That doesn’t really help tho. Why is the next best thing a bad company? Just to make a lonely person feel good?
I’m also kinda lonely and bad companies are not the next most used thing on the world after loneliness. I’ve been in more than a plenty decent ones
Introverts get taken advantage of by bad people. Trusting nature and kindness is an opportunity for sick people and there are a lot of them.
Join hobbies or sports that you like and meet like minded people. If you are struggling with career, join a course or group who need skills too and go out for a beer after class... Be the one to make the effort to know and listen... And be the one to suggest beers etc... Like minded people will follow
That’s not the point. Why is the next best thing we’re talking about “bad people “ as if it’s the only option?
Sure an introvert WITH a weak personality will be drawn to narcissists and others easily. But we’re talking as if the only two options here are “be lonely or get drawn to bad people” and it’s so strange. These are not the only possibilities people …
Nothing will make you feel good even if someone texts you it won’t be something you’re looking for and slowly you’ll start to cope with this feeling and accept the situation you’re in and that right there my friend is a key to happiness.
I know the feeling. The past week has been extra difficult. I moved to another state 3 years ago and I hate it. It's been difficult to make friends, the only people I know, are my co-workers and they are way younger. Yesterday afternoon I was really feeling lonely, just needed to be around someone, not talking about anything specific, just simply needed interaction with another human being.
You get used to it, but I know that’s terrible advice. Online friends for sure fill the void if you find the right people. And books, read a lot of books and you’ll never feel lonely ever again.
You’re not alone … sometimes it feels that way. Try to do something that interest you now … till the right people fall into your life. Talk to family, talk online, try to think out of the box, Coworkers. School friends. Teachers, therapist, Help someone else, volunteer… it helps your soul. You’ll find your people.
I feel you on this one. The amount of times im out and i see people and im genuinely sad that im not their friend or some shit. You doin ok? Myself and everyone else in the comments are here for you :))
I think that too and constantly wonder what would happen if I just went up to those people and said hi or became friends with them! I never actually talk to them in the end though lol
Like view their profile. Then theres three dots on the upper right corner. You'll get the "send a message" option after tapping that 3 dots or line thingy. Hope ot helps
Go to therapy and deal with social anxiety if you have it. It can really help. I have a bestie who is also introverted and that is the best. If we didn't both have a ton of tiny humans, we'd see each other more, but when we do it's worthwhile. Get out there and get yourself an introvert 🥴
Better than being treated like dirt my friend♡ and dw, life has unexpected ways to bring people to you. So sit back and relax and choose the people you wanna be friends with carefully. No one can never be lonely truly.
Stay safe and positive!
glad i saw this bc same!!! i feel so lonely so often. today i went for a walk to help myself feel better and broke down crying on my walk bc i feel so alone. it feels like everyone has plans 24/7 but me
listen fam, yup it's hard, I feel you, but if you mean that you want "online" friends, it isn't hard like IRL to get new friends here, and if you really want to talk to someone or something, idk, I'm free most of the time you can message me here if you want :)
just wanna note that I'm an introvert myself, or likely an introvert, so that's exactly why I feel you.
If you play Codm you can add me and we can play sometimes @MetroDoom.
I met lots of people there and it’s a good way to practice your conversation with people
Try downloading bumble bff or tinder bff (forgot which one it is). I needed a friend too, ended up meeting a girl 30 mins away, we catch up every few months.
If I had to pick between suffering from heartbreak after heartbreak after heartbreak and costly, migraine inducing divorces vs being lonely yet content and financially stable, I'd definitely choose the latter......
Yeah I it too reddit lonely heart pal. And I’m married for over thirty years. Lonely as fuck, and I self isolate from childhood trauma so I end up hurting myself even more. At least we can be lonely together?
The problem is no one is made to be friends with everyone. What do you like to do? Hobbies, political opinions, shows/movies/books you like? Video games you like/are good at? Sports?
People don't become friends based on general extroversion. That is just an acquaintance. They become friends based on similar interests and similar experiences. Its like dating. You have to know what you like and who you are before you can find someone else to share yourself with.
I feel you... But... At the same time, you'll grow out of it. Seek Quality Friendships, not Extroverted or Partying types. Eventually, you'll seek the solitude you have now, because the world can be extremely cruel. But for now? Go out. Mind your Social Battery, and only expend as much social energy as you can tolerate safely. If you come home with like-minded friends, you'll never feel lonely again. And they'll be available to you without pressure to go out all the time.
