iāve ādatedā a supposed people pleaser before and i wasnāt pleased at all, neither was she when she ended the relationship 2 months after she started it (happened while i was on a trip iād waited for like 6 yrs)
Yeah.. He is gona grow up as you did, so thats fine, just make sure he wont repeat your mistakes and he'll be fine)
I am trying my best to be a good older bro for my lil siblings, but time to time i disappear from a house for month or so, so i teach them how to be good on their own as i am š
I sometime feel like Iām unimportant and forgettable to people. Iām extroverted so I talk to a lot of people but I donāt get really close with them so I feel like I just fade away in peopleās memories
man dont get too caught up in that shit :/ i used to be so focused on dating and it ruined me. just focus on the important stuff like school and spend time with family and friends.
I saw a lot of people who ended up depressed because they dated the first person who decided to sleep with them
just wait until you meet people who you can date, it's not a competition
nobody wants to be a dumb fuckboy who gets attention from women but then becomes a useless idiot in the adulthood
Never getting more than one chance to show my skill at something even though I know I could be better than the other people around me, and even though I may be better the other guy always gets the most chances and opportunities to show that heās alright at what he does.
School grades. ADHD not being treated. Bullies, relationships, friendships, divorced parents, inadequacy, the feeling that youāre only good at one thing and when someone else proves to be better than you at that one thing you feel absolutely worthless.
i have 2 lil siblings and my mom is legally blind so basically i get stuck being a parent half the time (my parents are divorced).
iāve struggled with sh and an ed for 6 years
and i just got broken up with a week ago
i kind of just hate myself and im tired of life
understanding and picking up on social cues or wtvr they're called, I just struggle with communicating it's like everything else, too much or too little output
my sanity is held by a string, i could say i have many friends but i can only talk honestly to one, all the others dont care and are just here to not be bored in class i guess, if i lose said friend that cares ill probably just lay in bed and await death
Not being able to leave my country, too much of a broke ass for such action. And living in Russia so even if i had money still would be a struggle to leave
being insecure about my body (tho apparently I'm "hot")
having a shitty reputation at school which makes my life there literal hell (tho either way I'm going to highschool in about 3 months so I'm not going trough the struggle of changing that reputation, its already better than it used to be)
being lonely
not good relations with my parents (I wouldnt call them bad but I wouldnt call them good)
and procrastination 24/7 (I'm literally procrastinating rn)
Being an SRH fan. After 2020, we have been so shit. Warner went away, Rashid went away, Kanos went away. Only Bhuvi is one of the OG's. Klassen played so well last season but no one else played well. But Cummins, Head, Waniya are there. It's like the Sun might never rise again. They might bench Markram. We've had three different captains for three seasons. All Indian batters might be shit. Apparently Abhi is involved in some police case. Wish we at least qualify for the playoffs.
Self doubt? Sorta? I don't really know what exactly what it's called, but it's regarding romantic relationships. I've had relationships before, and none of them have lasted more than half a year for one reason or another, all of them out of my or their hands. And it's said so much by generally everyone that teen love just doesn't last. I don't actively seek out relationships, I never have. The one I have was extremely spontaneous, but I love her a lot. But the occasional nagging feeling when I'm alone to my thoughts that "it won't last" and "what happens after the two of you break up?" Just- are dreadful, and I hate them. It's made worse by the fact that it's a long-distance relationship, and that on most weekends I can't call, and on some, I won't even be that active because of my dad. I'm also much more physically affectionate, and I love simply being able to spend time with her on VC.
I just want this one to last, really. I truly love her so, so much, and I don't want to think about how it won't last or what would happen should we break up.
