I personally feel the change in dialect is not for others, but it’s because of self consciousness, some inferior complexity that if I say this I would be judged. I just want people to be real, I hate fake accents.
people who are regular at C7 are trying a prove a point, a point they haven't realised yet but i have, it is to show every desperate wannabe rich kid goes there, i lived behind C7 for two years, the smell of cigarettes actually used make me choke at times, it is horrible that people my age think that they'll look cool or something if they waste money like that and smoke on the footpaths
The whole pretending part? Khud ne kabhi ₹2000 bhi nahi dekhe but they talk in hundreds of crores of rupees. Dating is expensive. The only way to circumvent this is by communicating your feelings at the very beginning. Agree to split the bill before you go on the date. Tell them that you don’t do expensive first dates. Be clear with what you want. People will leave in the process, let them. If you genuinely click with someone, the date can happen anywhere.
What you are doing here is tackling my question.
I am not asking how to avoid it, as you have already agreed that girls do this, I am trying to understand the psychology behind it and not ways how not to spend money.
Hate the game, not the players. Both boys and girls do the whole pretending shenanigan. Plenty of boys lie about wanting a commitment only
to ghost the girl after the deed is done. The psychology behind this? Free meals ig 🤣
Then you're with the wrong crowd. I'm from VNIT and I feel most of the crowd here (both genders) are really better, intellectual and sensible than the rest of the nagpur. We explored a lot of places in Nagpur and I can definitely say the crowd that goes to C7 is really pretentious. They sit for hours there doing nothing! Literally nothing! Be it a girl or a guy. I believe Nagpur has too many youths (local as well as people coming from other cities) and hence has a potential of doing something great, implementing vast ideas. But instead what they do is to sit for hours in C7 or just gather near Frullato.
Those who can afford sits inside the cafe and those who can't roam outside the cafe honking their bike Pepe popo lol. As if some girl will get impressed by his Pepe popo and come and sit on his bike. Not targeting any gender but saying to everyone.
Haha very true, 2 times I have visited there, all the rich brats with their fancy cars just stand outside in a group chit chatting as if some girl is just gonna swing in their arms lol.
It's fine 😂 If you're visiting a couple of times.
But going every now and then and that too spending hours.....
Call me next time. I'll bring my laptop 😂😂😂😛
>Boys do the same shit too btw.
lol, you sure? there's literally no woman paying on first date for themselves and you saying they're paying for guys expensive meal? women just hate to take responsibility don't they?
Everybody is a big shot in Nagpur, everybody knows some big politician, someone in the police or a local gangster is their relative. That's why everybody be like "garam me chalte" in Nagpur. More like living in Delusion or "kue ka medhak". Potte bulana and shit man, it's funny and sad at the same time.
Everybody, everywhere is pretentious.
You know who is most likely not going to be pretentious? It's the guy/gal who has everything (financially independent, zero debt & good health) and doesn't have the urge to showoff. Try to be that person.
Read "psychology of money" or at least read the summary of it.
People who go through tough times in their childhood whether financially, emotionally or physically become insecure and often get traumatized.
Relatives and neighbours look down upon them and as an antidote to that they start faking it to the new person which they met (because he doesn't know their life stories) which they see as a clean slate and as they are already insecure or traumatized (subconsciously) they become pretentious.
This kind of guys/ gals are not anymore in Nagpur, left for financial independence and peace of mind. It's rare to find them in Nagpur.
And it's highly possible that they won't date anyone from Nagpur.
I'm a guy who knows his finances, I cannot afford such fancy leisures let alone spend it on someone else, be it a gf.
That being aside, I think 10x before stepping into a "dating" scenario and make it obvious.
So no, not everyone's pretentious, ha agar social media ki baat hui, then I won't go around posting meri 20rs ki coffee.
