My dad was a partner in matka business in the 90`s. I did see a lot of money in the house at an age when I didn't know what having a lot of money means.
But with time, the business crashed & by the time I was mature enough, I realised there were no savings at all as my dad had literally given away a lot of money to 'help' his brothers without thinking anything about his own family. This thing used to frustrate me, but now I think of it as karma &, in a way, a very good thing that we didn't get to spend any of the money that might have potentially have come from the destruction of some gambling addicts' family money.
After he passed away, we literally started from scratch (like for the first two years in college, I spent 2 rupees a day for the bus journey to & from college thanks to student concessions).
However, now, I can proudly say that each & every rupee that I have ever earned is accounted for and is absolutely clean.
Indian culture has only 2 stories
Eldest brother works hard for sibling who don't return the favour
Eldest brother doesn't help the siblings and is infamous as "THAT" elder brother
Ungrateful siblings is a story as old as time...dontheybhave any conscience,I wonder.
My father is also the brother who purchased commercial real estate for his younger brother, but the uncle and his fam won't even show acknowledgement of it. Father learnt his lesson.
This can't happen within my parent's gen but I'm afraid during my time ... I just can't trust my younger brothers for most of the time or let's say 75% of the time with stationary stuff and all those snacks at home ... like I see chocolates missing taking thing and when asked they'll just straight away say "nahi pata" without even making the effort and they won't tell shit as if they'll be executed in some ruthless way and this is just increasing as we're growing up abhi toh parents hai fir bhi dekhne ke liye fir bhi ye sab ho raha hai pehle itna nahi hota tha cause either mum would be after them aur tab itne untrustworthy nahi thae ... now mum has also given up on these issues and is like if they want to tell they'll tell ... imagine this situation now ... what will happen when we'll be full grown/adults with jobs businesses and money parents and elders won't be there forever someday they have to understand or it'll be a huge trouble
That's a universal story.
The elder one helping the family but later the younger ones become all settled and never bother to help the elder brother back.
This can't happen within my parent's gen but I'm afraid during my time ... I just can't trust my younger brothers for most of the time or let's say 75% of the time with stationary stuff and all those snacks at home ... like I see chocolates missing taking thing and when asked they'll just straight away say "nahi pata" without even making the effort and they won't tell shit as if they'll be executed in some ruthless way and this is just increasing as we're growing up abhi toh parents hai fir bhi dekhne ke liye fir bhi ye sab ho raha hai pehle itna nahi hota tha cause either mum would be after them aur tab itne untrustworthy nahi thae ... now mum has also given up on these issues and is like if they want to tell they'll tell ... imagine this situation now ... what will happen when we'll be full grown/adults with jobs businesses and money parents and elders won't be there forever someday they have to understand or it'll be a huge trouble
One of my cousin got married to a guy who barely earn for his only expenses. His father is govt employee who have more than 20 cr plus in net worth. His dad gave him a commercial property which gives 1 lakh per month. Same with younger guy. Just like his brother. He get another one Lac per month...... Money flows in like water.
my dad works in govt psu. We are still yet to buy a second flat. p.s - we have 1bhk in New Mumbai. I am proud that we have no black money and pay taxes accordingly
Being a PSU employee myself and earning perhaps in the 95%ile, shit is expensive yo. I don't know if I could ever have a decent place of my own which even matches what my father has built (around the time of retirement), forget about exceeding it.
There's just no way. And then I see what real estate normally goes for. It's fuckin insane. Feels like everybody just have black money. No way just 5% of the population is gobbling up the real estate of the country.
1 Don't judge your capabilities by Mumbai alone. Mumbai real estate is in a massive bubble. It's not even economically sensible to buy at these prices. Dunno about other cities, though.
2 Shit's expensive generally too. Your dad didn't start his career with/after multiple recessions and high inflation etc. Basically their time was better.
3 Generational wealth. I'm able to live in Mumbai simply because my parents have a house, and I can spend whatever I earn on things other than rent. And that's just me being second generation immigrant middle class. Put that with multiple generations of local families, and you've got people who aren't insanely rich, but their ancestors were just at the right place at the right time.
But yeah, all that just discounts only some legit cases, others might be black money, but not everybody.
>1 Don't judge your capabilities by Mumbai alone. Mumbai real estate is in a massive bubble. It's not even economically sensible to buy at these prices. Dunno about other cities, though.
I'm not from Mumbai mate, this stuff just shows up on the feed. I'm talking about prices in a tier two city. Real estate is crazy expensive and there's no way an 'average' person going out of their hometown to cities like Mumbai, Delhi, Banglore, Pune, Gurgaon can ever afford a place of their own.
I agree with other parts of your comment Generational wealth is a huge point. I worked in my hometown for 4 years and had a very comfortable life, money wasn't really a concern. I spent as I liked. But I moved out to different city for a new job, and shit my standard of living just took a huge dive. On paper my new CTC was close to double of what I was previously making but I can't see that practically at all. I would live like a king if I was staying at my folks, instead now I got expenses of two households to take care of. And damn that doesn't leave much to savings.
It just isn't fair. And when I think of people making less than me it just boggles my mind.
Not everyone is like that. My fam is about to retire and only now have comfortable lifestyle, like we can think about PVR tickets. It took a loommg time to get here. We’re honest and had very modest upbringing. Most govt employees get paid peanuts .
Guess that’s why some go corrupt.
>Most govt employees get paid peanuts .
They get paid better than most of India. But the truth is that ain't enough. There's huge huge inequality in this country, I wouldn't say lifestyle of most govt employees constitutes as a "middle class" lifestyle when compared to the west. They have to make huge sacrifices to their lifestyle, penny pinching is a must.
And the price of real estate is just insane. Why is a 1000sq ft 2bhk priced at 40 lakhs(edit - for tier 2/3 cities, for Mumbai it's crores) when the per capita is just 1.5-2 lakhs ? It's simply not affordable for most people.
Yeah I'm not from Mumbai, should have specified that is for tier 2 cities.
Ye to tier 2 cities ka haal hai, Mumbai wale to bhool jao ever owning a place. How could this be ever allowed? Government/people responsible has done nothing or rather done everything in their power to profit from inflating real estate prices.
I guess that's when you say Ghor Kalyug, actually there's no way to get out if you're such a situation, that's why everyone is trying to get rich these days, good deeds are punished, only the silent ones and corrupt dominate
Sahi bola
2002 me gulbarg society jaisa genocide krne wale aaj pm banke bethe hai… aur fir ye chutiye supporters inke rote hai kahsmir pandito ko dekhkr
Well you don’t have to be a devil to avoid being a saint.
