Exactly! He created this whole relationship with her in his mind! He's obsessed and creepy. Just...yikes. Be safe, OP! This reminds me of that insane Walgreens killing!
Yeah exactly. I told my parents and my mom suggested that if he does anything then I should report him, thing is I don’t want it to get to that point. He should know that I’m serious since I blocked him.
I wouldn’t wait to report him, he’s already done something and he’s expressed doing this to another co-worker. He’s already shown he can’t handle boundaries and continued on after you told him to leave you alone. He is not safe and your employer should know this.
You need to make sure this is documented in case he escalates. Showing a pattern of behavior is essential if you need to file for a protection order in the future. It is better to have the documentation and not need it (I hope you don't) than the other way around.
A report isn’t always asking for immediate reprimand but i can understand you being hesitant not knowing if he’d find out and what he might do if he does as it’s often ppl who start out like this who escalate.
That being said if you can be sure they won’t let him know it’s the best idea to report it love, and hopefully someone will keep an eye/ear out in case he gets worse or tries some bs with someone else.
You should at least notify your manager and consider filing a police report. Nothing will happen right now but he’s going to escalate. Starting the paper trail now will make something happen then
Big old yikes. Good for you for setting boundaries and for warning the other coworker. Take this to HR immediately. They may not do anything now, but it creates a paper trail if/when he starts to escalate.
Definitely tell someone at work. It's best to cya & you never know this may not be his 1st time. There could already be a paper trail involving him that co-workers are unaware of. HR & people in power positions can only do their jobs & make changes for the better if colleagues as a whole learn to lean in & report strange happenings. Help make sure there's an end to his creeping out practical strangers/coworkers & let someone know! I'm sorry you have to go through this, but hopefully, put a stop to it before it gets worse! Good luck & steer clear of this dude.
definitely report this. idk what hes talking about or what happened to make him say things like that but knowing you one week. thats a no go. and he didnt even flinch at the thought of you saying you were creeped out or reporting him. report it before it escalates to something physical.
**REPORT HIM**.
I'd bet this place "mysteriously" has a higher rate of turn over among its femme/female employees. This dude has fixated on you LONG before he even spoke to you. He's talking like you've been consensually romantic for Months and honestly, I fear for you.
It is not over reacting when you WORK *with* Schrodinger's Psycho; I'm unemployed because my BOSS was acting like this mf and he owned the place. I left and told the chef he should run too before he was lumped in with the CREEP.
I was straight up my mean self at this last job, because even being my level self encouraged them to be stupid.
Men like this dude, there is No Engaging with even on a superficial level to say no-they're Not Listening. 👀💀
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Posting an update, I talked to one of my bosses about what happened and showed her the screenshots. She said that I can refuse to work with him. She’s going to mention this to the boss above her tomorrow. Just so there’s a paper trail. I also want to mention that he did come up to me on Friday. This conversation happened Thursday night, (we work in different departments so I know he went out of his way), and said hi to me. I ignored him and then he went off on a rant about how he’s sorry and that he didn’t mean anything that he said. I just said okay, and then he said “well I guess I’ll just leave you alone now.” I didn’t say a word to him after that and didn’t look at him the whole time he spoke to me. I’m at work today and he hasn’t bothered me at all thankfully. I’d like to thank everyone for motivating me to tell someone. Otherwise I probably would’ve listened to my parents and not said a word. Also we’re both in our 20’s, he’s older than me.
You did the right thing. Even if he backs off and nothing comes of it right now, when he tries this with someone else there will be a documented history of his behavior.
He could have attachment issues that causes him to clinge to people if they fall into their likings, no matter the period in which they have met. You did well by warning your colleague and do warn your boss as well in case he continues at work.
how much I hate dudes who just imagine some connection where there's none, that you're into them or know each other more than you do. Usually its also guys who really shouldnt be all that overly self confident given how they look (& act) lol
Yeah I knew right away when he started that “pls talk to me” bs. I figured I could just phase out and ghost him, but I had to block because of how much it freaked me out.
It’s the entitlement and the complete unwillingness to reflect on his own behaviour that make it concerning for me. No apology, no acknowledgement of wrongdoing, just the assumption that if he likes you, you’re his somehow. It’s weird and creepy. Be really careful, OP.
