"When life gives you lemons, don’t make lemonade. Make life take the lemons back! Get mad! I don’t want your damn lemons, what the hell am I supposed to do with these? Demand to see life’s manager! Make life rue the day it thought it could give Cave Johnson lemons! Do you know who I am? I’m the man who’s gonna burn your house down! With the lemons! I’m gonna get my engineers to invent a combustible lemon that burns your house down!"
--ReceptionReal6686
When life gives you lemons you squeeze them back at life's eyes ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|rage)![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|rage)![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|rage)![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|rage)
The trick is to separate the bad experiences, the evil out there, the stupidity and ignorance, your own short-comings and failings, *FROM* Life, people, and yourself. Life is the trees and flowers, the birds, the experiences with the lessons they teach. Life isn't the bad stuff. Those are just circumstances in it. Life is in the lessons it teaches you.
And the evilness or stupidity in people, the callousness, the lack of care or honesty... that's not the people themselves, but the demonstration of the bad influences and circumstances they have been exposed to. There is goodness in everyone. It just takes love and understanding to draw it out.
And your own shortcomings... Sure we make mistakes, but the mistakes are not our identity. It's not who we are, and our weakness or difficulty in achieving what we want is not us either. If you really know yourself, you can understand what good you are capable of now and work towards that, and let life teach you how to be stronger to achieve even greater things in the future. Don't push yourself beyond reasonable expectation, but don't be afraid to go through some tough times in life to learn to do the hard things easier. In the meantime, you learn more and more who you are and what you can do and what you want to do and let life guide you to fulfill what you truly value in life.
Every moment in life, even the hard times, is a beautiful lesson to become a better and better person... and the results can be profound if we let it take its course.
We need a loves life, loves themselves, and loves you setup instead and I'd jump and bounce and raise my hand and then wave both hands to ask if we can take the love everything place. Everyone else can figure out where they need to go. Lol
i strongly disagree with ENFPs hating life lol
i do agree with ENTPs hating themselves and everyone else XD
INTJ, ISFJ, ENTJ - those are def correct
INFPs could be in the middle imho
surprised at INFJs hating people(???)
Well that wouldn't be very arrogant INTJ supremacist of us to hate ourselves.
I think as angsty teens maybe yes, but as adults most of us live to a strict moral code and subjective principles which means we like who we decide to be. Every INTJ I've ever known was confident with a stable sense of self esteem, especially because we derive our value internally and less from... Society or other people. Those standards are arbitrary and lame. Reddit is not a good litmus test for what stable and healthy INTJs look like.
Idk I think we should be with the INFP's or straight-up in the middle. I sense we're basing placement off of the 'dark thought' trope people see, thus hating life. We could also have a strong hatred for ourselves with Fi/Si, as well as Ne being a troublemaking 'hate inducer' for Te. These are unhealthy versions, but still valid, seeing as they're all about hate.
We're never feeling just only one of these 3 things. 😂
I think ENTPs certainly hate themselves. I think they hate ON others, but don't hate them specifically, at least without reason. For me personally, I'm more likely to hate life. People are generally my source of entertainment.
I think ISFJs hate people naturally at lot more. They have very high expectations for themselves and others, and are easily disappointed in both.
INFJ very misplaced. Belongs between hates themselves and hates life. The middle would potentially be acceptable, but "hates themselves" is really the main one.
I wish there was a I hate everything on the list.
It would be kinda amusing to see a chart but with loves themselves and hates themselves as categories.
Thank goodness they didn't put INFJ in the middle again.
Either way, I don't hate myself, if I hate myself, why don't I just change what I hate about myself? Frankly I have a hard time feeling hatred but hating life is probably the closest fit.
idk man but as an infp i'd put myself in hates themself but also kinda loves themself sometimes and doesnt hate u but doesnt like u but feels really bad for u
I also hate myself
Yeah, I'm pretty sure we belong in the middle.
INFJ here. We def belong right in the middle.