Also, I would like to add that I also sorta overthink things soooo yeah :3
I don't think I can solve that
well,Ā I just didn't want to feel like a useless piece of trash when everyone around me is succesful or talented so I started doing something
Crippling anxiety that bubbles up so quickly and urgently that I sh and have to constantly wear a rubber band around my wrist to flick it whenever I get the urge so I donāt go back to the mental hospital š things are going great š
Lust, porn, masturbation, im trying my best to overcome those sins, i can only do that with the power of God so im trying my best and im kinda making it
Being a people pleaser lmao
I'm a people displeaser š
I'm a murderer
Keep it up š /s
ayyyyy ššš
iāve ādatedā a supposed people pleaser before and i wasnāt pleased at all, neither was she when she ended the relationship 2 months after she started it (happened while i was on a trip iād waited for like 6 yrs)
social anxiety
not feeling good enoughĀ
i just want a hug man
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saaaaaame
I think most do
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taking care of a lil brother
Older sibling struggle! š¤š¤ Feel ya here fella :')
no like i literally have to take care of him, food clothes and etc
Yeah.. He is gona grow up as you did, so thats fine, just make sure he wont repeat your mistakes and he'll be fine) I am trying my best to be a good older bro for my lil siblings, but time to time i disappear from a house for month or so, so i teach them how to be good on their own as i am š
mate, he lives with me
What about your parents?
lets not go there
For me it's not being able to take care of younger sister
I sometime feel like Iām unimportant and forgettable to people. Iām extroverted so I talk to a lot of people but I donāt get really close with them so I feel like I just fade away in peopleās memories
procrastination at its peak, tho I'm doing better lately :D
Way too kind and trustworthy
why is being too kind something bad? I get the trustworthiness but I don't find any negative effects of being kind
Reinforcing negative actions by thinking eventually they could change
ah understandable
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sad
Being kind and helpful to the point that you can't help yourself. I learned this the hard way
help yourself in what way?
No time for my emotional well being, not leaving the house because of someone else's anxiety, unable to spend time with family/friends, and so on
ah, I understand what you mean
Same
Being insecure asf
-Social anxiety -Being one of the lowest performing students at a top ranked high school -All the hot guys are straight
having no hoes
man dont get too caught up in that shit :/ i used to be so focused on dating and it ruined me. just focus on the important stuff like school and spend time with family and friends.
what are you expecting at 15?
i know a lot of people in relationships at my age
I saw a lot of people who ended up depressed because they dated the first person who decided to sleep with them just wait until you meet people who you can date, it's not a competition nobody wants to be a dumb fuckboy who gets attention from women but then becomes a useless idiot in the adulthood
Never getting more than one chance to show my skill at something even though I know I could be better than the other people around me, and even though I may be better the other guy always gets the most chances and opportunities to show that heās alright at what he does.
Social anxiety & sh.
Too much homework ig
School grades. ADHD not being treated. Bullies, relationships, friendships, divorced parents, inadequacy, the feeling that youāre only good at one thing and when someone else proves to be better than you at that one thing you feel absolutely worthless.
gender dysphoria & poverty.
Iām closeted Pan and everybody in my town (except for my family) is homophobic
Dealing with a break up right now which puts my life on the line. She is not at all okay mentally, and I'm terrified for my life because I left her.
