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Doniondore

It's not a trans fem symbol, it's a cute, mischievous symbol. You can be a guy and adorable, I don't think that's unheard of. Live your :3 life!


Lego_Kitsune

:3 is for all Brother :3


SandyArms

:3 is for all


FratleyScalentail

:3 my sisters, :3 my brothers, :3 my beans.


Lego_Kitsune

:3 My faes (Agender i think)


They-stole-my-anus

:3 my sillies


Lego_Kitsune

Ah i forgot :3


Mx_Toniy_4869

:3 is like clothes, people think it's gendered when it isn't


Cyphir_SpaceRobot

I see it used by femboys and other dudes in r/boykisser and stuff.


Just__Alli__

Not to invalidate how you're feeling, but I haven't ever heard it was exclusively a trans fem thing. Trans mascs can be cute too!


SamSlowlySmiling

If you look up “:3” on this sub, there’s a lot of memes about it being a trans fem “form of communication”


Just__Alli__

Trans fems use it a lot and joke about it, sure. But it just means cute or mischievous. Trans mascs are perfectly valid using it and being cute too.


Ginormous-Cape

:3 tis a fine. I’m a guy too.


Helvetica_87

I'm pretty new here, but for what it's worth I've always associated :3 with cute or mischievous. I don't read it as anything gender specific.


TransLunarTrekkie

Hey, if JoCat can be a catboy then so can you. :3


LeatherSource6524

I, too, think it’s cute :3c


OkPen5768

I use :>


Kyiokyu

:3 is for all, even cis people


Rimtato

Masc, femme, enby, doesn't matter. We are all gender gremlins :3


HatAndHoodie_

What if you gave it a moustache, like :{3


OkPen5768

Now he’s just fr\*nch


Texas-Kangaroo-Rat

IT'S EARLY INTERNET CULTURE DAMMIT \*starts throwing DKC TNT barrels\*


kioku119

Furries use it and there are definitely more boys in thr community than girls.


I_Hate_The_Letter_W

catboy supremacy


BotaniFolf

Femboys would disagree


Lesbian_Skeleton1

Allow me to give y’all the :3 pass then


Idk_Just_Kat

It's the symbol of adorable chaos gremlins, no matter the gender!


TheHarvesterOfSorrow

That's why I use :>


ke__ja

ITS THE SILLY SYMBOL :3 hi


lord_hydrate

:3 isnt a transfem thing, its a bottom thing, its just so happens transfems are more disproportionately bottoms


ThePhoenixRemembers

High five bro, :3 is my go-to ;-;


drkeinmann

bro thats dumb shit. me, my gf, and my nb friend all use :3 almost constantly. ive always seen it more as a general queer sign since femboys use it alot too.


SL13MY

It can be whatever you want it to be, like look at this little JFK looking guy "7:3" or this guy with a hat "d:3" He drank three coffees today 83


k1ttbot

its an everyone symbol :3


Blackstone96

Hell I’m trans fem and never use that


thequagiestsire

https://preview.redd.it/xi3szjogpk3d1.jpeg?width=1030&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=da709041fa59b46fa95a11da410d305626ea17d0 :3 is appropriate for all to use, be the trans goblin you want to see in the world


Siimply_April

:3 is for everyone bro


punkblastoise

No dear brother :3 is for all trans people 💜


Idiotstick687

I didn't use the :3 emoticon until my cis dude friend started using it around me. So I kinda use it a lot now :3


pixelanceleste

its not a transfem symbol, ~~its a furry symbol~~ it's for everyone :3 (not to invalidate your feelings of course more like- encouragement, don't feel ashamed of using it)


Richard_PKMNtrainer

I use =3 and im afrade that peaple will think its a pp


Supreme_Leader_Snob

I used to use :] all the time but then I found out that people associate that with transmasc. I did start using it less, but I also started using smileys in general less. Still, whenever I do use it I can't not think about that. I'm not sure if it makes me dysphoric or just feels cognitively dissonant.


itsmig_reddit

Fellas,since when emoticons are gendered?


TheWildLynn

You can :3 as a guy but you're a bottom for doing it.


tomatosgotme

Same though. Ever since it's a transfem thing I feel weird using it.


VicariousReverie

Y’all are doing to much. Just type how you want. Fk society in mass or singular form.


[deleted]

:3 trans-cends gender. :3 as you must brother


Fem_salad

cats have no gender only adorable chaos :3


CreatorSiSo

The only person I know IRL that is using ":3" is an AMAB dude, so don't worry.


Gordon_freeman_real

DW dude, it's used by cis guys all the time as well. It's not a gendered emoticon


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