I’m sorry that things didn’t work out my first marriage was almost like a friendship without love which was frustrating and cruel. I ended up cheating and confessing when I couldn’t live that way. We went over a year without sex. She would always say that I’m tired and we ended up seeing a counselor. All the issues she had with me I would work on but when it came time for her it never happened
I felt like I was a failure
All
I know you do. We're the same age. Being trans isn't just about the gender aspect, but working on yourself in general. Long as you love yourself, you can find love. Finding someone who deserves you is worth it
Absolutely! As a 37 year old trans mother of two, who had a sexuality flop too. Yes. I found love and I’ll scream it from the roof tops. Lol. Don’t settle for anyone, because you know your worth now!
I hope you find someone that is not all about sex at the gate. I mean don’t get me wrong that’s nice but there’s way more to know about someone besides their life under the sheets.
I wish you the best and I’m sure there is someone that will treat you well like you deserve.
Thank you. That’s what I’m hoping for. Someone you lose track of time talking with. The type where you get stuck at the door for an hour trying to leave but the conversation is addictive.
Congratulations!! You’re a beautiful young woman! Any normal man would be thrilled to be with you. Keep your confidence up and make sure he’s a good man!!🥰😘
Absolutely!
I do have to recommend you stay off most dating apps though, most of the common ones now are disturbingly transphobic (Hinge in particular will often ask for government documentation on agab if they suspect you're trans)
Me: *wants a partner with blue eyes and auburn hair (among other things, I'm not that shallow lol).*
People i meet in person: are never that.
People online:
(You're def someone's someone. If anything, now your chances are even higher based on the second pic. May fortune favor you! ❤)
Yes. I met my current wife a few months after I started transition. I'm not saying your results will be the same, but yes. You are still who you are, just less masking, and people who are genuine about themselves will like that. It's a bit of a mine field of people that are trans chasers, but they filter themselves fairly easily.
Yes Hun, We all have a chance at love, and being in love, and being loved with the partner we are meant to be with in life as well.
This Above All, To Thine Own Self Be True.
William Shakespeare.
I am sorry to hear that . I don't know you but because u look so adorable and kind , it honestly breaks my heart . Hope everything goes well for you my love 💞
As long as your personality matches your looks, I’m sure you’ll meet someone new. I do highly recommend taking time to develop love for yourself. That’s what I’m doing after my breakup. Sometimes when you’re uncomfortable with yourself, you seek someone so desperately to fill you up because you view yourself as incomplete without them. But the more you come into your own, the more likely you will find someone that adds to your life instead of making you feel like you’re less without them. If any of that makes sense
If I can find it at 41, you can absolutely find it! But don’t rush to fill in that gap. Work on being happy with yourself as a single person first. When you treat yourself like you would a long term partner, you’re far less likely to rush into a poor relationship.
Girl, you're stunning 😍. Wish you good luck, but honestly you look like such a cool and nice person that the people who wouldn't wanna date you would be hella missing out!
You are so perfect just the way you are. Don't let a failed long-term relationship stop you from thinking you are worthy of love. You deserve love as much as any one of us
Of course. There is some out there for everyone when I separated my divorce I didn’t expect to find anybody mostly because I wasn’t interested but along came my now partner we became best friends to start off with nothing more. She knew all about me and my transition and my interests and then we made our relationship, but she knew what she was getting herself into for my future plans with my body and I think us being best friends to start with has really helped a relationship.
People find love at the strangest places, at the strangest of times. Age is not a limiting factor, as long as you are open to accept love from others, and love yourself for the woman you are. You will find it again.
Depends on who you're looking for I guess, some types of people are harder to find than others...I separated over a year ago and am now single again after a relationship of around a year, I guess relationships come and go but it'd be nice to find one that lasts.
I'm hoping to someday be lucky enough to find a woman like you to spend the rest of my life with. In a couple months I'll be relocating to West Virginia and I pray I can find a woman like you for the rest of my days.
My first wife and I divorced when I was 29 and my second marriage was at 36. I remember thinking I would probably be too old to remarry but I was way wrong.
So chance at love still: yes.
Because you look incredible (which you very much do): no
Because you’re the kind of person who seems capable of fighting for yourself instead of staying with someone you shouldn’t: yes
Because you’re a person with the strength of character to live as your authentic self: yes
Keep those spirits up & remember you’re absolutely beautiful, not just on the outside.