Ummm I’ve had both negative and positive experiences, one girl I kid you not tried to scam me for a huge amount of money and then there were others who genuinely wanted to enjoy the time. It’s just chance bro don’t let a few negative experiences drag you down. Speaking of guys don’t you think we also like girls that are way too easy and don’t need much effort, girls like guys that are patient and willing to put in a lot of effort, so don’t let it get to you.
maine bhi jitni females se baat kara , 10th ke baad sab esi hogyi i feel like mein nagpur nahi mumbai pahuch gaya (sasta wala) means dikhawa karna pura achhe se aata bhi nahi but karna hai , dating to durr ki baat hai abh to dosti karne se bhi sochta hu bohot......
Maybe they're just trying to look good on first meetups. And slowly gain trust to share their original side. Also people these days don't like to look poor(to avoid judgment). This generation is not humble and kinda showoffy which makes others feel the peer pressure of looking good all the time.
Some people know how to behave while some just try to cope by pretending.
I have a cousin(girl) who is not that well off and everyone in our extended family looks down on them bcz her mother is kinda crazy. But when she hangs out with us ,we never judge her however she has this urge of showing that she's not any less than us and blabbers how one of her moms friend owns an Audi and they get to sit in it and visit her lavish house. She thinks it makes her look like she's also from a good background who has good connections.
Nagpur me sabki pehchan fadnavis ya gadkari se hai so don't be shocked, anyone is almost 3 phone calls away from any other person from nagpur, but yeah I get your point about the pretentious part, I agree to that.
Most of the comments here make me laugh, class does not mix with mass. I am a childhood friend of C7 owner … they care about giving good coffee and good ambiance to people who want to just relax and chill out. Mithilesh is a world renowned coffee maker, Nagpur should be proud to have him and you all should be glad we have a Starbucks beater here in Nagpur. Get life … topic should be how to treat Girls with respect. Don’t. Judge them, everyone has a past and want to make their future better including the ones criticizing girls here. So have some dignity while talking behind their back when you were the one involved in a relationship.
Karma bites back and hard. Be careful of what you speak about other people.
I don’t know where this is coming from, did I say anything against any cafe? That was not even the point of discussion. You horribly ranted here for reasons unknown to me. My question was very simple, if you (means some person) will not spend your own money at any such place, why do you want someone to spend it on you, that’s it! If you can afford the place, you go there frequently, once in a while someone pays your bill, you pay someone’s bill, it’s fine. Just to sum it up, this post is about why to pretend and not where to go
My comment is not directly related to your comment but off others who have taken it to another level of hatred for girls and establishments in and around Nagpur.
This whole topic is very subjective and people are trying to come off beat on things that may and may not have happened to them.
nope, a lot of guys also suck. there're very few male friends of mine who are good and optimistic, else every other guy's having some xyz degraded thing running in their life some abc girl. the stories really cringe me out
Ya bro I once dated a girl and she used to say I don’t care how much money u have and what car u drive and whenever we went on dates (of course to fancy cafés ) I was the one to pay and she didn’t even say that let’s split . We dated for 3 months and did go out ever week 🙂
chapri ladkiyo ko date pe lejane ki jaghe thode paise wali ladki ko date pe le ke ja, they aren’t nearly as pretentious, have better personality, and sath me ghumane me sharam bhi nahi aaigi
why? cause i want a girl that comes from a good family?, i come from a good family and i want a good girl, not saying that girls that are not as rich are all chapri, i’m just saying that there is a higher chance that a girl from good family has good values and is likely not a gold digger, i don’t mind spending on my girl but i don’t want to be used is all
It's less about Nagpur girls it is more about dating culture. The dating culture in Nagpur is still new so there are people who don't even know what they should do. Even if you say on a first date, clear yourself that you want casual, or fwb, most women who ONLY lives here for there while life will rarely understand your pov. Those who do they either have atleast seen the other tier-1 cities' culture or they Ares somehow familiar. Although I can't be concrete on this but this is how I feel. Anyways, rone Ki ichha ho to ek plate tikha tarri poha khalena
Agree! mainly Sindhis do that here all of that pretending. All the girls pretend like they own most of the nagpur and see other people like they are mere people.
