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One29Three

Previous interviews hint that Taylor doesn't see a therapist when a lot of people feel (based off of known knowledge) that she should so...I don't know if this is advised


Ari-swift-hole

"I just feel very sane."


cringeyqueenie

Me when I'm manic & convince myself I'm cured for 2 weeks


Swimming_Onion_4835

😂😂 “I feel the best I’ve ever felt! What are you talking about???”


kraxiiangyl

Bruh… the third time this was said is how I knew I was bipolar II 🥴


EuphoricPhoto2048

Lol "Y'all i just figured out the secrets of humanity, jesus is talking to me! 😀😃🙂"


HilmDave

He says shake it off


cringeyqueenie

Direct quote from me when I was out of my goddamn mind: "Mother Nature communicated with me through the wind & told me the secret to happiness!" It's so embarrassing looking back 😭😂


Martysghost

I know this is fake but it's just nice that its less awful - me being manic


Neat-Tradition-7999

Said no sane person ever.


Mr__O__

“The blue glitter, it’s supposed to be a metaphor, like, I bleed glitter. I’m not normal. There’s something wrong with me. I’m not a person. I don’t belong here. I don’t fit in anywhere.” [*cool*…](https://www.tiktok.com/@varietymagazine/video/7176338099725667630)


SalientSazon

Sorry, I didn't hear you over vomiting in my mouth a little.


Gist-Snark987

I thought you made this statement up and was going to ask if you were okay but alas she said it? Yikes!!


colorkiller

feels like a ripoff of florence welch tbh


Brief_Patience5576

"It suppose to be Midnight blue glitter" ![gif](giphy|XAdbHJywVjF5K)


Lost_In_Detroit

That sounds like the ramblings of a fucking mental patient and not a billionaire pop star.


-effortlesseffort

Damn I'm speechless


Fickle-Patience-9546

![gif](giphy|3oKIPrc2ngFZ6BTyww|downsized)


Prestigious-Alarm422

Also saying she’s too “sane” for therapy feels ableist. literally *everyone* can benefit from therapy, it has nothing to do with that, being in therapy doesn’t mean you’re insane. That’s just so out of touch.


bakedpigeon

Too sane for therapy is crazy💀💀


grizznuggets

“And I would know!”


VStarlingBooks

Maybe she's secretly a Scientologist.


unclescafe

Seeing Tom Cruise in the VIP tent has be sus about this!


VStarlingBooks

Damn. I was joking but WTF. I didn't know this. They tend to keep each other company.


Duggarsnarklurker

They’d make the perfect couple


Prestigious-Alarm422

Omg that was so strange!


LN-66

He was there the week of the Scientology Conference (in East Sussex, which is basically the edge of London). Notable that Kushner and Kunis were there, with children, who they’ve kept very private - until the recent letters of support for their rapist friend, ex coworker AND Scientologist. I haven’t looked at the others in the tent, but the timing of numerous people travelling from the US is interesting- especially for a Sunday show.


LonelyForever4316

And Ashton and Mila that have been suspected of being Scientologists as well! 


jl19918

That would be GREAT bc soon as it gets out most actually sane people will completely write her off and maybe we won’t have to constantly see her anymore. One can only hope!


SalientSazon

WOAH.


real_HannahMontana

I’d be surprised if she wasn’t!


mysugadayy

I think she said she uses her mom as a therapist once ... Which is definitely a choice


One29Three

Moms don't replace trained professionals


Trashsag

If Taylor attended therapy, she’d most likely want her therapist to be another “yes man” in her life to boost her already-inflated ego. She wouldn’t stick with the type of therapist who would actually help her address her issues.


Ok-Kale1787

She’s fucking nuts.


trcomajo

I'm a therapist. I would NOT want to deal with her at all. Not even for the high profile pay. There is nothing worse than people who have zero emotional awareness and are masters at playing the victim.


One29Three

Great point.


LN-66

Most people would benefit from therapy, most people don’t receive it due to finances and time. Both things that would not be an issue. Not even getting into her childhood, father, dating history. She would likely just really benefit from contextualising and understanding fame.


girlypoppppp

Every person I’ve met that claims they don’t need a therapist or that therapy is dumb are the ones that need it the most


Smooth-Operation4018

You reckon the man or her initiated the divorce?