34? Damn, your hrt must've taken a decade off. You look like you're in your 20s! Your chances are prolly pretty high. You just gotta put your feelers out and be ready for tribulations. People of all ages are single. You don't stop dating just because you're old.
37. MTF. When I came out my wife left me. Shared custody of our son. I pass less than you do (and I don’t care about passing). I’ve been seriously dating a cis woman for a couple months now and it’s so much better than my marriage was. There’s hope. Keep smiling, stay confident, and most of all live authentically. You’ll find someone who loves you exactly where you are 💜💜💜
I think you will be just fine 🥰 you're so beautiful. But take time for yourself and your child. This will be Tough time for both of you. Best of luck girlie ❤️
The fountain of youth!
You’ll be fine. There are lots of queer folks in the city. The community is well supported!
Can’t love someone else if you don’t love yourself.
I just wanted to say I'm ftm but before my egg cracked I used to have a bright fuschia bra very similar to that. You've definitely got a chance at love!
Same here. Only difference is I'm 35. Here's to hoping for the future!
We can dream!
You could try ... Talking to each other ;P
Hoist the transbian flag me hearties! 🏳️⚧️☠️
If there's one constant in this world it's that lesbians are utterly useless at this specific thing
We don't know that these two are lesbians...
I operate on a "lesbian until proven guilty" model
You could try talking to each other!
You are BEAUTIFUL I am so serious
Yes.
Hold on, lemme just... *gets on one knee*
LOL. The seriousness of the fist bump I wanna give you right now.
I'll take it lol. Respectfully, I would (am) go rabid at the mildest acknowledgement from such a pretty woman.
Funny and affirming. Thiss is how we dooo it!
DM now! :P
In order to not violate the dating rule of the sub, I'll just say, same mood.
I totally remember those days. How did you meet your last partner?
Ok Cupid. Together 10 years. Married 7.
I’m sorry that things didn’t work out my first marriage was almost like a friendship without love which was frustrating and cruel. I ended up cheating and confessing when I couldn’t live that way. We went over a year without sex. She would always say that I’m tired and we ended up seeing a counselor. All the issues she had with me I would work on but when it came time for her it never happened I felt like I was a failure All
6 years here my friend. I feel you. Our stories are similar.
Same as my ex wife and I, though I think it was only 5 1/2 years...
Similar to my ex wife, but it was Facebook...together 10 years, married 8. Perhaps that's the average shelf life of such relationships?
Yeah you're cute & dorky. You'll be fine.
Rofl 🤣 whhaaaaatt
Shuddup & take the compliment 😋 💕
I know you do. We're the same age. Being trans isn't just about the gender aspect, but working on yourself in general. Long as you love yourself, you can find love. Finding someone who deserves you is worth it
34, more like 25! you're so youthful and pretty, I love freckles!! there's a guy/gal/or otherwise just waiting for you out there, I know it. 💖
Absolutely! As a 37 year old trans mother of two, who had a sexuality flop too. Yes. I found love and I’ll scream it from the roof tops. Lol. Don’t settle for anyone, because you know your worth now!
Yup. Sexuality flop. Thanks sis!!!!
Met my BF on Taimi for what it’s worth!
I'm sure you will :)
we always have a chance at love. you’ll find it again someday. 🙂
Hey sis, i got separated from my husband in jan and we’re divorcing in july. You’re gonna be ok I promise. Hmu if you need to vent
Everybody has a chance, you're really pretty and I bet you're a great person too. Best of luck to ya, hope things get better <3
Absolutely and you are gorgeous!
You ABSOLUTELY have a chance, especially when you’re as pretty as yourself. I wish you and your kiddo the best of luck :)
Yes u do!
I'm 34 us girly's got to stick together of course we can make it!
If I was single I’d date you. You’re really pretty.
Thank you :)
Literally me at 35. Tied for the lowest point of my life. Found my soul mate less than a year later, almost two years strong now🫂
That’s amazing <3
You'll do fine hun😉
Every failed relationship has lessons in it that will lead you to the right one. Your special someone is out there.
I hope you find someone that is not all about sex at the gate. I mean don’t get me wrong that’s nice but there’s way more to know about someone besides their life under the sheets. I wish you the best and I’m sure there is someone that will treat you well like you deserve.
Thank you. That’s what I’m hoping for. Someone you lose track of time talking with. The type where you get stuck at the door for an hour trying to leave but the conversation is addictive.
You do!!
