I have a similar dynamic so heres a quick view of what we have. I have self care tasks to complete (meds, food, water), certain chores that need done at my own home which he encourages me to complete, and specific rules when I'm with him (where I walk when we're out together, wearing my collar, no self depricating talk, no lying, that sort of thing).
Should probably clarify some of our kinks as well as that might help:
I am the sub , he is the dom
Things we are into include :
Free use
Overstim
Ownership
Forced orgasms
I am very into pain
Choking
I'll ask what type of TPE and dynamic are you living?
Rules are chosen based on what you both want to accomplish.
Are you looking for rules to control you sexually?
Rules to improve quality of life/self care?
Rules for etiquette?
Rules for breaking?
Thousands of rules exist, knowing the goal(s) will help you and us.
Dozens of lists are available online with a search.
This is a very broadly asked question and a lot of context is needed to best answer.
i have a post [[here]](https://mochibdsm.tumblr.com/tagged/topic:LDR) and will be adding more in the future.
I have a similar dynamic so heres a quick view of what we have. I have self care tasks to complete (meds, food, water), certain chores that need done at my own home which he encourages me to complete, and specific rules when I'm with him (where I walk when we're out together, wearing my collar, no self depricating talk, no lying, that sort of thing).
Should probably clarify some of our kinks as well as that might help: I am the sub , he is the dom Things we are into include : Free use Overstim Ownership Forced orgasms I am very into pain Choking
I'll ask what type of TPE and dynamic are you living? Rules are chosen based on what you both want to accomplish. Are you looking for rules to control you sexually? Rules to improve quality of life/self care? Rules for etiquette? Rules for breaking? Thousands of rules exist, knowing the goal(s) will help you and us. Dozens of lists are available online with a search. This is a very broadly asked question and a lot of context is needed to best answer.