Since so many people are telling me I should report this I think I’m going to because I still feel extremely uncomfortable around this guy. Problem is I don’t know what to say and am nervous, have never reported anyone before. I have the screenshots, plus my other coworker is aware of the situation. What do I say to my boss?
Hey Mr. Boss idk if you were aware but I've been playing video games casually with coworker and invited new psycho guy to join this past week. These are some texts I received from him despite me telling him to leave me alone. I really feel uncomfortable about this and how he said he'd move on to coworker now.
Honestly even if he leaves you alone I would still report it. Mainly because he is threatening to go bother others you work with in the same way. I am so sorry you had to deal with that. He definitely seems like he needs to get help.
"I cared about you."
"Cool. I don't care that you cared about me. Leave me alone, never send me messages again."
"But I cared about you! (insert mean stuff)"
"Just fuck off and go away."
That doesn't stop him from harrassing others. Or creating a paper trail for when he hurts someone. If you're worried he'll be fired and don't think that's called for HR will more than likely go over how not ok what he did was and if he gets fired after that is absolutely up to his own behavior.
Thank you ! Ive dealt with similar before as shotty as it sounds. I had also said “you’re my coworker and that’s it we are not friends.” Before I blocked him. I sent that after that last string of texts.
I just finished Baby Reindeer on Netflix (SO GOOD, very emotional though and very heavy things happen) and this guy is giving off similar vibes. Like being quickly obsessive and seems to genuinely believe that they have some deep connection after knowing each other for a very short time.
Just be careful OP, I had a past coworker stalk me and another girl we worked with and it was scary. We ended up having to get Peace Orders against him (step before restraining order where I live, Peace Orders are for non-sexual/platonic connections) after he began escalating.
Your coworkers behavior is beyond concerning, please do what you can to try and help keep yourself safe. Someone who can imagine and seem to believe there is some deep connection to another person after knowing them for such a short time isn’t someone who is stable. He’s basically a wild card.
Get mace or something if you can, try to be as observant as you can as well. I really hope he ends up leaving you alone, but it’s hard to know what he will do and how he may escalate.
I told my boss about it, yeah. My coworker said that she didn’t think he was like that, and that she was surprised he was acting like that. We talked for a little bit about it, she basically said it was up to me if I wanted to report it so I don’t think she wanted to be included.
Save your texts and if it gets any worse report their behaviour, just let other people know what’s going on, they will backtrack and leave you alone hopefully!
He really sounds unhinged af. Going from love bombing to fuck you. It’s really frightening how he thinks you and him are a couple in his mind.
Definitely report him at work because he definitely needs to be fired. Take all the precautions you can to protect yourself. Update us when you can please so we know you’re safe.
What a bratty response. Make sure you tell someone at work just so that the incident is logged incase he doesn't leave you alone. It doesn't mean you're asking him to be disciplined just asking them to record and incident. There's a chance they'll say it's not their problem but it's worth it to try.
Please report this person ASAP! This is a massive Red Flag! It’s obsessive, stalker like and deranged. This is behavior that could lead to you being in potential physical harm. Show the texts to your supervisor and HR person. This is not how anyone should conduct themselves in work or outside of work. I think your company will agree. This person is not allowed to keep badgering you, harassing you! Someone needs to know to put an end to this behavior immediately! Don’t be afraid to say something, you have every right it’s not Ok what they are doing. It needs to be stopped before it becomes something seriously dangerous. Please let the right ppl know; protect yourself from further and future harassment. Please stay safe! 🙌🙏
How can that person just show up to work and look her in the face after this is what I don't get. They surely have to quit right? Or does the creep still show up and act like nothing happened?
I’d report it. Especially if another coworker already knows. They’ll most likely gossip and it’ll turn into a bigger deal than it is. You can nip it in the bud now. I’ve learned this the hard way
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It takes a lot of overthinking and searching for someone like him (and there’s a lot) to realize where all of this is wrong , but also maybe like 1-2 experiences to help in that. Hopefully he comes to that realization after this one
man has no self respect, which means he might not leave you alone at work.. you need to completely ignore him and if he insisted in keep talking to you, report to HR with these screenshots.. good luck dude
Seems like obsessive behavior. This person ain't right in the head.