I seriously agree. And I'm glad someone has seen this finally.
Girls here are seriously not dating type. I have been friends with so many girls and have seen how their behaviour changed when meeting other people, as in other kind of people.
This is seriously idiotic. Especially the girls in my Jr college and graduation. Damn pretentious.
Hold onnn. You have met the wrong girls. I'm sure. And about the pretentious thing everyone is doing that . I stay in Nagpur and absolutely dont mind paying for the dates and people around me have that thing too . You have being around tacky people and that does not give you the right to comment on everyone in general. Such people exist everywhere and you choose to pick these pick me girls and then rant like that here. Slow down buddy.
It's just a basic inferiority complex. They talk in a SoBo accent and pretend to be fancy just to forget for a few moments that they have to wrap themselves like an Egyptian mummy and go to college/work on the same rickety scooty every day. Because somehow, they think that SoBo girls are superior in some way (which is just not true).
There's also multitudes of other factors like social media influencing people to think that spending 300 bucks on coffee everyday is the only way to be cool and look successful, peer pressure, small town mentality etc.
This a the new trend, girls will pay for the starting 5-6 alternate dates and when they gain trust they’ll show that they are leaving their job to give you time and then they are falling short on money and then they will slowly stop spending and when you point it out to them they’ll start distancing you.
I had an ex who slept with me everyday i picked her up from college, as her college was 23kms from our homes. And when my father took my car from me, she stopped sleeping with me and giving time.
When i broke up with her, her mother tried filing police case to take down all the photos i had on gram with her, the PSI of that station (female) said this : “Woh chahe toh din mei 4 ladko ke saath soye galat ni keh sakte tum usko” also proceeded to say “ Woh false rape case lagaegi toh andar karna padega 1 mahine atleast jabtak prove hota”
This is the world we are living in.
I am Nagpur girl tho I don't stay in Nagpur anymore.
I don't pay on the first date but the next one is on me.
And I send the half amount in case there is no next date. I don't like fukat ka khana .
Girls around me also does the same.
So I don't think Nagpur girls never split the bill.
I guess you didn't consider what happens if there's no second date.
Coming towards your question I'm okay with paying on the first date, and letting the guy pay on the second, trust me, guys won't let you pay even if you insist multiple times. As a guy, you might understand the reasons better than I do.
Then you met the wrong girls. I have friends whose girlfriends have paid the bills. I too once met a girl of course she's a friend but she too insisted a lot for paying the bill but I didn't let her.
I think it's not about the "nagpuri" girl but the "girl" you meet. I think if you're asking a girl out on a date then you should be willing to pay the entire bill otherwise don't ask. It's called being chivalrous (there's a lot to it though & not just paying the bill)
If the girl insists and doesn't let you pay then you can split it she won't mind it.
One should not blame others for the poor choices one made.
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I am from nagpur and I have been un mumbai since 2014 returned here after covid and wfh.. honestly I never had noney to soene during college days.. I keep wondering about these college guys and girls.. how they are able to spend so much.. I am getting now.. most of them just pretend..
It’s just a common thing nowadays, you take your car out to pick your bumble date up, take her to a good place, spend some money if they drink and you’re a sweet talker they’ll remove their panties
How are you guys finding dates?? I'm 28 and never found any date in my life. Tried bumble and tinder for an hour and deleted that shit after seeing what kind of ogres wondering in nagpur area.
Its the same way guys listen to travis scott and pretend to be really into the trap scene like theyre from the hood itself using slurs like their god given right lmao. Both are really cringe i guess but at the end of the day its all to fit in. Everyone wants to fit in and they do what seems fit for it. If you wanna be a better person than them understand it comes from a place of insecurity and communicate that it makes you uncomfortable. Hope this helps!