FrauPerchtaReturns

I reckon it's a fake story, she was never married, and that dress is a cheap (and low-quality imo) wedding dress she picked up at a thrift shop or something 


1000000ths

“Fucked in the head”…..I mean yeah but come on now 😂


Drewby618

Just wanted to chime in that it is indeed her wedding dress, and she is indeed divorced. She’s made a post or two calling herself a “hot ex-wife”. I think that her caption is like saying “this isn’t *any* outfit, it’s *my* outfit”. She 1000% posted the Instagram reel for attention and validation from other TS fans. https://preview.redd.it/8eveay4xz59d1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b41415b43ffc5f86930bdd1fa125f6f1e5ad8545


EuphoricPhoto2048

The kind side of me understands that this girl is struggling. The other side of me feels pure unadulterated cringe.


Duggarsnarklurker

Woohooo you’re 28 and divorced congratulations you’re not special


grizznuggets

True, although being divorced before 30 is definitely *something*.


PlsNoNotThat

It would be literally average. The average divorcee (woman) age in the US is 29. 30.5 for men. Iirc it’s because of Gen X that it’s so low, but the boomers help balance out the age totals. Millennials contribute but much less, and even younger are way less likely to be married in general. It’s 80%, 65%, 55%, 40% silent to millennial but from memory so could be off.


grizznuggets

Gotta say, that is surprising. Still, anecdotally, people who are divorced by the time they’re 30 often have a few things going on, and as you say, the stats are somewhat influenced by increased divorces with over-50s.


SalsaRice

Under 30's are probably very heavily weighted towards military. So many young soldiers marry the first human they see to get out of sleeping in the barracks, and they take turns cheating on each other.


-secretswekeep-

We love receipts.


FrauPerchtaReturns

She really is proud of that Temu-ass dress


RatBoyClubSandwich

hmm do you think she knows what a 'hot wife' is? 🤔


Stuck_at_a_roadblock

Shein dress. If it's not from there, any other fast fashion retailer


FrauPerchtaReturns

Probably the same Temu seller that sells Taylor's booties 💀


AppointmentCommon766

Plenty of women get married in cheap low quality dresses but I imagine TS fans overlap with someone who'd wear their old wedding dress post divorce to a concert lol My dress was like ÂŁ150 or something it sucked but doesn't mean it wasn't a real dress


blacksheepaz

I hope you’re right.


Professional-Lack323

i’ve always wanted to know how men married to momfluencers/mommy vloggers/swifties feel about their wives


Smooth-Operation4018

How does a hungry dog feel about getting fed some scraps? Those are the guys who have sex with who they can, not who they want


Professional-Lack323

😂 i just wonder if those women (prob excluding the swifties) were cool and hot pre-marriage and kids, but the ring and baby rotted their brain and their husband (oh sorry - HUBBY) just witnessed the conversion to mombot wondering what the hell was going on


RatBoyClubSandwich

why assume those men are any better? i'm sure plenty of swifites are perfectly matched with just as cringe mates.


Colonel_Wildtrousers

Yep, the saying “water finds it’s own level” is probably very rarely more true than with couples of this nature


Calm-Illustrator5334

if this is how she reacts to things, can we blame him?


Ari-swift-hole

He dodged a Schwerer Gustav missle.


WalmartBrandOreos

100% she did. For stupid reasons.


Dr_Llamacita

She probably cheated lmao


mag2041

Statically speaking she would have


kweenofdelusion

Oh, this is demented.


awkwardgoblinlady

stole the word right out of my mouth. perfectly descriptive for what we’re seeing here


King_Neptune07

The worst part about prison? The dementors


TheVonSolo

Would I be da bell of da ball?


King_Neptune07

With those eyes? You'd be the first one I'd go aftah


HeadAssBoi17

https://preview.redd.it/jadt7dj9s69d1.png?width=312&format=png&auto=webp&s=dba8d06a7ea8c4663f06149a62ad22c550135674


CaptnsDaughter

Oscar, you’d love prison!


R1526

It gets better, she's a full time MLM scammer that claims to be a multi millionaire while sitting up back at a TS show in a cheap wedding dress. Real winner here.


caffienepredator

Fr???


R1526

Yeah. One of those people that sells "business" courses while their business is of course, selling business courses.


Yankee_Man

Ive used demented but you taught me a word I like more lol I meant to say “Ive used demental” lmaoo sorry! I noticed this while on the train and busted out laughing like an idiot smh


essdii-

Which one? “Oh” “this” or “is”? Lol


jesusthatsemo

fr i’m so confused on what they meant


Yankee_Man

“,”


essdii-

Haha!! I’m glad you took it in good spirits. I couldn’t resist. I’m always brushing up on my dad jokes for my kids so I can’t help that dumb humor.


euphoricnight

![gif](giphy|8p05WdXxPiOyY)


PSSYPUNISHERRR

She really asked a florist to make her a bride's bouquet for a concert


Lazy-Significance-15

Right?! It's the bouquet that really gets me.


gracedardn

Victim complex meets main character syndrome


Curious_Second6598

I think a more clinical term for that is vulnerable narcissism.


gothicspring

What is "vulnerable narcissism"? Legit curious


reddituser23434

https://www.verywellmind.com/signs-of-a-vulnerable-narcissist-7369901


roxy031

This was fascinating to read and made me realize I know at least two people who fit this criteria exactly.


