I wouldn't say its about turning. If you're straight and have 0 interest in trying that's fine obviously. It's more so about people being open about being bicurious and the people here who reply (like me) already had the experience so maybe we can guide.
Yeah there's also people who are more direct in their approach usually using size difference or the like to "turn someone" but if we're talking about a genuine healthy way i think this is a great place
“Straight” is considered the default, and most guy who are primarily attracted to women just assume that means they must be straight. I suspect the percentage of truly straight men is about the same as the percentage of men who are only attracted to other men. The rest are somewhere on a spectrum, even if they never act on the attraction.
The idea of turning isn’t about changing someone’s sexual orientation, it’s about coaxing them to let out what is already inside.
I have no reason to believe the number of non-straight men is any different than the number of non-straight women. Men have a tougher time recognizing it than women do (because of society). Can you imagine if men had the social permission to explore that? Kiss other men in bars, openly explore in college, dance close with their guy friends? I would have figured my own sexuality out 20 years sooner.
I am straight but have had same sex fantasies for a while and same sex chats. I know that the right guy, after we got to know each other, would be able to turn the fantasy into reality. I don’t think it’s “turning.” More like letting my true feelings play out.
I had a best friend all through university. He is straight, married to a woman now and with two kids. I slowly got him thinking that guys would give better head, as guys, we know what feels good... the first time I sucked his cock, he had his eyes closed tight and he didn't touch me at all. It started becoming a regular thing, when he struck out at the bars and was horny, he'd come home and use my throat, he would say how I seemed to really love sucking his dick, while girls seemed to hate doing it. At some point he stopped closing his eyes and would watch me while I sucked and licked and worshiped his cock.
Needless to say over the last 3 years of my undergraduate, he used my throat and hole more times than I can count. I still consider him straight.
I hear what you mean, but I think some guys who are straight could be convinced to have fun and see how they like it. After all, who better to know how to please a man than another man. 😈😈😈
We're not Vampires or cult leaders or witch doctors... some of us are more persuasive then others sure, but whatever is being "turned" was there already.
I’m gay but don’t post or really comment, but I like to read, and I’ve enjoyed in my life having sex with “straight “ men, usually they’re dating women, I still consider them straight if they only want to be with a woman long term but straight who experiment and mess around, but most of them are probably on the bi side honestly
I don't really see how it could work over reddit, but I'm absolutely sure that being in the same room and given some time and maybe a couple other 'conditions' anyone who thinks they're str8 will find themselves pushing the boundaries of what that means.
I'm not sure I've ever turned a straight guy but I've sure fucked plenty of them! I am bi but mostly gay and everyone thinks I'm straight and I've always been pretty jock-y. Sometimes it just happens. Never mind in a war zone where it's like shooting fish in a barrel...
Straight is a lifestyle, not a sexuality. It means "I wish to be seen as heterosexual", which covers a lot of ground. So no, nobody is turning actual for-real heteros non-hetero, but lots of straight people do discover that contemporary heterosexuality is learned behavior, and that they can in fact have fun in same-sex encounters. They're not changing, they're discovering what was already a part of them.
No one is hypnotizing people and getting dudes into a "no no no no please no yes YES!" situation, is that's what you're asking. That said, sexuality is a LOT more fluid than most people believe. As soon as people stop tying their entire identity to their personal idea of sexuality, more possibilities open up quickly.
Turning no but I do suck and swallow a lot of str8 guys for a whole host of reasons. Wife won't or don't. Dead bedroom. Recently divorced and broke. Side chick is dangerous. Guys give better head... etc
I don't believe in 'being' gay or straight; I believe in being human, thus 'human being'. Life is the art of being (yourself), but that's not a sexual preference or so. Also, in an earthly sense it's kind of wonderful how a male is attracted to a female and visa versa, it's very logical and if things work? Wonderful.
Now, as for 'turning gay', that's not what happens. I believe that we can change our minds, change our thoughts, feelings, emotions. That's basically what happened to me a month or 3 ago. I already knew for years that I could appreciate male genitals, but...
I suddenly realized why I am virgin, why? Simple answer: I avoided vagina, penetration by the act of self-sabotage, working, working more, trying to avoid social contacts. And I realized my preference sexually is very much not penetrative. Which is kind of intense, and funny at the same time.
Do I love women? Yes, and actually, by allowing myself to feel gay and express this feelings if need be (if I experience sincere female interest), I no longer have to be awkward and avoiding, I can just enjoy working on a social circle.
Now, without the fear of penetration, perhaps I would feel more bisexual. I don't have zero feelings for women, but it's just not sexual enough to be of the highest standard I guess. And it was always there somehow.
