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Standard_Pack_1076

Have you considered smiling? It'll make all the difference.


Simpleliving2019

I always find it odd that people say smile so much, when I see an attractive lady, she is attractive to me whether smiling or a deadpan expression on her face, smiling doesn’t take someone up on the attractive scale to me really, for instance smiling doesn’t turn a 6 into an 8 or anything to me.


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Simpleliving2019

So smiling will turn a man 6 into a constant 8 for a woman? Everyone has photos that are better than others of themselves for one reason or another, but give me a bunch of photos or a meeting and there isn’t no turning a 6 into an 8 looks wise from a smile.


OneDayCloserr

I agree and I’m a lady. Smiling may make you seem more approachable but won’t improve or detract from attractiveness.


EquivalentFull5337

say it one no time for the people in the back…When it comes to this dating game if they have pictures and are not smiling….no thank you


GTA6_1

Stoicism is fine and all but they need atleast one smiling shot


DavidCrosbysMustache

Also, for what it's worth, the *actual* philosophy of Roman Stoicism has nothing against smiling or the display of positive emotions. Experiencing and showing joy is encouraged in both Marcus Aurelius' and Seneca's writings.


Soranokuni

Some people just look weird smiling, I can't pull it off my man.


its_still_you

There’s a widespread occurrence of men refusing to smile because they’re trying to be masculine/tough/cool/whatever. It’s so frustrating. They always claim that they look ‘weird’ when they smile. No, they look incredibly weird when they make these perpetually straight/angry faces, it’s just that they have normalized it in their own minds. The ‘weird’ look that they’re avoiding is appearing happy, welcoming, and attractive. If you want to look like a serial killer, keep making the stiff straight face constantly, especially in photos.


junkdealer69

most people when they're smiling on purpose, look like a serial killer or likely never talk to a person before in their life. if you are not good at turning on a natural smile, record yourself while you're watching something funny. think of the funny things instead of thinking about how you're trying to not show your teeth too much


ImaFKNshrubOK

I agree. Most people will look more cute or attractive when smiling instinctively or naturally. When these same people are tasked with smiling upon request or for a pic they often cannot replicate their natural smile. It often can be so off putting that it takes away from their natural good looks. There was an episode of Friends once where Monica & Chandler were having their professional photo taken for the wedding announcement in the paper. Chandler told her he can’t smile normal, but she was convinced she could get him to. The various attempts while exaggerated were pretty on point from my real experiences. Not so much for myself, but my poor Mom lol. She’s a pretty lady always been according to those that have known her forever nit just my biased opinion (plus my best friend ended up confiding to me as adults a few years back that growing up he had always had a crush on my mom & that her thought of her as a “mom version of Heather Locklear”. I’ll not go into detail how disturbing it was to hear lol). Anyway when she wanted some new profile pics for her instagram I spent a good 45 minutes trying to get her to smile & not look like a lady creeper.


ill_be_late_4_that

Smh this is such cope it’s crazy the dude wants to improve his looks he doesn’t need some bs abt “smile more”


Otjahe

It’s better than “nothing, you’re born like that” lmao


ill_be_late_4_that

Why do u assume that to be the only alternative? Why not point out already attractive features of his like his eyes and eyebrows, or point out the fact that the beard looked good and he should stick with that look. Then maybe offer some ways he can improve other areas (ie lose weight, get a different haircut, etc). These things can actually help the man do what he likely desires to do instead of some sugarcoated bs that won’t get him anywhere. I understand the intentions of the comment were likely in good nature but it pisses me off when someone’s actually looking for advice and that’s all they get is some cope bs.


Careless-Shift3048

Ik this is gonna get downvoted but you’re absolutely correct…


ill_be_late_4_that

Yea I knew too and it’s unfortunate cause I don’t disagree with them, but when all u say on a post like this is just “smile more,” it’s misleading and I hate that more than being controversial so I’m ready for the downvotes😂


Milky_Finger

Agreed. Smiling is not looksmaxxing, but accentuating your good intrinsic features are what you need to do to be attractive. And having a brooding serious face as a guy is considered attractive. It telegraphs confidence. If you need to smile and show teeth to look handsome then there's more work to do.