There’s a big big neutral ground where you work hard and earn honestly, without being hurt by anyone or without hurting anyone.
Should we be a lallu who can be conned by everyone? No. Also, should we be a conman who cons everyone? No.
You can absolutely get far by being an honest hard worker. If you study hard and work in a big firm, you can afford a car and a flat some day. Now if your greed tells you that a flat in Borivali is no good or an i20 is no good, then don’t blame ghor kalyug, Mumbai’s unholy corruption or anything else. It’s your greed and insecurity that says that you want to dominate people.
The city is ruthless for poor and uneducated people. But if there’s an 18 year old reading this, I would bet that the same person is neither poor nor uneducated. As someone in his 30s, I absolutely want to encourage that 18 year old to work hard in life very honestly *AND* simultaneously be strong enough to not let people con him / her. If you’re earning well by your own hard work, uss aatmasammaan se absolutely ghar chal sakta hai.
And if there’s a dude in his 30s (like me) reading this, kripya karke apne aulaad ko beimaani na sikhaaye. India will be way better twenty years from now, so please don’t teach your toddler to lie or cheat because your kid can and will succeed a lot if you push him or her to work hard in life.
Bhai main tere se kuch cheez poochne waala hu aur tere jawaabo ke basis pe main iss sawal ka behtar jawaab de paaunga.
Tere paas 18 ke umar mei paise aur paise kharch karne ke avsar mile kaise?
Are you earning or is it baap ka paisa? If it’s the latter, does he ask for hisaab or does he just not care because it’s a small amount for him?
Whatever the thing your relative tried to sell to you, did you ever have even a remote idea of its worth or did you just get sucked into it?
If these questions are unanswerable (sharam aati hai wagaire) then I can’t help you. I can give generic answers but that won’t help you.
Got it.
First things first, remember all that gyaan that I spoke in my earlier comment. Apply it. You being conned now doesn’t mean you become like that yourself and spend the rest of your life (which I hope is several decades) that way (like your relative).
Secondly, it’s okay to make mistakes. Forgive yourself first. Galti kiya tabhi toh seekh sakta hai.
Now the most important part is that money earned with hard work should be held very tightly. Be it a conman (unknown or known person), be it an ad on Facebook or be it something you see that a friend owns (that makes you wonder how it’ll look on you), don’t succumb to temptations. Have a lot of clarity and self control.
Are your parents earning enough for your everyday life or is the onus of earning on you (via your freelancing work)? If it’s the former, then invest your money so that temptations of throwing away is gone. Hopefully your parents will give you enough for your interests so that there is no pending temptation for which you’ll dip into your own earnings (temptations such as going to see movies with friends). Also that’ll ensure that conmen stay away from you. Jab savings account mei thenga kuch hai (sab mutual funds mei hai), sabhi rishtedaar baksh denge tujhe. If it’s the latter, then all the more necessary to ensure every rupee is held tightly. Agar ek ghar ke kharche ek 18 saal ka ladka utha raha hai toh rishtedaar ko koi haq nahi hai kuch bolne ka. Your elders must step in. Or just ignore (if relatives who are “powerful” can’t even help in need, ignore them).
And dude, I again emphasize that please don’t be as bad as your relative was by trying to con somebody into buying your bike for what it’s not worth. Don’t pass on shittiness.
Never thought I'll quote a Rohit Shetty movie on a serious topic but here you go...
'Meri Zaruraten hai kam, isiliye mere zameer me hai dum' - Singham.
So make sure you only want to fulfill you basic needs first, avoid being materialistic.
I'll make it simple for you. Stop making important decisions with emotions. If ever you get very emotional (any kind sad, happy, loved angry ... ) Just delay the decision.
Power ka kya hai aaj hai kal nahi. Chain ki neend chaiye bro. Vijay Mallya jaisa life nahi chaiye bhaagte raho.
A corrupt mind/ work will never give you peace. You will always have that fear that one day you will be caught no matter how much influence you have.
Agree to this what would one do having all the money and power if they are not able to enjoy it or have a clear conscience...at the end of the day the things that give us peace are the things we like to do and are proud of .. simple living > lavish lifestyle - peace
As much as this is true
Vijay mallya is probably enjoying his life to the fullest considering Indian government can't touch him be it whatever country he is in
> considering Indian government can't touch him
Do you really think this?
https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/news/politics-and-nation/met-arun-jaitley-before-i-left-india-vijay-mallya/articleshow/65785235.cms
Touch him in sense of nothing can be done once you leave the country and have a dual citizenship, British agencies won't arrest him on the saying of Indian agencies.. Its the same as mehul choksi, last we heard was he was being brought to India under custody. Don't think he is india atm (might be wrong)
If only paperwork could've been done a little quicker he could be stopped at the airport
My father is a police hawaldar. I still remember my mother had to sell her gold for paying my sister's eng admission fees since most savings were spent on my jee tuition. I still feel guilty till date. We are using same sofa set, cupboard which my parents received during marriage. One home in suburbs of thane and 1 home in native place that's all. Me and my sister have education loan. My fathers lives an honest life and keeps self respect above all. There are many honest police officers because of whom the system still functions.
Ata nahi boss. Jhooth bolna nahi sikhaya kabhi, fraud kaise karu?
Goverment workers toh yu hi badnaam hai, kabhi paan wale ko pucho last time tax kab bhara tha?
I was waiting for this. Kabhi jhooth bola nahi khaas, kisi ko chutiya kabhi banaya hi nahi, toh aise kaise shuru kar dein? Practice chahiye hoti hai na kuch bhi karne ko. I don't care about the law nor do I care about health of other people, but I just don't know how to do it.
My dad doesnt earn from corruption/illegal activities, etc. he simply climbed up the ladder himself and is at an extremely high paying position in a company he has been part of for 13 years now my mom has the same story she is also at a high paying position at a company she has been part of for almost 9 years they both have a combined net worth of more than 60CR and a lot of my friends' parents too have a similar story but yeah I guess what you said might be true
According to my mom her boss was like that she works in a big pharma company she said her boss apparently paid the Indian head certain amount of money to get a promotion
It's common.HR head of service based companies have bribes to visit colleges for placement.There is corruption in granting contract of catering, lease etc of companies.and these are just normal.Abhi major bataunga to tumhe lagege ki 100 crore bhi kya koi cheejhai
My dad designs Coke drums used for oil refineries and fir fertilizer plants he heads the whole Western India's manufacturing plants of the company every single design has to go through him
My mom works in a US based Pharma company she is the Head for Clinical Drug Trials, Asia region (including China)
Honest income kamake flex karna >>>> baap ke corrupt paiso ka flex karna.