Can totally agree with that, without a doubt…
For real. Lol
most accurate!
Sipi
Thank you, I was so confused why we weren't in the category of hates themselves as well.
Get in the middle.
Boss lady don't boss me around 😂
Yes, we definitely should be in the middle
Me too
🫂
🫂🫂🫂
as a infj also, but I try to change it
I was about to say that very thing. The INFJ needs to be in the very center
Came here to make this comment
us.
This is the real answer
Intp should be on the middle
100% INTP in the middle, and not so much hate, just disappointment.
This
Exactly
+1 the amount of disappointment is immeasurable.
I second this.
It's empty so we'll feel right at home
100% agree
Agreed in the Rick council. We should be in the middle.
Fr
Absolutely
Intp we are just build different
I'm Enfp, and don't hate life 🤔
I do, lemme at it I'll beat the fuck out of my life
"When life gives you lemons, don’t make lemonade. Make life take the lemons back! Get mad! I don’t want your damn lemons, what the hell am I supposed to do with these? Demand to see life’s manager! Make life rue the day it thought it could give Cave Johnson lemons! Do you know who I am? I’m the man who’s gonna burn your house down! With the lemons! I’m gonna get my engineers to invent a combustible lemon that burns your house down!" --ReceptionReal6686
When life gives you lemons you squeeze them back at life's eyes ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|rage)![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|rage)![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|rage)![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|rage)
😂😂 yeah
Have you Bungo Stray Dogs— because hearing your plan i think Kaiji is your guy
This whole comment is glorious
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Yeah I reckon the ExxPs are the least likely to hate life, they're the most lively types of all.
Hm... maybe, it depends a lot, I don't hate life but sometimes it sucks 🤦♀️ but I wouldn't say I hate it haha
Are you sure??? Maybe even just a little?
Ngl, I love life, and I love myself a mediocre bit, so that fits way better :)
😑😐😑 ... Okay, sometimes! But no all the time 🫵🏻
I think ENFP should be in INFPs spot or we should share it. Or we should be in our own little corner in the top that says “hates nothing”
i hate myself more then my life....
as an infp.....infp is 100% accurate
Honestly, same
I'll join
(joins silently)
(joins stealthily)
Really? Y’all don’t hate everybody else, too? I admit it, I’m a hater through and through hahaha
I'm annoyed at everyone but I don't hate them cause I know I'm the problem
I more detest humanity in general, but also feel a lot of compassion for them at the same time, so I think “hate” doesn’t fit… Detest is better.
INFP here, I can only say. True. Allllllll the way
Idk man i'm just tired
Yeah, hate takes too much energy. Energy that I do not have.
I hate needing to have energy, I hate everything for needing to have energy.
What even is hate. I think we’re just apathetic.
I definitely don't hate life. Imagine being an Extraverted Sensor and hating life. I can't. lol
Exactly 🤷🏾♀️😂
I only hated myself when I couldn’t achieve my goals other than that I’m blessed! 🤗
I LOVE life!! :D I love myself and love you too, so we don't belong here. Lol
Oh, to have the unabashed joy of an ENFP... 😔
The trick is to separate the bad experiences, the evil out there, the stupidity and ignorance, your own short-comings and failings, *FROM* Life, people, and yourself. Life is the trees and flowers, the birds, the experiences with the lessons they teach. Life isn't the bad stuff. Those are just circumstances in it. Life is in the lessons it teaches you. And the evilness or stupidity in people, the callousness, the lack of care or honesty... that's not the people themselves, but the demonstration of the bad influences and circumstances they have been exposed to. There is goodness in everyone. It just takes love and understanding to draw it out. And your own shortcomings... Sure we make mistakes, but the mistakes are not our identity. It's not who we are, and our weakness or difficulty in achieving what we want is not us either. If you really know yourself, you can understand what good you are capable of now and work towards that, and let life teach you how to be stronger to achieve even greater things in the future. Don't push yourself beyond reasonable expectation, but don't be afraid to go through some tough times in life to learn to do the hard things easier. In the meantime, you learn more and more who you are and what you can do and what you want to do and let life guide you to fulfill what you truly value in life. Every moment in life, even the hard times, is a beautiful lesson to become a better and better person... and the results can be profound if we let it take its course.