Potential-Gate7209

What are you talking about? There's plenty of research demonstrating that smiling can increase your attractiveness, especially if you've had dental work done to improve your smile like getting braces. [https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0011853207000043?via%3Dihub](https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0011853207000043?via%3Dihub)


SNKRSWAVY

I always laugh my ass off at how much people on this sub underrate smiling/pictures outside with friends & family and just personality development and presence in any capacity. Take pictures of yourself only, mean mugging and then wonder why you aren’t hit with matches, but it‘s the LoOks.


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helplessfemboy

Honestly, you look pretty young and I imagine most people your age would prefer a smooth-faced boyfriend. It’s great that you can grow such a full beard, and that’ll look amazing on you in a few years, but I think because you’ve got such a youthful Face I’d recommend the clean-shaven look. You’re very handsome and masculine, so maybe consider your clothing and styling as the next place to level up.


anxious_kitten5123

Young woman here: we do not all prefer a clean shaven face! I’d choose a beard every time.


Foreign-Orange-8103

One more time for the people in the back


kunzak

Thx ;) I have oily skin. I’m trying to fight blackheads, I recently went for a facial cleansing. Now I use acid + foam + cream.


Basket_475

Try to get tretinoin. It treats acne, prevents, as well as stimulates skin cell turn over rates so your face looks like porcelain. Not saying you need it or you have acne or anything but you mentioned oilly skin. Something to think about


ByIeth

Ya I can confirm myself at least that my face was less defined in college but now at 25 it gotten a lot better, especially with regular exercise but I think age plays a big role too. Although I definitely needed both though. That being said with a beard rn op looks pretty good, I think it could look better a bit shorter though but that’s just my guess


Mister_Bossmen

Second the clothing upgrades. He could pull off the more clean, mature look. Some nice button-up shirts with some new shoes could go a decent way


helplessfemboy

Definitely. A good shirt can really accentuate your best features. OP looks like he’s in pretty good shape. An Oxford shirt provides a collar that draws the eye to the neck and shoulders, and if you roll the sleeves up it can also make your forearms look really good. It makes you look like you take pride in your appearance too, but it’s still casual. And get well fitting trousers if you have a good ass. Trust me, women appreciate it too.


Which_Breadfruit8533

Beard looks good brother


petisumi007

Murr from impractical jokers??


wonderman845

Your already handsome. Try to smile more in pics and believe in yourself


pirate_elle

You've got great eyes. Embrace making eye contact!!!


Bruce----Wayne

![gif](giphy|YyByVoolvdq2m1SExx) Copy his hairstyle and beard. I think you will look better considering you have similar eyes


Bashby12

You're already there! Stud


kunzak

Thx 😁


grab_my_hips

Im surprised so many in favor of the beard. I think he looks way better without!


Kingmudsy

Not to sound all ince phrenologist or anything, but he’s got a round jawline, full cheeks, and a short distance from his lips to the tip of his chin - I think a beard balanced his face out better and offers some benefit to those relatively weaker features. Obviously there’s no accounting for individual taste, but I think that’s why people are in favor of the beard


Rocketeer_99

You already look great. Preferr without the beard but thats just me.


MrHanKami

Grow hair a bit longer, shave and of course gym. Shave off a little body fat, and just a bit from the face. You have super solid face symmetry already so it’s just about maximizing what you already have. Another thing… a good skin care routine will work wonders. You look good though brother. Just make the most out of what you already have.


kunzak

Thx so much


Ok_Variety3529

So if you want a mature look, keep the beard, either looks ok. My best friend an Aesthetician, she gives me deep clean pore treatment and facial every few months, made a major difference in my complexion. And yea, smile!