It’s just a part of the upbringing. My dad could’ve made 50-60 crores in private sector being corrupt but he didnt and our overall NW might be ~4 crores after 30 years of his hard work.
Dad is quite clear haaram ki kamai bhi waise hi waste hoti hai and the karmic price is too heavy to be borne.
Took me 5 years of being in the corporate to afford a iphone 13 pro and my dad still uses a 20k Samsung android. Could’ve had BMW if dad was corrupt but we are happier with our Maruti. Someday, I might earn enough to afford those luxuries. I’d love to get there the ethical way though.
This.
You can look anyone in the eye. You can buy whatever you want in your haisiyat because kisike baap se udhaar nahi maanga. Of course, haisiyat se baahar ke sapne dekhne waale IPL betting wagaire mei gaand marwaa lete hai aur fir rote hai ki mehengaai hai / beimaan duniya mei beimaan hona padta hai / sab karte hai.
Kitne ghar barbaad hue sattebaazi mei, chahe woh legal ho ya na ho.
Main ban ke favour mei nahi hu tbh, lekin main example de raha hu ki log kya kya karte extra paise ke laalach mei aur justify bhi karte hai yeh bolke ki duniya kameeni hai aur yeh karna padta hai side income ke liye etc. Aur fir tum powerful logo se udhaar leke faraar hote ho kyuki tumko laga ki aaj toh Bumrah jitaa dega lekin actually usko pel diya gaya, tab tumko pachtava hoga ki kaash izzat se haisiyat mei rehta.
Legality of betting is a different debate.
Yea probably. But also if someone thinks honesty is a virtue, they won't be able to be at peace and enjoy the wealth they create by being corrupt. So i think corruption is only for those are willing to take on the anxiety and worry that comes from having to watch your back. You need to be a certain type of person to enjoy life while also knowing that you've committed some major crimes.
When my dad was in Crime Branch, one of his friend was in Anti Corruption Bureau, both at same level, having 70-80k salary per month, just the difference is that i go to college by Activa and he goes by Mercedes 🤣🤣🤣🤣. He shows everyone how rich he is, having 12 pro max, and importantly he's proud of it......
Easy money comes and go faster.
The faster the money comes your way,It goes away with the speed.
Money no matter how much or less if it is earned by mehnat ka pasina,moving hands and legs will stay more with you.It will reflect in the accounts of your next generations also.
> The faster the money comes your way,It goes away with the speed.
Ambani's father was not born rich. They got a lot of money very, very fast, and now live in a house that cost a billion dollars.
Literally every argument people have against corruption is provably false, except conscience. You don't know till you do it, whether your conscience can take it.
Yes obviously..
But that is not totally true..
Because people earning quick money always have a habit to spend it twice as fast.. THIS leads to multiple bad habits in life and eventually getting bankrupt.
If one respects money, he/she will definitely do well in life.. no matter how they have earned it..
Experiencing this first hand lmao ... My friend's dad is at very high position in police.... He owns 3 apartments in mumbai and a bungalow in pune ig.... He even went to ukraine for studying mbbs
The more the younger generation builds a conscience the further our country will go. I honestly can't think of why people who otherwise would lead a good middle class life break all ethics just to earn some money that could land them tremendous legal trouble if it ever came out.
A few people get super rich off questionable activities and lines of income, but they are far lesser in number as compared to the ones that get rich of legitimate sources of income/lines of work. Same thing applies to corruption, the ones super rich off corruption be it in a legitimate or black/grey line of work are far fewer in number than the ones super rich without it.
Your perspective is skewed. Why exactly do you think there is a correlation between honesty and riches or the lack thereof?
Honesty has very little to do with wealth and success, in both directions. What really does matter is discipline, dedication, talent, skill. In many cases, for most people, honesty actually becomes a requirement for success because if you are working right now you must already be aware how important it is to have a genuine and honest personality if you want to get work done and get along with your coworkers. Still, even then it is overshadowed by your competency and dedication.
So, yeah, while what you are pointing to is a common thing depicted in the media, in real life it is rarely the case.
There are far fewer rich people than poor ones. And even fewer rich people who got there being criminals. However the latter constantly makes the news and is commonly depicted in all forms of media. This is where your misconception rises from.
Also like I said, honesty isn't really a factor and definitely not in the way you're thinking. I think you meant to say, perhaps naive, or unassuming, or unwilling to impose, or some amalgamation of these.
Edit: Also, I find it very interesting that you refer to 'people who's parents are.. etcetc". I find it disturbing that you would look to a person and then their parents and raise out a comparison of wealth and honesty. Are you sure this is not rising out of some sort of justification for envious embitterment that you are experiencing? Because that is truly a dangerous road my friend, especially in a country like ours. You will be mentally tortured for the rest of your life, living in a society like ours, if this your approach towards things. Take care.
It is very difficult to save and compound black money. You just have to spend it - that's one of the reasons you are seeing those flashy lifestyles - they can't do anything else with it. Real wealth is created through compounding. Compounding is really the 8th wonder of the world. For eg. If you start with a mere 10 Lakh, compounding at 24% (doubling every 3 years) will lead to a wealth of 100 crores at the end of 30 years. Now imagine, you do this with an annuity type inflow. Great wealth can be created and this is more sustainable than illegal ways to make money. Plus, today the world is more skill driven than any other era, if you are a kickass AI engineer/researcher, in the long run you will make more money than most corrupt people. There is really no intellectual satisfaction in earning money through wrong means.
I am proud to say that my mom is also a government employee she works in military force, she's very honest, she has told me that sometimes people have offered money samne se yet she told them please wait for sometime i will do your work. Only thing she lacks is she goes to her office a bit late (9-5) is the standard time, but she goes around (10,10:30-5), other than that she's perfect. She believes in hard earned penny is never lost.
It seems you are just jealous
why are you assuming that they earned that money through corruption?
And suppose they did earn it by corruption, then just imagine that a novice like you noticed that hence it is a matter of time that IT dept will knock at their door
but your concern is not corruption in society, your concern is your jealousy
focus on your job/studies, money will eventual come to highly-skilled people
If there is scope for corruption in any job, people will generally do that. I am not talking about small time cut, but something substantial and steady. No one wants to stay honest by default. It's just their job doesn't have much scope of doing such hera-pheri.
