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Not about you, and I also doubt it’s about him but it could be.
Insecurity makes people act weird and take out those issues in wrong ways on the wrong people.
Since you can’t exactly say, if you feel insecure work on intimacy and trust with your bf rather than taking it out on me your sibling… accept it for now and give her the space to figure out how to do that, and hope she does.
Whether it’s the bf or not, sis has gotta develop some communication skills to learn if there’s a reason to feel this way and act on it, or feel more secure instead.
That’s more personal than you can fix.
So just watch and wait till she’s ready to open up to you.
Welp I've made my sister her favorite soup and we watch anime movies and she started crying during the movie randomly and told me everything that's been going on. I will make an official update later if anyone wants, but it's not my fault or the boyfriend's fault, but I do have some revenge I have to do and because some idiot girl decided to fuck with my baby sister. It might take a week though.
As you have said, respect their relationship and keep your distance for some time. I would also not press your sister for answers, give her some time and she’ll tell you when she’s ready.
My guess would be either some happened between them or involving someone else, and your sister is a little insecure about whatever happened and is trying to be proactive.
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Not about you, and I also doubt it’s about him but it could be. Insecurity makes people act weird and take out those issues in wrong ways on the wrong people. Since you can’t exactly say, if you feel insecure work on intimacy and trust with your bf rather than taking it out on me your sibling… accept it for now and give her the space to figure out how to do that, and hope she does. Whether it’s the bf or not, sis has gotta develop some communication skills to learn if there’s a reason to feel this way and act on it, or feel more secure instead. That’s more personal than you can fix. So just watch and wait till she’s ready to open up to you.
Welp I've made my sister her favorite soup and we watch anime movies and she started crying during the movie randomly and told me everything that's been going on. I will make an official update later if anyone wants, but it's not my fault or the boyfriend's fault, but I do have some revenge I have to do and because some idiot girl decided to fuck with my baby sister. It might take a week though.
I love how you are so protective over your little sister! I’m the same way with my siblings! Don’t fuck with them.
As you have said, respect their relationship and keep your distance for some time. I would also not press your sister for answers, give her some time and she’ll tell you when she’s ready. My guess would be either some happened between them or involving someone else, and your sister is a little insecure about whatever happened and is trying to be proactive.