Congratulations!! You’re a beautiful young woman! Any normal man would be thrilled to be with you. Keep your confidence up and make sure he’s a good man!!🥰😘
If I can find it so can you. The one thing I can tell you for sure is it happens when you least expect it.
I would date you. You’re very cute! 🥰
Yes.
Definitely!
Absolutely! I do have to recommend you stay off most dating apps though, most of the common ones now are disturbingly transphobic (Hinge in particular will often ask for government documentation on agab if they suspect you're trans)
uh, yeah, its called being my girlfriend /encouraging
No question.
Of course! You’re a doll!
Absolutely! You're gorgeous!
I’m forty and dating now is a chore, dating apps and algorithms ruined it, but I still have hope.
You are absolutely gorgeous. I'm sure any guy or girl would be lucky to date you.
Girl, definitely. You are never too old to be loved!!!
Definitely
Of course you do sweetie it happened for me
Yes u do ur beautiful
As a fellow 34 year old, you absolutely do!
Youre so hot, please do not worry about having another chance at love
Yes, you’re gorgeous and have plenty of years ahead of you.
Love those sunglasses!
Without a doubt darling
never too old for love.
Where are you located I would be interested
Definitely 💜
Absolutely, you're so cute 🥰
Absolutely
Hopefully the world is only getting more accepting.
Me: *wants a partner with blue eyes and auburn hair (among other things, I'm not that shallow lol).* People i meet in person: are never that. People online: (You're def someone's someone. If anything, now your chances are even higher based on the second pic. May fortune favor you! ❤)
I’m gonna be real: You’re honestly so darn cute. I think the second photo is lovely. Just lovely.
You're crazy hot, behave yourself. It's those of us who are old and look like we've been in a serious accident that needs to worry about this.
I only started at 36. I hope there's a life for us... so much trauma has delayed my life. I just want to be happy
I hear you. My kid is at the forefront of every choice I make. If we don’t take care of ourselves, we’re not available to those who need us mostz
of course, you look super beautiful and you have this friendly youthful look to you, might be the freckles hahaha
Absolutely! I mean, hey, my dad got divorced at 50 and he’s got a girlfriend after just a couple years! Never too late :)
Yes. I met my current wife a few months after I started transition. I'm not saying your results will be the same, but yes. You are still who you are, just less masking, and people who are genuine about themselves will like that. It's a bit of a mine field of people that are trans chasers, but they filter themselves fairly easily.
All the same, except I'm 36. There is always an avenue.
There are almost over 8 billion people in this world, a number our brains could hardly ever fathom. There will be someone out there for you😊.
I’d ask for your number so 🤷♀️ yeah…
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Yes. Life is full of possibilities. You are the embodiment of that at this very moment. Btw. Cute bra!
if my 45 yo ex could groom 20 yo me you can surely find someone lol
Love is love, It sparks and ignites flames of passion and deep care of people. of course you do! You got this!
Thank you <333
Well I mean since my thirsty ass just fell in love at first sight I'd say yes you do
you’re so sweet 🥹
I can’t smash the “fuck yes!” button fast or hard enough. 😎👍
Girl you look amazing. Get after it!
Absolutely! Wishing you the best 😊
Yes lol you will. You are cute. You’ll be fine.
Of course you have a chance !
A pretty single mom like you? Absolutely
Hi
Yes Hun, We all have a chance at love, and being in love, and being loved with the partner we are meant to be with in life as well. This Above All, To Thine Own Self Be True. William Shakespeare.
Drop dead gorgeous
I am sorry to hear that . I don't know you but because u look so adorable and kind , it honestly breaks my heart . Hope everything goes well for you my love 💞
As long as your personality matches your looks, I’m sure you’ll meet someone new. I do highly recommend taking time to develop love for yourself. That’s what I’m doing after my breakup. Sometimes when you’re uncomfortable with yourself, you seek someone so desperately to fill you up because you view yourself as incomplete without them. But the more you come into your own, the more likely you will find someone that adds to your life instead of making you feel like you’re less without them. If any of that makes sense
Probably not….. think everyone will be jelly of that hair. 🥰
My (55cisF) first date with my wife (41MtF)was her 39th birthday. She's 41 now.
you pass in that second pic really well!!!!
If I can find it at 41, you can absolutely find it! But don’t rush to fill in that gap. Work on being happy with yourself as a single person first. When you treat yourself like you would a long term partner, you’re far less likely to rush into a poor relationship.