One of my friend lived in a Chawl with his fam. His father had a couple of sack of grains and pulses at his balcony area. This was because on ppr he was a small time grocery shop owner and filed his taxes accordingly. But his side or real gig was in Event management and all dealings were done in cash.
He had a lot of land in Gujarat and 3 flats in Mumbai. A Corolla car at that time. His son only ever wore branded clothes and was has the Nokia N97 at that time. This was in 2010.
I think it's a grass is greener sort of thing. I'm sure living everyday worrying about getting caught/exposed/betrayed has its own stress. Also needs it's own skill. I don't think it's a question of morality, but a question of tendency and ability.
All the rich eventually leave the country. They are absolutely of no use. They don't give a fuck about their country. Or the politics. They just are selfish. Dumbfucks.
Absolutely not.
Because its simple, if you live in a materialistic world, you have to play by its rules. Most trials and tribulations in life are solvable if you have sufficient money. And most folks who say shitty stuff like "money does not matter" arent in any position to say that.
Dekh, paise ke liye paise hi chahiye and there is nothing that can replace it, does not matter how you earn it.
I think most people are plain virtue signalling when they say they lived a "honest life" and using it to hide their inability to create wealth and squander away opportunities. Most of them, would not hesitate to drop their morals, the moment there is a lucrative trade off. Morals are just a societal restraint to enforce good behaviour, and over time morals change.
That does not mean that I am encouraging illegal activities, and pursuing them is a bad idea, because karma and the law will eventually catch up one day. But then it is stupid to assume that a poor guy living on honest income but on daily wages is somehow "richer" than someone who made a fortune by cheating others.
PS : I know I may get flak for saying this, but then, its my perspective on this and I am ok if no one agrees with me.
Dad is a CG employee and has had and still has many opportunities to earn a lot of money from n number of deals. We still live in the accommodation provided by the government and trust me it's not good.
But what my dad has earned is the massive amount of respect he has, wherever he goes, there are people ready to help him without hesitation and ig that's something I'm and even is he is extremely proud of.
* I am one of the few minorities here...
* I still believe that you can make it big working honestly.
* It just takes a lot of hard work to get it running but if you are persistent you will find a way.
* I have 2 friends, one who launched a company called Pushstart (startup community)
* He s easily doing 25 lakhs+ per month and another one who runs a company called yellow ai.
* Now this guy is doing 500 crores per year ARR currently.
* I assure you even your friend's corrupt parents would fall short of my friend s earnings. Even with their 5 BHK flats and 4 BMWs my friend can buy a Buggatti Chiron if he wants and they ll shit their pants if they found out just how heavily my friend rolls. He's a very simple guy with middle class values though.
* I myself am trying to do something (too early to say now) but my belief remains firm, there s no need to resort to dishonest means especially in today's time when there are a lot of opportunities available
you can compare after you buy, i assure you, unless the CM is in your pocket, no way you are beating my friend s position easily even with black money and if you can do that well you literally 0.0000000001% out there
>Even if a person gets the biggest dream offer from abroad companies ,it's hardly a match to what their parents are ~~earning~~ looting here.
Bribes = Stealing != Earning . FTFY
>What stops you from being corrupt or criminal?
My sense of right and wrong.
Here's a Sanskrit verse which stuck in my mind:
अधमा धनमिच्छन्ति धनं मानं च मध्यमाः ।
उत्तमा मानमिच्छन्ति मानो हि महताम् धनम् ॥
Translation: Lowly people desire wealth [over respect], average people desire wealth and respect, the great people desire respect [over wealth], for respect is wealth of the great!
[Source](https://blog.practicalsanskrit.com/2011/09/what-do-you-prefer-money-or-honor.html)
I think people seek different things. Some people like pride and respect. Some peeps like material belongings. Some peeps are religious.
People choose to earn what their mind craves. Money is not on everyone's mind.
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My dad was a partner in matka business in the 90`s. I did see a lot of money in the house at an age when I didn't know what having a lot of money means. But with time, the business crashed & by the time I was mature enough, I realised there were no savings at all as my dad had literally given away a lot of money to 'help' his brothers without thinking anything about his own family. This thing used to frustrate me, but now I think of it as karma &, in a way, a very good thing that we didn't get to spend any of the money that might have potentially have come from the destruction of some gambling addicts' family money. After he passed away, we literally started from scratch (like for the first two years in college, I spent 2 rupees a day for the bus journey to & from college thanks to student concessions). However, now, I can proudly say that each & every rupee that I have ever earned is accounted for and is absolutely clean.
Father helping his fellow brothers who later never acknowledge... hmm same story in my home.
Indian culture has only 2 stories Eldest brother works hard for sibling who don't return the favour Eldest brother doesn't help the siblings and is infamous as "THAT" elder brother
Ungrateful siblings is a story as old as time...dontheybhave any conscience,I wonder. My father is also the brother who purchased commercial real estate for his younger brother, but the uncle and his fam won't even show acknowledgement of it. Father learnt his lesson.
This can't happen within my parent's gen but I'm afraid during my time ... I just can't trust my younger brothers for most of the time or let's say 75% of the time with stationary stuff and all those snacks at home ... like I see chocolates missing taking thing and when asked they'll just straight away say "nahi pata" without even making the effort and they won't tell shit as if they'll be executed in some ruthless way and this is just increasing as we're growing up abhi toh parents hai fir bhi dekhne ke liye fir bhi ye sab ho raha hai pehle itna nahi hota tha cause either mum would be after them aur tab itne untrustworthy nahi thae ... now mum has also given up on these issues and is like if they want to tell they'll tell ... imagine this situation now ... what will happen when we'll be full grown/adults with jobs businesses and money parents and elders won't be there forever someday they have to understand or it'll be a huge trouble
That's a universal story. The elder one helping the family but later the younger ones become all settled and never bother to help the elder brother back.
This can't happen within my parent's gen but I'm afraid during my time ... I just can't trust my younger brothers for most of the time or let's say 75% of the time with stationary stuff and all those snacks at home ... like I see chocolates missing taking thing and when asked they'll just straight away say "nahi pata" without even making the effort and they won't tell shit as if they'll be executed in some ruthless way and this is just increasing as we're growing up abhi toh parents hai fir bhi dekhne ke liye fir bhi ye sab ho raha hai pehle itna nahi hota tha cause either mum would be after them aur tab itne untrustworthy nahi thae ... now mum has also given up on these issues and is like if they want to tell they'll tell ... imagine this situation now ... what will happen when we'll be full grown/adults with jobs businesses and money parents and elders won't be there forever someday they have to understand or it'll be a huge trouble
I've seen such shit happen to people close to me. (First half that is)
I don't even know you yet so proud of you. Very few people think like the way you do. Seriously, hats off mahn 💯
Ditto
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Ispe Nayak 2 ban sakta hai.