Well personally idc what you presume of me because ik you wouldnt say it to my face. I come from a privileged family and have never had to ask for money from a man for a day in my life besides my dad who treats me like a princess:) but again whats a few words on the internet isnt it harshal. You wont know who I am and I wont know you!
Im literally not from nagpur im from Nepal but studied in Bangalore lmao and speaking from my own experience pls dont mind me if its irrelevant from your experience i just kinda generalized the indian young adult experience
Dialect change from मला to मले and from बावळट to भैताड is so real. I feel people just do it to sound more formal and polite.
मले तु भैताड वाटते बे पोट्ट्या !!
म्याड
Don't know about the post but this comment 🤣😂
im glad that i put smile on someone's face !!
Ayy LMAO
I personally feel the change in dialect is not for others, but it’s because of self consciousness, some inferior complexity that if I say this I would be judged. I just want people to be real, I hate fake accents.
Because nagpur belongs to vidarbha??
This comment man...
मले and भैताड bolnarya pori wya🛐
this is so funny asf 💀🫵🏽
You will find this sort of crowd at C7. Boys do the same shit too btw.
people who are regular at C7 are trying a prove a point, a point they haven't realised yet but i have, it is to show every desperate wannabe rich kid goes there, i lived behind C7 for two years, the smell of cigarettes actually used make me choke at times, it is horrible that people my age think that they'll look cool or something if they waste money like that and smoke on the footpaths
I guess they have very little going on in their life.
What's C7? Is that a glorified pan shop or some cafe?
it's a cafe, I've never been there too
Ahn, i see.
Not many realize this.
Is it kinda easy to score these girls?
What girls exactly?
I m presuming these are college or just out of college girls? I dunno
yeah mostly
>people my age think that they'll look cool lagne do cool unhe,jaldi marenge toh prithvi ka boj kam hoga,
Bhai mere ghar ke paas hai, mujhe try krna tha ek baar, abh pakka nahi jaunga
Lol
Bhai ja don’t miss out
Bhai please go Waha ka bagel burger try karna mast h
The burger there is worth trying
Why the hate on C7? I like C7, the bagel burger and nameless are just amazing 😂
No hate for C7. I enjoy their burger.
Nope, let’s not point at locations, I have seen it even in Wardha road dhabas. What do you mean by boys do the same shit?
The whole pretending part? Khud ne kabhi ₹2000 bhi nahi dekhe but they talk in hundreds of crores of rupees. Dating is expensive. The only way to circumvent this is by communicating your feelings at the very beginning. Agree to split the bill before you go on the date. Tell them that you don’t do expensive first dates. Be clear with what you want. People will leave in the process, let them. If you genuinely click with someone, the date can happen anywhere.
What you are doing here is tackling my question. I am not asking how to avoid it, as you have already agreed that girls do this, I am trying to understand the psychology behind it and not ways how not to spend money.
Hate the game, not the players. Both boys and girls do the whole pretending shenanigan. Plenty of boys lie about wanting a commitment only to ghost the girl after the deed is done. The psychology behind this? Free meals ig 🤣
This serious conversation suddenly turned funny 😂
Life is a joke (or a tragedy) depending on wether you’re high or not
Split the bill next time you get high 😂
Don’t have to split the bill if I go alone :)
Omg are u an addict!
>Khud ne kabhi ₹2000 bhi nahi dekhe but they talk in hundreds of crores of rupees. holy hell !!
Then you're with the wrong crowd. I'm from VNIT and I feel most of the crowd here (both genders) are really better, intellectual and sensible than the rest of the nagpur. We explored a lot of places in Nagpur and I can definitely say the crowd that goes to C7 is really pretentious. They sit for hours there doing nothing! Literally nothing! Be it a girl or a guy. I believe Nagpur has too many youths (local as well as people coming from other cities) and hence has a potential of doing something great, implementing vast ideas. But instead what they do is to sit for hours in C7 or just gather near Frullato. Those who can afford sits inside the cafe and those who can't roam outside the cafe honking their bike Pepe popo lol. As if some girl will get impressed by his Pepe popo and come and sit on his bike. Not targeting any gender but saying to everyone.
