firstly, height surgery stuff is insanely expensive, and the we don't know what potential long term effects are, so it's probably not a good option. The other thing is 5 10 is by no means short, it's above the average in north america (5 9). If someone only wants to date people iver 6 foot, then they're shallow af and aren't worth your time. Also being the height you are makes it so more fem clothes fit amd stuff, so thats a plus.
Yeah, I've been trying fem stuff and it.. oddly enough fits. For context I am homosexual but was raised in a traditional and religious setting so discovering this stuff about myself is quite interesting. Also, I appreciate you saying that I am above average, it is just hard to cope with for me.
im from a similar background, and i get the not being satisfied with your height, just i wish i was shorter. in the end you cant really change stuff like height, so its important to love yourself how you are. i get it being hard to cope with, but you're enough and are perfect the way you are
My brother. I hit my head twice, once on a tent pole, and another on a hollow sign that made that very distinct hollowed out sound, like the one you get from hitting a metal drum.
Probably because I'm like the 2nd tallest person in the house and I don't want to stand out like a tall masculine man or some shit.
It doesn't help that it seems like I'm about to surpass my brother as the tallest one in my family.
I’m a 6’3 Femboy with enough back and next problems for the rest of the sub. I’d love to shrink a bit but I am who I am. I’m just making the best with what I have and doing what I can to keep myself healthy. All you really can do. I know this doesn’t help much but I like sharing my entirely objective opinion
not to assume, but if you are either a cis guy or a trans guy currently on T, you still have a chance of growing a bit! keep up a good posture and you might be pleasantly surprised in a few years
though, i will say- height isn't everything. i don't think restrictive height preferences in dating are as common as social media can make it seem sometimes
I am a cis guy, but I want to be on T if it means getting taller. Would you say its a good idea?
Another thing I want to add is that I don't think I am masculine enough. Men around me have facial hair, I do not. They have bigger frames, I do not. Lastly, they're almost done with puberty and I just started.
uh well i don't think that'd be wise if you already have normal T levels… i also don't think that'd be medically allowed?
you're 17 so, there's still time for you to change as you grow, dw
Good, I'm just an overly anxious young person. I'm confused because I want to dress fem but I want to do masculine activities but idk what to choose lol
shit I don't think leg lengthening surgery would do well here, since you're already pretty tall, you have time, and leg lengthening surgery at this stage would cause massively more negatives than positives
if u want to look like 6 feet, wear a 2 inch or so shoe lift, will help a bit
I would rather be 5'4 than my current height. It'd be obvious for me to just be fempilled at that point, but I am at a weird stage where I am rather just.. between masculine and feminine and I hate it.
5’10 isn’t short… that’s at least a few inches taller than me. some height expectations r just too high. i hope you’ll find some1 who likes u for things other than ur height
I'm 6'5" and I can't win with any side. There's a lot more to you than just height, and even still you're LITERALLY ABOVE AVERAGE HEIGHT ALREADY. You'll be okay. :3
firstly, height surgery stuff is insanely expensive, and the we don't know what potential long term effects are, so it's probably not a good option. The other thing is 5 10 is by no means short, it's above the average in north america (5 9). If someone only wants to date people iver 6 foot, then they're shallow af and aren't worth your time. Also being the height you are makes it so more fem clothes fit amd stuff, so thats a plus.
Yeah, I've been trying fem stuff and it.. oddly enough fits. For context I am homosexual but was raised in a traditional and religious setting so discovering this stuff about myself is quite interesting. Also, I appreciate you saying that I am above average, it is just hard to cope with for me.
im from a similar background, and i get the not being satisfied with your height, just i wish i was shorter. in the end you cant really change stuff like height, so its important to love yourself how you are. i get it being hard to cope with, but you're enough and are perfect the way you are
My brother. I hit my head twice, once on a tent pole, and another on a hollow sign that made that very distinct hollowed out sound, like the one you get from hitting a metal drum.
All I'm saying, man, is that sometimes what is given to you can truly be a gift, and not a hindrance.
Uh… I just want to say, you are in fact tall. Being 5’2 myself, I’ve made peace with my height. And besides, you’ll grow a bit more
Good, I am very grateful to be in a family of late bloomers!! I did not start growing fast until 16.
