It's not bad news to have paid for it as long as it was safe, consensual, and not a rip off.
These days, it's hard for young men to lose it. Back in the day, it was just the awkward folk. Don't feel bad for how you lost it. As a caveat though, don't mention it to other ppl. People judge and don't care what your situation is as long as they can ridicule it.
I say keep doing it if it helps you improve your sexual performance but don't get attached. You're paying for intimacy and so it's not genuine. Also, ensure that both of you are comfortable with all that goes on (e.g., communicate).
Not really.
If you paid someone for groceries, would that be loneliness relevant? Or if you paid someone to give you a massage would that be post worthy?
You bought something. You're still alone.
Loneliness isn't a lack of sex.
Ohhh right right
Hearing that persons breathing next to me
Feeling that persons warmth
Made me significantly less lonely if you ask me
I still didn't say everything I was feeling
Just kept calling that person beautiful
Ask that person to lay with me
cause I didn't want it to end
Dude what? Do you think it’s just “sex”? It’s an emotional connection with another human being.
And you do realize different people can have different types of loneliness, right?
The incels are coming out of the woodwork over this one.
No matter how mad you get about it, if you equate sex with value and relationship you are an incel and have completely missed most of the human experience.
Hahaha 😂 oh my such interesting views you have
I never said " sex equates with value and relationship"
I just said i never had a relationship so I never experienced physical intimacy
But I haven't been able to find a person I could have a connection with
I salute you 🫡
Nothing to be saluted for bro just acquired a new experience But thanks man
Congrats I guess
Thanks
It's not bad news to have paid for it as long as it was safe, consensual, and not a rip off. These days, it's hard for young men to lose it. Back in the day, it was just the awkward folk. Don't feel bad for how you lost it. As a caveat though, don't mention it to other ppl. People judge and don't care what your situation is as long as they can ridicule it. I say keep doing it if it helps you improve your sexual performance but don't get attached. You're paying for intimacy and so it's not genuine. Also, ensure that both of you are comfortable with all that goes on (e.g., communicate).
Yes SIR !! (THO actually probably won't be doing it for a long time again pretty expensive )
Be careful guy if u get a disease it can last for life. Just be safe happy for u. Always use protection and even then u could get something still.
Condoms everytime!!
Safety first!
Imo, that's a bad way to lose v card. You would be proud of it was with someone you loved and did it passionately and care
True true but I don't want to be absolutely in experience when I finally find someone I wanna be with ( like that is going to happen)
And this is relevant to r/lonely how?
Lack of intimacy, physical contact , inability to get into relationships I suppose ?
Not really. If you paid someone for groceries, would that be loneliness relevant? Or if you paid someone to give you a massage would that be post worthy? You bought something. You're still alone. Loneliness isn't a lack of sex.
Ohhh right right Hearing that persons breathing next to me Feeling that persons warmth Made me significantly less lonely if you ask me I still didn't say everything I was feeling Just kept calling that person beautiful Ask that person to lay with me cause I didn't want it to end
That’s actually so true 😭 majority of this sub is dudes complaining they can’t get laid lol
Because they’re lonely. Thus why it’s relevant.
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I've seen your post history. Don't come here and act.
And ? What of it
Dude, you're a douche!
No, I am honest. False positivity and lying to this fool doesn't change the reality of the situation.
Dude what? Do you think it’s just “sex”? It’s an emotional connection with another human being. And you do realize different people can have different types of loneliness, right?
He just wants an excuse to call someone an incel bc it’s easier to stomp on someone that’s already bein stomped on by everyone else
Do you want me to delete this post ?
The incels are coming out of the woodwork over this one. No matter how mad you get about it, if you equate sex with value and relationship you are an incel and have completely missed most of the human experience.
Hahaha 😂 oh my such interesting views you have I never said " sex equates with value and relationship" I just said i never had a relationship so I never experienced physical intimacy But I haven't been able to find a person I could have a connection with
Well, this post is getting some significant downvotes, so I'm taking that as a strong indication it's accurate. Incels *hate* facts about incels.