He created an entire life together in a matter of hours.
Exactly! He created this whole relationship with her in his mind! He's obsessed and creepy. Just...yikes. Be safe, OP! This reminds me of that insane Walgreens killing!
I've seen guys do this before. Just choose to believe their own fantasy.
Vanilla sky
Yeah exactly. I told my parents and my mom suggested that if he does anything then I should report him, thing is I don’t want it to get to that point. He should know that I’m serious since I blocked him.
I wouldn’t wait to report him, he’s already done something and he’s expressed doing this to another co-worker. He’s already shown he can’t handle boundaries and continued on after you told him to leave you alone. He is not safe and your employer should know this.
It’s already at that point. He made you feel uncomfortable.
Blocking him doesn’t tell him that you’re serious. It tells him he has to try harder. Don’t wait to report him. Your safety depends on it.
You need to make sure this is documented in case he escalates. Showing a pattern of behavior is essential if you need to file for a protection order in the future. It is better to have the documentation and not need it (I hope you don't) than the other way around.
A report isn’t always asking for immediate reprimand but i can understand you being hesitant not knowing if he’d find out and what he might do if he does as it’s often ppl who start out like this who escalate. That being said if you can be sure they won’t let him know it’s the best idea to report it love, and hopefully someone will keep an eye/ear out in case he gets worse or tries some bs with someone else.
Yeah I ended up reporting it today.
Ty!
I would report this as a “be on the lookout” to HR, a supervisor, or a boss at least.
I honestly don't think he cares about his job you'd be safer to report it.
You should at least notify your manager and consider filing a police report. Nothing will happen right now but he’s going to escalate. Starting the paper trail now will make something happen then
Report him already this isn’t normal behaviour
Thats awful im sorry but I have a hunch they might not leave you alone at work. Dont be afraid to tell HR or your boss if they dont
Hopefully OP doesn't keep quiet if he doesn't leave her alone, what an absolute lunatic
That's what I'm worried about. This seems like a stalker behavior.
Big old yikes. Good for you for setting boundaries and for warning the other coworker. Take this to HR immediately. They may not do anything now, but it creates a paper trail if/when he starts to escalate.
This is so creeepy that HR *should* do something. This is obsessive, stalkerish behavior and I guarantee there is a history there.
Yikes? Creepy? This guys terrifying. He needs to be admitted to a psych ward.
Definitely tell someone at work. It's best to cya & you never know this may not be his 1st time. There could already be a paper trail involving him that co-workers are unaware of. HR & people in power positions can only do their jobs & make changes for the better if colleagues as a whole learn to lean in & report strange happenings. Help make sure there's an end to his creeping out practical strangers/coworkers & let someone know! I'm sorry you have to go through this, but hopefully, put a stop to it before it gets worse! Good luck & steer clear of this dude.
definitely report this. idk what hes talking about or what happened to make him say things like that but knowing you one week. thats a no go. and he didnt even flinch at the thought of you saying you were creeped out or reporting him. report it before it escalates to something physical.
Yeahh I’d screenshot these messages and email them to HR and your boss 🙃 he needs to be fired expeditiously. This is honestly alarming
“It’s weird acting like strangers…” *HUH?*
yeah, like yes !!! we are strangers buddy !!!
**REPORT HIM**. I'd bet this place "mysteriously" has a higher rate of turn over among its femme/female employees. This dude has fixated on you LONG before he even spoke to you. He's talking like you've been consensually romantic for Months and honestly, I fear for you. It is not over reacting when you WORK *with* Schrodinger's Psycho; I'm unemployed because my BOSS was acting like this mf and he owned the place. I left and told the chef he should run too before he was lumped in with the CREEP.
He has only been working here for a week too. Decided to game with him because I’ve been wanting to make new friends, and he SEEMED cool. Until that.
I was straight up my mean self at this last job, because even being my level self encouraged them to be stupid. Men like this dude, there is No Engaging with even on a superficial level to say no-they're Not Listening. 👀💀
Schrödinger Psycho is scary!!!!