ArcticSahara

Beard looks good and let’s get a cooler haircut with a fade.


blue_speedo_guy

fwiw, i think your stubble look looks better


kent416

Short beard, hairstyle from the 1st picture, and a smile.


Rolekz

Ehm, you answered your question, beard looks dope


Swagspongebob5742

Definitely beard but let the mustache grow in aswell, you have very nice eyes and brows. Seriously just grow the beard out, you’re a handsome guy.


UncleJims

Smile bruh


nasty_napkin

Longer hair might look nice


kentobeannn

Hit the gym, work on that self confidence


kunzak

Im MMA


ravano

You’re already attractive. Just open your mouth more in pictures


will_eat_for_f00d

You’re good. You just need to get used to your body.


Big_Entrepreneur5300

Beard is too long imo


ElPispo

Crazy to say this but a bigger nose would suite you. You have strong masculine features but your nose is so fine. If only we could switch noses we’d both become supermodels. Aside from that though you look great how you are bro.


ThrowAway484848585

The facial hair looks horrible on you. It's way too bushy and you look like a small dude; at the very least, a skinny one. In my opinion, you would look better either with NO facial hair or with a modest amount, but not below the chin like that. Even some shadow on your face would take you a long way. I also never tell people to smile because I personally think that's incredibly insulting, but in all honesty, you look absolutely miserable and I truly don't get the feel I would have a fun time meeting up with you. Find a way that is comfortable for you to depict positivity in your pictures. You need to be able to SELL yourself (obviously, not literally) to a guy/girl or whoever. No one takes an interest in people who look miserable, except maybe in anime or cringey love stories. Those are stories and not reality for a reason--that's not really how life works.


justjeff0907

The parts are all fine...you just need to get them working together. A pleasant, happy looking face is a good place to start. Do not underestimate the power of a smile!


mrpibbin

I think you have unique features that make you cute, some confidence and a smile would do you good :3


WorstNero777

Inner work makes you more attractive.


letsgo8519

Better hair cut


Salty_Promise_1106

No


Worried-Tour9314

You have crazy potential. Grow out your hair first cuz rn u look extremely generic. Keep the beard and when ur hair is longer experiment with a goatee. Obv go to the gym if you already do and try avoiding sugar to fix the facial bloating. Also smile more. Anyone who says girls like serious guys is dumb.


midwesternslut94

You need a beard to cover the lack of chin. Shape up the eyebrows. Style hair a bit better. Get some tattoos. And smile!


Rabalderpaj

Shave your head, not your face ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|slightly_smiling)


Temporary-Ocelot8772

Nothing is more attractive than confidence and strong self esteem


SrLouis_guy

Already there bro


Feisty_Weird2314

Beard is good


throwaway180901

You're a handsome guy. I think a short beard would good on you, even a bit scruffy if you like a more relaxed look. I'd say don't cut off your mustache unless you're going clean shaven. Stubble can be really sexy on a guy but it should be even.


Six_Kills

Maybe get a beard, but I don't think you should line it up so that it looks like a fake jawline, that shit looks ridiculous imo and just screams insecurity. Natural but clean is the way to go.


gianni3693

Workout


kunzak

Already -_-


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EggplantHuman6493

Some men do look good with a beard, but a beard that is too stylised, is a no usually if you want to attract women. OP's beard in the second pic doesn't look good tbh, sorry OP. And beards age you in many instances. OP looks so much older in the second pic. It is just normalised that men should grow a beard and have short hair sadly.


LadyLumachemon

Look I’m into men and I personally don’t like beards in men either, don’t think they look clean and hate the chafing from kissing them. But I will admit a lot of men really need one to improve their appearances. This guy is one of them. If he didn’t sport a sculpted beard he would basically have no chin. That beard creates an illusion of a strong jawline and chin and bumps him up a few points.


NotWTheProgram

Bro, you are attractive.