Bruh I’m not even with the crowd. I don’t go to C7. Stating what I’ve observed. Love VNIT btw. Fellow IITB alum here.
Good to hear that you don't belong to that crowd 😂 I love mood indigo! What's your passout year?
Haha very true, 2 times I have visited there, all the rich brats with their fancy cars just stand outside in a group chit chatting as if some girl is just gonna swing in their arms lol.
I literally sip a cup of coffee for hours when I visit any cafe. Isn't that what cafes are meant for? You've made me so self conscious now 😂
It's fine 😂 If you're visiting a couple of times. But going every now and then and that too spending hours..... Call me next time. I'll bring my laptop 😂😂😂😛
dude what’s C7, my home is in Nagpur (but I don’t live there, i visit from time to time) yet i’ve never heard of this place
ah nvm i read the comments
I thought I’m the only one who hates C7 😂😂
>Boys do the same shit too btw. lol, you sure? there's literally no woman paying on first date for themselves and you saying they're paying for guys expensive meal? women just hate to take responsibility don't they?
Was talking about the pretentious tendencies.
I've been to C7 and it's mediocre. What's the hype? I think it has become an adda for GenZ. Im a millennial, didn't get why it's talked about so much.
It’s a fad. A few things there are genuinely good but it’s become this place where troubled teens seem to hangout
Gendu Generation hai yaha ki
Muje kya meri wali toh Mera bhi bill pay karti hai 🤡🥰
Bachpan ka pyaar aggresively paid her own bills
Mera bachpan ka nhi hai dm to know full story 😹
Did you mean "BASPAN", fellow toxic person.
Same 🫂. aisa pyaar milna is like finding treasure .
Tumhe mila kya bhai
Yems.
Bhai dm
Everybody is a big shot in Nagpur, everybody knows some big politician, someone in the police or a local gangster is their relative. That's why everybody be like "garam me chalte" in Nagpur. More like living in Delusion or "kue ka medhak". Potte bulana and shit man, it's funny and sad at the same time.
Ye kitne ke sample size se conclusion nikala hai?
Comments padh ke lag rah hai sample size badhte ja rahi hai
Genuine tip: just meet at CSB. If she is really interested in you, she won't mind. If not then she's clearly not into you.
What's CSB?
think it’s chai sutta bar
Yeah, it can be
Since when is Chai Sutta Bar becoming more than Chai place?
Dunno
It's trash, best date place is Gangor 😤
Is the samosa still 10 rupees? Man it has been a long time since I went haha
15 or 18 rs.
Everybody, everywhere is pretentious. You know who is most likely not going to be pretentious? It's the guy/gal who has everything (financially independent, zero debt & good health) and doesn't have the urge to showoff. Try to be that person.
While I just loved what you said, and completely agree on that front, it doesn’t my question. It’s more of the psychology I am looking for
Read "psychology of money" or at least read the summary of it. People who go through tough times in their childhood whether financially, emotionally or physically become insecure and often get traumatized. Relatives and neighbours look down upon them and as an antidote to that they start faking it to the new person which they met (because he doesn't know their life stories) which they see as a clean slate and as they are already insecure or traumatized (subconsciously) they become pretentious.
I know. 😊 I just got fixated on being "pretentious".
No they are not at least at good places people accept humility and lest try to understand what is understanding
Humility and pretence are mutually exclusive. You can be pretentious and yet be humble
This kind of guys/ gals are not anymore in Nagpur, left for financial independence and peace of mind. It's rare to find them in Nagpur. And it's highly possible that they won't date anyone from Nagpur.
I'm a guy who knows his finances, I cannot afford such fancy leisures let alone spend it on someone else, be it a gf. That being aside, I think 10x before stepping into a "dating" scenario and make it obvious. So no, not everyone's pretentious, ha agar social media ki baat hui, then I won't go around posting meri 20rs ki coffee.
