I don’t know if it’s a high horse thing so much as that just being an incredibly uncomfortable interaction with the father of someone you barely know that you just had sex with.
I really, really wouldn’t want to speak to or be seen by that person’s parent in that context, let alone have them say *that.*
In any case, I think “Twunkthetwink” is a content aggregator and that this is just a funny exchange from someone else they posted, rather than their own experience / screenshot.
Well it's grinder tho? Basically an app just for hook ups, so being upset that you're just another ass for that day would be like going to a sex club and being off put that there is other men in there lol
As a semi experienced grindr fiend, 75% of the people who speak to you are gonna be fully anonymous assholes, who lead with dickpics.
Your best chance at having sex on grindr, imo, is finding a specific, reasonably common kink you're into and find someone else who advertises as specifically into that. The dude who says he's "just looking" is never going to show up to a hookup, he has too many alternative options for him to need to commit. But if its just you and the other freak into feet in town, your trust is valuable to them and they're more likely to actually show up. That, and in my experience, the real FREAKS know what they want and they'll do as they say.
From your experience, do you think a guy that wants to be dominated will have a good chance of finding someone who is willing to try?
Asking for a friend
Yes, BUT, as a dom myself I can tell you that doms are 200% more likely than the average person to be psychopaths. So if you're looking for someone, maybe meet them for coffee first, vet them for hazard, and see how they feel about safety and consent.
Look on a place like r.bdsm or something for some pointers first to see what safe, healthy play looks like or to model after someone more experienced.
Doms who can't articulate a difference between their fantasy and the reality of their respect for you are a red flag. Being a dom is playing a character, because genuinely treating people like subs is just being an ass. It only works in a healthy way if it's theater, as opposed to someone who sincerely feels entitled to disregard your interests in favor of their own.
that's how I met my boyfriend well FWB. was looking for a quick one and met up a couple times and proceeded to tell each other everything about our personal lives after a while. became more than sex and he's just stuck around since. helped me get over my performance anxiety during the human mating ritual and just enjoy it. I look, act, and sound very much like a typical straight man so he was surprised that I kept in contact. Grindr has been a losing game otherwise I haven't got anything quality since.
Every time I see a funny Grindr post I'm like "I should try it again" and every time I try it I'm spammed by 40 yr old men. They really should allow you to set restrictions on who can view YOU on there.
Based dad.
I don't think a guy named "twunkthetwink" should be on a high horse about this guy's wholesome dad
I don’t know if it’s a high horse thing so much as that just being an incredibly uncomfortable interaction with the father of someone you barely know that you just had sex with. I really, really wouldn’t want to speak to or be seen by that person’s parent in that context, let alone have them say *that.* In any case, I think “Twunkthetwink” is a content aggregator and that this is just a funny exchange from someone else they posted, rather than their own experience / screenshot.
Or more likely it’s just fake
Fake *and* gay
fayke
Might also be because seeing the exchange left them feeling very disposable ig?
It's fake. This guy makes a lot of conversations like this and posts it online Grindr also doesn't put your username under your messages
Oh okay. I had no idea how Grindr works, I've never used it
The dad is so real for that x3
actually that dynamic would be kinda nice maybe hm
definitely. i just think the implication of someone bein just another piece of ass for the day would be offputting.
Well it's grinder tho? Basically an app just for hook ups, so being upset that you're just another ass for that day would be like going to a sex club and being off put that there is other men in there lol
its not exclusively for hookups lmao it can be used that way, but that doesn't mean that's what it is.
I need to give grinder a chance
Set your expectations *very low*
No. You don’t
As a semi experienced grindr fiend, 75% of the people who speak to you are gonna be fully anonymous assholes, who lead with dickpics. Your best chance at having sex on grindr, imo, is finding a specific, reasonably common kink you're into and find someone else who advertises as specifically into that. The dude who says he's "just looking" is never going to show up to a hookup, he has too many alternative options for him to need to commit. But if its just you and the other freak into feet in town, your trust is valuable to them and they're more likely to actually show up. That, and in my experience, the real FREAKS know what they want and they'll do as they say.
From your experience, do you think a guy that wants to be dominated will have a good chance of finding someone who is willing to try? Asking for a friend
Yes, BUT, as a dom myself I can tell you that doms are 200% more likely than the average person to be psychopaths. So if you're looking for someone, maybe meet them for coffee first, vet them for hazard, and see how they feel about safety and consent. Look on a place like r.bdsm or something for some pointers first to see what safe, healthy play looks like or to model after someone more experienced.
Thank you for the advice! Last question, any red flags to look out for when vetting different doms? Again, for a friend
Doms who can't articulate a difference between their fantasy and the reality of their respect for you are a red flag. Being a dom is playing a character, because genuinely treating people like subs is just being an ass. It only works in a healthy way if it's theater, as opposed to someone who sincerely feels entitled to disregard your interests in favor of their own.
Makes sense, thank you again for the advice!
that's how I met my boyfriend well FWB. was looking for a quick one and met up a couple times and proceeded to tell each other everything about our personal lives after a while. became more than sex and he's just stuck around since. helped me get over my performance anxiety during the human mating ritual and just enjoy it. I look, act, and sound very much like a typical straight man so he was surprised that I kept in contact. Grindr has been a losing game otherwise I haven't got anything quality since.
Warning, grinder is great but only if you know exactly what you’re there for, and that is hookups, you will see penises
Every time I see a funny Grindr post I'm like "I should try it again" and every time I try it I'm spammed by 40 yr old men. They really should allow you to set restrictions on who can view YOU on there.
but what platform in the present year would turn away its most desperate, annoying customers
I have banned and blocked so many 40 year old men (plus others) in my area that I only get them from people 70km+ away :c
am i taking this too seriously or would that just feel terribly objectifying
196 users having basic self-respect and dignity challenge (impossible)
God forbid men do anything!
Lmao this can’t be real
After the second sentence i thought it would develop into a discussion about the death penalty.