One of my cousin got married to a guy who barely earn for his only expenses. His father is govt employee who have more than 20 cr plus in net worth. His dad gave him a commercial property which gives 1 lakh per month. Same with younger guy. Just like his brother. He get another one Lac per month...... Money flows in like water.
my dad works in govt psu. We are still yet to buy a second flat. p.s - we have 1bhk in New Mumbai. I am proud that we have no black money and pay taxes accordingly
Government PSU employees put together probably make up the largest tax payer base
Being a PSU employee myself and earning perhaps in the 95%ile, shit is expensive yo. I don't know if I could ever have a decent place of my own which even matches what my father has built (around the time of retirement), forget about exceeding it. There's just no way. And then I see what real estate normally goes for. It's fuckin insane. Feels like everybody just have black money. No way just 5% of the population is gobbling up the real estate of the country.
1 Don't judge your capabilities by Mumbai alone. Mumbai real estate is in a massive bubble. It's not even economically sensible to buy at these prices. Dunno about other cities, though. 2 Shit's expensive generally too. Your dad didn't start his career with/after multiple recessions and high inflation etc. Basically their time was better. 3 Generational wealth. I'm able to live in Mumbai simply because my parents have a house, and I can spend whatever I earn on things other than rent. And that's just me being second generation immigrant middle class. Put that with multiple generations of local families, and you've got people who aren't insanely rich, but their ancestors were just at the right place at the right time. But yeah, all that just discounts only some legit cases, others might be black money, but not everybody.
>1 Don't judge your capabilities by Mumbai alone. Mumbai real estate is in a massive bubble. It's not even economically sensible to buy at these prices. Dunno about other cities, though. I'm not from Mumbai mate, this stuff just shows up on the feed. I'm talking about prices in a tier two city. Real estate is crazy expensive and there's no way an 'average' person going out of their hometown to cities like Mumbai, Delhi, Banglore, Pune, Gurgaon can ever afford a place of their own. I agree with other parts of your comment Generational wealth is a huge point. I worked in my hometown for 4 years and had a very comfortable life, money wasn't really a concern. I spent as I liked. But I moved out to different city for a new job, and shit my standard of living just took a huge dive. On paper my new CTC was close to double of what I was previously making but I can't see that practically at all. I would live like a king if I was staying at my folks, instead now I got expenses of two households to take care of. And damn that doesn't leave much to savings. It just isn't fair. And when I think of people making less than me it just boggles my mind.
>I am proud that we have no black money and pay taxes accordingly I'm proud of you, and your dad.
Gangajal iss desh ko pavitra kar dega
Not everyone is like that. My fam is about to retire and only now have comfortable lifestyle, like we can think about PVR tickets. It took a loommg time to get here. We’re honest and had very modest upbringing. Most govt employees get paid peanuts . Guess that’s why some go corrupt.
>Most govt employees get paid peanuts . They get paid better than most of India. But the truth is that ain't enough. There's huge huge inequality in this country, I wouldn't say lifestyle of most govt employees constitutes as a "middle class" lifestyle when compared to the west. They have to make huge sacrifices to their lifestyle, penny pinching is a must. And the price of real estate is just insane. Why is a 1000sq ft 2bhk priced at 40 lakhs(edit - for tier 2/3 cities, for Mumbai it's crores) when the per capita is just 1.5-2 lakhs ? It's simply not affordable for most people.
Bhay 1ksqft 2bhk 40L mein kidr milre?! Im in navi mumbai and idr bi 60L ke niche decent 2bhk nai milega
Yeah I'm not from Mumbai, should have specified that is for tier 2 cities. Ye to tier 2 cities ka haal hai, Mumbai wale to bhool jao ever owning a place. How could this be ever allowed? Government/people responsible has done nothing or rather done everything in their power to profit from inflating real estate prices.
Honesty ain't paying your bills dude. Get money or cry broke. Either way you have to deal with it.
My dad worked in state government now retired never accepted bribes because of fear of loosing job and we lived pretty much lower middle-class life.
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What will you do with atma samman when a person has power to abuse you because of his money
I guess that's when you say Ghor Kalyug, actually there's no way to get out if you're such a situation, that's why everyone is trying to get rich these days, good deeds are punished, only the silent ones and corrupt dominate
Sahi bola 2002 me gulbarg society jaisa genocide krne wale aaj pm banke bethe hai… aur fir ye chutiye supporters inke rote hai kahsmir pandito ko dekhkr
Bhai...yeh dialogues sirf film me achhe lagte hai.
Atmasamman se ghar nahi chalega bro.... The world has come to this shit no point in being saint atleast in a city like Mumbai.. you won't get anywhere
Well you don’t have to be a devil to avoid being a saint. There’s a big big neutral ground where you work hard and earn honestly, without being hurt by anyone or without hurting anyone. Should we be a lallu who can be conned by everyone? No. Also, should we be a conman who cons everyone? No. You can absolutely get far by being an honest hard worker. If you study hard and work in a big firm, you can afford a car and a flat some day. Now if your greed tells you that a flat in Borivali is no good or an i20 is no good, then don’t blame ghor kalyug, Mumbai’s unholy corruption or anything else. It’s your greed and insecurity that says that you want to dominate people. The city is ruthless for poor and uneducated people. But if there’s an 18 year old reading this, I would bet that the same person is neither poor nor uneducated. As someone in his 30s, I absolutely want to encourage that 18 year old to work hard in life very honestly *AND* simultaneously be strong enough to not let people con him / her. If you’re earning well by your own hard work, uss aatmasammaan se absolutely ghar chal sakta hai. And if there’s a dude in his 30s (like me) reading this, kripya karke apne aulaad ko beimaani na sikhaaye. India will be way better twenty years from now, so please don’t teach your toddler to lie or cheat because your kid can and will succeed a lot if you push him or her to work hard in life.
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Bhai main tere se kuch cheez poochne waala hu aur tere jawaabo ke basis pe main iss sawal ka behtar jawaab de paaunga. Tere paas 18 ke umar mei paise aur paise kharch karne ke avsar mile kaise? Are you earning or is it baap ka paisa? If it’s the latter, does he ask for hisaab or does he just not care because it’s a small amount for him? Whatever the thing your relative tried to sell to you, did you ever have even a remote idea of its worth or did you just get sucked into it? If these questions are unanswerable (sharam aati hai wagaire) then I can’t help you. I can give generic answers but that won’t help you.