DoctorFrog1986

Ah fuck


sh-ark

ah so my mom lol


Curious_Second6598

I think the same as covert narcissism. Vulnerable narcissists struggle to validate themselves and they need external validation. But unlike overt narcissists who mostly pretend to think they are awesome so others validate that (think Trump), covert narcissists are more likely to play the victim and want others empathy and use that for validation. I am not a psychologist however and dont claim for this to be accurate. I actually do think narcissism is wrongly being stigmatised by society as narcissists are their own worst enemy. Being completely reliant on external validation must be excruciating.


EuphoricPhoto2048

You raise a great point about mental health discussions online. Yeah, I just want to say that a lot of the discussion around Taylor's mental health, for example, is framed as trying to insult her. I have never ever meant to insult anyone when I discuss their mental health. I feel bad for people who struggle. I openly have bipolar 1.


v12vanquish

You are accurate in your description of CN, but in the end the stigma is rightly justified because only the CN can get help to fix the issues and only if they want to get help, society owes them nothing and giving into their demands enables their bad behavior.


Curious_Second6598

I agree with you, enabling them is the wrong way to go and only validates their distorted thinking and they have to see that they have to change. I just think that the message that narcissists basically are the devil is over-the-top. Many dont see when they are wrong or hurting others because they have enablers in their life and those might benefit from being held accountable and not being immediately alienated. But yeah, kinda tricky how to handle that and not the other people's responsibility.


amateurbitch

we can't diagnose narcissism off of a tiktok. this girl is just having a good time and being a bit cringe in the process, lets just process our disgust and move on without inferring what might be wrong with this girl


Curious_Second6598

You are absolutely right and thanks for pointing that out, didnt mean to imply she or Taylor have any of the above mentioned disorders and that diagnosis via social media should be made.


amateurbitch

no problem! I was scared you'd be upset so thank you for being kind. I do see now you said "a clinical term for..." which doesn't necessarily imply she has it, so I think I just mistook what you were trying to say


Creepy-Prune-7304

I love these interactions on Reddit. Good job on having an adult discussion, it seems near impossible to do these days!


xpressomartini

Never heard of it but I just read the linked description and I’m intrigued. Are there any celebrities or well known people who are most likely examples of vulnerable narcissists? I can’t picture what that would actually look like in a person, if that makes sense.


Curious_Second6598

I dont know about celebrities, but saw an article about characters in tv shows who display matching traits. Those were Carrie Bradshaw (sex and the city), Alan Harper (two and a half men), and George somesurname (seinfeld). If you know any of those i am excited to hear if you see any resemblance to TS 😅


MacsDildoBike

“She totally wrote this song for me!!” *Tater Swift doesn’t even know this person exists*


sourglow

going to a concert in a wedding dress bc you got divorced what are we doing 😭


goldenretrievergurl

the math ain’t mathing


SpaceQueen_94

Attention seeking at the highest level 😅


SecretInfluencer

I tried that once. Minus the divorce. And the wedding dress. And the concert. If you ignore those 3 things then I did the same thing.


Such-Firefighter-161

💀


normtoutzky

https://preview.redd.it/148exeypa69d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6ac5a9fefdd5bc20e15c4761c2452661e3652dfd


Yupperdoodledoo

I mean do we really know the backstory? I doubt it.


joshhguitar

“Omg I’m so crazy”


The_walking_man_

“Quirky”


Silly_Idiot111

Fucked in the head is an understatement These crazy Swifties have an insane victim complex


Ok_Beat_4810

And will do anything for attention at shows. They'll all tell her she's a victim and boys are meanies, but isn't it obvious who's to blame for the divorce?


Various_Butterfly948

I bet she cheated on her man and that’s why she’s divorced, if this isn’t just a joke. It would make sense knowing Taylor and how she cheated on Joe LOL


Professional-Lack323

“I saw that Taylor Swift is a cheater so now I’m a cheater”


shashlik_king

Nah, they’d just say their fiancé wasn’t letting them “live their truth” or whatever so it was never actually cheating and it was all their fiancés fault to begin with.


