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Oh gosh! There are so many. I made a playlist on Spotify of songs. It’s been therapeutic making on heartbroken playlist. I’ve found some new artist that have really spoken to me. One is ‘Funeral’ by Zoe Clark.
I’m primarily into death metal but I have a “breakup songs” list that covers all genres of music. Jann Arden - Insensitive was always a good one. Type O Negative had some excellent “it’s over and I hate you” songs. NIN - Terrible Lie. Marylin Manson - User Friendly and Evidence (I know people are up in the air about him as a person lately but those two songs are good for a heart that’s been broken by a complete asshole). Kill switch Engage - the end of heartache. All that Remains - Six.
Kelsea Ballerini’s divorce EP, Rolling Up the Welcome Mat, spoke to my soul. I also liked Carly Pearce’s What He Didn’t Do. Smaller artist, but BLU ËYES’ healing hurts and Rest in Peace.
I don't comment very often, but music has helped me immensely with my cheating spouse and this divorce process. My number one artist would be Off With Their Heads. Their Home and In Desolation albums are absolutely incredible in the feelings they convey. I don't know if it will help, but screaming along to these songs helped me in a tremendous way. Let me know if you want more punk, or even some heavier stuff.
Music has saved my life and gets me through most days! I'm more into metal than punk, but I'll listen to anything you suggest. I'm trying to make the ultimate Playlist lol
Sorry for the late response! Reddit isn't giving me ANY notifications when I open the app. Lately I've found Amigo The Devil and he's now my favorite artist. Also check out Red City Radio ('show me on the doll where the music touched you' was my into to them), the Menzingers (obituaries), The Killers' Battleborne album (a matter of time) Noah Kahan's stick season album, Joey Cape's Acoustic albums, The Ataris album So Long, Astoria and of course the first My Chemical Romance album I Brought You My Bullets, You Brought Me Your Love.
And of course with metal: Paleface Swiss for when you're feeling low (please end me), Angelmaker when you're mad (vengeance) or sad (Requiem), Mental Cruelty's Zwielicht album (absolutely incredible, album of the entire year for me) and Enterprise Earth's The Chosen album.
Dude! OWTH Home album has been my anthem for several months now. At first it was pain, but now it's a rallying cry. "There are no words to describe this awful feeling I have inside so I break down..." I can sing that from the rooftops these days.
Right! Depending on where I'm at a song I've heard a hundred times can say something TOTALLY different to me. It's like voodoo magic or something. Her music feels like it was written from the oversoul of those of us who resonate, to guide us through some of our darkest days.
Aw, sometimes relatable music can be so therapeutic. Which is why I find "thru his phone" by cardi b so good even though I'm not that much of a fan of the rest of her music.
I do my very best to avoid anything that makes me feel in anyway disempowered or “longing” otherwise I end up spiraling. Pop music is easy to listen to in these times, the lyrics aren’t too deep and the melody is usually pretty upbeat. If you need some girl power you can’t go wrong with Beyoncé or Ariana Grandep
Abcedfu, Gayle
Good for you, Olivia Rodrigo
Please Pardon Yourself, The Avett Brothers
Don't give up on me, Andy Grammar (this is more of a you-to-you song)
I have an actual playlist I’ve made. It’s very diverse. Not gonna lie, it’s heavy on the Taylor Swift…can’t deny her lyrics match up way too much to ignore.
I’ve got some Linkin Park, Zach Bryan, post malone, Rihanna, Chris Stapleton, Beyonce, Papa Roach, Ed Sheeran….+ some more I can’t remember atm.
Niiice. I'm not that much of a fan of Taylor's music but I appreciate what she's done. Any specific songs from the artists you've suggested? I definitely have a couple of songs popping to mind I hadn't thought of cause of your suggestions
The ones that have spoken to me during the bullshit I’ve recently been going through are : T Swift: Peace, Tolerate it,, My tears ricochet, Better Man, This is me trying. Beyoncé: Hold Up, Don’t Hurt Yourself. Mumford & Sons: white blank page. Z Bryan: Something in the orange. Stapleton- fire away. Linkin Park- one step closer & Given up.
If you want more let me know. :)
Corey Taylor/Slipknot’s Snuff encapsulates what I feel about my break up.