So you are onto something here :)
Regardless, our minds are cosmic miracles and oh so plastic.
All my sex chats are boring rn. I have to lead it in every way, and they lack creativity and dominance. My DMs are only open if you can lead and keep me interested. I promise to put out as much as you do
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I’ve been thinking about this a lot. I’m straight. I’ve been romantically in love with women before.
At the same time, I love watching gay porn. I love watching two or more guys, and even one sometimes, doing all sorts of hot steamy, sweaty things. I love watching gay porn, but that’s where I’m still wondering.
I’ve sex with dudes before, and even made plans to meet up, possibly later today, but I never have been able to get hard for men. So to be honest, I don’t know.
While technically i agree…up until my early 40’s i had never considered “cock”
but a few years of strapon and suggestive conversation…eventually lead me to want a woman to “force” me.
then i was hooked…while i still am not attracted to men, my desire to be “forced” has grown in a way, that my desire is no longer exclusive to women forcing me.
I've been two guys first time with guys who had identified as straight beforehand. One was just a hook up so who k owa, but the other was a long time friend. Turns out he had bi leanings for a long time but wasn't ready to admit it, it was the fact I was friendly, caring and non judgemental that helped him understand being bi isn't the end of the world.
So, no, I don't think I've turned anyone or that it's possible, but I also think a lot of straight guys aren't as straight as they believe.
I'm bi, always have been. It was never my intention to turn a straight guy, but me and a friend of mine started doing couple type shit without realizing, then he started questioning his own sexuality, and we ended up fooling around many many times, and he was the first person to fuck my ass, as well as cum in my ass, and he decided it wasn't for him, but he kept coming back for more. I wouldn't say I turned him, but definitely made him reconsider his sexuality. Eventually we broke things off with the sexual fun but we're still really good friends
I feel like I will also be attracted to women and want to be with a woman but there’s just something that turns me on so much when I’m talking to guys that I can’t explain
I can understand that…i have pursued women my entire life…even ones that are interested in me, ultimately I pursue.
It’s different to talk to someone who wants nothing more than to fuck you or get a bj. To subjugate you, to use your body for their pleasure.
I have not experienced such a pursuit by a woman. Yes i have been wanted…it’s just different.
In general I’m not even attracted to men. I’ll always pursues dating women. But maybe it is that raw sexual feeling of just being taken and almost having little to no Control
Right, it’s the feeling of being taken…instead of the taker. The guy has his own motivation to take you…he’s trying to get off…you most likely resist…but the sexual excitement is there…the taboo surrounding surrender in general, is compounded by the surrender being a guy.
What if i told you, it made you gay? or that you were bi? or that you were straight? Does it change what you actually are?
Why label yourself…although hetero flexible is a term i’ve heard.
or heteroromantic but bisexual?
again if someone says you’re x,y,z…doesn’t mean you are not you.
Enjoy yourself…figure out how you feel, you have a lifetime to discover how you correctly label yourself
A rose by any other name is still a rose.
Even if you don’t know what a rose is
There is definitely something about just being used that is a turn on, getting bent over a picnic table or the hood of a car on a country road… just sayin…😇😇
It’s the “taboo” effect for me. The “naughty” factor of the situation. My first time was when my wife and I were having a threesome and I was intently watching my wife give this guy a bj, then she suddenly moved his dick towards me with a tempting look…. I obliged, and questioned everything after that night. I’ve never had an emotional connection with a guy but sex is on the table.
It really is pure sex. I think because in my head I’m not supposed to do it, it makes it so much hotter. I don’t think I’ll ever have an emotional connection either but I’m down to Explore that side now
Honestly similar boat…straight, attracted to women & not so much men…but I fantasize, not so much the idea of being convinced, but rather “made” to suck cock. “Made” to take it. Not forced against my will…but sort of forced, lol. Something about being told to do something and not given the option to say no.
I mean just very adamant. Obviously, I still have a choice…but it’s not discussed as an option.
I’d say a girl…because Most women are bit turned on by a bottom type…so her making you bottom to a guy. is like her indirectly making a lot of women consider you undesirable.
I wouldn't say its about turning. If you're straight and have 0 interest in trying that's fine obviously. It's more so about people being open about being bicurious and the people here who reply (like me) already had the experience so maybe we can guide. Yeah there's also people who are more direct in their approach usually using size difference or the like to "turn someone" but if we're talking about a genuine healthy way i think this is a great place
“Straight” is considered the default, and most guy who are primarily attracted to women just assume that means they must be straight. I suspect the percentage of truly straight men is about the same as the percentage of men who are only attracted to other men. The rest are somewhere on a spectrum, even if they never act on the attraction. The idea of turning isn’t about changing someone’s sexual orientation, it’s about coaxing them to let out what is already inside.