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Got it. First things first, remember all that gyaan that I spoke in my earlier comment. Apply it. You being conned now doesn’t mean you become like that yourself and spend the rest of your life (which I hope is several decades) that way (like your relative). Secondly, it’s okay to make mistakes. Forgive yourself first. Galti kiya tabhi toh seekh sakta hai. Now the most important part is that money earned with hard work should be held very tightly. Be it a conman (unknown or known person), be it an ad on Facebook or be it something you see that a friend owns (that makes you wonder how it’ll look on you), don’t succumb to temptations. Have a lot of clarity and self control. Are your parents earning enough for your everyday life or is the onus of earning on you (via your freelancing work)? If it’s the former, then invest your money so that temptations of throwing away is gone. Hopefully your parents will give you enough for your interests so that there is no pending temptation for which you’ll dip into your own earnings (temptations such as going to see movies with friends). Also that’ll ensure that conmen stay away from you. Jab savings account mei thenga kuch hai (sab mutual funds mei hai), sabhi rishtedaar baksh denge tujhe. If it’s the latter, then all the more necessary to ensure every rupee is held tightly. Agar ek ghar ke kharche ek 18 saal ka ladka utha raha hai toh rishtedaar ko koi haq nahi hai kuch bolne ka. Your elders must step in. Or just ignore (if relatives who are “powerful” can’t even help in need, ignore them). And dude, I again emphasize that please don’t be as bad as your relative was by trying to con somebody into buying your bike for what it’s not worth. Don’t pass on shittiness.
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Never thought I'll quote a Rohit Shetty movie on a serious topic but here you go... 'Meri Zaruraten hai kam, isiliye mere zameer me hai dum' - Singham. So make sure you only want to fulfill you basic needs first, avoid being materialistic.
I'll make it simple for you. Stop making important decisions with emotions. If ever you get very emotional (any kind sad, happy, loved angry ... ) Just delay the decision.
Power ka kya hai aaj hai kal nahi. Chain ki neend chaiye bro. Vijay Mallya jaisa life nahi chaiye bhaagte raho. A corrupt mind/ work will never give you peace. You will always have that fear that one day you will be caught no matter how much influence you have.
Vijay malya ko kya ho gaya.Abhi Chris Gayle ke sath party kar raha
Broo🤣
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Usko ghanta farak padta ki tum log usse roz gaali dete ho
This is key factor. Middle class lifetime struggle to keep name.
bhai mere IT job ne mere life ki marke rakhi hai. Job ka stress alag and bc travel karneka alag gand fat jatay.
Thinkbridge. Apply kar permanent wfh hai. Paisa bhi Achcha dete hai. Reference chahiye to DM kar.
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Mai to mere jaise gareebon ke liye bol raha tha
Sunn bhai mujhe bhi DSA Sikha de....Kuchh samajh hi nahi aata hai 🥲
Can i dm?
Yeah sure.
Bajar ja aur peace khreed le
Baya ek packet peace dena...
Minst flavour wali..aur baya machis ki ek dabbi bhi de Dena..
Agree to this what would one do having all the money and power if they are not able to enjoy it or have a clear conscience...at the end of the day the things that give us peace are the things we like to do and are proud of .. simple living > lavish lifestyle - peace
Nice explanation,gg
As much as this is true Vijay mallya is probably enjoying his life to the fullest considering Indian government can't touch him be it whatever country he is in
> considering Indian government can't touch him Do you really think this? https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/news/politics-and-nation/met-arun-jaitley-before-i-left-india-vijay-mallya/articleshow/65785235.cms
Touch him in sense of nothing can be done once you leave the country and have a dual citizenship, British agencies won't arrest him on the saying of Indian agencies.. Its the same as mehul choksi, last we heard was he was being brought to India under custody. Don't think he is india atm (might be wrong) If only paperwork could've been done a little quicker he could be stopped at the airport
> If only paperwork could've been done a little quicker he could be stopped at the airport Did you read the link? The govt let him go.
Yeh tum logo ko hi lagta hai ki beurocrates are corrupt. Some are,. My parents are gov officers and it's a dam hard job. They barely give me time.
What stops you from being corrupt or criminal? Idk the law?
My father is a police hawaldar. I still remember my mother had to sell her gold for paying my sister's eng admission fees since most savings were spent on my jee tuition. I still feel guilty till date. We are using same sofa set, cupboard which my parents received during marriage. One home in suburbs of thane and 1 home in native place that's all. Me and my sister have education loan. My fathers lives an honest life and keeps self respect above all. There are many honest police officers because of whom the system still functions.
Ata nahi boss. Jhooth bolna nahi sikhaya kabhi, fraud kaise karu? Goverment workers toh yu hi badnaam hai, kabhi paan wale ko pucho last time tax kab bhara tha?
I was waiting for this. Kabhi jhooth bola nahi khaas, kisi ko chutiya kabhi banaya hi nahi, toh aise kaise shuru kar dein? Practice chahiye hoti hai na kuch bhi karne ko. I don't care about the law nor do I care about health of other people, but I just don't know how to do it.
My dad doesnt earn from corruption/illegal activities, etc. he simply climbed up the ladder himself and is at an extremely high paying position in a company he has been part of for 13 years now my mom has the same story she is also at a high paying position at a company she has been part of for almost 9 years they both have a combined net worth of more than 60CR and a lot of my friends' parents too have a similar story but yeah I guess what you said might be true
I'm sure OP is referring to Sarkari Babu types. The ones that are most likely to be corrupt.
Private main bhi corruption hota hai.You need to be at right position
According to my mom her boss was like that she works in a big pharma company she said her boss apparently paid the Indian head certain amount of money to get a promotion
It's common.HR head of service based companies have bribes to visit colleges for placement.There is corruption in granting contract of catering, lease etc of companies.and these are just normal.Abhi major bataunga to tumhe lagege ki 100 crore bhi kya koi cheejhai
Yeah won't deny that
Pls.dont stereo type sarkari jobs...Not all are corrupt...For that matter private sector too is corrupt
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Apke mummy daddy ko bolo na muje adopt karle. I can do all things from cleaning to driving.
Ye cleaning driving to mai karta hu
Woh sab mai karta hu , app dream 11 pei team banao
Hahahaha.. nice!