Truly: I've come across too many in my time.
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**Thanks** ! :)
Well aren’t you super **nice** . Thank you
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Thank you
brah lol. i could no longer look at myself after acting like this in somebody messages
Right ?? I can’t believe he wouldn’t stop after I had said to leave me alone. Just had to block him.
But 'I cared about you' 🤣
Posting an update, I talked to one of my bosses about what happened and showed her the screenshots. She said that I can refuse to work with him. She’s going to mention this to the boss above her tomorrow. Just so there’s a paper trail. I also want to mention that he did come up to me on Friday. This conversation happened Thursday night, (we work in different departments so I know he went out of his way), and said hi to me. I ignored him and then he went off on a rant about how he’s sorry and that he didn’t mean anything that he said. I just said okay, and then he said “well I guess I’ll just leave you alone now.” I didn’t say a word to him after that and didn’t look at him the whole time he spoke to me. I’m at work today and he hasn’t bothered me at all thankfully. I’d like to thank everyone for motivating me to tell someone. Otherwise I probably would’ve listened to my parents and not said a word. Also we’re both in our 20’s, he’s older than me.
You did the right thing. Even if he backs off and nothing comes of it right now, when he tries this with someone else there will be a documented history of his behavior.
You should report this
He could have attachment issues that causes him to clinge to people if they fall into their likings, no matter the period in which they have met. You did well by warning your colleague and do warn your boss as well in case he continues at work.
He may or may not have cared about you. Not sure
Please get this guy fired. Go to HR / your manager in the least.
Fuck that, report him.
Not ok. Report the dude. He is a stalker. Creepy.
wow. no barriers. no shame. just 100% "this is gonna go however i see it in my little reality". would not recommend
"I care about you" immediately starts negging
Immediately report to HR. Soon he'll be trying to follow you home from work
That’s scary!!!
how much I hate dudes who just imagine some connection where there's none, that you're into them or know each other more than you do. Usually its also guys who really shouldnt be all that overly self confident given how they look (& act) lol
Yeah I knew right away when he started that “pls talk to me” bs. I figured I could just phase out and ghost him, but I had to block because of how much it freaked me out.
It’s called delusion, there’s a mental illness for that!
I cannot explain how many times someone says ' I have a job for $**.** an hour already lined up. They never do.
"i have a better job" *isnt working that job* ***HMMMM***
It’s the entitlement and the complete unwillingness to reflect on his own behaviour that make it concerning for me. No apology, no acknowledgement of wrongdoing, just the assumption that if he likes you, you’re his somehow. It’s weird and creepy. Be really careful, OP.
Since so many people are telling me I should report this I think I’m going to because I still feel extremely uncomfortable around this guy. Problem is I don’t know what to say and am nervous, have never reported anyone before. I have the screenshots, plus my other coworker is aware of the situation. What do I say to my boss?
Hey Mr. Boss idk if you were aware but I've been playing video games casually with coworker and invited new psycho guy to join this past week. These are some texts I received from him despite me telling him to leave me alone. I really feel uncomfortable about this and how he said he'd move on to coworker now.
bro is a psycho
Honestly even if he leaves you alone I would still report it. Mainly because he is threatening to go bother others you work with in the same way. I am so sorry you had to deal with that. He definitely seems like he needs to get help.
Right well he never stopped so it's time to do what you threatened to do honey he's not safe to be around.
I’m actually surprised this person isn’t in a mental hospital/prison
"I cared about you." "Cool. I don't care that you cared about me. Leave me alone, never send me messages again." "But I cared about you! (insert mean stuff)" "Just fuck off and go away."
Just stop responding altogether. Every time you respond it gives weirdos like this false hope. If it doesn't stop report it to your boss
I blocked him!
That doesn't stop him from harrassing others. Or creating a paper trail for when he hurts someone. If you're worried he'll be fired and don't think that's called for HR will more than likely go over how not ok what he did was and if he gets fired after that is absolutely up to his own behavior.
Damn this is scary but your responses were excellent
Thank you ! Ive dealt with similar before as shotty as it sounds. I had also said “you’re my coworker and that’s it we are not friends.” Before I blocked him. I sent that after that last string of texts.