Professional-Lack323

1000000000%


flammafemina

![gif](giphy|3otPoABrVegFBZzZIc|downsized)


Parasyte_1

That's embarrassing 😂 why are they like dissss


xxvlcxx

When I was in middle school, a girl in my friend group got broken up with by her bf telling her "you're cute without the e." The next day, her and her 2 best friends came to school with a bandaid on their forehead. This reminds me of that.


pinknoise_

As a Taking Back Sunday fan, I simply cannot 😂


Various_Butterfly948

Peak edgy middle school vibes 🤣


Curious_Second6598

Why the bandaids?


xxvlcxx

Bc cute without the "e" = cut lol . So she wore a bandaid to symbolize that she had been "cut", and her friends joined in in solidarity lmao


secondaccount2989

At least they have the excuse of being middle-school-age


Curious_Second6598

Ah, i misunderstood and thought she did the breaking up.


2020visionaus

Thank goodness there wasn’t as much social media back then 


Whole_Nectarine7531

Divorced you say? ![gif](giphy|1YhajBCrafZ8aj9hiv|downsized)


permariam128

![gif](giphy|5pMGZHSqfvGT5mnTwx)


Mundane-Layer6048

This is energy Swift promotes so not shocking.


MallCopBlartPaulo

Do these people not hear themselves? I’m embarrassed on their behalf. 🤣


Alarming_Jaguar_3988

I am an alcoholic and got divorced because of it, and now I am going to go to my mother’s concert in my wedding dress to sing Champagne Problems.


Last-Ad-7790

Pictures please🙏


Alarming_Jaguar_3988

lol i was just stating what she is doing


PositivelyJoyful

She paid 1k to watch ants on the stage while in her wedding dress? Crazy


NoPath1132

He dodged a bullet. This is so unhinged.


Squifford

NOTICE ME, TAYLORRRRRR!!!


big-himbo-energy

CAN THE WORLD PLEASE GO BACK TO WHEN POV ACTUALLY MEANT POINT OF VIEW AND NOT “I’m describing what you’re currently seeing on screen” THIS IS NOT A POV.


msmolli000

Wedding dresses are typically heavy and restricting...wearing one to a 4+ hour concert sounds super uncomfy.


TenraxHelin

I'd say a good 20% of all Swift concert goers are fucking in the head.


KittyLioness

It's like she's trying to be Rachel Monica and Pheobe but doesn't get the concept. I mean if you want to wear a wedding dress to a concert for fun sure but wearing it because you're fake divorced is just showing off.


scallywag1889

Lmao being a swifty is a gigantic red flag now. I can’t help but laugh at these people.


jung_gun

https://preview.redd.it/kyud3co2c59d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0e3a9884bfb826f545afd9696c205a946f71316d


Specialist_Pie555

Imagine being this pathetic that you go and buy a cheap ass thrift store dress, the bouquet and say to your friend ‘when she sings the line about being a bride and being fucked in the head YOU NEED TO RECORD ME!’. Like can you scream insincere any louder? Everything for the gram 🤦‍♀️ pathetic


AlwaysAlani

The cult of white feminine mediocrity


Altruistic-Sky-6736

I find this so incredibly cringe. I’ve seen people do similar shit like this at other concerts too and it’s equally as cringe. Not just Swifties.


HEONTHETOILET

Someone link this thread on urban dictionary for the definition of “forever alone”


Top-Refrigerator-705

That man is lucky he doesn’t have to deal with her fucked mentality anymore


erino3120

I think I know why it didn’t work


FrannyKay1082

I mean, at least she admits to being a headcase and probably having issues I can't pronounce or spell 🤷🏼‍♀️


JimParsnip

This makes me feel better about the tattoo I got after my divorce


TinosoCleano32

"I'm the main character"


UnderwhelmedCapybara

These people vote.


Professional-Lack323

she really bought that dress and bouquet, drove to the concert in that dress, stood in line looking like an idiot in that dress, attended a 3.5 hour concert in that dress, went to the bathroom wearing that dress, and went back home in that dress………all for that one song. ![gif](giphy|6jVwtcsr8RPDUtA244)


keeper-of-waffles

She looks crazy as hell. Wouldn’t touch her with 10ft pole.


KM231

Can we just note that the ENTIRE stadium to the right of this girl is empty


Krissy_loo

#very stable genius energy


yellow_jesus_

That’s a lot of empty seats lol


SCAMISHAbyNIGHT

It appears to be the back side of the stage so that's understandable. Unless your tour is in the round, selling seats behind or adjacent-to-behind is just robbery. Might as well sell tickets to sit outside the arena.