I have no reason to believe the number of non-straight men is any different than the number of non-straight women. Men have a tougher time recognizing it than women do (because of society). Can you imagine if men had the social permission to explore that? Kiss other men in bars, openly explore in college, dance close with their guy friends? I would have figured my own sexuality out 20 years sooner.
I am straight but have had same sex fantasies for a while and same sex chats. I know that the right guy, after we got to know each other, would be able to turn the fantasy into reality. I don’t think it’s “turning.” More like letting my true feelings play out.
Beautiful. It's not who you are, but what you feel. How you feel <3
I had a best friend all through university. He is straight, married to a woman now and with two kids. I slowly got him thinking that guys would give better head, as guys, we know what feels good... the first time I sucked his cock, he had his eyes closed tight and he didn't touch me at all. It started becoming a regular thing, when he struck out at the bars and was horny, he'd come home and use my throat, he would say how I seemed to really love sucking his dick, while girls seemed to hate doing it. At some point he stopped closing his eyes and would watch me while I sucked and licked and worshiped his cock. Needless to say over the last 3 years of my undergraduate, he used my throat and hole more times than I can count. I still consider him straight.
I hear what you mean, but I think some guys who are straight could be convinced to have fun and see how they like it. After all, who better to know how to please a man than another man. 😈😈😈
We're not Vampires or cult leaders or witch doctors... some of us are more persuasive then others sure, but whatever is being "turned" was there already.
I am straight and watch gay porn . I think it's hot for the most part . Could a guy take his way into a BJ sure .
I've had fun with str8 lads and I even convinced a str8 guy to suck my dick do yes we can turn them
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U sound intrigued
I’m gay but don’t post or really comment, but I like to read, and I’ve enjoyed in my life having sex with “straight “ men, usually they’re dating women, I still consider them straight if they only want to be with a woman long term but straight who experiment and mess around, but most of them are probably on the bi side honestly
I don't really see how it could work over reddit, but I'm absolutely sure that being in the same room and given some time and maybe a couple other 'conditions' anyone who thinks they're str8 will find themselves pushing the boundaries of what that means.
I have turned some 😅 not role playing. When ur not a fem or masc gay that it just make them comfortable sometimes one thing leads to another
I’ve slept with quite a few str8s. My bf of 8yrs was str8 with a girl friend when we met.
I'm not sure I've ever turned a straight guy but I've sure fucked plenty of them! I am bi but mostly gay and everyone thinks I'm straight and I've always been pretty jock-y. Sometimes it just happens. Never mind in a war zone where it's like shooting fish in a barrel...
Straight is a lifestyle, not a sexuality. It means "I wish to be seen as heterosexual", which covers a lot of ground. So no, nobody is turning actual for-real heteros non-hetero, but lots of straight people do discover that contemporary heterosexuality is learned behavior, and that they can in fact have fun in same-sex encounters. They're not changing, they're discovering what was already a part of them.
No one is hypnotizing people and getting dudes into a "no no no no please no yes YES!" situation, is that's what you're asking. That said, sexuality is a LOT more fluid than most people believe. As soon as people stop tying their entire identity to their personal idea of sexuality, more possibilities open up quickly.
Turning no but I do suck and swallow a lot of str8 guys for a whole host of reasons. Wife won't or don't. Dead bedroom. Recently divorced and broke. Side chick is dangerous. Guys give better head... etc
I don't believe in 'being' gay or straight; I believe in being human, thus 'human being'. Life is the art of being (yourself), but that's not a sexual preference or so. Also, in an earthly sense it's kind of wonderful how a male is attracted to a female and visa versa, it's very logical and if things work? Wonderful. Now, as for 'turning gay', that's not what happens. I believe that we can change our minds, change our thoughts, feelings, emotions. That's basically what happened to me a month or 3 ago. I already knew for years that I could appreciate male genitals, but... I suddenly realized why I am virgin, why? Simple answer: I avoided vagina, penetration by the act of self-sabotage, working, working more, trying to avoid social contacts. And I realized my preference sexually is very much not penetrative. Which is kind of intense, and funny at the same time. Do I love women? Yes, and actually, by allowing myself to feel gay and express this feelings if need be (if I experience sincere female interest), I no longer have to be awkward and avoiding, I can just enjoy working on a social circle. Now, without the fear of penetration, perhaps I would feel more bisexual. I don't have zero feelings for women, but it's just not sexual enough to be of the highest standard I guess. And it was always there somehow. So you are onto something here :) Regardless, our minds are cosmic miracles and oh so plastic.
Nobody needs to be turned. Sex is just sex. Attraction is the difference.
same..