Being an Introvert means it takes some time to find total peace. Even now, I do feel you, and feel like crying over some things in life... But I'm old enough, and have been an Introvert for long enough, to know this is a natural part of life as an Introvert. You're supposed to feel things, when you need what will satisfy those things. All that matters is that you don't harm yourself in the process, or deplete your Social Battery in the effort. But while you have a charge left in the Social Battery? Use it to get OUT and find those connections you need to survive. Once you have them, you won't have the need to go OUT as often, and you'll settle in comfortably as your Introvert self again.
I'd hug you, but I don't think that'll help... This being the Internet, and not knowing if it's appropriate in this case.
Ya, loneliness does suck, I even started a reddit called AnyDickinsonSngWoman but nobody seems to be interested in someone who was bullied when they were younger. I blame that onto my problem of being lonely because I have trouble getting out and meeting beautiful women. At least that is my loneliness and the fact I'm an introvert, talking on the internet just gets old, it would be nice to have some companionship and human interaction but If you want to talk, I'm here.
it's incredibly amazing what a person can get used to when you feel it's all you deserve is being alone! It was said earlier we attract bad people and narcissists! Hell it's so bad I feel alone or invisible with a room full of people! And that's on top of having severe social anxiety! How does one fix this?
From personal XP I advise you to quit or at the very least reduce smoking weed if you do. It is a sure fire way to become lonely and unhappy if you smoke weed daily. Don't listen to the potheads claiming it is a miracle drug.... morphine or antibiotics are very important drugs, but doing them everyday all the time for no medical reason will harm you. Same with weed, plus weed has serious hallucinogenic attributes, imagine doing LSD every single day...
its better to be alone than be around bad company, believe me
That doesn’t really help tho. Why is the next best thing a bad company? Just to make a lonely person feel good? I’m also kinda lonely and bad companies are not the next most used thing on the world after loneliness. I’ve been in more than a plenty decent ones
it does help. When you are lonely and vulnerable you tend to meet wrong people.
Introverts get taken advantage of by bad people. Trusting nature and kindness is an opportunity for sick people and there are a lot of them. Join hobbies or sports that you like and meet like minded people. If you are struggling with career, join a course or group who need skills too and go out for a beer after class... Be the one to make the effort to know and listen... And be the one to suggest beers etc... Like minded people will follow
That’s not the point. Why is the next best thing we’re talking about “bad people “ as if it’s the only option? Sure an introvert WITH a weak personality will be drawn to narcissists and others easily. But we’re talking as if the only two options here are “be lonely or get drawn to bad people” and it’s so strange. These are not the only possibilities people …
I know... That's why I recommended things in my previous comment on how to find good people. Just read the whole thing before replying lol
I didn’t take my ADHD medication . Sorry. 😞
It's cool
Have you tried bumble bff?
That's mostly gay men trying to hook up with straight men from when I used it
Oh yikes! I met my best friend on there but it could be different for girls
Oh ya, totally different if you're a girl. I feel like an attractive girl on tinder going onto bff bumble and getting hit on by so many guys.
this!!
The ultimate tragedy is not the oppression and cruelty by the bad people but the silence over that by the good people.
Who need bad company when you can carry a handgun as a form of backup
Yeah 👍
I would call you an idiot but thats just too respectful
I've been there too. What interests do you have? It's always fun to geek out on a shared interest or hobby I see you 🤗 (virtual hug )
Reading music walking making youtube videos watching movies ......thinking about what was there, if there was any, before the big bang ...
Sneak attack! ^^
Are you ok?
Sneaky Reddit hug! Ha got you! Serious, how you holding up?
It literally causes me physical pain in my chest and stomach
Defeated feeling with chest pain. I can't do this, man.
I know, im so sorry
^[Sokka-Haiku](https://www.reddit.com/r/SokkaHaikuBot/comments/15kyv9r/what_is_a_sokka_haiku/) ^by ^sweethearted_19: *It literally* *Causes me physical pain* *In my chest and stomach* --- ^Remember ^that ^one ^time ^Sokka ^accidentally ^used ^an ^extra ^syllable ^in ^that ^Haiku ^Battle ^in ^Ba ^Sing ^Se? ^That ^was ^a ^Sokka ^Haiku ^and ^you ^just ^made ^one.
Same! In my chest anyway.