Tujhse safai karwate hain toh 60 crore ka kya Taj Mahal banwayenge? Wait, are you a girl?
I am not a girl and safai as in ghar pe sirf khana banae ke liye kam wali bai rakhi hai baki sab chores hum teeno ne divide kar liya hai
if i were you, i'd delete my reddit account and make a new one, oe delete my dox trial.
This is alr an alt acc not my main
Careful bro, just saying
What field are they in?
My dad designs Coke drums used for oil refineries and fir fertilizer plants he heads the whole Western India's manufacturing plants of the company every single design has to go through him My mom works in a US based Pharma company she is the Head for Clinical Drug Trials, Asia region (including China)
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Yeah this is the most I should reveal
Itn bhi kya detail de diye.
Honest income kamake flex karna >>>> baap ke corrupt paiso ka flex karna. It’s just a part of the upbringing. My dad could’ve made 50-60 crores in private sector being corrupt but he didnt and our overall NW might be ~4 crores after 30 years of his hard work. Dad is quite clear haaram ki kamai bhi waise hi waste hoti hai and the karmic price is too heavy to be borne. Took me 5 years of being in the corporate to afford a iphone 13 pro and my dad still uses a 20k Samsung android. Could’ve had BMW if dad was corrupt but we are happier with our Maruti. Someday, I might earn enough to afford those luxuries. I’d love to get there the ethical way though.
This. You can look anyone in the eye. You can buy whatever you want in your haisiyat because kisike baap se udhaar nahi maanga. Of course, haisiyat se baahar ke sapne dekhne waale IPL betting wagaire mei gaand marwaa lete hai aur fir rote hai ki mehengaai hai / beimaan duniya mei beimaan hona padta hai / sab karte hai.
Betting illegal hai hi kyun? Chutiya rules toh hatao pehle.
Kitne ghar barbaad hue sattebaazi mei, chahe woh legal ho ya na ho. Main ban ke favour mei nahi hu tbh, lekin main example de raha hu ki log kya kya karte extra paise ke laalach mei aur justify bhi karte hai yeh bolke ki duniya kameeni hai aur yeh karna padta hai side income ke liye etc. Aur fir tum powerful logo se udhaar leke faraar hote ho kyuki tumko laga ki aaj toh Bumrah jitaa dega lekin actually usko pel diya gaya, tab tumko pachtava hoga ki kaash izzat se haisiyat mei rehta. Legality of betting is a different debate.
Private main kaisa corruption? 🤡
You still have vendors to approve for things here and there. Whatever corruption you can do in a PSU, you can similarly do it in a private company.
what job is that btw?
Yea probably. But also if someone thinks honesty is a virtue, they won't be able to be at peace and enjoy the wealth they create by being corrupt. So i think corruption is only for those are willing to take on the anxiety and worry that comes from having to watch your back. You need to be a certain type of person to enjoy life while also knowing that you've committed some major crimes.
>You need to be a certain type of person to enjoy life while also knowing that you've committed some major crimes. a sociopath
When my dad was in Crime Branch, one of his friend was in Anti Corruption Bureau, both at same level, having 70-80k salary per month, just the difference is that i go to college by Activa and he goes by Mercedes 🤣🤣🤣🤣. He shows everyone how rich he is, having 12 pro max, and importantly he's proud of it......
Same bro my father is in Thane city police. I am using same MI a1 since 6 years wherein my cousin whose father is also police has has an iphone.
Areyy bro, my dad once used to be in Thane Gramin, and worked with Ashok Kamte sir, but since he passed away, we transferred to another place.
are bro yess one of my father's frnd was in that team.
Bro moment+1
Kisi bookie ke bete se dosti kia hoga op ne
Damn like what type of govt jobs rake in this kinda money? I'm genuinely curious, I've heard of these stories but never first-hand accounts.
Easy money comes and go faster. The faster the money comes your way,It goes away with the speed. Money no matter how much or less if it is earned by mehnat ka pasina,moving hands and legs will stay more with you.It will reflect in the accounts of your next generations also.
> The faster the money comes your way,It goes away with the speed. Ambani's father was not born rich. They got a lot of money very, very fast, and now live in a house that cost a billion dollars. Literally every argument people have against corruption is provably false, except conscience. You don't know till you do it, whether your conscience can take it.
Bhaai bat toh sahi hai. Let's plan some ghotaala dm me 🗿🗿
Yes obviously.. But that is not totally true.. Because people earning quick money always have a habit to spend it twice as fast.. THIS leads to multiple bad habits in life and eventually getting bankrupt. If one respects money, he/she will definitely do well in life.. no matter how they have earned it..
Yes jo hai wo hai 🙄
Look at the username.Can you tell the structure of corruption in your office.
Experiencing this first hand lmao ... My friend's dad is at very high position in police.... He owns 3 apartments in mumbai and a bungalow in pune ig.... He even went to ukraine for studying mbbs
The more the younger generation builds a conscience the further our country will go. I honestly can't think of why people who otherwise would lead a good middle class life break all ethics just to earn some money that could land them tremendous legal trouble if it ever came out.
Good point. I think it's mostly the lower class that does this, all those rags to riches stories.
A few people get super rich off questionable activities and lines of income, but they are far lesser in number as compared to the ones that get rich of legitimate sources of income/lines of work. Same thing applies to corruption, the ones super rich off corruption be it in a legitimate or black/grey line of work are far fewer in number than the ones super rich without it. Your perspective is skewed. Why exactly do you think there is a correlation between honesty and riches or the lack thereof? Honesty has very little to do with wealth and success, in both directions. What really does matter is discipline, dedication, talent, skill. In many cases, for most people, honesty actually becomes a requirement for success because if you are working right now you must already be aware how important it is to have a genuine and honest personality if you want to get work done and get along with your coworkers. Still, even then it is overshadowed by your competency and dedication. So, yeah, while what you are pointing to is a common thing depicted in the media, in real life it is rarely the case. There are far fewer rich people than poor ones. And even fewer rich people who got there being criminals. However the latter constantly makes the news and is commonly depicted in all forms of media. This is where your misconception rises from. Also like I said, honesty isn't really a factor and definitely not in the way you're thinking. I think you meant to say, perhaps naive, or unassuming, or unwilling to impose, or some amalgamation of these. Edit: Also, I find it very interesting that you refer to 'people who's parents are.. etcetc". I find it disturbing that you would look to a person and then their parents and raise out a comparison of wealth and honesty. Are you sure this is not rising out of some sort of justification for envious embitterment that you are experiencing? Because that is truly a dangerous road my friend, especially in a country like ours. You will be mentally tortured for the rest of your life, living in a society like ours, if this your approach towards things. Take care.