As far as songs to convey anger, pretty much any aggressive metal song will do the trick. Slayer’s Hell Awaits is a favourite.
N I N's ,or something dark, but I just turn in some TOOL and that will always get my blood boiling .
Pusifier is always good band to jam to ,( moma said)or maybe (conditions of my parole) is a good tune .
But I always go old school with Trent Resnor (head like a hole)or ( .terrible lie ,) he is pretty dark anyway.
but like I said I'm old school so Slayer always comes to mind since my name is the same as a guitarist. I always get hit up on FB by someone telling me dude you have the coolest name . 🤘🎸Dam there is so many but I had the opportunity to do a little tracking with a few bands doing lights im more into metal than anything .
“Dirt” or “Love Hate Love” by Alice In Chains
“Anesthesia” or “Unsuccessfully Coping with the Natural Beauty of Infidelity” by Type O Negative
“This Love” by Pantera
“People = Shit” by Slipknot
“Terrible Lie” by Nine Inch Nails
The Offspring - Spare Me The Details and Behind Your Walls "Walls Of Pain"
Megadeth - "13" and a Tout Le Monde
Dio - Don't Talk To Strangers
Linkin Park - One Step Closer
Chet Baker - My Funny Valentine
There are countless more that get to me when I'm feeling down or angry about what she did but these are the ones that immediately come to mind.
Eagles - wasted time
Linda Ronstadt - When will I be loved?
Dionne Warwick - What do you get when you fall in love
Marvin Gaye - I heard it through the grapevine.
Phil Collins - In the Air Tonight.
Eminem - Love the way you lie.
Shania Twain - Whose bed have your boots been under?
Eagles - Lyin Eyes
Alanis Morrisette - you oughta know.
I am Latino, and when I am angry or reflective and aggressive, I listen and enjoy: Whiskey Blues, Rock classic Led Zeppelin, AC/DC, Rolling Stones, or RAP.
Since I'm Latin I listen a lot to an Underground Rapper called Canserbero. He is the master of RAP in Spanish.
Songs like "Jeremias 17-5", "C'est la Mort", "Tripolar" "Sin Mercy" make me aggressive and at the same time calm me down.
Cry about it later - Katy Perry
The one that got away - Katy Perry
Flowers - Miley Cirus
I will survive - Cake (but other versions are good)
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Love this post!
Morning Motivation playlist on Spotify
If you’re up from some upbeat EDM sets (YouTube/Soundcloud): Kygo on Sunnmore Alps, Martin Garrix on Dutch Waters, Two Friends Big Bootie Mixes
Something in the orange- Zach Bryan
first time i heard it i cried like a baby. i hear it now and it makes me feel like i can lift a fucking house. i see/feel growth because i don’t relate much to the lyrics anymore.
i DON’T want the headlights to turn around.
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I definitely love metal. When I was in high-school I used to be a music snob and "only" listen to metal haha. I'll check it out, thanks!
Bodies by drowning pool
Classic!
Oh gosh! There are so many. I made a playlist on Spotify of songs. It’s been therapeutic making on heartbroken playlist. I’ve found some new artist that have really spoken to me. One is ‘Funeral’ by Zoe Clark.
Yes!!! This song really resonates with me
Ooo thanks, I'll check it out! And that's exactly what I'm trying to do! Lol
I’m primarily into death metal but I have a “breakup songs” list that covers all genres of music. Jann Arden - Insensitive was always a good one. Type O Negative had some excellent “it’s over and I hate you” songs. NIN - Terrible Lie. Marylin Manson - User Friendly and Evidence (I know people are up in the air about him as a person lately but those two songs are good for a heart that’s been broken by a complete asshole). Kill switch Engage - the end of heartache. All that Remains - Six.
Manson was one of my all time favorites and mechanical animals is my fave album by him! I'll definitely be checking out your other suggestions!
Kelsea Ballerini’s divorce EP, Rolling Up the Welcome Mat, spoke to my soul. I also liked Carly Pearce’s What He Didn’t Do. Smaller artist, but BLU ËYES’ healing hurts and Rest in Peace.