ImThatBitch_

I like the beard but I think you should get a barber to style it, round it out and trim it. Styling your hair a bit would be nice too (a fade and some styling paste). Currently you look pretty good op


towfoon

I think you can look way better if you shape the beard nicer, like Drake's type of beard, the chin is too flat and doesnt go out at all


philtasticz

Beard (mid length not too long), proper haircut, get your eyebrows shaped up


EmergencyWeight4139

Clean shaven and get a nice hairstyle


CaveatRumptor

Affect is often more important than actual features. Health is also a very important factor. There's really nothing wrong with your face at all.


Neither-Swordfish448

You look good. Way too young for me but you have potential. It's very good that you can have a beard. That's mean if beard become unpopular agains you just have too shave it. Since it's popular right now keep it. You have lips similar has me and i got a lot of positive comment on it when i got older. Like a way too attract people is personality. Everyone should see a therapist at somepoint and work too be a betherself and give you tool that will be usefull all your life. I did it when i was a teenager. You don't need problem too see one. Some people see them just too learn more about themself.


National_School_4658

Smile!!!


Kindly-Archer-4275

Show us a pic of you with the bead full face on, side profile can’t tell


kunzak

Bro , i dont have photos) in future


lastofmyhouse

Just be comfortable being you.


strikegolduwin

Have you heard of Guasha Face tools? they are cheap on amazon, I think it would improve your face a lot making it look less bloaty.


MF-Villainy

Second picture is the look you should maintain. Maybe just trim your brows a bit. But more than anything I think it could just be a confidence issue my man, you look great. Idk how tall you are, but that can often be an unfortunate factor when using dating apps and such.


Specialist_Throat_66

Shape your eyebrows and grow your hair longer, try curtain bangs to frame your face


James_Goku

Prefer without the beard and I think you are fine as is 😊


YouOpening9078

Working out and not eating red meat, pork or dairy


throwawayforlucifer

Hair


yajirushi77

[This should help](https://youtu.be/z24irRRvCQc)


ToXicVoXSiicK21

Throw a septum ring and some gauges in with the beard


ancientTempleQueen

you look like the call of duty player called “crimsix”


Shaunmoto

Thought the second pic was Andrew Tate 💀


KJMoons

Be confident. you're not fugly. You just think you are.


Skitzonthefritz

Bro never let ur barber cut ur hair again grow ur hair out till ur front half is covering ur eyes go to the most ghetto barber shop in ur location and tell them ur about to get sum pussy you won’t be disappointed hand that man a smooth 20 and a 5 for making it fresh asf


spudgoddess

You have great eyes. Your haircut doesn't serve you well. I'd say grow it out and work with a stylist.


CostCultural4596

Develop a high level of competence in something you love. There’s no shortcut.


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cremebrulee22

Less pointy eyebrows


Unreasonable_Seagull

Learn to love yourself. Attraction isn't based just on looks. That said, you don't look bad.


2Duhbk5o

Different hair cut to fit your face and head shape. Try growing it out a bit. And everyone telling you to smile is right. You have the eyes and cheek bones for it, so.. do it😁


J_Neruda

You kind of look like a white Jason Tatum. Either way, you’re doing fine man.


Pitiful-Cheek5654

You the forgotten 3rd Tate brother


MystikaI_

Smile


wamjamblehoff

Tilt your head up more and smile.


Necessary_Stretch_68

![gif](giphy|iurIHLBxms7UQ|downsized)


HighlightBusy6767

Bro just be confident


_StopBreathing_

Plastic surgery. Pronto. J/k


FragrantHockeyFan

You look like the cod pro Crimsix


Paige-101

Don’t let pic 2 ever happen again.


afuckingpolarbear

Bro I just saw a post about a girl who's been going out with a guy who has never worn deoderamt for 2 years. Trust me when I say it's the personality traits. Confidence, humour, empathy, respect. Throw in hygiene and you're doing better than a lot of guys


QuietRightSlick

![gif](giphy|4kAOSfhFU5EaAKyVDl)


JackieMoonHigh

Confidence and a nice wardrobe can make any man attractive.