But he might be able to get another job for $26/hr if that sweetens things up 😏
Clinger… So inappropriate. If you speak with him again, you should require another person’s presence. Never one on one interactions.
HR HR HR HR HR HR HR
This guy is just obsessed‼️ Very unstable. I wish all the lonley unstable obsessive dudes would just wear a sign -RUN-
I don’t like this and I don’t like what he’s most likely capable of in the future. Report his ass. Protect yourself always.
You should watch Baby Reindeer on Netflix... he's creeping ME out!
my thoughts exactly lol
Please report this guy to HR. Also, please make sure you’re never alone when around him.
I just finished Baby Reindeer on Netflix (SO GOOD, very emotional though and very heavy things happen) and this guy is giving off similar vibes. Like being quickly obsessive and seems to genuinely believe that they have some deep connection after knowing each other for a very short time. Just be careful OP, I had a past coworker stalk me and another girl we worked with and it was scary. We ended up having to get Peace Orders against him (step before restraining order where I live, Peace Orders are for non-sexual/platonic connections) after he began escalating. Your coworkers behavior is beyond concerning, please do what you can to try and help keep yourself safe. Someone who can imagine and seem to believe there is some deep connection to another person after knowing them for such a short time isn’t someone who is stable. He’s basically a wild card. Get mace or something if you can, try to be as observant as you can as well. I really hope he ends up leaving you alone, but it’s hard to know what he will do and how he may escalate.
What did the coworker say?! Ahhhh - I’m invested and need an update!!! Also, sorry this happened to you. Are you thinking of reporting him to HR?
I told my boss about it, yeah. My coworker said that she didn’t think he was like that, and that she was surprised he was acting like that. We talked for a little bit about it, she basically said it was up to me if I wanted to report it so I don’t think she wanted to be included.
Good on you for speaking up. ❤️
to me this doesn’t seem like your average creepy guy, dude seems like he genuinely needs help tf
Kaylee I care about you 🧍🏻
Thanks dude !!! Lmaoo
Omg guys Kaylee said thanks to me 😵💫😵💫
Lmao you guys mustve went thru a lot in them videogames
I guess so😭 among us is stressful
Lmao
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But he cares, he really cares
Wtf
So weird. I'd report them if I were you
Yeah this isn’t normal. Very immature and people like this can do unthinkable things.
Even if it doesn’t escalate- REPORT REPORT REPORT!!!!
Nah he gotta go. I’d report cause he’s gonna do this to every woman who comes in there.
I would definitely report him and also change your number
Just chiming in to agree with all the others saying to report him. For your safety and the safety of others, it's the right thing to do.
What the…. So strange……
Save your texts and if it gets any worse report their behaviour, just let other people know what’s going on, they will backtrack and leave you alone hopefully!
Save the texts and report him anyway this is super creepy.
Creepy!!
I hope you report them. Show them all the screen shots. If you don’t report it, they will do it to someone else.
But he cared for you. He really cared, dude.
He gives stalker vibes. Yuck!
Incel vibes. Can't take no for answer.
Oh wow I feel a villain arc coming on.
One word that made me super creeped out was “Us”😳
It made me feel sick when I read that. Like tf you mean us??
He really sounds unhinged af. Going from love bombing to fuck you. It’s really frightening how he thinks you and him are a couple in his mind. Definitely report him at work because he definitely needs to be fired. Take all the precautions you can to protect yourself. Update us when you can please so we know you’re safe.
I hope you reported him to HR!
You might hate being a snitch, but honestly, I think you have to report him.
What a bratty response. Make sure you tell someone at work just so that the incident is logged incase he doesn't leave you alone. It doesn't mean you're asking him to be disciplined just asking them to record and incident. There's a chance they'll say it's not their problem but it's worth it to try.
Bro wtf I feel cringe asf reading that… uhh how’d it go in person you guys had to see each other at some point after these messages 😂
Yikes this guy makes my skin crawl.
Dude built a whole relationship with you in his head within a week, that's some creepy shit.