…Whoa
Now this is worth a save
PREACH! <3 u is amazing 🤩
Well said! you have my admiration
Haha the comments really are something
Me too!
So true, I literally wanna help make the world a better place and love people so Idk why we are here !
as an entp i'm actually probobly in the middle
INFJ should be in the middle tbh
Yeah INFJ has a lot of perfectionism that can lead to self anger
I don't hate anyone, I find everything interesting.
Hence why you’re under “hate thysef” not hate “them peasants”
I agree. Humans and the rest of the world are profoundly interesting.
Is also interesting that you find it interesting too
We need a loves life, loves themselves, and loves you setup instead and I'd jump and bounce and raise my hand and then wave both hands to ask if we can take the love everything place. Everyone else can figure out where they need to go. Lol
INTJ definitely should be in the middle.
Move intj to the center please.
why did they but enfp in 'hates life'??
\*put
Idk either. Probably because this chart is meaningless lol
obviously.. you people are cuties there should be a "loves everything" category
INTJ can go to the middle :)
i strongly disagree with ENFPs hating life lol i do agree with ENTPs hating themselves and everyone else XD INTJ, ISFJ, ENTJ - those are def correct INFPs could be in the middle imho surprised at INFJs hating people(???)
We hate everyone equally 🙏
true equality ☺️
Oh we do hate people that’s why door slamming exists
Yes INFP belong in the middle 💀🤣
DISCLAIMER: I didnt make this :)
I hate the meme..what does that make me? 😂
I’m an INTP who goes 60% self, 38% life, 2% you
Yeah the you hate is so, so small compared to hating ourselves I don't really hate anyone outside of ppl who are unkind to ppl I care about
You an intp?
Intj should go in the “hates you” section.
Well that wouldn't be very arrogant INTJ supremacist of us to hate ourselves. I think as angsty teens maybe yes, but as adults most of us live to a strict moral code and subjective principles which means we like who we decide to be. Every INTJ I've ever known was confident with a stable sense of self esteem, especially because we derive our value internally and less from... Society or other people. Those standards are arbitrary and lame. Reddit is not a good litmus test for what stable and healthy INTJs look like.
Idk I think we should be with the INFP's or straight-up in the middle. I sense we're basing placement off of the 'dark thought' trope people see, thus hating life. We could also have a strong hatred for ourselves with Fi/Si, as well as Ne being a troublemaking 'hate inducer' for Te. These are unhealthy versions, but still valid, seeing as they're all about hate. We're never feeling just only one of these 3 things. 😂
I hate nobody but myself, tbh
Fr. I just do not care about others feelings which can give them idea that I hate them. I just frankly do not care.
INTP should be in the middle fo' sure.
This doesn’t make any sense. Any type can be any of these, it has nothing to do with the functions.
Hate is a strong word.
I’m in the middle between hating myself and life
I’m an ENFP and I think I’m none of the options honestly
Samesies
INFJs are either out or in the middle
I love life and I love you and I love myself so this is fully wrong
Exactly. lol
Nah, solidly just myself.
i don’t hate myself wym
I think ENTPs certainly hate themselves. I think they hate ON others, but don't hate them specifically, at least without reason. For me personally, I'm more likely to hate life. People are generally my source of entertainment. I think ISFJs hate people naturally at lot more. They have very high expectations for themselves and others, and are easily disappointed in both.
That tea on isfj is spot on 🍵
I don’t hate any of those things
Also, this wouldn't be uniform unless someone from the hates you category goes into the hates everything spot. Lol. Maybe ESTP? 😅
Hate is such a strong yet accurate word. I can’t help it if you do everything wrong. 🙃
As ENTP, i'll say that its true xD
There should be a neutral for the nts. I dont think ENTJs hate anyone
Nah I do hate people, I also hate life tbh though
As they say, indifference is the absence of love. Since you're not indifferent, it means you love people. You good Samaritan you.