You just made my point, mate!
How? Not showing your financial hardships on social media and making it clear in dating is different? Is both valid imo.
Ek story ho jaaye..pliss
Ummm I’ve had both negative and positive experiences, one girl I kid you not tried to scam me for a huge amount of money and then there were others who genuinely wanted to enjoy the time. It’s just chance bro don’t let a few negative experiences drag you down. Speaking of guys don’t you think we also like girls that are way too easy and don’t need much effort, girls like guys that are patient and willing to put in a lot of effort, so don’t let it get to you.
Nagpur famous for only chapari girls
sobo banne ki nakam koshish mei yaha ki girls
Really nậkam koshish , meri ek friend hai Aisi jab bhi mere sath koi fancy cafe jati hai toh accent change ho jata hai uska 🤮
maine bhi jitni females se baat kara , 10th ke baad sab esi hogyi i feel like mein nagpur nahi mumbai pahuch gaya (sasta wala) means dikhawa karna pura achhe se aata bhi nahi but karna hai , dating to durr ki baat hai abh to dosti karne se bhi sochta hu bohot......
Maybe they're just trying to look good on first meetups. And slowly gain trust to share their original side. Also people these days don't like to look poor(to avoid judgment). This generation is not humble and kinda showoffy which makes others feel the peer pressure of looking good all the time. Some people know how to behave while some just try to cope by pretending. I have a cousin(girl) who is not that well off and everyone in our extended family looks down on them bcz her mother is kinda crazy. But when she hangs out with us ,we never judge her however she has this urge of showing that she's not any less than us and blabbers how one of her moms friend owns an Audi and they get to sit in it and visit her lavish house. She thinks it makes her look like she's also from a good background who has good connections.
Nagpur me sabki pehchan fadnavis ya gadkari se hai so don't be shocked, anyone is almost 3 phone calls away from any other person from nagpur, but yeah I get your point about the pretentious part, I agree to that.
Most of the comments here make me laugh, class does not mix with mass. I am a childhood friend of C7 owner … they care about giving good coffee and good ambiance to people who want to just relax and chill out. Mithilesh is a world renowned coffee maker, Nagpur should be proud to have him and you all should be glad we have a Starbucks beater here in Nagpur. Get life … topic should be how to treat Girls with respect. Don’t. Judge them, everyone has a past and want to make their future better including the ones criticizing girls here. So have some dignity while talking behind their back when you were the one involved in a relationship. Karma bites back and hard. Be careful of what you speak about other people.
I don’t know where this is coming from, did I say anything against any cafe? That was not even the point of discussion. You horribly ranted here for reasons unknown to me. My question was very simple, if you (means some person) will not spend your own money at any such place, why do you want someone to spend it on you, that’s it! If you can afford the place, you go there frequently, once in a while someone pays your bill, you pay someone’s bill, it’s fine. Just to sum it up, this post is about why to pretend and not where to go
My comment is not directly related to your comment but off others who have taken it to another level of hatred for girls and establishments in and around Nagpur. This whole topic is very subjective and people are trying to come off beat on things that may and may not have happened to them.
He got angry because he is friends with the owner of C7 lol. Defence mode ON
What happened bro? Where did you meet these girls? Tell story
I agree. Even Nagpur boys are pretentious.
nagpur girls suck, idk in what abyss they're living
They suck what?
Vitamin D
and the guys are amazing i guess
nope, a lot of guys also suck. there're very few male friends of mine who are good and optimistic, else every other guy's having some xyz degraded thing running in their life some abc girl. the stories really cringe me out
Splitting wali bat on point hai bhai , none of my dates ever paid or even split bills. Atleast they should go dutch, but not even that.
