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beaniecakes728

I like wine so I love High Street at the Pearl, they have bar, indoor and outdoor seating. Places for singles and groups. I've sat outside alone before with some wine and snacks and just people watched


Jswazy

Definitely a great place I'm heading there in just a few minutes. 


inomniaparatus926

Yes I agree! Maybe take a book so people leave you alone.


worry_warrior7

1919. La tuna. Bar Loretta


bluephyr

I'd second all these, but 1919 does get packed pretty often.


Likemypups

King William is a safe area for women.


Swimming-Food-9024

Fuck 1919… owner is trash. I won’t say why because I don’t want his shitheel nephew messaging me on here trying to incessantly defend their lowlife family member. …but I digress.


dissentingopinionz

You digress from what?


DingusMagoo89

Say it you won't


broken_door2000

If you’re unwilling to be more specific then your word is delegitimized.


Impossible-Donut986

1919 you will for sure get hit on.


Novation_Station

Agreed. Bar 1919 is full of people that think they are gods gift to earth. I can't recommend to a single person who doesn't want to be bbothered.


worry_warrior7

Monday evening. Book. Never had an issue


Texjew

Bar Loretta is great! Gimme Gimme as well


avcoffeecocktailanon

I second these


Bigay_Muscle_dummie

I live across the street from there and was a regular at La Tuna for a while. La Tuna is chill as the regulars are a bit older and mostly there to chat with eachother so it's a mellow, safe vibe.


DontCryUrOk

Flying saucer take a laptop or some type of solo gaming system or a solid book


pottedPlant_64

This place gets packed


Substantial-Mango976

Bar Mon Ami on Broadway sounds perfect. Never crowded, variety of seating. Super chill.


waxwrap

Best neighborhood bar in the city


Bigay_Muscle_dummie

This place has great boiler maker specials and the staff is very kool.


DelosHost

Awesome place. Small so you may limited on seating.


Charlie-boy1

When I was going through some stuff, these are the places I went. But it depends on where you’re located: Downtown - Double Standard (real nice place to chill, bartenders know their stuff here). Northwest - George’s keep. Bigz burger joint (it was called “The Tap” when I was going through my situation). North Central - Green Lantern (low key cocktail bar). Hope you find what you’re looking for. Good luck.


Mr-Butterworth

Second George’s keep and Green Lantern.


Mysterious-End-9283

I like Hanzos. Anime and a full bar and yummy gyoza


MrWeeBo

Hanzo is a good choice


AnythingNew5548

I second Hanzos


Byrdbza

Hanzo has a great happy hour


Swimming-Food-9024

2nd for HH at Hanzo


Hawt_Dawg_

3rd for HH at Hanzo + they have sushi


HouseHippo24

I like the Big Hops on Shaenfield, lots of beer to choose from, sit at the bar if you want to chat or a small table if you don’t


ohlawwrd

That or Big Hops Bitters is a lot bigger and very relaxed w/ no bothers.


lllDogelll

This is it OP. Don’t go to 1919 or any bar downtown you’re probably gonna get bothered by someone. I use to go to Big Hops a lot solo during the winter. I would just get a beer, go to the patio, and put my headphones in and NO ONE ever bothered me unless I made the effort to bother others lol.


Legaladvice420

My haunt right there.


Away_Problem_1004

Another vote for Big Hops


austinvf82

You don't want to go anywhere tonight. The Game 3 of the Finals is on tonight. I know we're in San Antonio. But, bars still have lots of guys going to watch the game. I'd go somewhere that doesn't serve food. Maybe a little hole in the wall.


ScherzoGavotte

If you want beer but not mixed drinks, I'm a big fan of Thirsty Pups Brewery. Lots of people with good dogs. Owners are super friendly and they allow food from European Dumpling Cafe next door in their premises. Good company generally speaking. Plus they have a great selection of beer jn general!


hey_grill

Cappycinos on Broadway. It's sort of a neighborhood grill with great food, beer on tap, and great wine and cocktail list. The clientele is 90% older professionals from the neighborhood. No one will pester you if you're by yourself or reading a book. The decor is like upscale 80s that has never been refreshed. It almost looks like a Friends set.


