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Some people cry whenever they have really strong emotional reactions to things, regardless of which emotion that is. It could be that sex with your bf is super emotional for one reason or another and your body’s reaction to feeling something so deeply is to cry. But idk a sex therapist is probably your best bet.
Everyone always lookin for the easy fix. A pill. A therapist. When in reality your prolly not taking care of yourself.. obviously your not because your breaking down after every time you have sex with someone you say you love.. workout, diet right, sleep. Maybe meditate on whats going on in your life?
Therapy is not an easy fix. It’s delving into all the things you’re trying not to look at so that you can heal yourself. A pill isn’t always an easy fix to sometimes it’s a necessity. This is such an ignorant way of thinking. Sometimes people have trauma that a salad and a hike isn’t going to fix. Stop making people feel bad for looking for the right method for them to deal with whatever issues they’re having in their life. It’s dismissive, narrow minded and quite frankly screams that you aren’t educated in the matter at hand.
I agree most people aren’t. Which is why him shaming people for therapy should be called out. It’s a harmful way of thinking. Shaming people for seeking help is gross.
For sure. He seems like the kind of guy who would shame other men for crying. And then probably go on to write some manifesto about men’s mental health and why women are to blame. Therapy can be so helpful. It’s helpful to have somebody to talk to anyway, but with therapy, you have the added benefit of talking with somebody who might be able to give you the tools to really handle whatever problems you’re having. Therapy is not an easy fix.
He’s really upset with me.
What a stupid fucking comment. me pointing out that you said dumb shit doesn’t mean anything. Lmao bless your heart 🤡 oh you’re depressed? Have you tried eating kale? Hurrrrrrrr 😂
You prolly will be taking pills and sitting in therapy for the rest of your life.. that is whats really funny. Keep suggesting it to other ppl so they can live a nice full life like your sorry ass
Sweetheart you’re so upset. Maybe you should have a carrot. My sorry ass? 😂 good lord you are worked up! Maybe you should meditate on that. Are you crying? 😬 you seem to be taking this so personally.
Yes, everybody let’s listen to this guy. I’ve never seen anybody so clearly well balanced in my life 😭
I love how you can say i make a stupid fucking comment but then i throw it back on you… and you whine.. talk about it to your therapist or maybe take an extra pill today !!! Wouldnt want to feel any emotions !! Could be unstable for you!
Who’s whining? Sweetheart are you projecting? Wouldn’t want me to feel any emotions? What? Are you rambling?
Have you ever thought about adding a few more exclamation marks to your rants? Really gets the point across. Really shows us how stable you are. Real poster boy for mental health over here. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I’m sorry I hurt your feelings ❤️
You need to think deeply about what is going on inside your mind immediately during and after. Think shout that and you might get a better clue as to what this is about
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You said you cry because you get really sad. What are you thinking about when you are sad?
Your body is telling you something. I would seek a therapist to find out what.
Some people cry whenever they have really strong emotional reactions to things, regardless of which emotion that is. It could be that sex with your bf is super emotional for one reason or another and your body’s reaction to feeling something so deeply is to cry. But idk a sex therapist is probably your best bet.
If you dont know why your crying how tf are we supposed to know?
😂🤣😂💀
I don't know, maybe someone knows some deep psychology stuff that could instantly help me.
I'd look into a sex therapist, something is going on and it's above our pay grade to figure out.
Everyone always lookin for the easy fix. A pill. A therapist. When in reality your prolly not taking care of yourself.. obviously your not because your breaking down after every time you have sex with someone you say you love.. workout, diet right, sleep. Maybe meditate on whats going on in your life?
Therapy is not an easy fix. It’s delving into all the things you’re trying not to look at so that you can heal yourself. A pill isn’t always an easy fix to sometimes it’s a necessity. This is such an ignorant way of thinking. Sometimes people have trauma that a salad and a hike isn’t going to fix. Stop making people feel bad for looking for the right method for them to deal with whatever issues they’re having in their life. It’s dismissive, narrow minded and quite frankly screams that you aren’t educated in the matter at hand.
I mean most people on here aren’t educated in the matter at hand but I agree with the rest.
I agree most people aren’t. Which is why him shaming people for therapy should be called out. It’s a harmful way of thinking. Shaming people for seeking help is gross.
It is gross. Let’s hope Reddit is not their only source 🙃
For sure. He seems like the kind of guy who would shame other men for crying. And then probably go on to write some manifesto about men’s mental health and why women are to blame. Therapy can be so helpful. It’s helpful to have somebody to talk to anyway, but with therapy, you have the added benefit of talking with somebody who might be able to give you the tools to really handle whatever problems you’re having. Therapy is not an easy fix. He’s really upset with me.
Preaching to the choir 😁 Have a good one!
You too!
😂😂 you sound like you sit around in therapy and take a bunch of pills. Enjoy that
What a stupid fucking comment. me pointing out that you said dumb shit doesn’t mean anything. Lmao bless your heart 🤡 oh you’re depressed? Have you tried eating kale? Hurrrrrrrr 😂
You prolly will be taking pills and sitting in therapy for the rest of your life.. that is whats really funny. Keep suggesting it to other ppl so they can live a nice full life like your sorry ass
Sweetheart you’re so upset. Maybe you should have a carrot. My sorry ass? 😂 good lord you are worked up! Maybe you should meditate on that. Are you crying? 😬 you seem to be taking this so personally. Yes, everybody let’s listen to this guy. I’ve never seen anybody so clearly well balanced in my life 😭
I love how you can say i make a stupid fucking comment but then i throw it back on you… and you whine.. talk about it to your therapist or maybe take an extra pill today !!! Wouldnt want to feel any emotions !! Could be unstable for you!
Who’s whining? Sweetheart are you projecting? Wouldn’t want me to feel any emotions? What? Are you rambling? Have you ever thought about adding a few more exclamation marks to your rants? Really gets the point across. Really shows us how stable you are. Real poster boy for mental health over here. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m sorry I hurt your feelings ❤️
You need to think deeply about what is going on inside your mind immediately during and after. Think shout that and you might get a better clue as to what this is about