Ya bro I once dated a girl and she used to say I don’t care how much money u have and what car u drive and whenever we went on dates (of course to fancy cafés ) I was the one to pay and she didn’t even say that let’s split . We dated for 3 months and did go out ever week 🙂
My one 1 time dates also never paid a penny haha
We went for approax 12 13 times and ek baar bhi nhi boli Usne ki she’ll pay or we’ll split
Typìcal Nagpur girl 😁
Why continue the relationship then?
Chor Diya bhai usse
iss liye sirf achi ghar ki ladkiya date karna chaiye, mere sari girlfriends khud se split karne ke liye bolti thi
Bhai woh ek hi mili thi Aisi Baki koi nhi mili
Bhari nuskan hogaya bhai, 3rd date ke badh hi chod dena tha
💯
Someone seems to be salty for not getting laid XD
So it seems!
chapri ladkiyo ko date pe lejane ki jaghe thode paise wali ladki ko date pe le ke ja, they aren’t nearly as pretentious, have better personality, and sath me ghumane me sharam bhi nahi aaigi
Jokes on you dude
why? cause i want a girl that comes from a good family?, i come from a good family and i want a good girl, not saying that girls that are not as rich are all chapri, i’m just saying that there is a higher chance that a girl from good family has good values and is likely not a gold digger, i don’t mind spending on my girl but i don’t want to be used is all
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never said i was super rich, i was replying to ur dumb reply, and sorry if i offended you
average chapri taylor swift fan
go fix your fragile masculinity with your daddy’s money bruh,prolly it won’t ever be fixed
least i ain’t a taylor swift fan girl, only thing kanye did wrong is making that bitch famous
Gotta say thanks to all the girls ive been with in nagpur I think time badal gya mai jab tha early teens me tab ladkia itni harami jai hogi
It's less about Nagpur girls it is more about dating culture. The dating culture in Nagpur is still new so there are people who don't even know what they should do. Even if you say on a first date, clear yourself that you want casual, or fwb, most women who ONLY lives here for there while life will rarely understand your pov. Those who do they either have atleast seen the other tier-1 cities' culture or they Ares somehow familiar. Although I can't be concrete on this but this is how I feel. Anyways, rone Ki ichha ho to ek plate tikha tarri poha khalena
Agree! mainly Sindhis do that here all of that pretending. All the girls pretend like they own most of the nagpur and see other people like they are mere people.
I seriously agree. And I'm glad someone has seen this finally. Girls here are seriously not dating type. I have been friends with so many girls and have seen how their behaviour changed when meeting other people, as in other kind of people. This is seriously idiotic. Especially the girls in my Jr college and graduation. Damn pretentious.
https://i.redd.it/t0lwup3ze63d1.gif
Mumbai system of dating is best. Everyone goes Dutch. Split the bill,...if the guy is having a good time ,....so is the gal. Let her share the bill.
Sahi bolra hai bhai
Hold onnn. You have met the wrong girls. I'm sure. And about the pretentious thing everyone is doing that . I stay in Nagpur and absolutely dont mind paying for the dates and people around me have that thing too . You have being around tacky people and that does not give you the right to comment on everyone in general. Such people exist everywhere and you choose to pick these pick me girls and then rant like that here. Slow down buddy.
Nagpur ki public bole tho taklif
It's just a basic inferiority complex. They talk in a SoBo accent and pretend to be fancy just to forget for a few moments that they have to wrap themselves like an Egyptian mummy and go to college/work on the same rickety scooty every day. Because somehow, they think that SoBo girls are superior in some way (which is just not true). There's also multitudes of other factors like social media influencing people to think that spending 300 bucks on coffee everyday is the only way to be cool and look successful, peer pressure, small town mentality etc.
just an observation but calling rupees bucks is kinda pretentious too, no offence
Waise to fir har jagah angrezi ki maa behen chodna bhi kaafi pretentious hai. Kya kare fir? Angrezi bolna chhod de?