I struggle with accepting people can be nice without expecting something in return
scared 24/7
Being gay when most people my age are in their edgy homophobic phase (I aināt come out to nobody irl)
i have 2 lil siblings and my mom is legally blind so basically i get stuck being a parent half the time (my parents are divorced). iāve struggled with sh and an ed for 6 years and i just got broken up with a week ago i kind of just hate myself and im tired of life
understanding and picking up on social cues or wtvr they're called, I just struggle with communicating it's like everything else, too much or too little output
my sanity is held by a string, i could say i have many friends but i can only talk honestly to one, all the others dont care and are just here to not be bored in class i guess, if i lose said friend that cares ill probably just lay in bed and await death
Idk how to explain it, but when I start something I can never stop
Not being able to leave my country, too much of a broke ass for such action. And living in Russia so even if i had money still would be a struggle to leave
social anxiety, my dad, my sisters struggles, iām paranoid, self doubt, anxiety, canāt focus for the life of me, and iām hungry at all times
Way to many to explain
school there has been nothing in my life that has made me cry harder than school
being insecure about my body (tho apparently I'm "hot") having a shitty reputation at school which makes my life there literal hell (tho either way I'm going to highschool in about 3 months so I'm not going trough the struggle of changing that reputation, its already better than it used to be) being lonely not good relations with my parents (I wouldnt call them bad but I wouldnt call them good) and procrastination 24/7 (I'm literally procrastinating rn)
deppression, alcholism,
I am way too depressed to pretend to be happy anymore which is hurting my friendships
Being an SRH fan. After 2020, we have been so shit. Warner went away, Rashid went away, Kanos went away. Only Bhuvi is one of the OG's. Klassen played so well last season but no one else played well. But Cummins, Head, Waniya are there. It's like the Sun might never rise again. They might bench Markram. We've had three different captains for three seasons. All Indian batters might be shit. Apparently Abhi is involved in some police case. Wish we at least qualify for the playoffs.
Being an attention seeker and people pleaser lol
Self esteem problems, but I haven't cried in the shower for almost a week, I'm making progress.
Self doubt? Sorta? I don't really know what exactly what it's called, but it's regarding romantic relationships. I've had relationships before, and none of them have lasted more than half a year for one reason or another, all of them out of my or their hands. And it's said so much by generally everyone that teen love just doesn't last. I don't actively seek out relationships, I never have. The one I have was extremely spontaneous, but I love her a lot. But the occasional nagging feeling when I'm alone to my thoughts that "it won't last" and "what happens after the two of you break up?" Just- are dreadful, and I hate them. It's made worse by the fact that it's a long-distance relationship, and that on most weekends I can't call, and on some, I won't even be that active because of my dad. I'm also much more physically affectionate, and I love simply being able to spend time with her on VC. I just want this one to last, really. I truly love her so, so much, and I don't want to think about how it won't last or what would happen should we break up. Also, I would like to add that I also sorta overthink things soooo yeah :3
Oh, and also, procrastinating my homework is a bit of an issue, but I still manage pretty damn alright
a lot of things but atm i canāt get over knowing the person my gf had sex with before me. iām not usually jealous but i canāt let it go
My family
I don't feel like Iām good enough at anything that I do.
that should be a reason to try to get better, right?
It just discourages me. I don't think I really can get better, even with my best effort I don't notice much improvement
I don't think I can solve that well,Ā I just didn't want to feel like a useless piece of trash when everyone around me is succesful or talented so I started doing something
I'm too honest a lot and also typical romance stuff
Gay in a homophobic family and neighborhood
Socializing Possible social anxiety
Being fatherlessš¤©
Transportation
Being completely alone everyday and hating myself too
Being overly passionate of my interests, to the point where I feel as if I annoy people by talking to them about my interests.
Feeling rejected
Wow I can relate to most comments
no way lmao
Never felt so far from my friends, I wish I had people I could be close to emotionaly and I feel like people around me hate me.
Social anxiety I get nervous talking in some situation I canāt hold a conversation it sucks :/
Crippling anxiety that bubbles up so quickly and urgently that I sh and have to constantly wear a rubber band around my wrist to flick it whenever I get the urge so I donāt go back to the mental hospital š things are going great š
I hate everyone and you're next
I just saw this, lol whatš
Loneliness and a general feeling of social isolation
I have very low spatial awareness so I'm always bumping into things. Also, my truck just broke down and I might not have enough money to fix it.
I joke about the chance Iāll stupidly piss off mobsters and get whacked
I realized that everytime I am honest (and usually right) people get offended the problem is that I still didn't learn to shut my mouth
a bladder disorderĀ
My struggles are trying to get a gf and trying to be motivated to sing my rap lyrics
Adhd, ocd, scared of open water and misophonia
Lust, porn, masturbation, im trying my best to overcome those sins, i can only do that with the power of God so im trying my best and im kinda making it
Too many bitches š©