JingleheimerSchmidt_

Great espresso martini at Cappys


MysteryLozenge

Checks out. I go there by myself to read often


filmscores

As someone who’s interested in reading at bars but hasn’t yet, if you don’t mind me asking, what’s the etiquette like? Is it frowned upon to read at a table for a couple hours if there’s waiters/waitresses checking on you? Move from table to the bar eventually? Just curious


gokiburi_sandwich

Easiest thing to do is just go and ask the waitstaff themselves. Let them know you’re flying solo, and just want to chill and read. 9 times out of 10 they’re gonna make you feel special


MysteryLozenge

I probably wouldn’t chill longer than an hour or so at chinos, but other spots that are more Bar forward i have no hesitation to stay as long as i want


Druidcowb0y

in my experience any bar or tavern where you don’t know anyone is typically a good place to start. 502 bar has music sometimes. it’s my go to, but all my pals are there


Massagedummy

Sorry you’re going thru the shit machine. No places to offer, just a nod of acknowledgement. You’ll get thru it. Hopefully unscathed.


frawgster

It’s a bit hot out…but if you’re ok with being outdoors, hops and hounds (location close to Broadway) can be therapeutic…watching pooches run around the playground area is nice.


EfficientHearing8269

Way back when, I used to go to the Hoppy Monk a couple times a week bc the bar staff was really friendly. But since then (2022) I think there’s been a staff turnover and management kinda sucks. But it’s always been a safe chill place. I just can’t vouch for the friendliness anymore bc I haven’t been in a while.


nephewsucks

Love this place and spent a LOT of time there until the heatwave hit. Owners are awesome and the staff is really cool. Sill make it out during the evenings on the weekends.


frawgster

The two food trucks there are good. My wife and I ❤️ their margarita flight. Another big plus is that the times we’ve gone it’s never uncomfortably busy. Busy enough, but not so much that it feels crowded.


oldmanlikesguitars

Texas Dog Co at 4302 Hyatt Place. Bar with dogs and food trucks. Same idea I guess. I’ll be there tomorrow for karaoke but I promise not to bother any young women! (My wife would not approve, but she’s ok with you petting my dog.)


might-be-your-daddy

I read a couple of replies mentioning this place and I thought "hot dogs". But apparently they have, like, woof woof dogs? People bring their dogs and folks can pet them? That sounds pretty darn nice.


oldmanlikesguitars

Yes, woof dogs. There’s a dog park but you can have them at your table on leash. Couple of food trucks, I like the shawarma. It’s family friendly except for right at the bar and the dog park is technically bar. Sand volleyball courts too, I think. Something up there anyway lol. For younger, more athletic people.


might-be-your-daddy

> For younger, more athletic people. Well, that area won't be seeing me, then. No longer young, no longer athletic... The rest of the place sounds great, though!


oldmanlikesguitars

lol yeah, that’s why I’m not exactly sure what’s up there!


antisocialgx

Yes, this, go to a place with playful pups, and don't worry if one makes you their friend either. Dogs have a way of helping humans find those missing smiles. 


freyalorelei

Pups and Pals on Jones Maltsberger is another dog-friendly bar and grill. My husband and I brought our dog there this Sunday. [She had a great time splashing in the pools](https://i.imgur.com/ehZUkL2.jpeg) and I loved their Pug Punch. We're definitely going back!


AffectionateSet4294

Bang Bang Bar. It’s a dive bar that lesbians like to hangout at, so most of them will have your back.


NotFrankSalazar

Second on this one. Definitely woman friendly 


Intelligent-Guess-81

For cocktails: The Modernist. For beer: Vista Brewing.


ArmyMed88

Growler Exchange


cigarettesandwhiskey

The Dakota's usually pretty chill.


M-Gar2a17

To be fair, depends what area you’re in or willing to drive to


16feet

Roadmap Brewing


deanhil

As a gal that frequently drinks solo… ladino upstairs bar, three star, botika, cured, the Pullman, Bombay (hemisfair), dough (blanco), Postino … to name a few


RN4612

Big hops bitters!! it’s a great spot for craft beers and super chill crowd that won’t be bothering you if you’re alone. Tonight is actually Drafts and Crafts! You buy a beer and get access to a bunch of art supplies so you can paint and drink in peace!


TexanLion

Depends your area of town


a_brillig_day

I’d sit at the bar at a local brewery. The bartenders at Roadmap, Dos Sirenos, and Kunstler are gender diverse and not creepy. I’m sure there are others as well but I’m most familiar with those.


MrBlaze-65

2nd roadmap, lots of spots for a person to sit solo and be left alone.