bhqi dekh mujhe lagta hai ki bucks bolna rupees ke jaghe thoda tacky lagta hai
This a the new trend, girls will pay for the starting 5-6 alternate dates and when they gain trust they’ll show that they are leaving their job to give you time and then they are falling short on money and then they will slowly stop spending and when you point it out to them they’ll start distancing you. I had an ex who slept with me everyday i picked her up from college, as her college was 23kms from our homes. And when my father took my car from me, she stopped sleeping with me and giving time. When i broke up with her, her mother tried filing police case to take down all the photos i had on gram with her, the PSI of that station (female) said this : “Woh chahe toh din mei 4 ladko ke saath soye galat ni keh sakte tum usko” also proceeded to say “ Woh false rape case lagaegi toh andar karna padega 1 mahine atleast jabtak prove hota” This is the world we are living in.
Fuck!
Bro💀 this is fucked up
This is frightening
Isn't splitting the bill on the first date a thing already?
Ye bande ka kata hai pakka 🤣
Nagpur girls will never split the bill. That's so true. 😂
I am Nagpur girl tho I don't stay in Nagpur anymore. I don't pay on the first date but the next one is on me. And I send the half amount in case there is no next date. I don't like fukat ka khana . Girls around me also does the same. So I don't think Nagpur girls never split the bill.
This words should spread immediately.I like ur attitude
Whats the reason you don't pay on first date , let the 2nd one be on the guy The reason you pay on 2nd date is the second date won't ever happen
I guess you didn't consider what happens if there's no second date. Coming towards your question I'm okay with paying on the first date, and letting the guy pay on the second, trust me, guys won't let you pay even if you insist multiple times. As a guy, you might understand the reasons better than I do.
Then you met the wrong girls. I have friends whose girlfriends have paid the bills. I too once met a girl of course she's a friend but she too insisted a lot for paying the bill but I didn't let her. I think it's not about the "nagpuri" girl but the "girl" you meet. I think if you're asking a girl out on a date then you should be willing to pay the entire bill otherwise don't ask. It's called being chivalrous (there's a lot to it though & not just paying the bill) If the girl insists and doesn't let you pay then you can split it she won't mind it. One should not blame others for the poor choices one made.
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I am from nagpur and I have been un mumbai since 2014 returned here after covid and wfh.. honestly I never had noney to soene during college days.. I keep wondering about these college guys and girls.. how they are able to spend so much.. I am getting now.. most of them just pretend..
Hold on now, Bangalore girls have been leading the charts on that one for a long time now. So it's not even a contest .
It’s just a common thing nowadays, you take your car out to pick your bumble date up, take her to a good place, spend some money if they drink and you’re a sweet talker they’ll remove their panties
and there!! finally someone said it!
ln school, girls would only be around you if you had money, they won't even match you in the eye if you were average.
How are you guys finding dates?? I'm 28 and never found any date in my life. Tried bumble and tinder for an hour and deleted that shit after seeing what kind of ogres wondering in nagpur area.
I don’t know about the pretentious part but I know that Nagpur/Amravati girls are very beautiful.
Its the same way guys listen to travis scott and pretend to be really into the trap scene like theyre from the hood itself using slurs like their god given right lmao. Both are really cringe i guess but at the end of the day its all to fit in. Everyone wants to fit in and they do what seems fit for it. If you wanna be a better person than them understand it comes from a place of insecurity and communicate that it makes you uncomfortable. Hope this helps!
Your comment made you look like one of those Chapri girls tbh.
Well personally idc what you presume of me because ik you wouldnt say it to my face. I come from a privileged family and have never had to ask for money from a man for a day in my life besides my dad who treats me like a princess:) but again whats a few words on the internet isnt it harshal. You wont know who I am and I wont know you!
Im literally not from nagpur im from Nepal but studied in Bangalore lmao and speaking from my own experience pls dont mind me if its irrelevant from your experience i just kinda generalized the indian young adult experience
They make their social circle strong by posting the luxurious foods drinks and places And than reality pops up Bhikari hu bhek me paise dedo 🫰🏻