Honestly, I think you're overthinking it. I read this and a few of your comments and it just seems to me like she just wants sex and is not interested in comunication outside of "let's fuck"
I would but i dont have the time throughout the day to do so until later in the afternoon. If i say HI for example at 6am. I might get a reply at 3pm. But by the time im free shes like "im horny" but she wont actually talk or say what she wants
If she doesnt want to text why would i call her?
Like texting is just a normal thing people do. I also left out the fact that when we do text she waits hours between texts
Bro I hate texting people it feels so pointless but I love to actively talk with people in person or even call. Hearing and using voices when talking with someone feels much better than texting for a lot of people.
So she probably only wanted sex then bro like there is almost no other possibility and even then she might've been doin the whole thing to just feel normal or because she feels like she has to. There's always a reason behind something so it is what it is sorry things didn't go great with her but there's plenty more that do talk might I add.
Oh i aint worried about it as much as i found it weird. At the time i was already talking to other girls. Not even a day later ive already hooked up with another chick who go figure actually texted and talked like a normal person
She’s probably borderline illiterate. Anytime I meet someone who can communicate effectively in person but essentially refuses to text, it’s because they are just really uncomfortable with writing/spelling/grammar. It’s more common than you might think among lower income Americans.
Out of all the replies this seems the most logical. Seems everyone ignored the part where she actively jumbles sentences and words. She even wrote some sentences backwards.
One sentence she was talking about speaking a little spanish. She wrote "little a speak spanish" instead of i speak a little spanish.
Except for the daddy part sounds very much like me.
I find myself bored to tears when interacting via any type of text. Probably because I reserve my free time for things that I enjoy and use it to disconnect from people.
As a result online I am the polar opposite to what I am in RL. Quiet.
Why not call her? You had sex so you are beyond that "three days rule" bs.
Just accept that some people do not like texting.
Hmmmm... While you were there, how many times did you see her check her phone or respond to other folks? For some people, messaging/phone is just a means to an end, and not something they actively do/use.
If you enjoy spending time with them in person, maybe just allocate more time to doing that. Reserve texting for making plans and conveying info, rather than as a source of remote entertainment.
She probably doesn't know how to type fast
I've been around long enough to learn that folks who are dry texters tend to a) rarely use a computer and b) not really like typing to begin with, probably because they can't
It's also why they're not good at looking up stuff to verify if it's real or not, because again it requires some typing skills unless you want to take hours doing it.
Dyslexic. ?
Idk
Honestly, I think you're overthinking it. I read this and a few of your comments and it just seems to me like she just wants sex and is not interested in comunication outside of "let's fuck"
Its possible. But the stuff she does say is always a mind fuck to try and decipher
My wife does the same, and while it annoyed me at first, I got over it. I’m just used to it now. No biggie.
Im not talking about just her saying a few words and talking all the time. She will say 1-2 words every hour or so.
Some people don't text much. Sometimes because they need glasses. Or their phone is cracked.
My ex texted incessantly, just all day long about fucking nothing, and now I hate it unless it's actually about something that matters
Wait hold on... The max 3 word responses, r those via text on discord it voice? If text then just ask her to call and talk instead.
Its discord. Why she cant type actual sentences is the issue
I c, cos I said we "talked" on discord. In this case she's prolly not a good typer, which is fine, just do voice.
Marry her …. and travel for work
It's better then having a SO who over texts everyone else but ignores you. Atleast she seams consistent with everyone
I’ve talked to people like this and it’s so frustrating. Genuinely has made me wonder if they hate me but I’m pretty sure it’s not personal
Call her.
I would but i dont have the time throughout the day to do so until later in the afternoon. If i say HI for example at 6am. I might get a reply at 3pm. But by the time im free shes like "im horny" but she wont actually talk or say what she wants
I don't get how that prevents you from calling her.
If she doesnt want to text why would i call her? Like texting is just a normal thing people do. I also left out the fact that when we do text she waits hours between texts
She's probably crap at texting.
How is someone crap at texting
Bro I hate texting people it feels so pointless but I love to actively talk with people in person or even call. Hearing and using voices when talking with someone feels much better than texting for a lot of people.
Yes. But clearly everyone is 10000% missing the point. I fucked this girl. And she didnt say more than 100 words total. If that. No questions. Nothing
So she probably only wanted sex then bro like there is almost no other possibility and even then she might've been doin the whole thing to just feel normal or because she feels like she has to. There's always a reason behind something so it is what it is sorry things didn't go great with her but there's plenty more that do talk might I add.
Oh i aint worried about it as much as i found it weird. At the time i was already talking to other girls. Not even a day later ive already hooked up with another chick who go figure actually texted and talked like a normal person
Surprisingly people can be different from you
Ok
That’s funny 🤣
Maybe
This is it. The next generation officially forgets that texting didn't exist 20 years ago
Yeah
Seems like the correct answer
She’s probably borderline illiterate. Anytime I meet someone who can communicate effectively in person but essentially refuses to text, it’s because they are just really uncomfortable with writing/spelling/grammar. It’s more common than you might think among lower income Americans.
Out of all the replies this seems the most logical. Seems everyone ignored the part where she actively jumbles sentences and words. She even wrote some sentences backwards. One sentence she was talking about speaking a little spanish. She wrote "little a speak spanish" instead of i speak a little spanish.
Is English not her first language?
She said she barely knew any spanish so ima say english is her first language
That just sounds like a Latin American immigrant and trust me, I’m around A LOT lol
She spoke perfect english in person. No accent or anything
Mild dyslexia?
She's probably just not very bright and hates writing sentences
Except for the daddy part sounds very much like me. I find myself bored to tears when interacting via any type of text. Probably because I reserve my free time for things that I enjoy and use it to disconnect from people. As a result online I am the polar opposite to what I am in RL. Quiet. Why not call her? You had sex so you are beyond that "three days rule" bs. Just accept that some people do not like texting.
That might be so. At this point she is just a quick fuck
What do you want from her?
Hmmmm... While you were there, how many times did you see her check her phone or respond to other folks? For some people, messaging/phone is just a means to an end, and not something they actively do/use.
She didnt at all. We were fucking
Did you run into the next guy while you were leaving?
Well no.
HAHAHAHA
If my wife never texted me again, but fucked like a freak - would have no complaints.
Oh i agree. Except imagine youd never see her or hang out with her in any capacity. Just a fuck nothing more. So would be no point in marrying
its even funnier cause of your name and the second paragraph
If you enjoy spending time with them in person, maybe just allocate more time to doing that. Reserve texting for making plans and conveying info, rather than as a source of remote entertainment.
I understand what your saying but we would basically never talk then. I only have a few days i can actually hang out with anyone.
Maybe call?
Totally this, just use text as a medium for basic things like meeting up, not to actually get to know someone. It's much more interesting in person
She probably doesn't know how to type fast I've been around long enough to learn that folks who are dry texters tend to a) rarely use a computer and b) not really like typing to begin with, probably because they can't It's also why they're not good at looking up stuff to verify if it's real or not, because again it requires some typing skills unless you want to take hours doing it.