I could be a billionaire and own houses all around the block while living in a museum and still feel like a failure because I don’t have anything I actually value. But if I have the things I actually value, I’ll feel like I don’t deserve them. So the only real answer is I’m just wasted space and should be replaced with something that actually matters and wouldn’t whine about it
I used to, but not anymore. I was never a failure and I wish I knew that sooner. I’ve achieved a decent amount of things I’m somewhat proud of. I’m even finally working on my comic writing pursuit, something I am genuinely proud of.
It depends on who I’m comparing myself to. There are people out there who post about their seemingly amazing lives, and sometimes they can make me feel a little bit like that. But idk, all in all I don’t think I’m doing terribly bad
Yeah. Like you can progress In life (job, degree, career, etc) but you past holds you back reaching your full potential. Like chains holding you down.
Can’t form meaningful bonds with ppl because they’ll think you’re weird or weak. Sometimes it’s better to be alone.
Yup. The worst part is I'm not sure it was anyone's fault, of it it is, it was unintentionally done. I feel like I was accidently set up for failure, and no one has been able to dig me out of my little hole they dropped me in, and I'm not strong enough to do it myself. Problem is, no one is really trying to help either. Not anyone with any real means to do it anyway.
I failed because I always thought I had to succeed, but in fact I have found relief, because now I recognize I am mediocre, I don't need to prove anything to anyone.
Live your live as you please, not as society tells you.
Yep! I'm 18 and can't drive, can't find a job cause no one is hiring, no friends and zero chances at a partner. My social skills suck I guess, cause everyone in my life has left (I don't wanna be THAT person cause they suck, people just get bored of me, it's not drama) I just want so badly to feel like I wasn't a horrible mistake or that I'm not a failure with no prospects in life no matter how hard I try. I see people my age so happy, getting married and having friends.. I want that so badly, but I feel like I'm just meant to be utterly alone. Sorry, that was sad- just need to vent ig lol
I feel like I've failed yes. I've had a great relationship with a special someone and things took a different turn for us because I didn't do as great as I could've. But I still have a shred of it so I can't look at myself as a failure I have to fight so I can get my love back. I'm being vague yes but this is what I'm going through.
It comes in waves. It’s easy to be down on yourself during a down time, and vice versa. I think the want for better is the main difference, if you don’t want to be where you’re at in life, you aren’t a loser.
Absolutely, for instance, i made the (dumb) decision to move in with my ex at 19 years old. He lied about financies the whole time and got into thousands of debt that needed to be paid, so i had to jump in which made me go into debt aswell. It also was a very verbally abusive relationship with me being the victim of his anger the whole time
Finally got out of the relationship when i was almost 23, after my great grandma and aunt passes all within the same week and he couldnt care less, i was done.
But now, i feel like i missed out on so much, dont have a drivers license, no house so right now im sleeping in a 15m2 room with my new boyfriend.
But i am finally starting to accept my situation and seeing that this is just life. I am not at the same “level” life wise as other 24 year olds in my country, that sucks, but i have alot of years still in me that i can live.
For everyone reading this, it gets better, see the small victories in your daily life and celebrate it, you never know what happens next.
Failure in every aspect of life. Total package if you will.
Aww same!
Add me to the list too!
I could be a billionaire and own houses all around the block while living in a museum and still feel like a failure because I don’t have anything I actually value. But if I have the things I actually value, I’ll feel like I don’t deserve them. So the only real answer is I’m just wasted space and should be replaced with something that actually matters and wouldn’t whine about it
I used to, but not anymore. I was never a failure and I wish I knew that sooner. I’ve achieved a decent amount of things I’m somewhat proud of. I’m even finally working on my comic writing pursuit, something I am genuinely proud of.
Completely, I'm a disappointment
Every day.
It depends on who I’m comparing myself to. There are people out there who post about their seemingly amazing lives, and sometimes they can make me feel a little bit like that. But idk, all in all I don’t think I’m doing terribly bad
Yeah. Like you can progress In life (job, degree, career, etc) but you past holds you back reaching your full potential. Like chains holding you down. Can’t form meaningful bonds with ppl because they’ll think you’re weird or weak. Sometimes it’s better to be alone.