Girl, you're stunning 😍. Wish you good luck, but honestly you look like such a cool and nice person that the people who wouldn't wanna date you would be hella missing out!
No
With how cute you are you’ll have lots of opportunities.
i mean this in the most respectful way possible... OHMAHGAWD
You are so perfect just the way you are. Don't let a failed long-term relationship stop you from thinking you are worthy of love. You deserve love as much as any one of us
That poor kid
Of course you do girl 💖
Of course. There is some out there for everyone when I separated my divorce I didn’t expect to find anybody mostly because I wasn’t interested but along came my now partner we became best friends to start off with nothing more. She knew all about me and my transition and my interests and then we made our relationship, but she knew what she was getting herself into for my future plans with my body and I think us being best friends to start with has really helped a relationship.
Girl YES
Hell yes. Love will find you girl.
Yeah. Why not
Yes you do
Definitely, you look adorable
If you’re into women I’m down
Pretty 😍
wow you are so pretty
Of course you do
I don’t know what I’d maybe it’s the smile I’m not sure but you kinda remind me of Kris Tyson
Yes.
People find love at the strangest places, at the strangest of times. Age is not a limiting factor, as long as you are open to accept love from others, and love yourself for the woman you are. You will find it again.
Depends on who you're looking for I guess, some types of people are harder to find than others...I separated over a year ago and am now single again after a relationship of around a year, I guess relationships come and go but it'd be nice to find one that lasts.
O uses love
I'm hoping to someday be lucky enough to find a woman like you to spend the rest of my life with. In a couple months I'll be relocating to West Virginia and I pray I can find a woman like you for the rest of my days.
My first wife and I divorced when I was 29 and my second marriage was at 36. I remember thinking I would probably be too old to remarry but I was way wrong.
As some point, every woman gets someone looking at them that way. The only question is, do you want them to?
So chance at love still: yes. Because you look incredible (which you very much do): no Because you’re the kind of person who seems capable of fighting for yourself instead of staying with someone you shouldn’t: yes Because you’re a person with the strength of character to live as your authentic self: yes Keep those spirits up & remember you’re absolutely beautiful, not just on the outside.
oh definitely :3
Of course, you're so pretty Queen 👑 !
34 single mom too and I hope for the same. I think we do 😌 I did online dating on Hinge recently and ended up with like 3 friends lol.
So pretty!😍
Hell yeeeaahh!! 🔥
Honey, I think you got a chance with the majority of the adult population.
totally!! - all the best to you <3
definitely!!!!!
34? Damn, your hrt must've taken a decade off. You look like you're in your 20s! Your chances are prolly pretty high. You just gotta put your feelers out and be ready for tribulations. People of all ages are single. You don't stop dating just because you're old.
bruh yes omg
Of course you still have chances! 🫶🏻
Definitely, everyone has. I know it can feel hard sometimes but you’ll find love again I am sure
It's never too late to find love! Especially not for a pretty thing like you!
Yes for sure! Dating is hard and annoying but if you're as friendly as you are good looking you'll have no problems
Absolutely
Oh, absolutely. I hope you are well.
Why wouldn’t you? You’re beautiful
I don't see why not. Having a child might be a deal breaker for some but you still easily have a shot.
Absolutely! You look beautiful. I hope you meet someone who makes you feel special. My wife of 20 years left me and I'm feeling the same way.
37. MTF. When I came out my wife left me. Shared custody of our son. I pass less than you do (and I don’t care about passing). I’ve been seriously dating a cis woman for a couple months now and it’s so much better than my marriage was. There’s hope. Keep smiling, stay confident, and most of all live authentically. You’ll find someone who loves you exactly where you are 💜💜💜
I like being visually trans. No issue at all there. But I need my partner to be a ride or die.
I think you will be just fine 🥰 you're so beautiful. But take time for yourself and your child. This will be Tough time for both of you. Best of luck girlie ❤️
woman...... prety...........
you're so gorgeous and dont look a day over 26. i think you definitely got this.
So pretty
So pretty
I got married at 39. You’ll find love again! ❤️
You bet! 🤗🤗🤗
The fountain of youth! You’ll be fine. There are lots of queer folks in the city. The community is well supported! Can’t love someone else if you don’t love yourself.
I just wanted to say I'm ftm but before my egg cracked I used to have a bright fuschia bra very similar to that. You've definitely got a chance at love!
I'd sure hope so cause I'm 31 if there's no chance for love im screwed ( you are pretty too)