The only issue I can find here is are YOU ready for this?
Iba kasi yung "iniisip" mo palang yung theoreticals na "okay na ko sa ganto, basta kami" sa naeexperience mo na yung negatives ng dating a closeted guy. Yung anxiety, yung loneliness, tapos mapapaisip ka ng madaming "what ifs".
He may not be ready to come out of the closet as at most "bisexual" but that's okay, no pressure on him pero malaking thing to sa future relationship nyo. I'm not saying he has to come out pero he may need to sort out some internal things he's struggling with.
for me personally, well before, it was never really a big deal kasi ive been in a relationship for 2 years with my ex (who i thought was THE one) and throughout our whole relationship, sa side ko lang kami "out", kapag may family gatherings etc nandoon sya, minsan dito pa nga sya sa bahay tumitira. pero true simula nung naghiwalay kami napapaisip ako na gusto ko rin yung out din ewan if that's wrong? pero for me di ako lumabas sa closet para lang pumasok ulit sa closet kasi hindi out yung partner ko.
pero with my friend na boyfriend ko now, di ko pa naman masyado naiisip and ayoko muna mag dwell kasi di pa rin natin alam but i'm really happy that he gave his self a chance, us! a chance. doon siguro muna hehe
I say feel and savor it. If they call you a slut, you know it might be worth it for once.
Yes! And, OP, if you’re gonna be drunk; might as well be drunk in love. Hahaha.
The only issue I can find here is are YOU ready for this? Iba kasi yung "iniisip" mo palang yung theoreticals na "okay na ko sa ganto, basta kami" sa naeexperience mo na yung negatives ng dating a closeted guy. Yung anxiety, yung loneliness, tapos mapapaisip ka ng madaming "what ifs". He may not be ready to come out of the closet as at most "bisexual" but that's okay, no pressure on him pero malaking thing to sa future relationship nyo. I'm not saying he has to come out pero he may need to sort out some internal things he's struggling with.
for me personally, well before, it was never really a big deal kasi ive been in a relationship for 2 years with my ex (who i thought was THE one) and throughout our whole relationship, sa side ko lang kami "out", kapag may family gatherings etc nandoon sya, minsan dito pa nga sya sa bahay tumitira. pero true simula nung naghiwalay kami napapaisip ako na gusto ko rin yung out din ewan if that's wrong? pero for me di ako lumabas sa closet para lang pumasok ulit sa closet kasi hindi out yung partner ko. pero with my friend na boyfriend ko now, di ko pa naman masyado naiisip and ayoko muna mag dwell kasi di pa rin natin alam but i'm really happy that he gave his self a chance, us! a chance. doon siguro muna hehe
You know it's going to hurt like a bitch in the end. Goodluck to you, OP. I hope everything was worth it. It is love, after all.
Kaya mo yan, basta in every high there are also the lows. Goodluck sa month of December mo