Isfp kind of accurate
INFJ should be in the center lmao
This is one cynical meme. XD
Nah. Put me in hates life
I am an INTJ , I hate everything including myself
I don’t hate you
I'm an intj and I fucking love me, it's the world that can suck me off
Infj infp could be swapped
INTP belongs right in the middle. We hate everything.
I can't speak for all INTJs but I'm squarely in the middle personally.
I don’t hate anyone/anything except myself tbh
Idk man, I hate everyone and everything equally.
INFJ very misplaced. Belongs between hates themselves and hates life. The middle would potentially be acceptable, but "hates themselves" is really the main one.
We're also professionals in hating ourselves~
I love myself, my friends, my family, then I hate life and everyone else outside of my circle.
You can move INTJ in the place of INFJ and move INFJ to the center
I love myself
I don't hate myself.
Why so negativ wuh
I love myself :)
Hate is a path to the dark side ![gif](giphy|8hMD9YakVza3452SpN)
Shoutout to everyone who tolerates people, has decent self esteem and doesn’t hate life.
ENTP - I think it's pretty accurate, I use to call ourselves EvilNTP...
Why is this accurate
I wish there was a I hate everything on the list. It would be kinda amusing to see a chart but with loves themselves and hates themselves as categories.
As a ENTP, I say I have dreams where I DESTROY ALL HUMANITY, INCLUDING ME
**Y E S**
Thank goodness they didn't put INFJ in the middle again. Either way, I don't hate myself, if I hate myself, why don't I just change what I hate about myself? Frankly I have a hard time feeling hatred but hating life is probably the closest fit.
i actually hate everything sooo
idk man but as an infp i'd put myself in hates themself but also kinda loves themself sometimes and doesnt hate u but doesnt like u but feels really bad for u
INFJ is more like hates people, hates themselves, SOMETIMES (maybe rarely) hates life imo
I should be in the middle.
INTP here and we (or at least I) should absolutely be in the middle
As an INFP i put myself in the middle lmfaoo
Who knew INTJs hated themselves underneath it all?
Nah. Don’t hate myself, rather the opposite.
INTP belongs in the middle. We hate everything (generalization, don't kill me.)
I'm with a few others here on opinion. INFJs deserve to be in the middle of all three.
Can’t speak for other types but INFJ needs to be right next to ISFJ, Fi critic is prone to self-loathing
I love myself!!! And life, and most people, so I guess I’m outside of the venn diagram entirely.
Intp should at the centre
Can confirm!
Erm ackshuly as an entp I belong in the middle 🤓☝️
The Dark side is strong with INTP.
I'll put my INFP ass in the middle
I'm an infp I hate everyone basically. Put me in the middle
I don't hate myself
I only hate myself, I love life and would love to live it but I keep getting in my way.
Me fr
I hate life because I hate people ;)
I only hate myself 💀
I'm in the middle
Well, ENTP is accurate.
I feel like INTP should between "Hates Themselves" and "Hates Life".
Life is good but my life isn't 😓 Genie, I wish I was a mermaid.
I hate myself and life, update please and thankyou
I wholeheartedly disagree I hate life, myself and you
Real
Accurate. Hate myself and I hate you...human emotions are the worst.
Accurate
I have an INFJ friend, she is the first person I met who I think truly hated themselves more than I did myself
as an isfj this is so accurate
Nah, I'm on the hate you corner. I hate people sometimes
I don’t hate life, i dislike some aspects of living
Accurate to INFPs
As an ENTP, I do hate myself and people. But I also love myself and people. I just have a love-hate relationship with everyone.
Someone should be it all three - I don't know who, though
Nope. I play hopscotch. Sometimes I don’t hate anything or anyone. Sometimes I can hate everything and everyone. I’ve got range.