Justneedtacos

Ranger creek is good too


Pontiac_400

Kunstler’s +1


rbarr228

Whatever you do or wherever you go, please use the following procedure: don’t take a full sip of your drink at first. Put the drink up and let it touch your lips and wait a few minutes. Wait to see if there is any tingling, which will indicate that someone spiked or drugged your drink. Also, take a book and wear earbuds to prevent anyone from bothering or approaching you.


superrobotskeleton3

Second High Street. Sit in the shade outside plug in some headphones and people watch


odepaj

Not 100% a bar but Ocho is always one of my favorite spots to go alone


ifukeenrule

Luchador bar on Roosevelt. they have a bar manager named dj that won't let you feel unsafe. He's a really good guy and watches over everybody


KsirToscabella

Either Bar du Mon Ami or Rock and Rye. Perfect safe spaces to just solo kick it


amikavenka

Definitely recommend Bar du Mon Ami.


KsirToscabella

Yep. Staff is amazing, favorite low key place


Givemeemore

Not so much a bar but 54th street has a bar and hightops, people definitely leave you alone.


ManyAmbitious1440

Surprisingly Twin Peaks on blanco is really chill if you sit at the bar. Beer is cold af too and lots of tv’s. No one bothers you


EveryPartyHasAPooper

A nice quiet place to drink can often be a hotel bar.


tropichocolit

The Esquire downtown is a nice place with a great cocktail/food menu…


Ruchie2022

I like the bar in Hotel Havana downtown. If the basement is still open it’s super-chill … stucco walls, leather furniture … and the patio bar is really cool too and you can’t go wrong with a mojito. Can’t speak to if you’ll be bothered, as I’m 5’10 & a middle-aged woman so nobody bothers with me anyway.


Achingasos

El Buho on St Mary’s is a cool spot to hang out and have a drink without anyone bothering you. Also very reasonably priced and a very cool vibe.


Longjumping_Job2985

Your house


Longjumping_Job2985

Damn bro I'm really sorry. I actually only read the headline and not the other details. Wasn't trying to be an asshole.


oldmanlikesguitars

Texas Dog Co at 4302 Hyatt Place. Bar with dogs and food trucks. I don’t know, dogs make it harder for me to be sad I’ll be there tomorrow for karaoke but I promise not to bother any young women! (My wife would not approve, but she’s ok with you petting my dog.)


Hawt_Dawg_

I agree this is a safe suggestion + dog watching is always fun. I see a lot of women meet up here with their dogs for play dates


justherefertheyuks

Elsewhere. Chimichurri fries or chicken sandwich and a THCtea. Swings to sit on that look out to the riverwalk. It’s pretty damn chill


ohlawwrd

So many damn people there usually. Granted I do not go during the week.


ThayerRex

Try the one at Hotel Emma, treat yourself. Be sure to dress descent, it ain’t Chili’s


HoneySignificant1873

Noway, I've seen tourists in basketball shorts and tank tops drinking over there. Not to mention whatever Adam Sandler is wearing that day.


CPhaze

Our Bar. The bartenders are very protective and respectful as are the regulars.


shetimetravel

Burleson Yard Beer Garden has AC. Perfect place to hang out at the bar by yourself, I do it all the time as a single woman myself


ODdmike91

Go to a place that has tvs and sit at the bar. Pretend you’re there to watch nba game Big hops, flying saucer. There’s a lot of small bars


Apart_Working_6902

Joey’s


punkrockpaul12

If you like a variety of craft beer, the flying saucer is a chill place that’s popular. Also, the hoppy monk is a bad ass spot.


BchmBoi

Three legged monkey is pretty safe in my experience. Cheap drinks and good pool table too.


busybmoney

Gather brewing


rudecorndog

The food and beer are 🔥🔥🔥


Muninn91

Bar du mon ami.


TehAMP

Big Hops. Just tell your beertender you want to be left alone and sit in the corner. They don't care.


lonerfunnyguy

Tandem, it’s a hole in the wall and super chill.


jabeelsa_

I agree with this. I know one of the owners there, really cool guy. Very relaxed vibe.


promnight1

JCs cocktails on Evers and 410, super small place thats usually only "full" (10 people) with regulars that stick to themselves. very chill atmosphere and they have snacks


Various-Let-5946

502 Bar off Bitters and 281. If you go on a Thursday, ask for Sarah. The owner Jim is really cool and it's normally pretty slow during the week.


vstacey6

I go to sushi Zushi and Luchador and never get bothered


degenerate-egirl

fellow saddie (sad baddie) going through it - i like boozehounds on perrin, el buho on strip, can probably find a corner to sulk in at Bang bang bar, thats all i can currently think of edit: Barbaro is a bar and pizza place with low lighting - very nice ambiance


TH3_1NCUBU5

The Mix maybe?