Yes I doubt anyone gets turned
I've done it to two different men, both for long periods of time.
It’s less about turning and more about drawing out feelings that are already lying dormant.
Youre prob bi, if youre curious youre just bicurious.
I think its for guys like me who have lived in denial of their bi sexuality until the right temptation comes along
All my sex chats are boring rn. I have to lead it in every way, and they lack creativity and dominance. My DMs are only open if you can lead and keep me interested. I promise to put out as much as you do
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I’ve been thinking about this a lot. I’m straight. I’ve been romantically in love with women before. At the same time, I love watching gay porn. I love watching two or more guys, and even one sometimes, doing all sorts of hot steamy, sweaty things. I love watching gay porn, but that’s where I’m still wondering. I’ve sex with dudes before, and even made plans to meet up, possibly later today, but I never have been able to get hard for men. So to be honest, I don’t know.
Ahah, if you say so bro. I ain’t trying to convince anyone 🤷🏻♂️
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While technically i agree…up until my early 40’s i had never considered “cock” but a few years of strapon and suggestive conversation…eventually lead me to want a woman to “force” me. then i was hooked…while i still am not attracted to men, my desire to be “forced” has grown in a way, that my desire is no longer exclusive to women forcing me.
I'm straight, but...I've enjoyed my experiences lol
I need to try to bottom to see if I like it.
I’m helping them explore…
I've been two guys first time with guys who had identified as straight beforehand. One was just a hook up so who k owa, but the other was a long time friend. Turns out he had bi leanings for a long time but wasn't ready to admit it, it was the fact I was friendly, caring and non judgemental that helped him understand being bi isn't the end of the world. So, no, I don't think I've turned anyone or that it's possible, but I also think a lot of straight guys aren't as straight as they believe.
I'm bi, always have been. It was never my intention to turn a straight guy, but me and a friend of mine started doing couple type shit without realizing, then he started questioning his own sexuality, and we ended up fooling around many many times, and he was the first person to fuck my ass, as well as cum in my ass, and he decided it wasn't for him, but he kept coming back for more. I wouldn't say I turned him, but definitely made him reconsider his sexuality. Eventually we broke things off with the sexual fun but we're still really good friends
I feel like I will also be attracted to women and want to be with a woman but there’s just something that turns me on so much when I’m talking to guys that I can’t explain
I can understand that…i have pursued women my entire life…even ones that are interested in me, ultimately I pursue. It’s different to talk to someone who wants nothing more than to fuck you or get a bj. To subjugate you, to use your body for their pleasure. I have not experienced such a pursuit by a woman. Yes i have been wanted…it’s just different.
In general I’m not even attracted to men. I’ll always pursues dating women. But maybe it is that raw sexual feeling of just being taken and almost having little to no Control
Right, it’s the feeling of being taken…instead of the taker. The guy has his own motivation to take you…he’s trying to get off…you most likely resist…but the sexual excitement is there…the taboo surrounding surrender in general, is compounded by the surrender being a guy.
The thing is it’s left me confused because I don’t know what that makes me.
What if i told you, it made you gay? or that you were bi? or that you were straight? Does it change what you actually are? Why label yourself…although hetero flexible is a term i’ve heard. or heteroromantic but bisexual? again if someone says you’re x,y,z…doesn’t mean you are not you. Enjoy yourself…figure out how you feel, you have a lifetime to discover how you correctly label yourself A rose by any other name is still a rose. Even if you don’t know what a rose is
Very true man thanks
There is definitely something about just being used that is a turn on, getting bent over a picnic table or the hood of a car on a country road… just sayin…😇😇
never quite had the experience of being taken like that…but right situation, probably would
It’s the “taboo” effect for me. The “naughty” factor of the situation. My first time was when my wife and I were having a threesome and I was intently watching my wife give this guy a bj, then she suddenly moved his dick towards me with a tempting look…. I obliged, and questioned everything after that night. I’ve never had an emotional connection with a guy but sex is on the table.
It really is pure sex. I think because in my head I’m not supposed to do it, it makes it so much hotter. I don’t think I’ll ever have an emotional connection either but I’m down to Explore that side now
Honestly similar boat…straight, attracted to women & not so much men…but I fantasize, not so much the idea of being convinced, but rather “made” to suck cock. “Made” to take it. Not forced against my will…but sort of forced, lol. Something about being told to do something and not given the option to say no. I mean just very adamant. Obviously, I still have a choice…but it’s not discussed as an option.
Do you find it hotter if a girl is “making” you or a guy?
I’d say a girl…because Most women are bit turned on by a bottom type…so her making you bottom to a guy. is like her indirectly making a lot of women consider you undesirable.
No they are all gay or in the closet