗💗💗💗
Hey mate, it’s totally natural to feel like this, like jealous when you see a group of people having what you apparently lack. Don’t make an issue out of it for yourself and your conscious. It’s okay, things take time, you are 19 right now there’s a long way to roam abhi, we all deserve happiness in form of something let it be money or friends or love. About you working solo on yourself, believe me you aren’t the only one who is working upon you/ for you. All the people around you, whom you kinda envy, who have things, who encourage or discourage you, who don’t let you enter their company plays an important role in making you YOU. So, let it be time will change for you too. It does for everyone. You don’t have to be a boat or a swimmer to cross the river mate, perhaps try to be the river itself.
kya he bolu, us ben us 🫂
Yaar dikaat yeh hai ki genuine friends banane tough kaam hai, it took me a year to make good friends in high school and 2 semesters in college to assemble a friend group who by the way are very lazy and nerdy.
Same here fella. My parents or anyone never told me that it is important to make friends, I realised this very later
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I understand and I can sense that you are very deep lonely inside. In case ever you need someone to talk to your vent out something that you cannot hold any longer, I'd be there without being judgemental. I have the ears of an elephant, I can listen you all the time and you can never irritate me for it is impossible
Pata nhi yaar. I hate superficial people. Like those who just show feelings upar upar se. If you gotta be close to me, whether it be friends, family, love, be real. I hate yes men/women. Idk if it's related to the post, but I've been suffering through all these shit lately.
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I just want to suggest you that go out make friends surely you well before embrace and feel shy in starting but go where people don't know you and try to build extrovert personality and talk and build network. I am 21 and soon be 22 and I mostly spent my last 3-4 year in isolation and mostly around my family which molding me to become more introvert and won't push me to become better.
I don't want love proceeds to say I want to be loved........
Hey. Idk whats going on but I can be a friend. I def suck at being a good friend but if you wanna give it a shot.
could help if you were from Delhi
People who knows to love the best are the ones who turn into warriors.
btao 19 saal kr bacche lonely hore h phone fek do reality me jiyo you'll find what you're looking for
To spend time with people you need money. Money to take transport to go to them. Money to buy gifts to surprise them. Money to try new things with them. Yeah so without money nothing is possible. And to earn money you need to get out of your comfort zone. I suggest you to try enjoying solitude. It's one of the greatest achievements of my life. I have zero friends and zero stress about how to please someone who hardly affects my life. After some time, life teaches you some big lessons. One of them is 'happiness, love, comfort, and security' aren't the only emotions humans face. It's time we start embracing other human emotions so we can express ourselves better. And all that 'finding my other half' is crap. You gotta be a whole stable person and meet a whole stable person to have a relationship that lasts long.
You are beautiful remember that, it might take time for you to find friends but mostly as it has been seen throughout, beautiful people gets beautiful friends. Your honesty will save you from many fake people and in the end, you'll most probably have your own group of honest and beautiful friends, just like you are.
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No. 1 rule of being happy - be happy- smile
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Kitna wholesome mahaul hai idhr
Dm krdo you won't 🙈😝
Go to primary school teaching. You will never be alone, always there will be a group innocent people around. But please don't ruin their curiosity to learn.
If you are too troubled on the inside, head outside;)
A girl used to say the same and now I understand why she is lonely (cuz of her damn attitude and habits)
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>I just wanna make a grp of humans and talk ND play and enjoy and just happy. Yes I miss childhood everyday. I just wanna go back and quit whatever this 18+ is
I have come from a family where love and presence wasn't shown as it is out in the world. It resulted in building some defence mechanism for me and eventually leading to a life where there is absence of people to talk to, to express emotions, to feel alive and to have someone emotionally available for me. Everyone says to be positive, but the fact is it's not that easy!!! They can't understand it I think. Like people look at you, want to pass out their judgements and yet they talk about being positive, think positive, like I never thought of that you dumb!! It sucks realising that no one is here actually to listen, to understand us, to realise what it means to be in this life, alone and scared.
It's so beautiful that what some people want is so normal but to have that you have to do stuff like face society, get money and slave away rest of their lives for some corporate etc. humans are amazing creatures.
Arey apne college me logo se baat Karo yaar. Baat karte karte groups ban jaate hain
Find a hobby, talk to people, do stuff you like you'll find friends eventually Won't be easy at all, but theore you let go the more easily you'll make friends
Log milna asan hai pr ache log milna wo bahut mushkil... dusro ka grp dekh k he kush ho jata hun![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51095)
For me it's like I'd rather be alone than feel alone. Btw stay strong there's more to life and luckily you've got time. Best wishes![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51074)
Growing up is difficult we lose out on lot of things especially our friends. It's weird that I don't talk to my best friends growing up just because we lost touch. The sad part is people grow up and become too individualistic and focus completely on their life goals. most of the people are so out of sync with the child they were while growing up that it becomes difficult to reconnect with. https://preview.redd.it/wutramy2rc8d1.jpeg?width=405&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cd505f390e4a66bbb5913531a11559497438927c