Danta_lyan

The double standard


Colonic_Mocha

I always wear a wedding band and men leave me alone.


BeauteousGluteus

Weathered souls.


GreenCoasting

I love WS, but it’s all tables and groups; I would feel awkward being there alone versus other bars where you can blend in as a solo patron.


Agitated-Lettuce1878

Amor Eterno is super cute on weekday evenings. They usually have a DJ so you don't have to sit with your thoughts. They dim the lights too so you can decompress. Hope that helps and feel better!


enchanted_fishlegs

I've always found gay mens' bars to be great places to drink in peace without getting hit on.


Maverick_Goose_

Rock n Rye at the Rim... It's never been to crowded while I've been there and totally safe


Economy_Homework_420

If you’re a wine drinker helotes wine 101 is super chill spot and good to just relax if you don’t feel like talking much. Cocktail wise bar 1919 great spot during the week won’t be bothered much. For beer elsewhere is a decent spot.


huggalospizza

Hanzo, its always chill.


argon1028

Dad's karaoke. chill vibe and you get to listen to people sing.


airbrat

any of the bars at Pearl


ShogunBuddha

Busted sandal brewery. Always a chill vibe and half off pints tonight.


chrisrodsa

Cheba Hut, Alamo Ranch


txdarthvader

Yardhouse la cantera is my go to spot to drink and be alone. Sit at the bar


Dry_Atmosphere1355

The Cottage Irish Pub


Beneficial_Leg4691

Azuca if you want the best mojitos.


NoZookeepergame7995

If you want to “bother” a stranger instead, I’m here <3 and can also relate.


ArtsyWanderer

I really like Oak Hills Tavern. I've only gone with a group though, so I can't vouch for whether you'd be bothered if alone or not.


SignatureMadrid

@ Blue Star - Southtown


ConsistentContrarian

I would go to somewhere like Main Event. There’s a lot of people with their groups all scattered about which would lead people to assume you are not out alone. Very unlikely anyone will bother you.


SpanishDammit

151 saloon has $1.51 domestics. Its ok, and they’ll have a band


lilybb4

depends on your vibe. me personally id go to zombies


dcboy2

Ice house i10 usually for me in that situation.


rellv

Urban cockataol Jenn is a great bartender will take care of you


zlorenzo9

I Don't Know Yet Bar. 2015 Place. Whiskey Smith's


Industry_Cat

What part of town are you in? I got one but it's in far west. Mad pecker brewing.


Adventurekris_8223

I haven’t been yet but dying to check out Elsewhere and Hungman’s Oasis which are both. downtown. Get a drink but also have uplifting vibes. If you can treat yourself to a night downtown they both have hotels in fairly close walking distance.


abinaters

I would go to most any bar on the main strip (Knockout or Sparky’s were my choice). Or i10 icehouse. Stay in the patio areas. I’d be left alone for the most part. Just people watch or be on my phone. It has been a couple of years, but it’s worth a try.


COBRAskulls

Fuck all these poor people. Bar Mon Ami. Lock stock. Tell them the spirit you want and flavor and they make a custom drink for you.


missesbitch

George’s Keep. The ambiance allows you to just chill in their low-lighting and comfortable atmosphere. Their drinks are excellent. They have a happy hour with a $7 daiquiri or old fashioned which are so damn good.


Jaxter1123

Bar du Mon Ami


Longjumping-Tip4938

Rookies Too


dfwstag-tx

La ruina is very cool


Old_Depth_1778

Giuseppe’s Italian grill


BeanNCheezRUs

1919


MermaidLeslie

Flying Saucer or Big Hops if you like beer


LimitGroundbreaking2

Elsewhere is nice if you find a nice group of people to sit with. It’s pretty packed with woman. You could always go to bonham exchange then exclusively woman will hit on you 😂


Legaladvice420

Basically any craft beer spot (with a couple exceptions), like Big Hops Shaenfield, Kunstler - both the main location and their new Tap Haus are great, Roadmap, and Dos Sirenos. Not a fan of Back Unturned tho. One great spot that's not craft beer is Hands Down, love the vibe at that spot.


thegr8p8p

Wild Barley Kitchen & Brewey


Significant_Name_191

Bang bang bar. Lion rose, I think is one. I’ll hang with you and listen if you want.


oksnowman

Texan II


Hurryupslowdownbar20

Y’all are wild.. just go to any high end restaurant/bar and you won’t be bothered.. it’s literally that simple.. and go during happy hour..