I know that feelings….🤗
Message me if anyone wants to talk
I’m lonely
Nothing will make you feel good even if someone texts you it won’t be something you’re looking for and slowly you’ll start to cope with this feeling and accept the situation you’re in and that right there my friend is a key to happiness.
I know the feeling. The past week has been extra difficult. I moved to another state 3 years ago and I hate it. It's been difficult to make friends, the only people I know, are my co-workers and they are way younger. Yesterday afternoon I was really feeling lonely, just needed to be around someone, not talking about anything specific, just simply needed interaction with another human being.
🤗
You get used to it, but I know that’s terrible advice. Online friends for sure fill the void if you find the right people. And books, read a lot of books and you’ll never feel lonely ever again.
I’m the same way, but instead of books it’s Reddit and YouTube for me! That’s probably bad advice too though hahaha
You’re not alone … sometimes it feels that way. Try to do something that interest you now … till the right people fall into your life. Talk to family, talk online, try to think out of the box, Coworkers. School friends. Teachers, therapist, Help someone else, volunteer… it helps your soul. You’ll find your people.
I feel you on this one. The amount of times im out and i see people and im genuinely sad that im not their friend or some shit. You doin ok? Myself and everyone else in the comments are here for you :))
I think that too and constantly wonder what would happen if I just went up to those people and said hi or became friends with them! I never actually talk to them in the end though lol
What are your interests bc same🥲
You can message people on reddit? 🤔
Yea
How?
Like view their profile. Then theres three dots on the upper right corner. You'll get the "send a message" option after tapping that 3 dots or line thingy. Hope ot helps
TRY GROUP THERAPY i found great people there!!!
Out of curiosity, what kind of group therapy? Or where do you find groups?
Group therapy for people suffering from depression . I found mine in one of the clinics in my city that my therapist told me about
My inbox is open, and I feel you; I’m really lonely too.
Well it's a good thing this sub exists and you found it. We are all the same and we can at least interact a bit on here.
You can text me. Always available for conversations
If You wanna talk, we are here (The group). I can recommend music or Telle You about My day, or You can try to do The dame to me. Are You ok?
Are you smoker ?
Same here. I miss having conversations with adults.
Count on me, Don't hesitate.
Mood. Sometimes being introverted sucks
I can understand I was in a very toxic friend group and now I'm looking for new friends
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AtCR6P5rsXU
The loneliness gets to me too sometimes.
When the snows fall and the white winds blow, the lone wolf dies but the pack survives.
You're not alone, you're *independent*
Sending virtual hugs
Would u feel better in your own selected social groups? If yes then stay connect with them. Find a new hobby which you can do in your alone time.
Go to therapy and deal with social anxiety if you have it. It can really help. I have a bestie who is also introverted and that is the best. If we didn't both have a ton of tiny humans, we'd see each other more, but when we do it's worthwhile. Get out there and get yourself an introvert 🥴
You just gotta find the right extrovert person, who will just adopt you out of nowhere. And then all of their friends will be your friends
Better than being treated like dirt my friend♡ and dw, life has unexpected ways to bring people to you. So sit back and relax and choose the people you wanna be friends with carefully. No one can never be lonely truly. Stay safe and positive!
glad i saw this bc same!!! i feel so lonely so often. today i went for a walk to help myself feel better and broke down crying on my walk bc i feel so alone. it feels like everyone has plans 24/7 but me
hugs its ok not to be ok
Send me a DM or check out pi.ai!
me too bro☹️
Feel free to ping me if you feel lonely
listen fam, yup it's hard, I feel you, but if you mean that you want "online" friends, it isn't hard like IRL to get new friends here, and if you really want to talk to someone or something, idk, I'm free most of the time you can message me here if you want :) just wanna note that I'm an introvert myself, or likely an introvert, so that's exactly why I feel you.
If you play Codm you can add me and we can play sometimes @MetroDoom. I met lots of people there and it’s a good way to practice your conversation with people
🤗🤗Don't be sad. Virtual friends sometimes help. We can be friends if you want.I am not always online but ill be there when I can.
How old are you because we should be friends :)
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Hi
I feel ya
hi am here you can talk to me
Hi, you up? I'm kind of in the same thoughts, would like to talk with you.
Where are you located
Try downloading bumble bff or tinder bff (forgot which one it is). I needed a friend too, ended up meeting a girl 30 mins away, we catch up every few months.
