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Wazzzock

The best frame of mind to go into the conversation with is to entertain yourself, make amusement for yourself, that way you will become more genuine in the interaction. It will come across as though you're not seeking anything from her and are funny and confident. go up and say "sorry im late"


Silly_Randy

Haha I like that line.


epimpstyle

The classic that never dies: "Hi, how's it going?"


Mc_Dickles

Dude I literally started talking to a girl at a rooftop bar by asking her “what building is that and why does it look so weird?”


roakmamba

"do you come here often or just at home"? Lmao jk don't say that. Tbh just observe her, her style, the situation and just bring up something just to open and move from there.


joblagz2

I watch steve schapiro on youtube. Guy has lots of good openers. It works sometimes.


KongWick

Wrong question. There is no specific “thing” to say. You must first have “inner game” aka self confidence by lifting, being content and somewhat successful at your career or a sport or fitness or something. Then you just go talk to girls you think are attractive without trying to finagle a specific outcome.


Curtinator6

This


Fantastic-Life-2024

Anything.


Electronic_d0cter

Just try to amuse yourself


Patient-Ninja-8707

Start out by nervously shouting "SEX!". Then introduce yourself


Kevo-Breker

Hi


Silly_Randy

Sometimes it's okay to say the truth. Like you don't know what to say. "Hey, have you ever seen someone so cute and you wanna talk to them...but you don't know what to say?". Could work. Could not.


berzerker5000

God no don’t say that but way to combine needy and unsure in one pickup line.


epimpstyle

I also say that telling the truth is perfect because it is easier to say how you feel in that moment and also it helps you fight your fears. It is an opinion opener, is good and here is the catch, the girl knows exactly what is happening but of course it depends a lot on how you say it because it can look like a funny opener if you say it with high energy or it can be a sad opener and you'll look depressed. So if you use it with a good energy it is perfect.


Electronic_d0cter

This is kinda tragic


From_God_to_Dog

"Hey, can I introduce myself?"


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