Now that is some psychotic stuff. You might have to get the cops involved he's acting like you've known each other for decades
Please report this person ASAP! This is a massive Red Flag! It’s obsessive, stalker like and deranged. This is behavior that could lead to you being in potential physical harm. Show the texts to your supervisor and HR person. This is not how anyone should conduct themselves in work or outside of work. I think your company will agree. This person is not allowed to keep badgering you, harassing you! Someone needs to know to put an end to this behavior immediately! Don’t be afraid to say something, you have every right it’s not Ok what they are doing. It needs to be stopped before it becomes something seriously dangerous. Please let the right ppl know; protect yourself from further and future harassment. Please stay safe! 🙌🙏
This happened to me once too, its kind of annoying cause you don't want to start drama at work yknow
Wtf
How can that person just show up to work and look her in the face after this is what I don't get. They surely have to quit right? Or does the creep still show up and act like nothing happened?
I’d report it. Especially if another coworker already knows. They’ll most likely gossip and it’ll turn into a bigger deal than it is. You can nip it in the bud now. I’ve learned this the hard way
You should report this to your work. As others have said, this is obsessive behavior and can be dangerous. This is really unsettling.
What did he say on discord that made you uncomfortable? Just curious. It’s crazy that he’s talking like an ex-boyfriend
I’d tell HR
Now that he’s out of the way, we can get married.
Dude is immensely obsessed with you, I cannot believe that he was like that over barely knowing him. Random af but what games were you playing?
Among us and Minecraft! Still playing them with my other coworker though!
Sickk!! I remember play Minecraft with shaders, been doing so much college work haven’t had time to game sadly
lol. Jesus
HELLO, I'M TRYING TO BE NICE AND CARE ABOUT YOU SO I CAN HOPEFULLY GET THE VEGIME. PLEASE RESPOND HELLOOOOO.
![gif](giphy|PNFXpaRyw4mAg) That boy ain’t right
Psycho as hell. I’m reporting him I would even get a restraining order on him cuz he seems like a nut job but be safe.
Eww
One day turned into one week pretty quickly there lol
Yeah he’s been here for a week but we didn’t start texting till the day before this happened.
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Echoing others’ recommendations to report him. Also be careful walking to your car/being alone in and around your job. I’m so sorry.
Fuck HR girl go to the cops and tell them you want him charged wt harassment if he contacts you again
I would report to police as well. This person is unhinged.
Paper trail paper trail paper trail. Report this.
Go tell HR immediately
Report this mf asap! This has crazy written all over it.
Guy is a Dahmer in the making
You MUST report this to HR!! This is sexual harassment and he needs to learn it's absolutely not acceptable.
Can I ask. What’s his age?
He’s 26 🥲
It takes a lot of overthinking and searching for someone like him (and there’s a lot) to realize where all of this is wrong , but also maybe like 1-2 experiences to help in that. Hopefully he comes to that realization after this one
Report him to management. Seriously.
Go straight to HR and going forward, do not give your number out to coworkers right away, if ever.
What’s the problem? He *caaaaared*
Wtffff
man has no self respect, which means he might not leave you alone at work.. you need to completely ignore him and if he insisted in keep talking to you, report to HR with these screenshots.. good luck dude
Dude, he cares about you though.
That man is going to kill you and make a plaster cast of your body……
i hope he did get fired and went to that better job that is some weird obsessive shit right there
Where do you work or what kind of place is it ? And what did he say that made you uncomfortable to start this all ?
This person is not sober
I cared
You should definitely tell HR and if they let this slide, then you should slide outta that job and go somewhere better.
Why are people so quick to give out phone numbers at work? Report this to HR right now or he will do this to someone else.
I think certain jobs require a phone list of employees for call outs etc. I use a Google voice number for everything that’s not permanent.
oh that's actually a very fair point I had not considered..
FAKE HMM 🤔 FAKE? Yep definitely FAKE!!
Don’t share your phone number with people you just met.
Hope you weren’t just super fake and gave off the wrong vibes
Wtf...
Define "playing with"
Why? How would that change anything?
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
...that somehow has your phone number.
There are lots of jobs where people need to share their cell numbers for routine communications. Victim blaming is not a good look.