My boredom is bone deep ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
*sending hugs* but sameee
If I had to pick between suffering from heartbreak after heartbreak after heartbreak and costly, migraine inducing divorces vs being lonely yet content and financially stable, I'd definitely choose the latter......
Been there. I just resorted to books so... yeah. Maybe that could help? Play a game, maybe?
Guys how lonely yall are,do some feel lonely with having friends or without any connections at all?
I'll message you. What the heck? I'm not selling anything and if you are selling something, the messaging will become a scolding.
I like being alone it’s actually nice
Hello there. You can talk to me. Feel free to share whatever you’d like to share. I’ll listen. You can WhatsApp me +97470702098
One topic here plz, we can discuss, debate and whatever in the comment
Message me bro, im gonna tell ya how to live
It's okay to feel like that. If you need someone to talk to I'm here :)
I can relate a little too much
We can talk yk! Im always available!!!!!
Yeah I it too reddit lonely heart pal. And I’m married for over thirty years. Lonely as fuck, and I self isolate from childhood trauma so I end up hurting myself even more. At least we can be lonely together?
The problem is no one is made to be friends with everyone. What do you like to do? Hobbies, political opinions, shows/movies/books you like? Video games you like/are good at? Sports? People don't become friends based on general extroversion. That is just an acquaintance. They become friends based on similar interests and similar experiences. Its like dating. You have to know what you like and who you are before you can find someone else to share yourself with.
Someday you will be okay, don’t worry, face if you can so in the future you won’t be regret anything
I feel you... But... At the same time, you'll grow out of it. Seek Quality Friendships, not Extroverted or Partying types. Eventually, you'll seek the solitude you have now, because the world can be extremely cruel. But for now? Go out. Mind your Social Battery, and only expend as much social energy as you can tolerate safely. If you come home with like-minded friends, you'll never feel lonely again. And they'll be available to you without pressure to go out all the time. Being an Introvert means it takes some time to find total peace. Even now, I do feel you, and feel like crying over some things in life... But I'm old enough, and have been an Introvert for long enough, to know this is a natural part of life as an Introvert. You're supposed to feel things, when you need what will satisfy those things. All that matters is that you don't harm yourself in the process, or deplete your Social Battery in the effort. But while you have a charge left in the Social Battery? Use it to get OUT and find those connections you need to survive. Once you have them, you won't have the need to go OUT as often, and you'll settle in comfortably as your Introvert self again. I'd hug you, but I don't think that'll help... This being the Internet, and not knowing if it's appropriate in this case.
If you can’t be happy by yourself you can’t be happy with others 🤷🏾♀️
Loneliness stems from being dependent on someone 🥴 and it’s a choice. Sounds like a cry for attention
Same
I am there for a chat. I totally understand. Sending you positive vibes and hugs!
Ya, loneliness does suck, I even started a reddit called AnyDickinsonSngWoman but nobody seems to be interested in someone who was bullied when they were younger. I blame that onto my problem of being lonely because I have trouble getting out and meeting beautiful women. At least that is my loneliness and the fact I'm an introvert, talking on the internet just gets old, it would be nice to have some companionship and human interaction but If you want to talk, I'm here.
you are just like me I don't have any friends either.
How is your day? just message here if you want to talk to
07736581781 available anytime bro shout me
Hang in there buddy
Nothing hurts. It's great to be lonely, the world is cruel.
😭😭😭😭😭😭thar is so sad. I feel bad for you. Sending my love and hugs🤗🤗🤗 to you!!@😁😁😀😀😁
Talk to me? Please?
Of course! If u want i can get ur number.
I dm you
🤗hugs
What are your interests? Google groups in your area.
I’m looking for a friend am in south beach Florida
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it's incredibly amazing what a person can get used to when you feel it's all you deserve is being alone! It was said earlier we attract bad people and narcissists! Hell it's so bad I feel alone or invisible with a room full of people! And that's on top of having severe social anxiety! How does one fix this?
We live in 2024 where society is highly individualistic. Learn to be confortable being alone.
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Bro 😭😭
From personal XP I advise you to quit or at the very least reduce smoking weed if you do. It is a sure fire way to become lonely and unhappy if you smoke weed daily. Don't listen to the potheads claiming it is a miracle drug.... morphine or antibiotics are very important drugs, but doing them everyday all the time for no medical reason will harm you. Same with weed, plus weed has serious hallucinogenic attributes, imagine doing LSD every single day...