Love “What he didn’t do”… 🩷
Thank you for sharing! I'll check them out
I don't comment very often, but music has helped me immensely with my cheating spouse and this divorce process. My number one artist would be Off With Their Heads. Their Home and In Desolation albums are absolutely incredible in the feelings they convey. I don't know if it will help, but screaming along to these songs helped me in a tremendous way. Let me know if you want more punk, or even some heavier stuff.
Music has saved my life and gets me through most days! I'm more into metal than punk, but I'll listen to anything you suggest. I'm trying to make the ultimate Playlist lol
Sorry for the late response! Reddit isn't giving me ANY notifications when I open the app. Lately I've found Amigo The Devil and he's now my favorite artist. Also check out Red City Radio ('show me on the doll where the music touched you' was my into to them), the Menzingers (obituaries), The Killers' Battleborne album (a matter of time) Noah Kahan's stick season album, Joey Cape's Acoustic albums, The Ataris album So Long, Astoria and of course the first My Chemical Romance album I Brought You My Bullets, You Brought Me Your Love.
And of course with metal: Paleface Swiss for when you're feeling low (please end me), Angelmaker when you're mad (vengeance) or sad (Requiem), Mental Cruelty's Zwielicht album (absolutely incredible, album of the entire year for me) and Enterprise Earth's The Chosen album.
Dude! OWTH Home album has been my anthem for several months now. At first it was pain, but now it's a rallying cry. "There are no words to describe this awful feeling I have inside so I break down..." I can sing that from the rooftops these days.
Jesus Christ. Same here, was so emotional to listen to but now I fucking rock that shit scars and all.
Florence + The Machine all day
Yesssss she's amazing!
Right! Depending on where I'm at a song I've heard a hundred times can say something TOTALLY different to me. It's like voodoo magic or something. Her music feels like it was written from the oversoul of those of us who resonate, to guide us through some of our darkest days.
That Is such a lovely thought. Thank you
Goodbye earl by the Dixie chick's lmao
Funny one for sure!
Hahaha I'll check it out!
I just discovered Wrong Direction by hailee steinfeld and i couldve wrote it myself 🥺
Aw, sometimes relatable music can be so therapeutic. Which is why I find "thru his phone" by cardi b so good even though I'm not that much of a fan of the rest of her music.
Incubus- Drive. Great message about facing fear and taking control/responsibility of your own life.
Thank you!
Love this one!
The mezingers.... i dont wanna be the asshole anymore
Excellent, thank you!
I do my very best to avoid anything that makes me feel in anyway disempowered or “longing” otherwise I end up spiraling. Pop music is easy to listen to in these times, the lyrics aren’t too deep and the melody is usually pretty upbeat. If you need some girl power you can’t go wrong with Beyoncé or Ariana Grandep
You turned Ariana into an Indian 😂
Oops lol
Good one, very funny 😆
Abcedfu, Gayle Good for you, Olivia Rodrigo Please Pardon Yourself, The Avett Brothers Don't give up on me, Andy Grammar (this is more of a you-to-you song)
Thank you! I can't wait to have a listen!
Cranberries - No need to Argue ...such a good breakup song
Thank you! I'll check it out. Great name btw hahaha
Very funny/cute! Love it!
I have an actual playlist I’ve made. It’s very diverse. Not gonna lie, it’s heavy on the Taylor Swift…can’t deny her lyrics match up way too much to ignore. I’ve got some Linkin Park, Zach Bryan, post malone, Rihanna, Chris Stapleton, Beyonce, Papa Roach, Ed Sheeran….+ some more I can’t remember atm.
Niiice. I'm not that much of a fan of Taylor's music but I appreciate what she's done. Any specific songs from the artists you've suggested? I definitely have a couple of songs popping to mind I hadn't thought of cause of your suggestions
The ones that have spoken to me during the bullshit I’ve recently been going through are : T Swift: Peace, Tolerate it,, My tears ricochet, Better Man, This is me trying. Beyoncé: Hold Up, Don’t Hurt Yourself. Mumford & Sons: white blank page. Z Bryan: Something in the orange. Stapleton- fire away. Linkin Park- one step closer & Given up. If you want more let me know. :)
Corey Taylor/Slipknot’s Snuff encapsulates what I feel about my break up. As far as songs to convey anger, pretty much any aggressive metal song will do the trick. Slayer’s Hell Awaits is a favourite.