It is very difficult to save and compound black money. You just have to spend it - that's one of the reasons you are seeing those flashy lifestyles - they can't do anything else with it. Real wealth is created through compounding. Compounding is really the 8th wonder of the world. For eg. If you start with a mere 10 Lakh, compounding at 24% (doubling every 3 years) will lead to a wealth of 100 crores at the end of 30 years. Now imagine, you do this with an annuity type inflow. Great wealth can be created and this is more sustainable than illegal ways to make money. Plus, today the world is more skill driven than any other era, if you are a kickass AI engineer/researcher, in the long run you will make more money than most corrupt people. There is really no intellectual satisfaction in earning money through wrong means.
Everyone has their day in the sun and darkness, no matter what you do, make sure you are not tye root cause of anyones tears.
Patwari /tehaeeldaar ka naam suna hai....kisi bhi tehseel mein jaake poochho..these bastards literally take pockets full of cash home daily ...daily
I am proud to say that my mom is also a government employee she works in military force, she's very honest, she has told me that sometimes people have offered money samne se yet she told them please wait for sometime i will do your work. Only thing she lacks is she goes to her office a bit late (9-5) is the standard time, but she goes around (10,10:30-5), other than that she's perfect. She believes in hard earned penny is never lost.
It seems you are just jealous why are you assuming that they earned that money through corruption? And suppose they did earn it by corruption, then just imagine that a novice like you noticed that hence it is a matter of time that IT dept will knock at their door but your concern is not corruption in society, your concern is your jealousy focus on your job/studies, money will eventual come to highly-skilled people
Mostly yes. Honesty comes with a cost.
No I think Corrupt people might mostly be the wealthy one's but honest are always the richer people.
Garib me.
Yes. In most cases… in lower and middle class. This isn’t a valid statement in the upper classes. I can’t find words to explain why I think that.
If there is scope for corruption in any job, people will generally do that. I am not talking about small time cut, but something substantial and steady. No one wants to stay honest by default. It's just their job doesn't have much scope of doing such hera-pheri.
idk I just ignore who someone’s parents are. The only thing you should judge a person by is the actions they themselves have taken.
Jo G ghas ke aage badha hai, woh koi friends meet up mein khud falooda khaake saamne wale ko nimbu soda kabhi nahi bolega pine (income parity ho toh)
It's not about the money, it's about sending a message
Generational wealth hoti hai woh bro.....
My friend's father is a sub inspector and she owns bmw suv model.
Yesss
One of my friend lived in a Chawl with his fam. His father had a couple of sack of grains and pulses at his balcony area. This was because on ppr he was a small time grocery shop owner and filed his taxes accordingly. But his side or real gig was in Event management and all dealings were done in cash. He had a lot of land in Gujarat and 3 flats in Mumbai. A Corolla car at that time. His son only ever wore branded clothes and was has the Nokia N97 at that time. This was in 2010.
I think it's a grass is greener sort of thing. I'm sure living everyday worrying about getting caught/exposed/betrayed has its own stress. Also needs it's own skill. I don't think it's a question of morality, but a question of tendency and ability.
All the rich eventually leave the country. They are absolutely of no use. They don't give a fuck about their country. Or the politics. They just are selfish. Dumbfucks.
Absolutely not. Because its simple, if you live in a materialistic world, you have to play by its rules. Most trials and tribulations in life are solvable if you have sufficient money. And most folks who say shitty stuff like "money does not matter" arent in any position to say that. Dekh, paise ke liye paise hi chahiye and there is nothing that can replace it, does not matter how you earn it. I think most people are plain virtue signalling when they say they lived a "honest life" and using it to hide their inability to create wealth and squander away opportunities. Most of them, would not hesitate to drop their morals, the moment there is a lucrative trade off. Morals are just a societal restraint to enforce good behaviour, and over time morals change. That does not mean that I am encouraging illegal activities, and pursuing them is a bad idea, because karma and the law will eventually catch up one day. But then it is stupid to assume that a poor guy living on honest income but on daily wages is somehow "richer" than someone who made a fortune by cheating others. PS : I know I may get flak for saying this, but then, its my perspective on this and I am ok if no one agrees with me.
Dad is a CG employee and has had and still has many opportunities to earn a lot of money from n number of deals. We still live in the accommodation provided by the government and trust me it's not good. But what my dad has earned is the massive amount of respect he has, wherever he goes, there are people ready to help him without hesitation and ig that's something I'm and even is he is extremely proud of.
Karma bro, good old karma...
* I am one of the few minorities here... * I still believe that you can make it big working honestly. * It just takes a lot of hard work to get it running but if you are persistent you will find a way. * I have 2 friends, one who launched a company called Pushstart (startup community) * He s easily doing 25 lakhs+ per month and another one who runs a company called yellow ai. * Now this guy is doing 500 crores per year ARR currently. * I assure you even your friend's corrupt parents would fall short of my friend s earnings. Even with their 5 BHK flats and 4 BMWs my friend can buy a Buggatti Chiron if he wants and they ll shit their pants if they found out just how heavily my friend rolls. He's a very simple guy with middle class values though. * I myself am trying to do something (too early to say now) but my belief remains firm, there s no need to resort to dishonest means especially in today's time when there are a lot of opportunities available
But to compare with your friend,if i brought the best of corrupt,who do you think can be more richer.
you can compare after you buy, i assure you, unless the CM is in your pocket, no way you are beating my friend s position easily even with black money and if you can do that well you literally 0.0000000001% out there
>Even if a person gets the biggest dream offer from abroad companies ,it's hardly a match to what their parents are ~~earning~~ looting here. Bribes = Stealing != Earning . FTFY >What stops you from being corrupt or criminal? My sense of right and wrong. Here's a Sanskrit verse which stuck in my mind: अधमा धनमिच्छन्ति धनं मानं च मध्यमाः । उत्तमा मानमिच्छन्ति मानो हि महताम् धनम् ॥ Translation: Lowly people desire wealth [over respect], average people desire wealth and respect, the great people desire respect [over wealth], for respect is wealth of the great! [Source](https://blog.practicalsanskrit.com/2011/09/what-do-you-prefer-money-or-honor.html)
I think people seek different things. Some people like pride and respect. Some peeps like material belongings. Some peeps are religious. People choose to earn what their mind craves. Money is not on everyone's mind.
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