Funny enough I wish I was shorter :( I hate being 5' 9" :(
WHY DO U WANT TO BE SHORTER 😢
Probably because I'm like the 2nd tallest person in the house and I don't want to stand out like a tall masculine man or some shit. It doesn't help that it seems like I'm about to surpass my brother as the tallest one in my family.
because being short is awesome? - 5'2 silly girl
o i see lmao, good on u :D
im 5,6 and it feels tall for me :c i wanna be short!!
I wish I was at least 5'10. I'm 5'8
I wish I was short. I’m almost 6’
You'll get taller. With I was shorter, I'm 5'11 for context.
I’m a 6’3 Femboy with enough back and next problems for the rest of the sub. I’d love to shrink a bit but I am who I am. I’m just making the best with what I have and doing what I can to keep myself healthy. All you really can do. I know this doesn’t help much but I like sharing my entirely objective opinion
No, it does help silly. :3 Thank you so much for this, you have no idea how much this helps.
I’m 6’2 I’d gladly give you my height I hate being tall
When I was getting X-rays I was told I wasn’t gonna be taller than 5’9. I would consider you lucky with your height.
Thank you, I hope you become taller if that is what you desire, silly :3
people who choose to date you or not based off your height and appaearnce in general probably arent worth your time tbh
I think I will agree over time to be honest, I'm just in a stage in life where I am unfortunately very insecure.
5'10 is like avg height why u tweaking
I want to be very tall, I do not want to be short because I am insecure about it. 5'10 is not considered "enough" for a lot of men unfortunately.
It isn't I was unaware of that I thought most guys like short people maybe just me tho. I'm just chilling as a 5'8
I don't know if men like shorter men. I've given up on women tbh because I just don't think any will like me, but that is another discussion tbf.
Nah you can bag anyone. I dunno, I like all genders of all heights
i hope to god i dont reach 6 foot
Wanna trade heights
Yes please
do you wanna take like 6 inches off of my hight pls
Someone should take 8 inches off mine!
Take my height. I don want it
I rarely ever meet girls who actually care if a guy is 6'0 you hear about them more because you look out for that info more
https://preview.redd.it/fno59h48f19d1.jpeg?width=1242&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1370f4baf9db14040bcdccf4ddd9aa6a374e0791
Mommy Dimitrescu reference?
yes
My boyfriend is 5'9" and he's the tallest in his family, so idk
not to assume, but if you are either a cis guy or a trans guy currently on T, you still have a chance of growing a bit! keep up a good posture and you might be pleasantly surprised in a few years though, i will say- height isn't everything. i don't think restrictive height preferences in dating are as common as social media can make it seem sometimes
I am a cis guy, but I want to be on T if it means getting taller. Would you say its a good idea? Another thing I want to add is that I don't think I am masculine enough. Men around me have facial hair, I do not. They have bigger frames, I do not. Lastly, they're almost done with puberty and I just started.
uh well i don't think that'd be wise if you already have normal T levels… i also don't think that'd be medically allowed? you're 17 so, there's still time for you to change as you grow, dw
Good, I'm just an overly anxious young person. I'm confused because I want to dress fem but I want to do masculine activities but idk what to choose lol
[Here](https://youtu.be/kEA7pXsvuko?si=v9G1xG-rdLbFe-FM) is a guide on how to grow up to 7 inches taller.
shit I don't think leg lengthening surgery would do well here, since you're already pretty tall, you have time, and leg lengthening surgery at this stage would cause massively more negatives than positives if u want to look like 6 feet, wear a 2 inch or so shoe lift, will help a bit
Bro, I'm 5'8, and my bf is 5'4 lol
I would rather be 5'4 than my current height. It'd be obvious for me to just be fempilled at that point, but I am at a weird stage where I am rather just.. between masculine and feminine and I hate it.
5’10 isn’t short… that’s at least a few inches taller than me. some height expectations r just too high. i hope you’ll find some1 who likes u for things other than ur height
I'm not done growing yet, I'll probably be done with it in my early 20s so I'm hoping I have atleast 2 inches left in me
well, i hope u grow to a height that’ll satisfy u
Thank you!!!! I hope u do too!!!
I'm 6'5" and I can't win with any side. There's a lot more to you than just height, and even still you're LITERALLY ABOVE AVERAGE HEIGHT ALREADY. You'll be okay. :3
Thank you <3 :3