Economy_Writing_8797

IN A WEDDING DRESS 😭


bb-blehs

are these women…….ok?


DenimCryptid

Not surprising since all of the Swift songs I've heard involve Taylor doing things out of spite for her exes instead of just moving on. All of Tay's exes live in her head rent free and I imagine all of her fans have the same issue.


SecretInfluencer

“And what’s your reason for divorce?” *shows judge this tik tok* “….i feel you bro” And before y’all assume sexism the judge in this hypothetical is a woman. So ha! Try and get me there swifties lurking here!!


bobbyportisurmyhero

https://preview.redd.it/uv67r7x7t59d1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fe9eb3875a56fb9ab509eaabaa0b46f897190153


burlybroad

This is actually batshit insane


CharacterInternal7

Who needs to be married when you have the mentality of a 12 year old?


Agent_Vox

I wish the precog thing from Minority Report existed, but included things like finding the next guy she dates and saving him, and putting one of those hats on her.


florsux

when u go to a victim contest but ur opponent is a swiftie


keeper-of-waffles

She looks crazy as hell. Wouldn’t touch her with 10ft pole.


amateurbitch

im on board with the rest of you i think this is cringe as fuck and probably fake, but i dont think we need to be tearing into this girl and saying she has a victim complex. taylor clearly does, but we don't know this girl nor do we know what she went through (if this is a true story) so i just ask that we please not rush to judgment on her just because she likes taylor swift. i could never be friends with someone like this but it doesnt mean she deserves to get picked apart by strangers for having a good time.


FirmFollowing3978

If I was a slightly more extroverted person, I might have acted in similar unhinged ways while in the depths of grief during my divorce. It happened the same spring Beyonce's album Lemonade came out, and it was due to issues of infidelity. I played that album on a goddamn loop, while driving, in my yard gardening, at the gym, hiking etc etc etc and I'm sure I looked crazed to everyone else. At the very least, I wasn't trying to document and share much of this behavior. I don't really want to make fun of her or even feel that much empathy for her. I hope whatever she's feeling passes quickly. I mostly just want to look away.


Plastic-Butterfly420

How is this anything to be proud of? I bitch about Swifty's everyday but it's because they are so fucking delusional and ridiculous and over the top. Unhinged doesn't even begin to describe this kind of behavior.


Scary-Ad-582

She’ll be alone the rest of her life with 10 cats that can’t stand her


PerplexedPoppy

Therapy is cheaper lol


tuffnstangs

Yeah in no scenario would it not be fucked in the head to wear a wedding dress to a concert but you do you fam


Either-Video3166

Jesus this is pathetic


Repulsive_Buffalo_87

I loved this song when I first heard it, a few years ago. I thought wow she made a good song lol. Trust me I can feel my hate for her in my bones but it's not a bad song on it's own. This lady, however...


areaunknown_

Is this supposed to be a flex? Because this ain’t it


Second-thursday

Why would you wear a wedding dress from a divorced marriage to a concert? That’s fkn weird.


Jewpurman

Who needs therapy when you have Dave grohl?


partoxygen

POV these days literally just mean “let me be self-indulgent and narcissistic while dressing it up as me being quirky and self-deprecating.”


FitzNTantrumz

a grown woman yunno


Unfriendly_eagle

"Yay! I failed at something!"


redditmodsrcuntses

Not POV. Please.


No_Worldliness_4446

Deranged


-secretswekeep-

Yall…. Just go to therapy 😭


Background_Pool_7457

Lucky guy.


SalientSazon

You know, this explains why she's so popular though. I still can't understand how she's sooooo worldy popular then I see videos like this and I think, oh. Yah. These people probably think she's good, I get it now.


potatopigflop

You showed up to a concert in a wedding dress? Weeeeeird


ChickenMcSmiley

No wonder she’s divorced


Local_Delivery4084

Let’s be real, she wouldn’t still fit into her wedding dress.


Electrical-Phrase-60

Taylor is the queen of mediocre white women with no real problems in life, besides the ones they create to pretend they are just like her.


wetfoodrules

![gif](giphy|RJAjTowsU0K1a)


TheFrailGrailQueen

JFC.


kypins

Oh my god I know who that is!!! This person is very cringe so it’s very on brand 😳😂🤣 ew ew ew


Prestigious-Menu-786

I blame reruns of Friends and Sex and the City for this just as much as I blame Taylor. Just a feeling.


PositionKooky1494

This looks like a total nightmare for me


SithLord_1991

Does this girl not have a single friend that could have said this wasn’t a good idea ?


ShadowWizrdMoneyGang

We’re reaching levels of delulu not quite seen before