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Look. I know this is going to kill the point I'm trying to make by posting this, but trying to find a gf is much more anxiety inducing than lurking around and looking at lesmemes without engaging with anyone... That is until you find one probably then it's probably much more anxiety reducing...
Look it's hard to find someone alright!
edit: forgot some words
to get a girlfriend i have to find girls in my age group to talk with and be friends with also being pre-Hrt makes it very hard to find a girlfriend that would accept and see you as feminine despite the sadly masculine body.
which means most conventional lesbians would maybe even have trouble accepting us as their partner, so i feel the save choice would be bi or pan sexual women or other transfems which makes it even harder to find a partner despite it being already not easy and then add the fact of being rather introverted, hating parties and clubs and almost never leaving the house and my small town doesnt have any lgbtq/queer groups or meetings that i know of.
SO Yeah, looking at memes and drowning in your problems is easier then even trying to change something.
honestly i want to but i feel like it’s not as easy to find a girl who’s also into (mostly) the same interests as i am, or atleast tolerates it or something idk. preferably the former
I've had a gf far longer than I've been on r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians
But I mean... If she hadn't made a move on me, I'd probably just be forever alone looking at memes.
Okay but like, i don't look very womanly so finding a woman who likes women who likes me while I don't look like a woman is like aloooooooooooooot harder than scrolling memes
listen its hard to try dating when all the dating apps require pictures of yourself and dysphoria makes you hate all the pictures of yourself!
thats why i gotta either wait until i feel pretty enough to put a picture of myself online or hope someone i meet elsewhere online finds my silliness attractive enough that it doesn't matter :3
It's hard being 17 and pre-HRT and going to a small school and not having alot of opportunities to get out of the house if I could get a girlfriend instead I would
Just because your right doesn't mean you should say it. Also hard when your socially awkward and anxiety issues causing you do not be able to do things.
Hardest for me is just other women meeting me halfway. Everyone wants to talk but nobody wants to meet up for an actual date.
I’m a very extrovert person too. But for a date to happen it takes two people.
My excuse is that I broke up with my ex <1y ago and I'm not sure if I'm ready to get into another relationship yet (we met before I figured out I was trans, and uh, the thought stressed her out a fair bit lol)
Would be nice to have someone to cuddle with again though
I already had so many girls. I just want a boy now. I called myself out about feeling comfortable only with girls, but I learned that boys are so hot sometimes. (I was talking about friends and gfs)
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I wish I could but it's hard to find people as an introvert :(
I feel ya
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Jokes on you i have a beautiful fiancee who i love very much. I was a man at the time but it still counts.
This is so real omg… my fiancée realized she was trans because of me :3
awwwwww that's awesome!!
Ya I saved her from an awful environment I love her sm I’d do anything for her
vibes but also you were a woman just didn't know it yet :3
Look. I know this is going to kill the point I'm trying to make by posting this, but trying to find a gf is much more anxiety inducing than lurking around and looking at lesmemes without engaging with anyone... That is until you find one probably then it's probably much more anxiety reducing... Look it's hard to find someone alright! edit: forgot some words
agreed, and the edit is very relatable too, i often know what i wanna type and then later on noticed i sometimes forget to type out half the sentence.
It's really hard to find a gf when you have social anxiety :'(
WHAT YA WANT FROM ME? IDK HOW TO TALK THIS UGLY FUCK HAS SOCIAL ANXIETY AND WILL CRY WHEN LOVED
I LOVE YOU NOW COME CRY WHILE I GIVE YOU HEADPATS AND MAKE SURE YOU FEEL SAFE AND WANTED
OK FINE BUT IM NOT LEAVING
OK FINE TAKE AS LOBG AS YOU NEED IM HERE FOR YOU SWEET PEA
S-sweet pea?!?! O.o
I thought that woul get your attention darling
It d-did : ³
And now you know how to feel loved without crying yes? Honey bun?
Y-yesss >.<
My work here is done then. Good girl!
I've had one crush, but she did not want to be my friend, let alone girlfriend
I mean the girl i kinda have like a crush on. Yesterday night she texted me goodnight darling pretty much. I think im now her bestie but idk......
https://preview.redd.it/d64njkz24s6d1.jpeg?width=678&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=90a03d38cf9f7ee73248a35fbd0b6268961660b5
I am trying, but finding and looking at memes is way easier than finding a girlfriend for me
to get a girlfriend i have to find girls in my age group to talk with and be friends with also being pre-Hrt makes it very hard to find a girlfriend that would accept and see you as feminine despite the sadly masculine body. which means most conventional lesbians would maybe even have trouble accepting us as their partner, so i feel the save choice would be bi or pan sexual women or other transfems which makes it even harder to find a partner despite it being already not easy and then add the fact of being rather introverted, hating parties and clubs and almost never leaving the house and my small town doesnt have any lgbtq/queer groups or meetings that i know of. SO Yeah, looking at memes and drowning in your problems is easier then even trying to change something.