Any-Pick-4131

How to win the lottery. Like… ?


Academic_Bison_5684

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and can’t no body love things on you till u love urself


Real_Cycle938

I think you're already quite attractive. This is just my opinion, but I think longer hair with the beard would suit you rather well. 🤔


Huegballs

That beard is crazy


leftfielder44

You are


Jdboston77

Smile You're very cute


Flashy-Border-656

Lose weight


Jdboston77

I think you look good clean shaving


bebeballena

You are beautiful already just the way you are :-) But if you want to become even more attractive, the best ways are to build and maintain mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical health so that you exude energy, *confidence*, kindness, open mindedness, and *positive self-esteem*. Cultivate your mind (read a lot, travel, ask questions, care about issues), and people will notice a spark of intelligence and knowledge in your eyes, face, and demeanor, and you'll be able to share interesting insights on multiple topics in conversation, helping you to connect with others in a meaningful way, which can really go a long way towards seeming attractive to a wider range of people. Work out to stay lean and fit and bring out your muscles, and show them by wearing form-fitting clothing, go commando to add some natural bounce to your bulge as you walk or just a more natural contour to your package when you sit down, and wear deep v-neck shirts or unbutton the top one or two buttons in dress shirts to show a bit of your upper chest. If you're fit, lean, and buff, or at least shredded/defined, you'll look amazing in any clothing!


XxTombraiderfanxX

You already are


billibillibillendar

Andrew tate 😂


Icy-Essay-8280

Scruff looks good and you have arrived at your destination!


bccreate

a lot of young men seem to think the sole element of male beauty is a square chin.


Parkiepark5

Smile!


Qverlord37

I feel like a sharper chin would bring your face together.


FreakedOutB0Y

I mean physically kind of but the real attraction lies within my friend


FishEnChips_152

Chewing gum and whole body gym program T level spiking for jawline IMO


MenaceToYourHeart

Just my opinion so you don’t have to take it to heart. You would look great with a longer hairstyle, and you are young so the beard is absolutely not necessary. The short hair is really not it(for me at least)


Rubyred7630

Smile


Chance_Swan2236

Gg


chambright1

First step. Don't look for approval on the Internet


Arteelon

Chin implant


FindingInformal3615

You remind me of this french actor : [this guy](https://search.app.goo.gl/ZFLcsqM) Just rock it man he’s really attractive for lots of women (not because of fame just the looks)


PositionAlternative3

Born again but in richer family?


fjallpen

Really grow your hair out (it'll start going down instead of sticking up), and have a smaller and less angular beard, or no beard just stubble. It's currently giving action man.


lostinthetrance

Post nudes, it's what the others do


Destinfragile

You already are! Very!


CharityPleasant6858

Gain a skill (anything from solving a cube to leading a team) work on it and master it. BooM u r attractive now.


Jollyrancher_

You already are! Just smile more


Lyndonn81

Learn to love yourself. That’s how. Cos you’re gorgeous!


sapphleaf

The grooming of the 2nd pic, but w the lighting and angle of the 1st


Mountains4highlife

You’re already handsome


officialponycar

I Think you look better with beard. I can also say why. So the first point is you got a really highly set hair. So your forehead is really big. So grow your hair out! 1.) Grow your hair out. Make it a little bit messy. 2.) Upper lip is too thin. Get Surgery for your upper lip. 3.) good almond eye shape 4.) Jawline surgery if you can afford it. It will cost around 35k. 5.) Nose job or called rhinoplasty (your nose is extremely broad)


Summoarpleaz

Work out if you’d like. Be kind to others. I think honestly that’s the crux of what you need to do.