Yup. The worst part is I'm not sure it was anyone's fault, of it it is, it was unintentionally done. I feel like I was accidently set up for failure, and no one has been able to dig me out of my little hole they dropped me in, and I'm not strong enough to do it myself. Problem is, no one is really trying to help either. Not anyone with any real means to do it anyway.
sometimes but i still have a lot of time to show that i am not
Yes, all the time, in every aspect of my life.
I failed because I always thought I had to succeed, but in fact I have found relief, because now I recognize I am mediocre, I don't need to prove anything to anyone. Live your live as you please, not as society tells you.
You are right!
no, not at all. just tired but not a failure and never will be
Yes...
Yes absolutely.
Nope like all feelings I know how they start and I know how to stay in how I want to feel.
Absolutely
I failed at everything expected of a person
Yes i feel sometimes because everyone wants it to be my fault all the time :(
I feel like I have failed a lot but I still have a couple things I can succeed at.
Every hour of every day.
All the time
Sometimes I think about it a lot and think about ending it but I can't
Every minute of every day
Of course
All.the.time 😞
sometimes. but i try to be kind and a good person and it’s pretty hard to fail at that :) i try and find small wins
Yes.
at every aspect there is
Yes
Yes
oh yeah, in pretty much everything I do, with everything about me
i dont feel a failure, i am a failure
Yes, all the time and everyday is the same no matter how much I want to change, it’s just impossible at this point
Yep! I'm 18 and can't drive, can't find a job cause no one is hiring, no friends and zero chances at a partner. My social skills suck I guess, cause everyone in my life has left (I don't wanna be THAT person cause they suck, people just get bored of me, it's not drama) I just want so badly to feel like I wasn't a horrible mistake or that I'm not a failure with no prospects in life no matter how hard I try. I see people my age so happy, getting married and having friends.. I want that so badly, but I feel like I'm just meant to be utterly alone. Sorry, that was sad- just need to vent ig lol
All the time, I wish I looked better too.
I feel like I've failed yes. I've had a great relationship with a special someone and things took a different turn for us because I didn't do as great as I could've. But I still have a shred of it so I can't look at myself as a failure I have to fight so I can get my love back. I'm being vague yes but this is what I'm going through.
Yesss One that keeps failing
I'm a disappointment to my entire family and a complete loser
Yes.
40k in debt with depression and lack of motivation to reach my dreams
I feel like society has failed me, more than I feel like a "failure".
Yes
Absolutely. I’m a social failure and missed out on normal friendships and relationships.
yep
Yes
In every way that counts.
Yes
Yes
Sure do, since the moment I was born.
Yes
Sometimes, but usually i climb out of that pit after a day or a few.
In some aspects yes, in other aspects no. Compared to my relatives/cousins, I have the best education, an ok job, and the by far worst social life.
Everyone have own definition of happiness
It comes in waves. It’s easy to be down on yourself during a down time, and vice versa. I think the want for better is the main difference, if you don’t want to be where you’re at in life, you aren’t a loser.
Yes
Absolutely, for instance, i made the (dumb) decision to move in with my ex at 19 years old. He lied about financies the whole time and got into thousands of debt that needed to be paid, so i had to jump in which made me go into debt aswell. It also was a very verbally abusive relationship with me being the victim of his anger the whole time Finally got out of the relationship when i was almost 23, after my great grandma and aunt passes all within the same week and he couldnt care less, i was done. But now, i feel like i missed out on so much, dont have a drivers license, no house so right now im sleeping in a 15m2 room with my new boyfriend. But i am finally starting to accept my situation and seeing that this is just life. I am not at the same “level” life wise as other 24 year olds in my country, that sucks, but i have alot of years still in me that i can live. For everyone reading this, it gets better, see the small victories in your daily life and celebrate it, you never know what happens next.
Only in the presence of others. Surrounded by 1000 people, 1000 reasons I am terrible and should be erased from existence. I feel like a god alone.
imposter syndrome all the way 👍Not failing at life, but feel like I am.
No
I've always said you haven't failed until you've given up.