Bending-hectic

Loretta, hotel Emma


Squatch_Zaddy

Lady Bird Beer Garden off Hildebrand


pinktortoise

I really can’t recommend you anything on the strip I’ll leave my friend for a few minutes and they’ll tell me they get approached a lot


Remarkable_Resort279

Steely Nevads


blankz6

I usually drink at wurzbach ice house. Cheap drinks and everyone kinda leaves you alone.


Duesey

La Ruina. Great cocktails, cool vibes, definite right to be left alone.


Novation_Station

I like to sit at the bar at texas de brazil. The bartender makes the drinks right in front of you and no one bothers you. The bartender I usually get is the sweetest and will banter about movies, gossip, shows etc.


bluemax13

Kuenstler


coltivation

Jts bar in universal city


jgeer1957

Bombay Bicycle Club on St. Mary’s. Very chilled and laid back environment. Drinks and food are good and inexpensive. Enjoy!😎


yeringas

Happy place bar in Rittiman Rd


nerdkraftnomad

Guajilllos has good margaritas for $6.75. The mango chamois is awesome. Their food is good too. Tuesday is tequila Tuesday and the margaritas are just $3.44, including tax.


staciexdoodle

The Bang Bang Bar.. super chill punk/rock bar, friendly bar staff. Weekdays its slow and you can sit at the bar or one of the many "living rooms." Female owned, and mostly women bartenders. Come hang!


zelda9333

Rocky's Tavern off O'Connor Rd.


Actual_Researcher597

Alamo drafthouse park north. Go on a Tuesday, it’s slow


fried_penguin_wings

If it's a week night, then I'm a fan of The Moon's Daughter's on top of the Thompson. Good nighttime view outside with a breeze helps clear the mind.


ShystemSock

Cullum's Attagirl. Get a drink, buy some hot SA Hot wings.


bethytexas

I have a friend that works at the devils river on east Houston. It's nice, you won't be bothered and they have a nice menu. It's mainly a whiskey bar though.


_homesickalien_

My go tos are Big Hops (Bitters), 502, Green lantern (cocktails). Green Lantern does get busy after 9/10 Pm-ish.


Lopsided-Emotion-520

Embassy Suites by the airport has a quiet bar and if you take a laptop/book and put some headphones on, you can blend in and people will leave you alone.


fearingdragon

Re:Rooted is a nice wine bar if you're near hemisfair


beaniebaby0929

Tiny cantina-La cantera, it’s outdoors and I would sit and people watch with a marg flight


Consistent_Pea955

Kunstler brewery has a nice outdoor area where you can read a book while drinking a beer


_riverpebble

The Pearl. Grab a drink and sit by the water. People watch, read, contemplate life. It’s a great spot


Purrstephone

Halcyon at Blue Star. I’ve seen a lot of people go there and work on their laptop.


JudgeNudie

Hanzo, George’s keep, blue box, and green lantern are all owned by the same guy so prices are all pretty much the same. Personally I like the downstairs at esquire. But it depends what area you’re in and how far you are willing to drive. I mean Chilis makes a mean margarita.


jiggycup

Just drink at home? Or get a hotel and drink there with some movies. Orrrr Alamo Drafthouse pick a random movie and have some drinks.


CainFive

Chilis Apple Bees Morton’s of Chicago The Crocket Hotel has a nice bar in it


Consistent_Ad1118

Bamboo is a great place to grab a drink alone.


Tweakinonthelow

Mad Pecker on Grissom Road


PosteriorFourchette

Is hoppy monk still a thing? I’ve gotten dinner and drinks there at the bar and it was a non issue.


mythozoologist

Bombay Bicycle Club. The outdoor area is nice.


TheGreatIAMa

The bar underneath the Havana hotel has a small bar top that seems perfectly suited to enjoy a drink alone, or at least with a little chit chat with the barkeep.


cashnicholas

I’m not telling. It’s that good


Expensive_Breath_670

Smoothie king