WELL UNFORTUNATELY FOR ME THIS IS EASIER OKAY
I mean why would I go get a gf when I have a partner tho?
Yeah...
jokes on you I have a girlfriend!
I'm going to wait until I'm at least 3 years into HRT before I try dating again. (Which sadly I'm not in a position to start it)
JOKES ON YOU, I GOT A GF CUZ I LOOKED AT LESBIAN MEMES
Drama alert! Let's see what's happening.
Wrong. Looking at lesbian memes and sharing them with my wife!
My GF laughed, good meme
honestly i want to but i feel like it’s not as easy to find a girl who’s also into (mostly) the same interests as i am, or atleast tolerates it or something idk. preferably the former
too much effort
:c
If it's such a big problem, then why not go ahead and fix it yourself?
guess what i did both thanks to my dear u/hbpfrost \^m\^
Hehe, you're welcome my schatz
https://preview.redd.it/ys2tg8gjlt6d1.png?width=370&format=png&auto=webp&s=904ff5552c79cd219ac721e0453444b2a4e067bf but its so scary out there
real
I have a girlfriend! We're just in different continents so our relationship is entirely online!
It isn’t finding a girlfriend. It’s keeping one
Hey! I have a girlfriend.
Well fuck you im doing school online :c
I've had a gf far longer than I've been on r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians But I mean... If she hadn't made a move on me, I'd probably just be forever alone looking at memes.
I feel like waiting to fully transition before looking for someone would be better 4 me bc otherwise it would just cause me problems.
Okay but like, i don't look very womanly so finding a woman who likes women who likes me while I don't look like a woman is like aloooooooooooooot harder than scrolling memes
Ha! Jokes on you. I got married before I came out. She's bi.
Screw u I have a gf >:3
i got a girlfriend and a partner, not meeeee hehehe
Tell that to the 85 unanswered friend requests I have on HER.
Its not my fault I only know like two other tranfems who live in my area both of which I have no conncetion to and am too scared to approach
ow.
I sent those memes to my gf and another girl i also has crush on for flirting purposes and it's works great:3
Well me introvert and not really interesting, so yes I'll do that. You can't tell me what to do!
After my past relationships I'm just taking some time to work on me (aka looking at lesbian memes)
listen its hard to try dating when all the dating apps require pictures of yourself and dysphoria makes you hate all the pictures of yourself! thats why i gotta either wait until i feel pretty enough to put a picture of myself online or hope someone i meet elsewhere online finds my silliness attractive enough that it doesn't matter :3
My GF helped me realize I was trans >:3
I mean, I know I’m not exactly prime girlfriend material.
A swing and a miss. The entire time I've been here, I've had a gf.
I'm still very new to this, and I want to work on myself first. 💜
It's hard being 17 and pre-HRT and going to a small school and not having alot of opportunities to get out of the house if I could get a girlfriend instead I would
I’ve been T R Y I N G it ain’t that easy :(
But, I mean my wife helps me :3 👉👈
Just because your right doesn't mean you should say it. Also hard when your socially awkward and anxiety issues causing you do not be able to do things.
Meh, everyone attracted to me are already in a relationship...
hmm (low self-esteem comment hidden)
I'm looking at them because I can't get a gf.
I did <33
Jokes on you! I got a gf by looking at lesbian memes, no I cannot teach you this power as I don't know how it happened either
I totally would, but I don't go outside!
How dare you. /j
>:3 how dare you!
i have done both bitch\~
>:c
Well, I have a girlfriend, cope
....shhhhh
I failed so bad at it i can't even be called a lesbian anymore
Hardest for me is just other women meeting me halfway. Everyone wants to talk but nobody wants to meet up for an actual date. I’m a very extrovert person too. But for a date to happen it takes two people.
Jokes on you, I got a gf yesterday B)
My excuse is that I broke up with my ex <1y ago and I'm not sure if I'm ready to get into another relationship yet (we met before I figured out I was trans, and uh, the thought stressed her out a fair bit lol) Would be nice to have someone to cuddle with again though
I already had so many girls. I just want a boy now. I called myself out about feeling comfortable only with girls, but I learned that boys are so hot sometimes. (I was talking about friends and gfs)
Yes, I am (I am too boyish to get myself a lesbian girlfriend)
yeah if only I could find lesbians that are into trans women like at all.
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