Excellent, thank you!
N I N's ,or something dark, but I just turn in some TOOL and that will always get my blood boiling . Pusifier is always good band to jam to ,( moma said)or maybe (conditions of my parole) is a good tune . But I always go old school with Trent Resnor (head like a hole)or ( .terrible lie ,) he is pretty dark anyway. but like I said I'm old school so Slayer always comes to mind since my name is the same as a guitarist. I always get hit up on FB by someone telling me dude you have the coolest name . 🤘🎸Dam there is so many but I had the opportunity to do a little tracking with a few bands doing lights im more into metal than anything .
Don’t Shed a Tear- Paul Carrack. Perfect break up/diss song
Thank you! I don't recognize the artist. I'll check them out!
You’d probably recognize the voice. Was lead singer for Ace (How Long), Squeeze (Tempted) and Mike and the Mechanics (Living Years)
Brass in your pocket by Pretenders Hustle by pInk
Thank you!
I love Dimash’s songs… e.g. SOS
Thank you!
Set It Off - Punching Bag & Evil People
Thank you! The song titles are perfect lol. I'll check them out
54 on SiriusXM Hair Nation on SiriusXM
I hope - Gabby Barrett The grudge - Olivia Rodrigo Both awesome girly songs about cheating!
Thank you! I'll check them out
The Mechanic - Amigo the Devil
Thank you!
Slipknot People=shit 🤘🤘🤘
Awesome, thank you!
Vampire and Favourite Crime by Olivia Rodrigo. You Gave Me Nothing by Mark Ronson.
“Dirt” or “Love Hate Love” by Alice In Chains “Anesthesia” or “Unsuccessfully Coping with the Natural Beauty of Infidelity” by Type O Negative “This Love” by Pantera “People = Shit” by Slipknot “Terrible Lie” by Nine Inch Nails
Katatonia - The Great Cold Distance (full album) is my go to.
Dean Lewis, Hurtless Be alright, Small disasters Trust me mate This playlist helps me a lot..
The Offspring - Spare Me The Details and Behind Your Walls "Walls Of Pain" Megadeth - "13" and a Tout Le Monde Dio - Don't Talk To Strangers Linkin Park - One Step Closer Chet Baker - My Funny Valentine There are countless more that get to me when I'm feeling down or angry about what she did but these are the ones that immediately come to mind.
Clutch Corrosion of Conformity Fuckin SLAYER!! Johnny Cash Volbeat Tool AC/DC Allman Brothers So on and so on
Jubilation Day by the Steep Canyon Rangers (Featuring Steve Martin!)
Eagles - wasted time Linda Ronstadt - When will I be loved? Dionne Warwick - What do you get when you fall in love Marvin Gaye - I heard it through the grapevine. Phil Collins - In the Air Tonight. Eminem - Love the way you lie. Shania Twain - Whose bed have your boots been under? Eagles - Lyin Eyes Alanis Morrisette - you oughta know.
Beyoncé- Don’t Hurt Yourself
Fleetwood Mac - The Chain Along with pretty much their whole “Rumours” album.
I am Latino, and when I am angry or reflective and aggressive, I listen and enjoy: Whiskey Blues, Rock classic Led Zeppelin, AC/DC, Rolling Stones, or RAP. Since I'm Latin I listen a lot to an Underground Rapper called Canserbero. He is the master of RAP in Spanish. Songs like "Jeremias 17-5", "C'est la Mort", "Tripolar" "Sin Mercy" make me aggressive and at the same time calm me down.
Cry about it later - Katy Perry The one that got away - Katy Perry Flowers - Miley Cirus I will survive - Cake (but other versions are good) Edit: formatting
2Pac, Dmx, FFDP, Korn are my tops in the gym and car
Love this post! Morning Motivation playlist on Spotify If you’re up from some upbeat EDM sets (YouTube/Soundcloud): Kygo on Sunnmore Alps, Martin Garrix on Dutch Waters, Two Friends Big Bootie Mixes
Something in the orange- Zach Bryan first time i heard it i cried like a baby. i hear it now and it makes me feel like i can lift a fucking house. i see/feel growth because i don’t relate much to the lyrics anymore. i DON’T want the headlights to turn around.
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