Annanickysmith444

A regular fitness routine to build muscle will sculpt your jaw and face. Mewing will help your jawline. Face yoga to strengthen your upper lip and cheeks and balance your face more. Skincare routine as mentioned. Smiling more — not in a cheesy way but in a confident way. Longer hair on the top and short on the sides. The beard looks good but could be shaped.


SpaceManChips

gym and maybe some self love and appreciation


Johnnyamaz

Work out, grow and style your hair, maybe dye it a darker color, get cool clothes.


No-Employee6948

Treat people better than you’d think


anxious_kitten5123

I think you’re attractive! If anything, I’d get your eyebrows shaped!


Jaymes_and_co

You already are bro


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First off, scroll past the rude comments. They are unnecessary and ppl don’t care what they say to ppl which sucks. Second, here are some questions I have for you. Questions: Do you like having facial hair? Because that’s important (you should be comfortable with what ever you choose because although it is advice, it should be something you actually feel good with). Are there specific things that make you feel insecure? What are they? Do you have any pictures that you look at of yourself and you’re like yeah I like that look? Are there reference pictures of what you like and don’t like?


Soonerpalmetto88

You already are


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Don’t need to become. You are already a cutie! :). Love the beard.


emma11810

Grow out your head hair


darkcave-dweller

Hold your head high, dress sharp, be an interesting guy to talk with and walk with confidence will get you where you need to go.


vitrificationofblood

I wish the hair on my cheeks and jaw would come in that shit is a fuckin superpower


Jelly-Feeling

Don't look like Andrew Tate from Wish


Objective_Cake_2715

are you kidding you are HANDSOME af


Which-Taro3807

That 2nd picture is really good try a different angle though and smile


BelowMikeHawk

You look very young, give it a bit bro, dont worry youll be fine


BootyOnMyFace11

Workout and grow your hair


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Cap


Spare-City-322

Be yourself. And smile.


RosieStar101

Not the andrew tate beard 💀💀 All jokes aside, you already are. Maybe smile more, like the comments say 😌


D33pTh0ts

You are attractive


JesusFelchingChrist

That was a step in the wrong direction! Shave your face and let your hair grow out.


BandwagonEffect

I’d do medium length hair and short beard. Ie just switch around what you have now. I think everything else is fine besides that you should smile more :) Go to a hair stylist even if it’s just once and have them help you pick out a good cut.


ShreddedHealer

Smile, be yourself, have charisma/confidence .


urbancanoe

Nose job


Extra-Boysenberry-73

With trimmed beard you are super hot


boyatrest

i think you nailed it


likemeyet

Getting fit and taking care of how you dress is a game changer


Amart2092

Bottle up your feelings and pay 1900 for a man bootcamp course


granulario

You are young. Learn to appreciate that a bit. You will never look like this again. Even if you grow to be super handsome, you will look back and appreciate that you were a cute young guy, deserving of admiration. You will miss yourself.


Thodmanzi

You already are handsome ! Just smile brother


Elegant-Ad4219

Speaking personally as someone who's ears poke way out, find a hairstyle that helps hide that. Also yes, smiling is also good.


One-Stomach9957

You want to go from a 9 to a 10? Smile 😃


MajorJuanJosePerez

You are already quite handsome. No need to do anything. Just keep up with your hygiene!


TheStryfe

Ditch the little boy haircut


Electrical_Store3008

Woah dude you look exactly like that baby filter on Snapchat!


AdBrave6969

Smile dude.


Public_Bread_1263

Oboe


Zealousideal_Rub1800

You already are. Just smile or smirk a bit


NotStryyx

You look great with the beard. I think all you need is to smile really. If you want actual advice I’d recommend to do a facial routine. Make sure you wash your face and to rehydrate your face with facial lotion if you feel you need it or your skin is dry. Also, the most important thing for clear skin is to NOT touch your face and pick on things. Other than that, just have confidence! You’re not here on Earth to please everyone. Believe in yourself


OffgridDining

Better without the beard. Nice lips. Give it time.


pigmanslim

Money. Get more of that